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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 09/10/2026

I have news and y’all for one time in a very long time it is a good kind, today was moving day, I have less than zero dollars, but I am in my new place.

This is a picture of me, a fat light skinned, black woman in a multicolored rose pattern, one piece swimsuit, standing in front of a pool at night. This is not a picture of the new place. I am incoherent levels of tired. I will show you all those later. But it was a time of happiness and peace.

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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 14/12/2025

CN: food Update, now it’s chicken stew. And came out OK actually. Also, this place smells like spices and good things.

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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 14/12/2025

CN: food it’s not stewed chicken yet because I’ve gotta add chicken, but it will be, also good morning.

A pot filled with carrots sliced potatoes, onion, and bell pepper, sprinkled with seasoning

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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 11/05/2025

Today is Tif’s birthday and I think they deserve to start this year with mountains of support. If you can help a genuinely sweet person greet the upcoming year in comfort. Venmo: @APoeticArtist

Flyer with a floral background and image of a Black Non-Binary person smiling and looking at the camera, in front of a blue tapestry.

Flyer text: "Help Tiff Afford Groceries on their Birthday Month!

Tiff (@poeticoldsoul) is Black, Disabled, Chronically Ill, Queer, Non-Binary, AuDHD, Homebound, and Bay Area born + raised.

They live on a fixed low income and have to fundraise monthly for ~$450 grocery and household expenses.

Right now $130+ is needed for the month of May! May is Tiff's Birthday month so give generously!

Venmo: @APoeticArtist

Use emojis ONLY for note" End ID.

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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 20/04/2025

Having a stable place to rest means so much and being able to recover if you are able to help. Donate or re-share if you can. Re shareable IG post: www.instagram.com/p/DIpHUsxTPPJ

text post with blue and pink floral background. Picture of masked Filipinx person in brown coat is at the bottom the the image. Text reads:

Mutual Aid Request. I am a disabled queer and trans filipinx person requesting mutual aid to help me attain secure housing and avoid homelessness.

I lost my housing in March due to an extreme mold issue that rendered my apartment uninhabitable. inclement weather and lack of building maintenance by the landlord exacerbated the issue to the point that my roommate and I became very ill. In the end, the only solution available was to end our lease immediately and find emergency housing elsewhere.

I am now temporarily staying with a fellow under resourced friend across the country, and recovering from the heavy physical and mental toll of the move. I am over halfway to my goal, which will help me get back up on my feet, secure housing, and afford immediate needs like food, house supplies, and utility costs. Please consider donating if you have the resources, and if not, sharing this post helps too!

bottom text box reads: please screenshot, share, and donate if you can! Goal: $2664/$5000. v3nmo: @ka_bangbang. P@ypal: kabangbang. Zelle: DM me.,

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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 13/04/2025

💸💕 3/4 to the goal. Anything helps, tysm! it really does mean so so much. Cashapp + Venmo: @Grrlintersect Paypal: @Dgrrl39 Please re-share!"

ID: flyer with a photo of D standing in a leopard print dress and smiling in the upper right corner.

Flyer text: "Mutual aid needed
Update - $1418/2000 raised! $582 still needed

D (@grrlintersect.bsky.social) is an unhoused, fat Black, queer, blind, and chronically ill SW. She is part of Mask-erade and the COVID conscious community in the Bay Area and Florida.

D is struggling to pay for her basic needs. She is bouncing between staying with friends and hotels to survive, while waiting for accessible public housing. Her situation is not sustainable.

We are trying to raise at least $2000 in survival funds for D. Any donations big or small are appreciated. Thank you community!

Cashapp + Venmo: @Grrlintersect
Paypal: @Dgrrl39
Please re-share!"

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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 06/04/2025

💕💸 Just a bit over halfway there, and honestly, it means more than I have words for. Cash app and Venmo are @grrlintersect PayPal dgrrl39

Flyer with an orange and pink background. It shows an image of D in the top right corner wearing a leopard print dress and standing outside smiling.

Flyer text: "Mutual Aid Needed!

Update - almost halfway to the goal!

D (@grrlintersect.bsky.social) is unhoused and struggling to pay for her basic needs.

She is part of the COVID conscious community in the Bay Area and Florida.

D is a fat Black, queer, blind, and chronically ill SW. We're raising $2000 to help her with survival and stability.

Our last post made good progress and raised $848/2000. This is our next push to keep going; if can, please send some funds to help! $1152 is still needed. Thank you community!

Cashapp + Venmo: @Grrlintersect

Paypal: @Dgrrl39

Please re-share!".

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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 30/03/2025

I’m a little more than 25% of the way to meeting this goal and just, it’s been a really really long two years. Cash app & Venmo: @grrlintersect PayPal: @dgrrl39

The flyer has a light blue background. There's a yellow and pink box as the header that says "Mutual aid needed." A photo of D standing outside in a leopard print dress is at the top right in a circular frame.

The main body of the flyer is a light gray box, emphasized with a dark blue shadow behind it. The text says:

"D (@grrlintersect.bsky.social) is an unhoused, fat Black, queer, blind, and chronically ill SW. She is part of the COVID conscious community in the Bay Area and Florida.

