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@ispecter.bsky.social
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Disabled, AuDHD. Trying to get by in life. (mostly he/him) Just a ghost of the person I could have been.

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ISpecter @ispecter.bsky.social · 03/10/2026
Ai is currently raising the minimum to gainful employment and the floor is still at zero. A lot more people will drown in the difference between those two lines.
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Chasbell 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿🇮🇪🇮🇹🇨🇦 @chasbell.bsky.social · 03/10/2026
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
our lives as disabled people are inherently political.
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ISpecter @ispecter.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
You have to use a sustainability analysis. You don't measure disability by PB values.
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ISpecter @ispecter.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
This. Know what you will do. I know what I will do because I know what I have done. The physical and social consequences I endured pale in comparison to the physical and psychological harms I prevented (to someone who was a stranger at the time).
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ISpecter @ispecter.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
The term was intentionally muddied by the AI propaganda. Not long ago, AI was just some form of algorithm. And a lot of things that are now marked as AI are still just that, but then there's the new AI built on theft, stealing our resources, and ruining our arts and culture that uses the same term
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ISpecter @ispecter.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
Yup, when whether we get to exist in public is part of the political agenda, our very existence is political. There's no choice
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ISpecter @ispecter.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
The only people asking to not make something "political" are the ones with the ability to ignore it. Just say you don't want to have to care about someone different than you.
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ISpecter @ispecter.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
A toddler mentality that got voted into the highest office, twice. Doesn't paint Americans in a very good light.
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ISpecter @ispecter.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
It's the behavior of hate looking for a target. The target of the day will do for those people. They'll tell you they have fully rational reasons for their hate, but it's simply a need to hate in search of a target
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ISpecter @ispecter.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
Normalize not defending that you're cis.
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ISpecter @ispecter.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
I like how he doesn't answer the accusation with a definitive trans or cis. He simply speaks about her using she/her because if he clarified which label would apply, it would be tacitly accepting that it matters when his whole point is that it doesn't matter.
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Anna Holmes @annabookwriter.bsky.social · 12/09/2026
It is unbelievably painful to watch people go to the mat for AI having feelings and deserving rights when they aren’t convinced disabled people are sentient and deserve dignity.
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Joseph Hewitt @gearheadrpg.com · 08/09/2026
This goes back way further than the current "AI" hype train, but I've often felt that the more "user friendly" they make a computer the harder it becomes to do anything with it.
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ISpecter @ispecter.bsky.social · 05/09/2026
Do I know any pansexual, genderflux, trans men, AFAB who can help me understand about my own child so I don't screw things up with them out of ignorance?
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ISpecter @ispecter.bsky.social · 04/09/2026
If I took this much time off, I might actually be counted in their unemployment number.
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ISpecter @ispecter.bsky.social · 01/09/2026
I sincerely hope that somehow a court case somewhere will rule that companies *must* provide the option to own. A game is not a service. Sure, access to the game host is a service, but the game is not. The game is a discrete product. I need to be given the option to keep the product I purchased.
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ISpecter @ispecter.bsky.social · 31/08/2026
Somehow that never worked!
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ISpecter @ispecter.bsky.social · 31/08/2026
The problem is more the scale comparison inherent in this use if "richest." Their wealth is hundreds of lifetimes worth of the people actually doing to work at these companies.
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ISpecter @ispecter.bsky.social · 31/08/2026
I learned to ask some version of, "What is the desired result here?" Instead of just following the instruction, but it took a lot of trial and error to find the script and tone that was accepted.
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ISpecter @ispecter.bsky.social · 26/08/2026
I realized the other day that my crippling fear of failure is also what kept me alive through a lot of things. Whatever it takes to keep going, but I really wish my life didn't have to leverage one issue to keep another at bay.
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ISpecter @ispecter.bsky.social · 26/08/2026
The AI trolley will use both tracks. The people it was told to prioritize are standing off to the side.
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ISpecter @ispecter.bsky.social · 17/08/2026
I really wish I has an answer for this question. Joy is found in hopeful expectations fulfilled
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ISpecter @ispecter.bsky.social · 15/08/2026
It is a problem, and one of our society's own making. The models that men have for interaction are competition with men and sex with women. Other types of interactions are deemed unmanly. Some men have actively pulled out of that paradigm (or been forced out by people around them), but most haven't.
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ISpecter @ispecter.bsky.social · 15/08/2026
Further disconnecting from other humans will not "solve male loneliness." Human connection, genuine psychological/emotional/mental connection, is the only solution for loneliness. We solve male loneliness when we stop teaching men that connection is weakness.
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ISpecter @ispecter.bsky.social · 14/08/2026
Hi, I'm lightning. Or maybe I should give myself multiple names since there are a lot of things that have caused doctors and first responders to remark I'm lucky to have survived.
