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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.mastobate.social.ap.brid.gy · 26/09/2026

[sexual content] RE: www.raincityjacks.org/img_1448_1200… Promotional photo for Rain City Jacks _GLAZED!_ event, 7pm Tuesday, September 29 in Seattle. # LEARN MORE and come! 💦

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.mastobate.social.ap.brid.gy · 26/09/2026

[sexual content] Shout-out time! **Bearbie** just kicked in their support for my efforts with a new subscription on Ko-Fi. 💙 This is how I’m able to devote my time and resources to running the Mastobate server, leading Rain City Jacks, and reviving the podcast. Every supporter makes a […]

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 30/08/2026

As a teenage sexnerd, The Joy of Sex was one of many books that helped form what would become a then-unimaginably joyful and fulfilling sex life for me, one that would last for decades. This is just one of many readings that stuck with me

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Excerpt from The Joy of Sex by Alex Comfort, 1972

What your partner says in orgasm should never be quoted at them—it can be played back when you are both in a suitable mood, but only then. It’s the time when people are spiritually most naked.

There is a striking consistency, over ages and continents, in what we say in orgasm. Japanese, Indian, French, and English all babble about dying (“Some of them,” said sixteenth-century French historian Abbe Brantome, “yell out ‘I’m dying,’ but I think they enjoy that sort of death.”), about Mother (they often call for her at the crucial moment), and about religion, even if they are atheists. This is natural—orgasm is the most spiritual moment of our lives, of which all other mystical kicks are a mere translation. Men are apt to growl like bears, or utter aggressive monosyllables like “In, in, in!” The wife of the Leopard in the novel of the same name used to yell out “Gesumaria!” and there is an infinite variety of sounds short of speech.

Why these cries are so charming, it’s hard to say. The Indians classified them, compared them to bird cries, and warned how easily parrots and mynahs pick them up, with bad social vibrations when they repeat the lesson—hence no parrots in the love chamber. It’s important to learn to read them while enjoying the music, and particularly to know when “Stop” means stop and when it means “For God’s sake, go on.” This is an individual language and you need to be a sensitive field observer to learn its meaning.

Some of the “words” are common—a gasp when a touch registers right, a shuddering out-breath when you follow through. Some people talk continuously in a sort of baby whisper, or repeat four- letter words of the most unlikely kind—some you can hear several blocks away, while others still are dead silent or laugh or sob disconcertingly. Of the really noisy performers, some like to be allowed to yell, while others like to be gagged, or stuff their hair in their mouths in the style of a Japanese print (traditional Japanese houses have paper partitions). Men can be equally noisy in the run-up to orgasm, but are not usually so continuously vocal.

A naturally silent partner doesn’t mean a lack of pleasure; unsurprisingly, some people still find it hard to do what—as children—they were told not to do. If you want noise, say so early on; she in particular may feel bestial when moaning or grunting, and it will help to give permission. Equally, say so if some expressions are a turnoff; there are plenty of other options (see words).

The important point is this: in mutual, let-go intercourse, make as much noise as you like. It’s curious that we need to write this down, but house and hotel designers haven’t yet realized it—they all seem to be married to noiseless, childless partners, or they would build thicker walls. Totally silent intercourse, with each partner’s hand firmly over the other’s mouth, can be fun if you simply can’t risk being overheard.

Another variation is to have two kinds of intercourse at once—straight, gentle coitus, while each partner describes some other much wilder proceeding in fantasy, perhaps for next time. The fantasy can be as wild as you like. This is the place to experience things you can’t possibly act out, and to learn your partner’s fantasy needs. These fantasies can be heterosexual, homosexual, incestuous, tender, wild, or bloodthirsty—don’t block, and don’t be afraid of your partner’s fantasy; this is a dream you are in. But be careful about recording such dreams, as they can be disturbing at the daylight level. Let them go with the release of orgasm.

Lovers who really know one another won’t be frightened or take advantage. If, however, you do find this double nakedness disturbing, set rules—practicable or happy fantasies only. Never, never refer to pillow talk in anger later on (“I always knew you were a lesbian” and so on). This is contemptible. The only really disturbing manifestation of love music is when a partner laughs uncontrollably—some do. Don’t be uptight about this. They aren’t laughing at you.

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.mastobate.social.ap.brid.gy · 28/08/2026

[sexual content] # REMINDER All user accounts on Mastobate.social automatically tag every image as "Sensitive Content" and if no CW (content warning) is applied, it is auto-tagged, "sexual content." We know why you're here.

