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@grrlintersect.bsky.social
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She/her fat black queer, disabled femme, leftist in my 30s, sometimes publicly slutty, sometimes publicly depressed. I talk about food and books a lot and I try to be kind.

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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 12h
I did, they are not as far as I can determine a professional reviewer, but also not someone I want to particularly associate with.
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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 12h
I am curious what you do with your Asian pairs, I like to eat them, but I usually don’t recipe them so, curious
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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 12h
Like the author had nothing to do with that description and I’m still gonna read it but honestly people, don’t be shitty to other books.
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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 12h
Saw someone describe a book as what grown-ups read after they are done with The Hobbit and you know what nothing has ever made me want to read a thing less
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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 13h
It is often enough that we should be warning vulnerable people to stay away from transphobes in the same ways and for the same reasons we warn women to stay away from Frats. Not all of them are predators, but enough of them are or are willing to overlook predation that they are unsafe as a group.
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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 13h
horrifying thing about this is how not new it is, when they were terfs still mostly using Feminist theory as a framework for bigotry there were multiple instances of the leadership of these groups committing sexual harassment and then pressuring victims to silence for the good of the movement.
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Jessica Price @delafina777.bsky.social · 17h
I’m realistic enough to know that we’re not going to fix the campus rape problem overnight, because patriarchy is multifaceted and cockroach-like in its survival abilities, but something I think we could get in place fast is a program for letting victims transfer without penalties.
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Courtney Tenz @courtneytenz.bsky.social · 17h
Another misunderstanding is that sexual violence can be ended through education. There is not a single evidence-based program for perpetrators that has reduced sexual violence. What schools call an educational intervention is making perpetrators sit down to read the sexual-misconduct policy and asking if they have any questions. It’s having them write an essay. None of these things work.
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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 13h
It’s so bright and pretty
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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 13h
They do have some things that look interesting, will have to check them out a bit more when book budget renews
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Alyssa Long @measuredandslow.bsky.social · 23h
Sexually harassing to own the trans is…I was going to say a unique approach but actually it’s a pretty mainstream approach because these people are WEIRD AS FUCK
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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 14h
At Best, you need to sit with the reality that the system is harmful even while you are doing your best in it. It is not my job or a choice I will make today to make you feel better about the power you are choosing to hold. At worst, hit dogs holler, the deepest and most sincere fuck you.
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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 14h
And just ftr, if you are now or have been a payee, this is not the place and time for you to come in with any level of defensiveness of yourself or the system, I do not want to hear it.
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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 14h
Criminal prosecution is what we do in this country, when you have a system that is set up to be easily Weaponized for abuse and then abuse happens and is reported and determined to be happening and you do not prosecute, that is a choice that pretty precisely clarifies your priorities.
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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 14h
How do I know all the talk about benefit fraud is just we would like to torture more poor and disabled people? easily 80% of the people I know who have ever had a representative payee have suffered financial abuse at the hands of their representative payee. Criminal charges are almost never sought.
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Mia V. Moss @magicrobotcarnival.com · 16h
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karanormal activity 💜 @deadontheoutside.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
aaron rodericks is grossly incompetent, negligent, ignorant, and dangerously transphobic for the safety of everyone on bluesky aaron rodericks needs to go there is no trust or safety while he exists on bluesky
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Seven Stories Press @sevenstories.bsky.social · 22h
Please don’t buy our books on Amazon. If you can’t afford to buy them from a real bookstore or from us directly, pirate them from Anna’s Archive like God intended.
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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 17h
Any company doing a Harry Potter Collab in 2026 is making a loudly pro hate choice, they did not somehow stumble their way into the transphobia party and if somehow they did then they are too incompetent to take your money and be trusted with it.
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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 17h
I have had these recommended to me by many people and I intended to try them and now I never will. this is also not me being shady to the people who have recommended them, but I know y’all might wanna know about this cause it’s shitty and disappointing
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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 18h
Look, I think a nap is the correct choice approximately 100% of the time
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Mia V. Moss @magicrobotcarnival.com · 19h
I have some Kindle ebook codes to share so let's do a giveaway! Reply to this post with your favorite fantastical creature OR a story of a questionable choice you once made and I'll DM you a gift book code (until I run out of codes)
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Candace Harper @foxglovefiction.com · 23h
In a world where many people would prefer we not exist, and many more just wish we weren't so obvious, queer romance and existence *is* resistance. One part of it anyway. If you want to read something that welcomes you, that are AI free, check out this promo - promos.foxgloveficti...
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Chace Verity @chaceverity.com · 18h
If you were having trouble buying from itch this morning, you should be able to purchase Radio Silence from there now!
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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 18h
I have read and loved quite a few of these and there are a few more I have been hoping to catch on sale at some point so this one is exciting. www.humblebundle.com/books/african-…
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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 18h
Exactly.
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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 06/10/2026
App spread dinner is the best dinner I say after eating spring rolls and mozzarella sticks and cucumber salad
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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 06/10/2026
I am so excited for both of you to have tasty foods
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ashley fairbanks @ziibiing.com · 06/10/2026
okay hear me out. we need more leftist challenge coins. just for fun.
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Richard Jensen @richardjensen.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
I live by one rule of manhood. Real men get back up. We have failed at stopping misogyny, from causing hate to spread, to stopping harm. Get the fuck back up fellow men. Stand up to rape culture, to racism, and to harassment of all kinds. Real men get back up.
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Mad Auntie Kristy @auntiekristy.bsky.social · 04/10/2026
Also reminder that Jesus went on to emphasize that if a man can't control himself he should cut off his own hands.
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Hillary Monahan @hillarymonahan.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
I know so many of you who need this.
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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
If the only time you as a man are speaking about sexual assault is when you are in the presence of non-men, and you are not speaking as a victim. I got a question why you need the audience, being one of the good guys is addressing the problem at its source.
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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
The place where men can, and should speak loudest about this, in the group chat with other men, at the game night with other men, in the places where women are not where y’all can start those uncomfortable conversations and get real clear that this shit is not acceptable
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Elise (they/them)🇦🇺 🏳️‍⚧️ @eliseswords.eurosky.social · 03/10/2026
Trans Authors, For Trans Awareness Month (exact dates Nov 1st-15th), I'm putting together a Trans SciFi & Fantasy Bundle. (Note: its best to submit a book you won't be using for my Trantasy & Queer Fantasy bundle, running Dec 20th -Jan something 😉) Sign up form: is on my discord or I can DM it!
Trans Fantasy & SciFi 
Itch Bundle
Nov 1-15th