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ISpecter @ispecter.bsky.social · 14/08/2026
My pcp at my last annual physical asked for consent to allow AI to take the notes. He then noted that people are less communicative with him when they give consent. It has made note-taking easier and made his ability to help people harder. But guess which one the hospital network cares about more.
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ISpecter @ispecter.bsky.social · 14/08/2026
May you have better luck than I did. No one will treat me anymore due to compounding issues they aren't "qualified to safely address."
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ISpecter @ispecter.bsky.social · 14/08/2026
I am very picky about the flavor of my water. I can't stand many tap waters or bottled waters. Certain mineral or chlorine content makes me sick to taste it. I mapped my city's treatment cycle based on the taste of the tap water.
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ISpecter @ispecter.bsky.social · 14/08/2026
That's why so many are unhappy in friendships and partnerships. Y'all keep an accounting, but you each value things differently. Their ledger has a very different value than yours for the same things!
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ISpecter @ispecter.bsky.social · 14/08/2026
Stop being transactional in your relationships! Relationships are interactive not transactional.
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ISpecter @ispecter.bsky.social · 06/08/2026
Very clean cover up! It looks great
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ISpecter @ispecter.bsky.social · 06/08/2026
It's still baked into their training along with racism. Because of the context of medical studies and training, it is not enough for a doctor to passively not be misogynistic or racist, they have to actively remove it from medical habits in order to make a difference.
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ISpecter @ispecter.bsky.social · 31/07/2026
I think I have that with hearing. I'll hear words in white noise.
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ISpecter @ispecter.bsky.social · 27/07/2026
It does. I've been out of work for a couple months now. At first it was needed. Now I just feel empty, and getting a job is very hard because my skillset is exactly what they're trying to replace with AI.
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ISpecter @ispecter.bsky.social · 26/07/2026
Right?! Or some new thing that I've never considered before. Can't ever rule out the one in a million possibility!
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Kelly @broadwaybabyto.bsky.social · 26/07/2026
When disability happens to you, you won’t be able to just “try harder”. The social supports you think magically appear? They won’t show up. The medical system will let you down. Friends & family will abandon you. You will realize disability advocates were right all along.
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ISpecter @ispecter.bsky.social · 26/07/2026
We get judged for "throwing a tantrum" and then we get judged that it doesn't go away when they "give in" and give us what we said we needed.
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ISpecter @ispecter.bsky.social · 26/07/2026
Me to myself a lot of the time: Good, now you've finally identified what you've been feeling for the last few days. Now it's time to identify the cause.
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ISpecter @ispecter.bsky.social · 26/07/2026
Our government, ostensibly elected by the people, has spent the last century removing the influence of the people upon that government.
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ISpecter @ispecter.bsky.social · 24/07/2026
The spoken aspirations of people, from the worker to the CEO, used to be, "retire early, travel, and leave something for the family." People earned money for how what they could do with it. Now the conversation is about the amount instead of it's function. A symptom of the problem.
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ISpecter @ispecter.bsky.social · 23/07/2026
When new (and risky) is accepted again.
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ISpecter @ispecter.bsky.social · 23/07/2026
It's an unbelievable nightmare of a time designed to prevent those who didn't start with generational wealth from ever securing it for their families.
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ISpecter @ispecter.bsky.social · 22/07/2026
Every gets to say no at any time. That also applies to consenting to contining a relationship. Relationships are interactive, and when done properly are a net benefit for all parties. If a relationship irrevocably stops being a net benefit, it is reasonable to end it.
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ISpecter @ispecter.bsky.social · 22/07/2026
There's also a difference that better consent education would teach. "Don't want to" is used for two different things. There's "I am opposed to it right now" vs "I wouldn't seek it but have no objection internally." Culture tries to convince people that the first is just the second being selfish.
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ISpecter @ispecter.bsky.social · 21/07/2026
I think some of it is that the community has been burned by so many people and companies that they can't believe you're genuinely part of the community and doing this in as much the right way as the world will permit you to.
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ISpecter @ispecter.bsky.social · 27/06/2026
I've got some new ones to add to my list. All the ones on your list that I've seen would be on my list, so I need to check out the ones I haven't seen if they belong with these.
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ISpecter @ispecter.bsky.social · 25/06/2026
Not bsky over here hiding this reply. I wonder if it thought the M A was offensive. I wonder why...
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ISpecter @ispecter.bsky.social · 24/06/2026
Not shutting up about disability accessiblities became part of my brand at my last job. I was known as the guy with the reference resources to help when someone needed accomodations. I like to think there are several people that I helped actually keep their jobs without burning out.
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ISpecter @ispecter.bsky.social · 23/06/2026
I've tried everything else
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