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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 01/10/2026

Also one of my favorite soundtracks

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 29/09/2026

REALLY looking forward to this one!

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 29/09/2026

That's what I'm TALKING about

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Antonio Da Silva Films @filmsdasilva.bsky.social · 07/08/2026

💦💦end of a good beach day with 🍆Jacob, 🍆Pedro Pinto and 🍆Valentim

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 26/09/2026

I’m very excited to be getting back to @stumptownstrokes.bsky.social tomorrow. It’s been almost seven months! Then I’ll be back at @raincityjacks.org for the GLAZED! event. Looks like some stellar penis time ahead for Jack Daddy. Say hi if you happen to see me at one of these awesome gatherings. 😛

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 26/09/2026

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 24/09/2026

Such good advice. The suggestion that we teach our partners what works for us shouldn’t be radical. Yes to self-awareness, self-exploration, self-ownership. HELL yes to opening up your damn mouth and using your words to communicate with your sex partners! If you’re a silent partner, try it!

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 24/09/2026

IDK who's still using Discord but anybody else just getting these? Are you okay handing over your identity to them after the last third-party data breach debacle? I think not. I’ve been abandoning platforms for years now. I see no reason to stop now.

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Everyone’s Favorite Ott @thomtheott.bsky.social · 23/09/2026

Thinking about big fat hairy men 😤

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 24/09/2026

Guy who sets up tripod in the right-of-way because nobody else actually exists

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 24/09/2026

In posting this, my point can be summed up as “Make your sounds.” Sex is a gateway into letting ourselves BE ourselves as we are in our core, to let illusions of civilized personna fall away briefly and experience our nature; to remember who we are. That’s why sex frightens the entrenched powerful.

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 18/09/2026

This dude always gets me going

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Mrs. Betty Bowers @mrsbettybowers.bsky.social · 31/08/2026

Mitch McConnell is dead. The burden to prove otherwise rests with the GOP, not us. Let’s proceed accordingly.

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 30/08/2026

As a teenage sexnerd, The Joy of Sex was one of many books that helped form what would become a then-unimaginably joyful and fulfilling sex life for me, one that would last for decades. This is just one of many readings that stuck with me

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Excerpt from The Joy of Sex by Alex Comfort, 1972

What your partner says in orgasm should never be quoted at them—it can be played back when you are both in a suitable mood, but only then. It’s the time when people are spiritually most naked.

There is a striking consistency, over ages and continents, in what we say in orgasm. Japanese, Indian, French, and English all babble about dying (“Some of them,” said sixteenth-century French historian Abbe Brantome, “yell out ‘I’m dying,’ but I think they enjoy that sort of death.”), about Mother (they often call for her at the crucial moment), and about religion, even if they are atheists. This is natural—orgasm is the most spiritual moment of our lives, of which all other mystical kicks are a mere translation. Men are apt to growl like bears, or utter aggressive monosyllables like “In, in, in!” The wife of the Leopard in the novel of the same name used to yell out “Gesumaria!” and there is an infinite variety of sounds short of speech.

Why these cries are so charming, it’s hard to say. The Indians classified them, compared them to bird cries, and warned how easily parrots and mynahs pick them up, with bad social vibrations when they repeat the lesson—hence no parrots in the love chamber. It’s important to learn to read them while enjoying the music, and particularly to know when “Stop” means stop and when it means “For God’s sake, go on.” This is an individual language and you need to be a sensitive field observer to learn its meaning.

Some of the “words” are common—a gasp when a touch registers right, a shuddering out-breath when you follow through. Some people talk continuously in a sort of baby whisper, or repeat four- letter words of the most unlikely kind—some you can hear several blocks away, while others still are dead silent or laugh or sob disconcertingly. Of the really noisy performers, some like to be allowed to yell, while others like to be gagged, or stuff their hair in their mouths in the style of a Japanese print (traditional Japanese houses have paper partitions). Men can be equally noisy in the run-up to orgasm, but are not usually so continuously vocal.

A naturally silent partner doesn’t mean a lack of pleasure; unsurprisingly, some people still find it hard to do what—as children—they were told not to do. If you want noise, say so early on; she in particular may feel bestial when moaning or grunting, and it will help to give permission. Equally, say so if some expressions are a turnoff; there are plenty of other options (see words).

The important point is this: in mutual, let-go intercourse, make as much noise as you like. It’s curious that we need to write this down, but house and hotel designers haven’t yet realized it—they all seem to be married to noiseless, childless partners, or they would build thicker walls. Totally silent intercourse, with each partner’s hand firmly over the other’s mouth, can be fun if you simply can’t risk being overheard.

Another variation is to have two kinds of intercourse at once—straight, gentle coitus, while each partner describes some other much wilder proceeding in fantasy, perhaps for next time. The fantasy can be as wild as you like. This is the place to experience things you can’t possibly act out, and to learn your partner’s fantasy needs. These fantasies can be heterosexual, homosexual, incestuous, tender, wild, or bloodthirsty—don’t block, and don’t be afraid of your partner’s fantasy; this is a dream you are in. But be careful about recording such dreams, as they can be disturbing at the daylight level. Let them go with the release of orgasm.

