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Manbearcat

@manbear.cat
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🏳️‍🌈 | ᏣᎳᎽ | he/him | cat dad | lawyer | san francisco, ca content is kind of hetero-phobic. sorrynotsorry. quite obviously these views are my own, and aren’t those of any other person or org.

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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 13h
Hawaiian Thanksgiving = booked 🌺🍍 I have to be in Korea for work before, so it’s kind of on the way home?
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 14h
Wine-braised chicken with josey baker bread and salad from the backyard. Honestly, bomb. 🤤
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 29/09/2026
No matter how much I eat or drink, I always lose weight in Europe! I went super hard this trip and down 4 lbs. 😅 I also don’t eat a ton of processed food (by comparison to average) and walk/bike/transit almost everywhere so the usual “processed food and walking” answer doesn’t make sense.
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 28/09/2026
$31 worth of DoorDash Indian food, please wash my weekend sins away
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 27/09/2026
I just passed a Travel + Leisure tent. Folsom is dead.
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 27/09/2026
Happy Folsom, San Francisco ⛓️🏳️‍🌈
Basic gay guy selfie in short shorts and a leather vest
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 27/09/2026
Two weeks in Europe without a single trip to the ATM and within 24 hours of landing in San Francisco I’m asked to pay a $25 *cash only* cover. 😤
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 24/09/2026
In London for work and felt cute
Basic selfie of a guy in a suit
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 24/09/2026
You know it’s a gay business meeting when someone has to take a break in the middle to buy Mariah Carey Christmas show tickets. 🏳️‍🌈🎄
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 23/09/2026
Things have changed so quickly in the last few years with regard to European travel. Electronic passport gates with short lines and no need to talk to an officer. Two weeks and haven’t needed to go to an ATM once. Tap to pay for everything. So easy!
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 18/09/2026
More people should learn to say “I’m not informed enough about that to have an opinion.”
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 17/09/2026
Me on the first day of an international trip: “fuck American brands really spread like a virus” Me on the last day: “🎶LOVE THAT CHICKEN FROM POPEYES!🎶”
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 15/09/2026
I saw this Ride across Wisconsin shirt at a vintage shop and just had to have it. I love cycling and cycling in Wisconsin is so pretty!
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 15/09/2026
London’s strategy appears to be to make driving absolutely miserable and expensive and to make public transit and bikeshare widely available and I am absolutely here for it.
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 13/09/2026
Off to London, Madrid, and Sitges on the upper deck of the A380! ✈️🇬🇧🇪🇸 Back to SF for Folsom, don’t worry. 😈
Basic gay in a airline seat selfie
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 11/09/2026
Update: I WON. I beat those evil fucking fucks at ICE. There is a small measure of justice in this country still! 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 09/09/2026
This. We have a car (electric) for a variety of commute/Bay Area lifestyle reasons, but our “second” transit mode is my e-bike/e-bike share. By far, the fastest and easiest way of getting many places in San Francisco.
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 05/09/2026
I don’t know what about me sitting at a sushi bar on a solo sushi date reading a Kindle suggested I wanted to talk to someone. But when the chatty guy next to me asked me what I was reading, my reply that I’m reading the monastic Desert Fathers and Mothers shut him up. 😅
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 05/09/2026
Apart from a dinner with the husband, I haven’t had any serious in-person human interaction since Wednesday and I haven’t missed it thus far.
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JP @jpbrammer.bsky.social · 05/09/2026
launching a company called Misanthropic. it's not totally clear what we do. but you can call our number on a rotary phone and we will yell a torrent of unspecific critique at you until you hang up
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 04/09/2026
I only keep Facebook for: - Cherokee-related groups - to keep up with extended family - to follow a large number of hot 40-something straight dad fitness influencers.
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 30/08/2026
“My breakfast is 21 minutes late, motherfucker.”
Cat sitting on me in bed looking very insistent.
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 29/08/2026
Listening to Dolly and making biscuits in my grandmother’s biscuit bowl feels like a bridge across the veil this morning.
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 28/08/2026
Nope. Don’t fucking do this.
Text that says 

re: Dolly Parton

We're calling on pro-choice Democrats to help carry Dolly's legacy forward. Here's how https://txt.emilyslist.org/0827515

