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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 24/09/2026

IDK who's still using Discord but anybody else just getting these? Are you okay handing over your identity to them after the last third-party data breach debacle? I think not. I’ve been abandoning platforms for years now. I see no reason to stop now.

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 30/08/2026

As a teenage sexnerd, The Joy of Sex was one of many books that helped form what would become a then-unimaginably joyful and fulfilling sex life for me, one that would last for decades. This is just one of many readings that stuck with me

birdsong at morning

Excerpt from The Joy of Sex by Alex Comfort, 1972

What your partner says in orgasm should never be quoted at them—it can be played back when you are both in a suitable mood, but only then. It’s the time when people are spiritually most naked.

There is a striking consistency, over ages and continents, in what we say in orgasm. Japanese, Indian, French, and English all babble about dying (“Some of them,” said sixteenth-century French historian Abbe Brantome, “yell out ‘I’m dying,’ but I think they enjoy that sort of death.”), about Mother (they often call for her at the crucial moment), and about religion, even if they are atheists. This is natural—orgasm is the most spiritual moment of our lives, of which all other mystical kicks are a mere translation. Men are apt to growl like bears, or utter aggressive monosyllables like “In, in, in!” The wife of the Leopard in the novel of the same name used to yell out “Gesumaria!” and there is an infinite variety of sounds short of speech.

Why these cries are so charming, it’s hard to say. The Indians classified them, compared them to bird cries, and warned how easily parrots and mynahs pick them up, with bad social vibrations when they repeat the lesson—hence no parrots in the love chamber. It’s important to learn to read them while enjoying the music, and particularly to know when “Stop” means stop and when it means “For God’s sake, go on.” This is an individual language and you need to be a sensitive field observer to learn its meaning.

Some of the “words” are common—a gasp when a touch registers right, a shuddering out-breath when you follow through. Some people talk continuously in a sort of baby whisper, or repeat four- letter words of the most unlikely kind—some you can hear several blocks away, while others still are dead silent or laugh or sob disconcertingly. Of the really noisy performers, some like to be allowed to yell, while others like to be gagged, or stuff their hair in their mouths in the style of a Japanese print (traditional Japanese houses have paper partitions). Men can be equally noisy in the run-up to orgasm, but are not usually so continuously vocal.

A naturally silent partner doesn’t mean a lack of pleasure; unsurprisingly, some people still find it hard to do what—as children—they were told not to do. If you want noise, say so early on; she in particular may feel bestial when moaning or grunting, and it will help to give permission. Equally, say so if some expressions are a turnoff; there are plenty of other options (see words).

The important point is this: in mutual, let-go intercourse, make as much noise as you like. It’s curious that we need to write this down, but house and hotel designers haven’t yet realized it—they all seem to be married to noiseless, childless partners, or they would build thicker walls. Totally silent intercourse, with each partner’s hand firmly over the other’s mouth, can be fun if you simply can’t risk being overheard.

Another variation is to have two kinds of intercourse at once—straight, gentle coitus, while each partner describes some other much wilder proceeding in fantasy, perhaps for next time. The fantasy can be as wild as you like. This is the place to experience things you can’t possibly act out, and to learn your partner’s fantasy needs. These fantasies can be heterosexual, homosexual, incestuous, tender, wild, or bloodthirsty—don’t block, and don’t be afraid of your partner’s fantasy; this is a dream you are in. But be careful about recording such dreams, as they can be disturbing at the daylight level. Let them go with the release of orgasm.

Lovers who really know one another won’t be frightened or take advantage. If, however, you do find this double nakedness disturbing, set rules—practicable or happy fantasies only. Never, never refer to pillow talk in anger later on (“I always knew you were a lesbian” and so on). This is contemptible. The only really disturbing manifestation of love music is when a partner laughs uncontrollably—some do. Don’t be uptight about this. They aren’t laughing at you.

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 09/07/2026

I always strive for 4 but I think I'm only capable of maybe 3½. What do you think?