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Rainbow Warrior @rainbowwarrior.woof.group.ap.brid.gy · 26/08/2026

[Gay NSFW] Sometimes I wonder if I post too many pics of my #dick but for some reason the white on thus counter top makes it POP 🤔 lol #gay #NSFW

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.mastobate.social.ap.brid.gy · 17/08/2026

[sexual content] If you don't know a trans person, you don't get to hold forth about trans people

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.mastobate.social.ap.brid.gy · 10/08/2026

[sexual content] My scar is healing up very nicely

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.mastobate.social.ap.brid.gy · 07/08/2026

[sexual content] # Today is my birthday! 🎂 Please post pics and videos of your masturbated penis. All I ever want is more hard dicks, full balls, and сum. Thanks in advance!

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Weasel Cheese @weaselcheese.com · 28/07/2026

Mastodon is messy and can be a confusing to get started with. It can also be hard to stay engaged there after being collectively addicted to algorithms steering us every which way… but #Mastodon (and its infinite array of #ActivityPub cousins) is THE #federation model that #Bluesky pretends to be.

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.mastobate.social.ap.brid.gy · 19/07/2026

[sexual content] # Mastobate runs on donations If you enjoy using the server, and have not donated something to help offset its costs, please consider kicking in a few bucks. It costs me about $200/month to provide mastobate.social. If it has value for you, I appreciate the assistance with […]

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.mastobate.social.ap.brid.gy · 12/07/2026

[sexual content] I think that “side” is overly conflated with oral sex, when it’s actually a lot broader than that. The way I see it, “side” has two principal components: 1. General rejection of the default top/bottom/vers identity models of heteronormative power exchange. 2. Specific […]

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 27/06/2026

Wishing you a glistening #FCF

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 25/06/2026

I abstained from sex Thursday, Friday, and Saturday. Without any agenda, I’ve now had nine orgasms over the four days since, each one immensely pleasurable, prolonged, and intense. I just keep thinking of my horny 17 year-old self imagining what my sex life would look like 50 horny years later. 😊

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.mastobate.social.ap.brid.gy · 25/06/2026

[sexual content] Possibly controversial but IDGAS… # An erotic solo male image is not gay. It's just male. Another male experiencing attraction and arousal in _response_ to that image… _THAT_ is gay. Erotic images of TWO guys together? That's a _depiction_ of gay. Gay is _attraction_ to […]

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.mastobate.social.ap.brid.gy · 21/06/2026

[sexual content] Day 3 of abstinence is always the dodgiest, although day 2 was pretty challenging. My mind kept testing for ways out of the commitment to save sex for Sunday. There are so many ways for a mature gay man to get off beautifully, including a nice and greasy up & down session in […]

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.mastobate.social.ap.brid.gy · 21/06/2026

[sexual content] Saw a dude on Bluesky posing nude with a graphic of a **_PRIDE FLAG_** obscuring his face Um… I think Pride is kinda sorta about **_NOT_** hiding who you really are but maybe that's just me Seems a little twisted in a not good way

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.mastobate.social.ap.brid.gy · 20/06/2026

[sexual content] Swingin' Saturday to my fellow dads, uncles & brothers

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.mastobate.social.ap.brid.gy · 18/06/2026

[sexual content] Occasionally I see profiles on spicy accounts that describe themselves as "demisexual." As this word is being employed on profiles that post and repost erotic content… I strongly suspect that most people identifying as “demisexual” don’t […] [Original post on mastobate.social]

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 18/06/2026

Enjoyed a BLISSFUL two hours with a favorite bate buddy today. It’s hard to communicate to guys who don’t share bate IRL just how much it means to me to feel THIS connected, this fully the man that I am, when I’m penis-to-penis, edge-to-edge with a compatible bator. IRL bate bud = a very happy me. 😊

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 18/06/2026

My IRL bate buddies are why I don’t consider myself solosexual. I value these relationships highly. They help me feel fully myself, fully male, fully real. Would I give them up for my husband’s well being and happiness? Yes. In an instant. And his loving accommodation of them is the real treasure.

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.mastobate.social.ap.brid.gy · 16/06/2026

[sexual content] Followers know that male body hair is my top turnoff, especially full bush, hairy legs and (OMFG) hairy butts. I have very little natural body hair, but my pubes are a happy exception. At a recent Rain City Jacks event, a bate buddy was enjoying grabbing them and gently […]

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 15/06/2026

I’m too often aware of the camera in everyday porn creators’ content. If there’s a camera operator outside the action, it’s exponentially more obvious. I’d like to see actual filmmaking techniques more democratized and socialized in our porn. The storytelling shouldn’t get in the way of the story.

