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Manbearcat

@manbear.cat
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🏳️‍🌈 | ᏣᎳᎽ | he/him | cat dad | lawyer | san francisco, ca content is kind of hetero-phobic. sorrynotsorry. quite obviously these views are my own, and aren’t those of any other person or org.

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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 30/09/2026
Wine-braised chicken with josey baker bread and salad from the backyard. Honestly, bomb. 🤤
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 27/09/2026
Happy Folsom, San Francisco ⛓️🏳️‍🌈
Basic gay guy selfie in short shorts and a leather vest
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 24/09/2026
In London for work and felt cute
Basic selfie of a guy in a suit
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 15/09/2026
I saw this Ride across Wisconsin shirt at a vintage shop and just had to have it. I love cycling and cycling in Wisconsin is so pretty!
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 13/09/2026
Off to London, Madrid, and Sitges on the upper deck of the A380! ✈️🇬🇧🇪🇸 Back to SF for Folsom, don’t worry. 😈
Basic gay in a airline seat selfie
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 30/08/2026
“My breakfast is 21 minutes late, motherfucker.”
Cat sitting on me in bed looking very insistent.
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 29/08/2026
Listening to Dolly and making biscuits in my grandmother’s biscuit bowl feels like a bridge across the veil this morning.
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 28/08/2026
Nope. Don’t fucking do this.
Text that says 

re: Dolly Parton

We're calling on pro-choice Democrats to help carry Dolly's legacy forward. Here's how https://txt.emilyslist.org/0827515

Stop2End
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 26/08/2026
Verify your age
Wow 1997 album cover
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 17/08/2026
An introverted weekend of gardening, chores, smoked meals, kitty cuddles, and thinking about what my ancestors would think of all of this. And as Dolly Parton said, “one small thrill.” 😏
Shirtless selfie in the garden
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 13/08/2026
It turns out you can just purchase a new personality on the internet and have it delivered. 🤷🏻‍♂️
A Weber Searwood 600 XL grill
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 11/08/2026
Hopefully I won’t kill all of this 😅
Two raised garden beds filled with new plants and a couple of smaller pots on the side
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 07/08/2026
Why yes, I do make the bed in a way that avoids bothering my cat.
A mostly made bed with a fold kept out so the cat who had been sleeping prior to bed being made doesn't have to move
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 07/08/2026
I forgot the photo y’all!
a sign that reads: "attention if a guest vomits inside the restaurant, there is a cleaning fee of $50 to ensure fairness to our fellow staff members who will have to clean it. please do not throw up."
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 05/08/2026
I hope everyone had a really fun Dore Alley and Lazy Bear! Now is the perfect time to go get poked and swabbed and otherwise checked out for all the things to stay healthy and ready for Folsom. 😈
A picture of an arm wrapped in a bandage.
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 01/08/2026
Being a lazy bear
My lazy ass on a sofa shirtless with a laptop
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 01/08/2026
Lazy bear dinner parties are the best 😋 📸: @benjb75.bsky.social
Me serving steaks in gay ass golden hour light
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 28/07/2026
Gay marriage is so irritating lol
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 26/07/2026
Happy Dore, San Francisco! ⛓️
Basic bitch, gay, in a basic bitch harness
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 23/07/2026
I want our guests to feel welcome
Keychain “it’s not a whore house it’s a whore home”
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 22/07/2026
Husband: I got a new shoe rack! Isn’t it cute? Me: Do you have… four pairs of the exact same kind of shoe???
Four of the same kind of shoe on a shoe rack
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 21/07/2026
Sam has a seat at the head of the table
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 17/07/2026
A martini in El Paso costs… $6?
Receipt showing a martini for $6
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 09/07/2026
I told my husband I have an idea for improving the cat room
Picture of a cat in front of a photo of the same cat and the comment “he looks like a dictator giving an evil speech”
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 09/07/2026
So glad we got in when we did — things seem to be getting even nuttier in the San Francisco real estate market. 😳😳😳
Some narrow, multistory homes, seen with parked cars and trees and shrubs in the foreground. 
‘Hysteria’ Grips San Francisco’s Housing Market as A.I. Wealth Pours In
San Francisco home sales in May rose 12.2 percent from a year earlier, with the median price of a single-family home climbing to $2.14 million, according to a Homes.com report
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 09/07/2026
Then he nested 🥹🥹🥹
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 09/07/2026
I leave for one damn day and my husband buys my cat a damn cat condo for the cat’s room* *yes the cat has his own room in San Francisco which we could theoretically rent out but whatever no one wants a room with a litter box in it
A gray tabby cat at the top of a multi story cat condo
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 05/07/2026
Hey San Francisco, this is where your water comes from. The Hetch Hetchy valley in Yosemite is well worth the trip for the gorgeous views and hiking!
Selfie in front of a large reservoir with mountains in the background
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 05/07/2026
Even here they’re giving the bears ozempic 😭🧸😭🧸
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 04/07/2026
The United States has… issues, but fuck if it ain’t pretty in a lot of spots
Selfie at cathedral lake Mirror lake Mirror lake Yosemite Valley
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 24/06/2026
If it helps this was the display at Macy’s in downtown Minneapolis in 2016 😅
A mess
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 21/06/2026
Sam has emerged—just one room over—for snuggles. He’s going to be fine.
Sam the cat snuggling in bed after his traumatic move to the new house
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 21/06/2026
Update: the situation has not improved
Cat looking through windows of a door sadly
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 21/06/2026
Sam is Not Impressed with his new home #dobetterhuman
An agitated gray tabby 
An agitated gray tabby
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 11/06/2026
Arm day is always a good day 🦾
Basic bitch gay sitting on a preacher bench machine
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 03/06/2026
Weird patterns too this early. Why are these areas purple???
Two purple precincts among a sea of yellow and green in San Francisco
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 03/06/2026
He seems ok w it
Cat cuddling me in bed
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 28/05/2026
The question in San Francisco isn’t “are these prices going to continue to go up like this, where can it stop” but rather “where are we in the constant boom and bust cycle of this crazy city?” And it’s anyone’s guess.
The city's rental market just crossed a staggering new threshold for the first time this month: the median one-bedroom apartment now costs $4,000 a month — a 3.9% jump.

