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@dansavage.bsky.social
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Host of the Savage Lovecast, author of Savage Love. "A deviant of the highest order!" — The Daily Caller

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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
Somewhere in the valley that lies between monogamy and polyamory lives the concept of being "MONOGAMISH". The word and concept was uttered by Dan and took off, probably because a lot of people were finding themselves in this valley. For full vid, go to buff.ly/X3GrSx6
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
I have no idea what this is about.
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
Just how polite are Canadians? Meet Owen, a Canuck whose good manners went above and beyond when he visited the red light district in Amsterdam. Name a lake after this guy! Listen to this week's After Action Report for the full story! Tell us your story, right away! Send it to Q@Savage.Love
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
A woman from Southeast Asia is considering getting into a lavender marriage in order keep her queerness secret from her conservative family. She knows that in the West this is considered ethically questionable. But she might do it anyway. Should she?
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
It's like there are two kinds of youth pastors out there: the ones who got caught and the ones who haven't gotten caught yet. www.joemygod.com/2026/09/flor...
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Florida Youth Pastor Arrested On Child Sex Charges - Joe.My.God.
Gainesville’s ABC affiliate reports: Officers arrested a youth pastor accused of grooming an underage teen in Ocala. Caleb Fischer Ray, 27, a youth pastor for Connection Church in Ocala, was accused o...
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A Self-Respecting Fish @fishhat.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
Casper the GGG Ghost
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
If having dirty pics is disqualifying criteria for public office, no one under 50 is qualified! If you wanna make history by sending a hot guy who looks good in a harness to Congress, you can donate to Gallant’s campaign. New Savage Lovecast out now!
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 21/09/2026
We have Dr. Eugene Fan on Savage Lovecast this week to discuss a myriad of sexual health issues and to answer a caller's question about erections after a heart attack. Out tomorrow!
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Rob Delaney @robdelaney.bsky.social · 21/09/2026
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
No words exchanged. He lying in a hotel bed. She enters and just watches. It was their first and only date. Rachel’s story proves that scheduled sex most certainly CAN be hot. Hear her story on this week's After Action Report, out now! Send your stories to Q@Savage.Love.
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
Not the obituary I wanted to read today. www.nytimes.com/2026/09/18/a...
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Duncan Sheik, Who Traded Pop Stardom for Broadway, Dies at 56 (Gift Article)
Weary of the heartthrob label after his 1996 hit “Barely Breathing,” he pivoted to musical theater and won two Tonys for composing “Spring Awakening.”
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
Have any of you dealt with intrusive thoughts? This caller is battling a particularly annoying one. Do you have advice on how to get this mediocre man out of her head when she's having sex with her wonderful man?
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 15/09/2026
Instances of genuine human connection ARE possible in dating app culture. It's good to be reminded of that at times. Share your stories of genuine connection via apps in the comments! New episode of Savage.Love/Lovecast is out now!
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 14/09/2026
Actor Julian Shaw is finally coming out...as straight! And though some have accused him of being "gay for pay" he says he never accepted a fee and is also coming out to set the record...straight! Julian is our guest this week on Savage Lovecast, out tomorrow!
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 14/09/2026
Not the obituary I wanted to read today. people.com/bob-mackie-d...
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Bob Mackie, Legendary Costume Designer, Dead at 87
Bob Mackie has died at the age of 87. The iconic fashion designer was best known for his collaborations with Cher, and creating outfits for legends including Diana Ross, Tina Turner, Carol Burnett and...
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 12/09/2026
He knows this is going to happen whenever he goes out in public and he still goes out in public. It must make his dick hard. It’s the only explanation.
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 11/09/2026
Meet Tom who went on a very special vacation with his girlfriend. Packing checklist: Kink outfits ✅️ Consent Form ✅️ Waste bag ✅️ Ability to witness your partner get railed by someone else ✅️ How did it really go? Listen to After Action Report to find out! And send us your stories to Q@Savage.Love
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Bill Savage @rogersparkman.bsky.social · 10/09/2026
My lecture on the "Loveable Losers" Cubs and Norman Rockwell's "The Dugout" is now available online from the Art Institute. www.youtube.com/watch?v=W2sS...
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Lecture: Norman Rockwell and the Chicago Cubs—The Making of Baseball's "Loveable Losers"
YouTube video by The Art Institute of Chicago
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 10/09/2026
Zach Noe Towers helps us answer this question on this week's Savage Lovecast, but we want to know YOUR tips / products / routines to get those hands sparkling clean and smelling fresh, post-fingering!
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Brent Toderian @brenttoderian.bsky.social · 09/09/2026
“We need an Ozempic for cars. They are growing at a phenomenal rate, wreaking havoc on roads, squeezing out smaller vehicles and endangering pedestrians. Like ever-hungry teenagers, cars in Europe are growing on average a centimetre wider every year.” Don’t repeat North America’s mistake, Europe.
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Britain’s cars and SUVs are growing bigger – but there is a way to stop this deadly ‘carspreading’ | Christian Wolmar
Larger vehicles crowd our roads and are far more dangerous to pedestrians. Let’s curb them before they do even more damage, says says transport commentator Christian Wolmar
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 09/09/2026
Rosh Hashanah Drama! A divorced woman is in an open relationship with her boyfriend. Her kids don't know. Her family doesn't approve. He wears a wedding ring. What should she do if kids start asking questions?
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 08/09/2026
Zach Noe Towers was one of the 1800 passengers on the gay cruise that was banned from multiple ports over the summer. He's our guest on Lovecast this week where he tells us all about it, plus he helps us answer a few questions from callers. To hear our full chat with Zach, become a Magnum sub!