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 19/06/2026

I never take gym selfies but the lighting was too good

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 12/06/2026

My #bulge ritual is one of the ways I raise my personal #penis consciousness, part of my inalienable right to the pursuit of happiness. @seabatebro.bsky.social

My hairy penis + an Oxballs Mechanic silicone cock ring + Bator Balm white briefs + a well broken-in pair of jeans equals my bulgy package.

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 29/04/2026

If you're on Mastodon (the actual Fediverse) you can follow me on Mastobate, my server for bators. Link goes to the long post screencapped below. Posts on Mastobate are mostly dick pics and video clips, but they can also be up to 4,000 characters long and use Markdown formatting. I’m just saying…

TRUE STORY: My new urologist asked me for a semen sample to culture to make sure there was no infection in my prostate, since la had a recent episode that landed me in the hospital (NOT fun).
I got the sample collection kit in the mail along with instructions for collection. Among other things, it required clean hands and penis, a disinfected surface for all the supplies.
So... I'm not exactly "clean" about ejaculating. I love my own ripeness and I love very greasy masturbation. These prime me to squirt so... there was a challenge.
I met that challenge. I spent about 90 minutes edging the way I love, and | lost count after 20 really close, 9.9 on the cum Richter scale edges. It was so fun and intense. My mission was to make my cock so eager to sperm that I could accomplish it under even antiseptic circumstances.
After 90 minutes, I got in the shower with my throbbing erection, repeatedly touching it and appreciating its very eager condition. I continued to masturbate with the soap n the shower, again, just shy of no-return,
I dried off with a fresh, clean towel and stepped to the sink where the collection cup awaited me, and promptly deposited a fantastic-and perfectly "clean"-load into the plastic, poured on the provided preservative, sealed it up, and dropped it into the pre-addressed package as instructed (because I'm a very good boy).
The nice FedEx man was there a couple of hours later and whisked away my pristine semen sample to be cultured at some lab somewhere.
It came back with zero pathogens.

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 04/04/2026

I guess these have become my everyday underwear of choice #BatorBriefs from @batorbalm.bsky.social

My open underwear drawer overflowing with nothing but white Bator Briefs from Bator Balm, illustrating that this is my everyday underwear, what you would see in my pants on any random day.

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 16/03/2026

Yesterday's post from Mastobate (my Mastodon server for bators) about my recovery process and why you haven't seen fresh dick pics from me for a while Yes, Mastobate accommodates way more than 300 characters

Day 16 after my hip replacement surgery. I made the decision to not cam or post any self-porn until the swelling had come down significantly. There's an impressive scar just to the left of my cock, roughly the same length as my erection. I'll certainly look for ways to capitalize on that.

And it looks like it will be another week or three before you see current Jack Daddy penis. I still have a good deal of swelling and discomfort, all totally normal for this kind of thing.

It's been interesting to me how my bate has changed and what not showing myself for a while has revealed. Apparently showing off is a big part of what turns me on (duh). No real surprise there, but I didn't realize how completely it had become part of my masturbation routine.

For over two weeks, I've been a consumer of everyone else's content and completely cold turkey on showing my dick at all. That doesn't mean I'm not masturbating. I'm back to my natural nine orgasms/week standard.

It's actually been really fun and centering. Not focusing on other men reacting to my penis has made me focus on it more myself, to appreciate it in a purely solosexual way. It's been a good perspective shift.

I think it's good to identify habits and change them from time to time, especially sexual habits. It keeps sex fresh, novel, stimulating, affirming.

Looking forward to showing you my new scar when the time comes.

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 16/02/2026

Covering a few bases here… Fresh jar of lube, chair cover, and #tightywhitey #briefs from @batorbalm.bsky.social, #pubes #boner #dadbod #bator #penis and #MCM for #MonochromeMonday and #NoAI, #NoSlop for good measure.