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.mastobate.social.ap.brid.gy · 15/06/2026

[sexual content] Rather than “normal” or “straight,” I refer to “conventional.” I value my unconventional aspects as the best parts of me, the things that make me unique, worth living with and being around. Conventionality is, to me, like graham crackers: Predictable, unchallenging, not bad […]

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.mastobate.social.ap.brid.gy · 12/06/2026

[sexual content] I was curious about what men mean by "demisexual" when they identify as such, so I did a bit of digging… I suspect it often falls into self-diagnosis territory and is sometimes confused with "restricted SOI-R," Anyhoo… **Demisexual:** _a person who experiences sexual desire […]

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 12/06/2026

My #bulge ritual is one of the ways I raise my personal #penis consciousness, part of my inalienable right to the pursuit of happiness. @seabatebro.bsky.social

My hairy penis + an Oxballs Mechanic silicone cock ring + Bator Balm white briefs + a well broken-in pair of jeans equals my bulgy package.

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 12/06/2026

I love full bush My own and others’ I know that pube reduction/minimization is a trend I understand that it's your jam It’s your penis Love who and what you love A stranger DMs me: “The pubes are a bit much” I think, “WHY would you say that?” INSTABLOCK I don’t yuck your yum Don’t yuck mine

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.mastobate.social.ap.brid.gy · 08/06/2026

[sexual content] Hard to believe I was ever self-conscious about my penis and what it does #bator #boner #masturbate #sperm #cumstain #cum

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.mastobate.social.ap.brid.gy · 06/06/2026

[sexual content] I dabble with fetishes for fun but I’m not deeply hooked into any of them. And I’ve discovered that the scent of my own pits is one of the few stimuli that can rouse my libido during a refractory period. That's kinda fun. I don’t lose myself in pit, but if I catch a whiff of […]

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.mastobate.social.ap.brid.gy · 06/06/2026

[sexual content] I should probably… * go to the gym * clean my office * masturbate

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.mastobate.social.ap.brid.gy · 03/06/2026

[sexual content] RE: mastobate.social/@jackdaddypaul/116… Polls on social media are really for entertainment only, but this one landed about where I thought it might… Men who have sex with men (MSM) consistently put cocksucking on top. **Here's the best study I could […]

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.mastobate.social.ap.brid.gy · 29/05/2026

[sexual content] # Posting is Mandatory **Mastobate Users:** A reminder that _you must post at least once a month to keep your account active on Mastobate!_ If you don't post, your account will be suspended and removed. I know this is counter to how most social media works: accounts that just […]

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.mastobate.social.ap.brid.gy · 29/05/2026

[sexual content] Masturbating for myself. Sharing with my bros. Mastobate can accommodate uploads of small videos like this, and celebrates open masturbation between men. Post your bate! #masturbate #ejaculate #erect #boner #penis #cum #bator #bate

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.mastobate.social.ap.brid.gy · 12/05/2026

[porn] I know I'm not getting any younger. I know I'm moving from dad bod to grandad bod. This "flexing with a boner" thing is just what you do when you can bate these days. I kinda like it. My arms aren't what they used to be but they're not nothin' And […] [Original post on mastobate.social]

Naked 67 year-old white guy with a shaved head, close-cropped white beard, and very little body hair other than a full bush of pubes, sits with a raging boner curving up between his legs, shiny with greasy lube. Arms are in a classic biceps flex and there's a slight smile playing on his face as he gazes at a computer screen full of other masturbating men, all displaying for each other.

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.mastobate.social.ap.brid.gy · 11/05/2026

[sexual content] I came so hard today, but not until I'd been glazed by FOUR of my fellows at the Jacks over two hours of group masturbation with 115 men.* I could not have asked for a better return to my club. I love Rain City Jacks so much. *No, I didn't play with 115 men. I was *with *them […]

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.mastobate.social.ap.brid.gy · 09/05/2026

[sexual content] On the third and final day of abstinence, the urge to masturbate has become intense, which was part of the point: intensifying my desire response. I woke up with a full erection. Taking my morning piss was a challenge for a few minutes since the upward curve of my cock was […]

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.mastobate.social.ap.brid.gy · 09/05/2026

[sexual content] # Masturbation Month Thoughts ## 8 April 2026 An important element of my solosex life is strategic abstinence. I don't mean "cum denial." I mean not masturbating for short, planned periods of time. Surprised? _For me,_ that's a max of three days. Just planning it makes me […]

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.mastobate.social.ap.brid.gy · 03/05/2026

[sexual content] I'm a confident guy but I also appreciate encouragement. If I write something or make a comment that fits for you or… oh I don't know… **post dick pics…** your reactions always encourage me to engage more I'm just saying

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