Why it matters: While rents nationally have mostly flattened, San Francisco is moving sharply in the opposite direction and leading the country in rent spikes, Zumper's May national rent report shows.

The big picture: The city now has the fastest-rising rents in the U.S., with both one- and two-bedroom prices up more than 21% from a year ago — the steepest of any major U.S. market.

Two-bedroom rent costs climbed to $5,500.
😬 The bottom line: Now may not be the ideal time to discover you've outgrown your current apartment.
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 18/05/2026
Bloomf meetup with longtime far-away friend-crush @beardynoise.bsky.social! Haven’t seen this one since… 2019? Way too long. Welcome to San Francisco!
Three men including Luke and his husband rob in San Francisco
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 14/05/2026
Sam has turned into such a cuddle bug
Sam cuddling on my lap Sam cuddling on my lap eyes closed
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 08/05/2026
I was grateful to be honored by the Minnesota Native Bar Association and spoke at lawyer admissions ceremonies in the afternoon on a beautiful spring day in Minnesota. I love California, but Minnesota’s legal community is just wonderful. 🥰🥰🥰
Receiving a Pendleton blanket wrapped around me Selfie in front of the MN state capitol in a suit
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 06/05/2026
The Brilliant Lady is in San Francisco today. Flashbacks to 4 AM dance parties immediately entered my head!
A virgin cruise ship in the San Francisco Bay
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 06/05/2026
New house views 😍🌉
DT San Francisco at night DT San Francisco in day
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 03/05/2026
On Friday, at Law Day in Minneapolis, I gave a little speech regarding how Minnesota lawyers showed the world what defending the rule of law looks like. A friend got a photo where I actually look like A Real Lawyer.
A Gay in front of a podium and beside flags all marked “Law Day”
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 03/05/2026
Minnesotans: “oh I betcha don’t know how to pronounce this place” Me, an Oklahoman, some of the o.g. butcherers of language: “hold my 3.2% beer” (New Prague is adorable tho)
A map of Prague (Pray-gue), Oklahoma
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 30/04/2026
It’s official! We closed on the San Francisco property that we will renovate into the home of our dreams. Going from being a (closeted in denial) gay in rural Oklahoma to owning a house in the middle of the iconic Castro gayborhood is a dream come true! 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️
Two gays standing in front of a house in San Francisco they now own 😍
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 26/04/2026
A selection of party outfits. The gays love a theme party!
Neon party with a bright yellow mesh tank top Pink party with a flamingo hat70s party with… some sort of Cher look The remnants of my white party outfit - just a speedo 😅
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 24/04/2026
I hosted a dinner with 22 friends for my husband’s 40th birthday at La Palapa in Puerto Vallarta and it was the most delightful evening!
Two gay men on a beach with tables in the background
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 19/04/2026
Michelin star lunch in Mexico with friends and 🐶
Conchas de piedra with a Michelin starThree friends at a lunch Me petting a pup The beautiful Valle de Guadalupe
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 17/04/2026
Gay men on the apps have… strategies here
Conversation starters that aren’t ‘How’s it going?’
Author Headshot	
By Jancee Dunn
A friend of mine told me that she feels a bit anxious when someone greets her with the phrase, “What’s up?” Because oftentimes nothing is up.
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