Stop2End
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 27/08/2026
tropical storm Dolly lmao
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Matt-Man69 @matt-man69.bsky.social · 26/08/2026
The Castro Street Theater 🎭 in San Francisco
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 26/08/2026
Verify your age
Wow 1997 album cover
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 26/08/2026
Dolly’s death is a sea change. I loved her as a closeted gay kid. In a divided world, in my divided self, she represented so much of me: gay-affirming, Southern, Christian, getting out of rural life but longing for it still, unapologetic, open. May light perpetual shine upon her.
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 24/08/2026
Honestly, if I ever had to leave San Francisco, straight (heh) to Chicago I’d go!
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 18/08/2026
I am all for a pure thirst follow on social media, but my fellow homosexuals, LinkedIn is not where you do that. 😬
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 18/08/2026
I’m not seeing who is *in* your skircle. I’m just making sure the people I’m thinking of are *out* of your skirkle. #dontfuckwithascorpio
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 18/08/2026
I served radishes and butter on crackers with salt as a cute easy Monday app. Husband: “what a weird combo. Who has ever heard of radishes and butter together.” 😅😤
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 17/08/2026
An introverted weekend of gardening, chores, smoked meals, kitty cuddles, and thinking about what my ancestors would think of all of this. And as Dolly Parton said, “one small thrill.” 😏
Shirtless selfie in the garden
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CamCron @camcron.bsky.social · 16/08/2026
when a cat that you’re told doesn’t like new people wants pets from you
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Fietser Brandon @americanfietser.bsky.social · 15/08/2026
There's NA beers, NA wine, but no NA Malört? What are people in Chicago even doing?
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OB Cycler @obcycler.bsky.social · 15/08/2026
good thing we're having a moral panic over ebikes 🙄
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 15/08/2026
I wish I could say I drive rarely out of virtue — but the reality is that San Francisco has made e-biking and Muni (from certain neighborhoods, anyway!) so convenient that driving is the least efficient option by far for many trips. 🚲
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 13/08/2026
Being homeschooled (unschooled, really) but also an avid reader, I read a lot of things I never heard pronounced. And I’m *still* hearing words and realizing I’ve been pronouncing them wrong.
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 13/08/2026
It turns out you can just purchase a new personality on the internet and have it delivered. 🤷🏻‍♂️
A Weber Searwood 600 XL grill
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 13/08/2026
Nice little jolt of an earthquake to start the morning. Fully awake now!
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 13/08/2026
Following these home and garden ppl on Instagram is crazy. One minute it’s “tips for your urban garden” and the next minute it’s like “let’s pray to Jesus that my seventeen children aren’t trans” omg.
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 12/08/2026
“This city loosens people up.” - Armistead Maupin re: San Francisco
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 12/08/2026
The house stays so clean when my husband is away. 😅
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 11/08/2026
Hopefully I won’t kill all of this 😅
Two raised garden beds filled with new plants and a couple of smaller pots on the side
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 07/08/2026
Why yes, I do make the bed in a way that avoids bothering my cat.
A mostly made bed with a fold kept out so the cat who had been sleeping prior to bed being made doesn't have to move
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 07/08/2026
Wasabi Bistro is the embassy of heterosexuality in the Castro neighborhood of San Francisco.
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 05/08/2026
I hope everyone had a really fun Dore Alley and Lazy Bear! Now is the perfect time to go get poked and swabbed and otherwise checked out for all the things to stay healthy and ready for Folsom. 😈
A picture of an arm wrapped in a bandage.
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 04/08/2026
My San Francisco summer* personality—a pellet smoker/grill combo—arrives on Saturday and y’all get ready for this dad content. 😅 *San Francisco summer starts in late August at the earliest!
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 01/08/2026
Being a lazy bear
My lazy ass on a sofa shirtless with a laptop
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 01/08/2026
Lazy bear dinner parties are the best 😋 📸: @benjb75.bsky.social
Me serving steaks in gay ass golden hour light
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