Lovers who really know one another won’t be frightened or take advantage. If, however, you do find this double nakedness disturbing, set rules—practicable or happy fantasies only. Never, never refer to pillow talk in anger later on (“I always knew you were a lesbian” and so on). This is contemptible. The only really disturbing manifestation of love music is when a partner laughs uncontrollably—some do. Don’t be uptight about this. They aren’t laughing at you.

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 30/08/2026

I’m not a gooner and I don’t get into gooning But I sympathize with those who find meaning in that kink/identity/expression/trend, as a few deeply shitty people—both in the media and the general public—fuel another incredibly stupid moral panic The West can’t handle unconventional human sexuality

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 17/08/2026

If you don't know a trans person, you don't get to hold forth about trans people

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Brad @gingerbator86.bsky.social · 11/08/2026

It’s hard getting all this dick in these tighty whities

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The Local Cryptid @yourspookydad.bsky.social · 13/08/2026

Musky beyond words

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 12/08/2026

Highly, highly, HIGHLY recommend the excellent “Understood” podcast from the CBC, which is covering exactly this phenomenon in the current season. I had zero understanding—and tons of judgement—of the phenomenon before listening. www.cbc.ca/listen/cbc-p...

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In 2021, Sara met Jack and fell in love. He was charming, imaginative, and bore an uncanny resemblance to Henry Cavill. But Jack wasn’t human… he was a chatbot. It sounds like science fiction, but peo...

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 09/08/2026

I was impressed that two personal friends texted me bate-and-cum videos for my birthday. I was grinning like an idiot. Sharing masturbation is a true source of happiness for me and my closest friends know it.

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Stumptown Strokes @stumptownstrokes.bsky.social · 06/08/2026

Looks like our August 1 email has only made it to about half the number of people that it should have this month! If you missed it you can find a version on our website. www.stumptownstrokes.com/monthly

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 07/08/2026

Today is my birthday! 🎂 Please post pics and videos of your masturbated penis. All I ever want is more hard dicks, full balls, and сum. Thanks in advance!

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Rain City Jacks @raincityjacks.org · 06/08/2026

PNW Bators! It sounds like there may be some rare capacity at this month’s Stumptown Strokes events. @jackdaddypaul.me gives Stumptown his personal stamp of approval (and hauls his own horny ass down there every chance he gets). RCJ 💙Stumptown

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 03/08/2026

One of my most excellent friends, not only an absolutely sexy stud but one of the nicest guys I know

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 03/08/2026

I’m VERY excited for this one

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 28/07/2026

I think it’s definitely a factor. Successful long-term relationships accommodate growth and change or else they end. And really, relationships that don’t accommodate the evolution of partners SHOULD fizzle. Life’s too short to squander time on failed experiments.

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 27/07/2026

It can feel comforting and safe to fully assume an identity and to try to live from that simple narrative—complexity can be irritating—but I think that can lead to dissonance when we try fitting everything into that one story. Anyway… that’s me.

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 27/07/2026

The way I understand individual sexuality is as a matrix, with orientation (persistent attraction template) being only one facet. This is why I wear identity “loosely.” using any one facet of my sexual matrix as identity feels like it eclipses other important aspects of my sexual being.

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 26/07/2026

Interesting question! I experience my sexuality in multiple dimensions, and I wear identity loosely, other than my gender, which feels immutable. Top-line factors: Practice: 95% solo Orientation: Gay SOI-R: Moderately unrestricted Preference: Side Passion: Substantial, naturally hairy, potent men

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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 21/07/2026

Emily Post seems to have left this etiquette question unanswered, so we did the honors. New Lovecast episode out now at Savage.Love/Lovecast!

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Rain City Jacks @raincityjacks.org · 19/07/2026

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 17/07/2026

Also… nudity is not sexuality, and is only shocking because American children aren’t typically normalized and habituated to it.

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 17/07/2026

Yes and… “being” and “doing” are not the same thing.

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 17/07/2026

Pride is not one thing. It’s 2026. Pride manifests in myriad ways and should have myriad expressions to match its myriad faces. Minority sexuality of (virtually) all flavors can be celebrated openly without being explicit at events where children are—and should—be present.

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 17/07/2026

I’m going to go out on a limb here and state that in this case, quality of work is more important than the skill being employed, particularly when striving for the same outcome.

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 13/07/2026

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 13/07/2026

My favorite amateur porn A) never breaks the fourth wall and B) never reminds me there’s a camera. Those elements take intention, practice and skill. Of course, rules are made to be broken and broken well. I just prefer that your storytelling not block my view of your delicious story.

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Rain City Jacks @raincityjacks.org · 13/07/2026

Consent isn’t an afterthought at Rain City Jacks. Every first-timer learns our approach before anyone takes off their clothes. This episode gets that philosophy exactly right. Give it a listen.

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 13/07/2026

I think this was my favorite episode of Sexual Heroes ever. Thank you, @robertblackxxx.com for jumping back into the show and delivering this excellent primer on consent.

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