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 07/02/2026

I’m generally a green-light, yes-waiting-to-happen kind of guy, especially with regard to masturbation, but it’s undeniable how much more I enjoy it after a day or two of abstinance.

Me, an older white dude in decent shape, sitting naked with legs spread toward the camera, penis shiny with greasy lube and curving up in full erection from an unruly, full pubic hair bush. One hand is resting on my thigh while the other is digging into a jar of lube. Eyes are above the frame but I'm clearly smiling and feeling good.

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 04/02/2026

This was fun to wake up to this morning 🥰

Screenshot of my new follower count: 2,000

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 27/01/2026

#MCM lessons - I need to work on setting focus before I get too stupid to care

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 20/01/2026

Watch and learn, grasshopper. If you should encounter my erect penis at @raincityjacks.org tonight or any other night, this is how you masturbate me. Vary approach. Not too hard or fast. Attention paid to nipples, balls, taint. Lots of lube. Pay close attention to how it responds every moment.

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 07/01/2026

I’m feeling much better, thank you

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 25/12/2025

Of course. There’s a reason why porn’s a massive industry. And people do the same thing with wrestling. We want to believe so we do. It’s only human. I’m no better or worse than anyone else. I’m just noticing that we willingly suspend disbelief in the same way with both porn and pro wrestling.

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 08/09/2025

I say this on Mastodon too. Federated platforms thrive on engagement from everyday people. You don't have to reveal everything about yourself but I promise you: You will get so much more out of Bluesky if you just post a little more often.

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 26/08/2025

#MCM or full color these y-fronts are kinda worn

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 30/07/2025

We have a wonderful dog. He's super handsome, friendly, great with kids, elders, everybody. Loves other dogs. He's dumb as a rock and probably 80% deaf at 12 years old. He's a very good boy and when he's gone, we will miss him. And… I will NOT miss the smell. He's one seriously stinky dog.

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 27/07/2025

Here you go… Yes, these are averages built on estimates Yes, YOUR average is way over 1.89 minutes AND… Approximately 255 liters (67 gallons) of semen are being ejaculated at any given moment, worldwide Humanity is a ever-flowing river of cum flowing from millions of men every moment of every day

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 12/05/2025

@octoberjoe.bsky.social - I love discovering that you follow me! I’m a fan and proud owner of your beautiful work. #BuyArt #BuyEroticArt

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 23/03/2025

Saw Daddy Dearest—a 1984 porn classic from director Arthur J. Bressan Jr—in an art theater today. I loved the natural bodies and pubes, all the '80s mustaches and the entirely awful "acting." It was an utterly charming look back at pre-Internet hotness.

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 14/02/2025

Happy #FCF An atypically faceless pic today- I’m not shy. I’m just giving #penis center stage today. … and I know how my buddy @batespread.bsky.social appreciates an open jeans shot. 😛

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 08/02/2025

Yes, I used Photoshop to better reflect how I felt this morning. At least I didn’t use AI to create more slop. Zero AI here.

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 03/02/2025

This 3-option filter is on the @psychologytoday.com “find a therapist” page. Um… “LGBTQ+” includes lesbians and bisexuals. I’m gay, not “LGBTQ+.” This is a remarkably stupid, ill-considered option. The homogenized alphabet soup of inclusion always ends up excluding someone. We are not stew.

A screen shot of a Psychology Today filter for finding a therapist who works with sexual minorities. The three options are "bisexual," "lesbian," and "LGBTQ+."

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 28/01/2025

I post two kinds of porn: images of MYSELF and images of people who gave explicit permission to use their likenesses to help promote my jack-off club. I hold a photo shoots and do the creative direction. None of it is stolen porn. Please don’t recirculate stolen porn. BE the porn.

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Jack Daddy Paul @jackdaddypaul.me · 27/01/2025

2014 throwback to a photo shoot for a singing group I once inhabited. Not spicy enough for this alt account but too spicy for my main. Anyway… this is what I looked like 11 years ago.

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