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Manbearcat

@manbear.cat
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🏳️‍🌈 | ᏣᎳᎽ | he/him | cat dad | lawyer | san francisco, ca content is kind of hetero-phobic. sorrynotsorry. quite obviously these views are my own, and aren’t those of any other person or org.

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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 15h
Hawaiian Thanksgiving = booked 🌺🍍 I have to be in Korea for work before, so it’s kind of on the way home?
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 16h
Wine-braised chicken with josey baker bread and salad from the backyard. Honestly, bomb. 🤤
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 29/09/2026
I sleep in and *then* go to the gym. :)
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 29/09/2026
Haha yeah that feels a bit more like a “Europeans…” ::waves hand:: stereotypical fantasy. Particularly given how their wages have not kept up with inflation nearly as well as ours have.
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 29/09/2026
I do remember thinking that relatively healthy and affordable and easy food was available even in the tesco in the city.
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 29/09/2026
Idk. Maybe restaurant meals. I’m that bitch that spends an obnoxious amount on really great produce at the local market, local meat, etc. Maybe it’s also a lack of stress from vacation?
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 29/09/2026
To clarify - my *normal* life in San Francisco doesn’t have a lot of processed food/driving - so I’m not sure what the difference is for me!
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 29/09/2026
Worked for me lol
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 29/09/2026
All these “gay death at 30” boys are lining up to fuck daddies 😅😅
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 29/09/2026
No matter how much I eat or drink, I always lose weight in Europe! I went super hard this trip and down 4 lbs. 😅 I also don’t eat a ton of processed food (by comparison to average) and walk/bike/transit almost everywhere so the usual “processed food and walking” answer doesn’t make sense.
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 28/09/2026
$31 worth of DoorDash Indian food, please wash my weekend sins away
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 28/09/2026
Aww sorry I missed you
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 27/09/2026
I just passed a Travel + Leisure tent. Folsom is dead.
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 27/09/2026
Happy Folsom, San Francisco ⛓️🏳️‍🌈
Basic gay guy selfie in short shorts and a leather vest
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 27/09/2026
Yeah. Feels like a tax dodge or something. lol.
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 27/09/2026
Two weeks in Europe without a single trip to the ATM and within 24 hours of landing in San Francisco I’m asked to pay a $25 *cash only* cover. 😤
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 26/09/2026
🥰
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 24/09/2026
In London for work and felt cute
Basic selfie of a guy in a suit
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 24/09/2026
As someone born in Louisiana, that looks legit! 🤤
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 24/09/2026
You know it’s a gay business meeting when someone has to take a break in the middle to buy Mariah Carey Christmas show tickets. 🏳️‍🌈🎄
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 23/09/2026
Things have changed so quickly in the last few years with regard to European travel. Electronic passport gates with short lines and no need to talk to an officer. Two weeks and haven’t needed to go to an ATM once. Tap to pay for everything. So easy!
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 18/09/2026
Omg saving this!
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 18/09/2026
More people should learn to say “I’m not informed enough about that to have an opinion.”
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 17/09/2026
Me on the first day of an international trip: “fuck American brands really spread like a virus” Me on the last day: “🎶LOVE THAT CHICKEN FROM POPEYES!🎶”
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 15/09/2026
I saw this Ride across Wisconsin shirt at a vintage shop and just had to have it. I love cycling and cycling in Wisconsin is so pretty!
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 15/09/2026
My kingdom for an edit feature… but you know what I meant.
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 15/09/2026
Transit feels a bit pricey but I assume the price are programs to help folks who are lower income/younger etc like there are in San Francisco. I also think the bike infrastructure needs some work but it’s harder in older cities.
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 15/09/2026
London’s strategy appears to be to make driving absolutely miserable and expensive and to make public transit and bikeshare widely available and I am absolutely here for it.
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 15/09/2026
I do it all myself! I use travel agents for work travel and they generally don’t do as well as I can do.
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 14/09/2026
Omg looks gorgeous!
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 13/09/2026
Got a great Amex points redemption otherwise I’d be on United same as always! Haha.
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 13/09/2026
Off to London, Madrid, and Sitges on the upper deck of the A380! ✈️🇬🇧🇪🇸 Back to SF for Folsom, don’t worry. 😈
Basic gay in a airline seat selfie
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 12/09/2026
I got the same video in my algorithm lol. And the bitch def got a follow.
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 12/09/2026
Thank you! One of the best moments in this gig is being able to tell a client they can safely stay in the United States.
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 11/09/2026
Update: I WON. I beat those evil fucking fucks at ICE. There is a small measure of justice in this country still! 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 11/09/2026
Them, with giant iPad: “Do you have a moment for gay rights?” Me: “No, I personally hate gay people.”
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 09/09/2026
It is and should be situational. Home Depot in Daly City gets the car. The gym on Van Ness/Mission definitely gets the bike!
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 09/09/2026
This. We have a car (electric) for a variety of commute/Bay Area lifestyle reasons, but our “second” transit mode is my e-bike/e-bike share. By far, the fastest and easiest way of getting many places in San Francisco.
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 08/09/2026
Omg congrats!
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 06/09/2026
Ha i stayed in an Airbnb across the street from there. I recall it didn’t have good reviews, but the deli with fried pickles was amazing.
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 05/09/2026
I don’t know what about me sitting at a sushi bar on a solo sushi date reading a Kindle suggested I wanted to talk to someone. But when the chatty guy next to me asked me what I was reading, my reply that I’m reading the monastic Desert Fathers and Mothers shut him up. 😅
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 05/09/2026
Apart from a dinner with the husband, I haven’t had any serious in-person human interaction since Wednesday and I haven’t missed it thus far.
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JP @jpbrammer.bsky.social · 05/09/2026
launching a company called Misanthropic. it's not totally clear what we do. but you can call our number on a rotary phone and we will yell a torrent of unspecific critique at you until you hang up
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 04/09/2026
I am far more addicted to Instagram lol
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 04/09/2026
I only keep Facebook for: - Cherokee-related groups - to keep up with extended family - to follow a large number of hot 40-something straight dad fitness influencers.
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 31/08/2026
Do they superset on five machines at 5p on a weekday while leaving towels to “reserve” each, giving the evil eye to anyone who tries to work in on any of them?
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 31/08/2026
Horrifying, and a good reason for taking up the entire lane.
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 30/08/2026
We know what energy is behind the tasteful thirst traps. 😏
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 30/08/2026
“My breakfast is 21 minutes late, motherfucker.”
Cat sitting on me in bed looking very insistent.
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Manbearcat @manbear.cat · 29/08/2026
Listening to Dolly and making biscuits in my grandmother’s biscuit bowl feels like a bridge across the veil this morning.
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