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 05/09/2026
Maybe one day we’ll have a Democratic governor, a Democratic county executive, and Democratic majorities in both houses of the state legislature here in Washington State and we’ll finally be able to do something about this.
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Joan Price @joanprice.bsky.social · 04/09/2026
What advice would I give to younger people? My answer to this Q may surprise you. Thank you, dear @jessicadrake.bsky.social , for interviewing me for Glorious Broads. (Shoutout to @dansavage.bsky.social who explains this point of view frequently and powerfully.) www.instagram.com/reel/Dc3xV1i...
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 04/09/2026
I am at peace with this decision. www.joemygod.com/2026/09/trum...
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Trump To Fly Qatari AF1 Overseas Despite Security Risk - Joe.My.God.
The Washington Post reports: President Donald Trump plans to fly to Ireland next week aboard the Boeing 747 gifted to him by Qatar, a senior White House official said, marking his first international ...
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 04/09/2026
Cat started a sex toy company (Good Ember), so she had to come out as kinky to friends and family. What she didn’t expect was the stampede of her mother’s boomer friends asking for product. Hear all about it on this week's After Action Report, out now at buff.ly/8G0c7Mw!
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 03/09/2026
What role should this woman have in helping her trans sister to come out to her family and stand up for herself?
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 03/09/2026
Not the obituary I wanted to read today. www.nytimes.com/2026/09/03/u...
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Gloria Steinem, Personification of the Feminist Movement, Dies at 92 (Gift Article)
She challenged sexist assumptions, helping women develop a sense of self-worth and gain a measure of equality at work, at home and in society at large.
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 02/09/2026
This caller knows she doesn't want children, and is considering a tubal ligation. Have any of you had your tubes tied? What was recovery like? Any advice for this caller? Listen to the reply to this call on this week's Savage.Love/Lovecast!
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 01/09/2026
Is it DADT? Is it Toly? Whatever you call it, they made it work for them! For more, listen to this week's Savage Lovecast, out now!
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 28/08/2026
I once told Milo to Google Ernst Röhm. 🤷‍♂️
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 28/08/2026
Hey Everybody! Meet Jay- a pan, poly furry who, along with 15 other queer furries, met up for a “kink tasting, orgy event.” What goes on at kink cabin? Listen to this week's After Action Report to hear all about it! And if you have a tale to share, write it up and send it in to Q@Savage.Love
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 27/08/2026
On this Lovecast, a caller wonders if folks who enjoy adult baby play actually… well, actually sh*t themselves. The answer comes from Dan’s guest, Fancy of the InTheNook podcast. The show champions “nuance, kink-positive education, and unfiltered queer realness” for those into ABDL. buff.ly/k7rVfQt
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 26/08/2026
Ethics Alert! A man and a woman broke up, as men and women do. She asked him to delete all the hot videos and pics he possessed with her in them. But if he never ever shares the material, does he really have to?
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 26/08/2026
The Lord thy God is a vengeful God… and a terrible shot. The Mr. Magoo of higher powers.
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 26/08/2026
Not the obituary I wanted to read today. www.hollywoodreporter.com/movies/movie...
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Tim Curry, Outlandish Star of ‘The Rocky Horror Picture Show,’ Dies at 80
The three-time Tony nominee terrified audiences in Stephen King's 'It' and was a prolific voice actor as well.
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 25/08/2026
Check out the piece "Zach Lahn: Please Stop Calling the Award-Winning Sex Toy a Sex Toy" by Brendan Hartnett in The Bulwark, no paywall. New Savage Lovecast out now!
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 25/08/2026
Not the obituary I wanted to read today. www.nytimes.com/2026/08/25/a...
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Dolly Parton, Country Music Superstar Whose Songs Spoke to Millions, Dies at 80
Known for her outsize persona, appearance and talent, she rose from rural poverty to become a top-selling singer, songwriter and entrepreneur.
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 24/08/2026
Leviticus is really amazing, really scary, and — if you’re gay and from a religious background — weirdly very hopeful. I was profoundly moved by this film. I want to say things… but I don’t want to spoil it for anyone who hasn’t seen it.
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 24/08/2026
Faith Hill is a staff writer at The Atlantic and is our guest for this week's Magnum Lovecast! Faith has just written a piece called "The Great Romance Slump" on why so few young people are finding love. Why do you think we've seen a decrease in romantic success in younger folks?
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Alt National Park Service @altnps.bsky.social · 24/08/2026
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Bill Savage @rogersparkman.bsky.social · 21/08/2026
One of my favorite family artifacts. Looted, or perhaps liberated, during the demolition of the Granada Theatre.
Framed sign. White background . Sign reads “Occupancy by more than 1603 persons is dangerous and unlawful. Granada Theatre, 6457 N Sheridan Balcony, 1973. Commissioner of buildings, City of Chicago.”
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 21/08/2026
Over. The. Diaper. Handy. 💀
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 20/08/2026
We have a very special guest for this Savage Love Live! Last time it was Terry, my husband. This time Tom, my husband's boyfriend is going to join me. You can ask him anything, and he can choose which questions he wants to answer. Savage Love Live 8/27, for Magnum subs! Subscribe now at savage.love!
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 19/08/2026
Should this woman get her 5 year old nephew a padlock necklace?
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 18/08/2026
Why are Republicans like this? Wrong answers only in the comments, please. New Savage Lovecast episode out today with guest Jane Don't!
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 18/08/2026
But my birthday is two months away!
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 17/08/2026
Drag performer / Season 18 Drag-Race alum Jane Don't is our guest on our Magnum Edition of Lovecast this week! Jane talks about the challenges and perks of growing up in rural eastern Washington and helps us answer a caller's question about spotting a porn star in the wild! Out tomorrow!
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 17/08/2026
Mine too.
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 15/08/2026
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