Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 30/09/2026Wine-braised chicken with josey baker bread and salad from the backyard. Honestly, bomb. 🤤 2381
Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 15/09/2026I saw this Ride across Wisconsin shirt at a vintage shop and just had to have it. I love cycling and cycling in Wisconsin is so pretty! 2562
Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 13/09/2026Off to London, Madrid, and Sitges on the upper deck of the A380! ✈️🇬🇧🇪🇸 Back to SF for Folsom, don’t worry. 😈 71461
Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 29/08/2026Listening to Dolly and making biscuits in my grandmother’s biscuit bowl feels like a bridge across the veil this morning. 0731
Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 17/08/2026An introverted weekend of gardening, chores, smoked meals, kitty cuddles, and thinking about what my ancestors would think of all of this. And as Dolly Parton said, “one small thrill.” 😏 52294
Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 13/08/2026It turns out you can just purchase a new personality on the internet and have it delivered. 🤷🏻♂️ 7781
Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 07/08/2026Why yes, I do make the bed in a way that avoids bothering my cat. 0740
Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 05/08/2026I hope everyone had a really fun Dore Alley and Lazy Bear! Now is the perfect time to go get poked and swabbed and otherwise checked out for all the things to stay healthy and ready for Folsom. 😈 2782
Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 01/08/2026Lazy bear dinner parties are the best 😋 📸: @benjb75.bsky.social 11352
Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 22/07/2026Husband: I got a new shoe rack! Isn’t it cute? Me: Do you have… four pairs of the exact same kind of shoe??? 121293
Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 09/07/2026So glad we got in when we did — things seem to be getting even nuttier in the San Francisco real estate market. 😳😳😳 2150
Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 09/07/2026I leave for one damn day and my husband buys my cat a damn cat condo for the cat’s room* *yes the cat has his own room in San Francisco which we could theoretically rent out but whatever no one wants a room with a litter box in it 191691
Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 05/07/2026Hey San Francisco, this is where your water comes from. The Hetch Hetchy valley in Yosemite is well worth the trip for the gorgeous views and hiking! 01130
Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 04/07/2026The United States has… issues, but fuck if it ain’t pretty in a lot of spots 0950
Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 24/06/2026If it helps this was the display at Macy’s in downtown Minneapolis in 2016 😅 3151
Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 21/06/2026Sam has emerged—just one room over—for snuggles. He’s going to be fine. 52242
Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 28/05/2026The question in San Francisco isn’t “are these prices going to continue to go up like this, where can it stop” but rather “where are we in the constant boom and bust cycle of this crazy city?” And it’s anyone’s guess. 1120
Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 18/05/2026Bloomf meetup with longtime far-away friend-crush @beardynoise.bsky.social! Haven’t seen this one since… 2019? Way too long. Welcome to San Francisco! 21801
Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 08/05/2026I was grateful to be honored by the Minnesota Native Bar Association and spoke at lawyer admissions ceremonies in the afternoon on a beautiful spring day in Minnesota. I love California, but Minnesota’s legal community is just wonderful. 🥰🥰🥰 21600
Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 06/05/2026The Brilliant Lady is in San Francisco today. Flashbacks to 4 AM dance parties immediately entered my head! 1230
Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 03/05/2026On Friday, at Law Day in Minneapolis, I gave a little speech regarding how Minnesota lawyers showed the world what defending the rule of law looks like. A friend got a photo where I actually look like A Real Lawyer. 81680
Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 03/05/2026Minnesotans: “oh I betcha don’t know how to pronounce this place” Me, an Oklahoman, some of the o.g. butcherers of language: “hold my 3.2% beer” (New Prague is adorable tho) 160
Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 30/04/2026It’s official! We closed on the San Francisco property that we will renovate into the home of our dreams. Going from being a (closeted in denial) gay in rural Oklahoma to owning a house in the middle of the iconic Castro gayborhood is a dream come true! 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ 456084
Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 24/04/2026I hosted a dinner with 22 friends for my husband’s 40th birthday at La Palapa in Puerto Vallarta and it was the most delightful evening! 31770