Eligibility & Genre: 
The author is trans -including nonbinary- and the book is some form of Fantasy or Scifi.
Plot-central trans (and LGBTQIA+) themes are welcome, but not required.

Genre NOTE: I am hosting a Trantasy Bundle in Dec (20th-Jan 10th) for fantasy, so if you wish to participate in that too, please enter a different book in each bundle, if possible.

Preorders: Pre-orders are welcome, if your book releases within 5 weeks of the bundle's end date. Please state the release date in your Itch book description, so readers know when they can download your book.

Categories: YA and Adult Fiction, novellas and full length novels.
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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
Excuse me, I have a brat who needs a pair of these, she will insist that she is a battle sub, not a brat to which I say point proven.
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Stephen Graham Jones @stephengrahamjones.com · 04/10/2026
Whoah, cool: The Buffalo Hunter Hunter wins the High Plains International Book Award in Fiction." (highplainsbookawards.org/winners/)
cover of The Buffalo Hunter Hunter (buffalo head in profile against a beige kind of background), with the category "Fiction" above it, and the title and writer alongside ("Stephen Graham Jones").
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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 04/10/2026
I mean it is a scam reading should get to count as sleep also
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Campaign for Southern Equality @southernequality.bsky.social · 04/10/2026
We are excited to announce that the first ever print edition of The Lavender South will be released this October! Pick up your copy in person at our Asheville launch party featuring music from our friend Leeda Lyric Jones. Get your free ticket at the link: buff.ly/An1xY8E
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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 04/10/2026
Yeah, honestly, my response to that is often. Sorry not sorry you have discovered you are not funny. And have been coasting on discomfort laughter for a long time.
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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 04/10/2026
Like I do not think that’s all of it but I wonder if that is part of the pressure of making everyone get along or needing to make someone else bad for not cooperating so you are not bad for saying I only have this much time and you are not gonna get as much of it as you or we both might want.
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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 04/10/2026
This is especially weird in parasocial relationships but I also see it outside that and I wonder how much is an outgrowth of people having less time for socializing because money and wanting to smash people together because they’re panicking about having to choose relationships for time commitment.
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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 04/10/2026
I loved this, even though there were moments where I was very, very worried about the Littles, but everything was OK just so you know
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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 04/10/2026
This is both a delightful, love story and also an exploration of how societies that need to change actually get there and I recommend it highly
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Candace Harper @foxglovefiction.com · 04/10/2026
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Candace Harper @foxglovefiction.com · 04/10/2026
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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 04/10/2026
Yep, this is what I do if I don’t have access to Costco, the Costco frozen blueberries are at least able to stay separated usually though I think they picked them a bit underripe.
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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 04/10/2026
Happy to help, I’ve found that frozen blueberries can sometimes be hit or miss but blackberries and raspberries have been consistently pretty good for things where I’m not needing the texture of fresh.
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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 04/10/2026
If you’re making a sauce and texture isn’t a concern, I have had consistently good results with frozen raspberries if the fresh are not looking great, and you have access but regardless, I hope you’re able to find what you need
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