D is struggling to pay for her basic needs. She is bouncing between staying with friends and hotels to survive, while waiting for accessible public housing. Her situation is not sustainable.

We are trying to raise at least $2000 in survival funds for D. Any donations big or small are appreciated. Thank you community!"

In the lower left corner, a yellow and pink box with a dollar symbol lists Cashapp and Venmo: @grrlintersect and PayPal: @dgrrl39

On the bottom right corner, another box says "Please re share" with an arrow next to it.

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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 25/03/2025

$MutualAidRequest Help make this move s smooth as possible if you can.

with a pink patterned background and a picture of Dolly lying on a bed wearing a black top, red lipstick, and gold earrings, looking at the camera.
Flyer text: "Funds needed!

Dolly (@the_dollyrose) needs $1000 by April 1st to pay for moving expenses.

She secured a new apartment but is too disabled to move without hiring movers, and has no extra money.

Dolly does so much to build community for queer, trans, Black, and BIPOC kinksters. Including co-organizing Tituba's revenge, which is the only mask required, QTBIPOC play party in the bay area.

Let's help her out in her moment of need!

Thanks so much community!

Cashapp: $TheDolly Rose
PayPal: @The Dolly Rose

Please re-share!"

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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 08/03/2025

I mean some of us think of fighting as just a flirting escalation really.

Single or not put this on your timeline and whoever hearts it. wants to fight you in the Home Depot parking lot..

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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 20/01/2025

Cn: food The kitchen is a mess and likely will remain a mess, but there is fruit crisp, I am saying that this is winning today is all.

A fruit crisp in its pan cooling on top of the stove, you can see peaches and strawberries, peeking out from under the top layer.

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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 10/12/2024

This place definitely needs a photo box, but you should be able to see the handle here.

Teacup with vertical lines on a glass table in front of a black backpack. Delicate curved handle of the mug is visible.

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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 10/12/2024

People of blue sky I come to you with a problem, girl is down to just one of her favorite tea cups, and where she got them is lost to history, if any of you recognize this, I would appreciate identification #SignalBoost

View of a white teacup with textured vertical lines from the side.

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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 20/11/2024

My brain/body is currently at war with me, so let’s distract ourselves

get to know me: 1 like 1 answer
1. favorite scent
2. something you collect
3. dream date/romantic fantasy
4. favorite mythical creature
5. fun fact about yourself
6. fun fact not about yourself
7. an unforgettable experience you've had
8. your mundane superpower
9. dumbest way you've been injured
10. deep sea vs. deep space
11. love language(s)
12. tattoos/piercings/body modifications
13. a food you're good at cooking
14. song/album you love right now
15. something very stupid that you've done

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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 18/09/2024

Bluesky now has over 10 million users, and I was #87,456!

An image showing that I am one of the first 10% of users.

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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 16/08/2024

the skyline can have a little cleavage as a treat.

I am a fat mixed race femme with long curly dark hair standing against a wooden door wearing a black dress with a very deep neckline that exposes a portion of the tops of my breasts and a large blue and white pendant. I am looking up and slightly away from the camera with a relaxed expression.

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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 27/07/2024

I was supposed to have keys and be settling into my new place, but because rental companies are evil, I am not, trying to get some groceries and also afford another week in this hotel room instead, anything helps: Cash app $grrlintersect Venmo @Grrlintersect

I am a dark haired light skinned, fat black woman sitting at an outdoor patio table, I am smiling and wearing a black dress and pearl necklace with a print cocktail menu in front of me. They always give me a print menu, I never understand why.

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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 26/07/2024

I hope you humans have some good words for me

Screenshot of pink all caps text on black background. Text reads:
“Put this on your page and let everyone describe you in one word”

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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 18/07/2024

This is from the best day, a day when we made duck friends.

A group of ducks walking across a paved pathway.

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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 13/07/2024

It’s Sex worker Saturday and you should support this particular sad but hot sex worker so I can have tacos and also maybe Jaritos. Cash app $Grrlintersect Venmo a@Grrlintersect

I am a fat light skinned femme in a rose patterned bathing suit. It is evening and I am smiling and holding onto a poolside railing.,

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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 12/07/2024

I was just recently thinking about this day. Also, happy Friday. I will not confirm whether anyone was chased inside after this picture was taken.

I’m a fat femme with dark curly hair, wearing a sleeveless leopard print dress and a necklace with a large pendant. I am holding a black leather paddle with a decorative pattern of blue and green aluminum scales. I am smiling and looking slightly upwards. The background is a parking lot, a wooden fence, a scattering of trees and bushes.

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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 12/07/2024

So I have heard that it is fat femme Friday and I just love this bathing suit so you know, you are welcome

D is standing outdoors. She is a fat woman who has dark curly hair, is light skinned and is wearing a colorful swimsuit with a swirl pattern that includes shades of blue, green, yellow, pink, purple and red. she has a confident expression. In the background is a multi-story building with many windows, and a white railing behind. Everything is lit by afternoon sun.

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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 12/07/2024

I think that the white liberal dudes found me on Mastodon and sir, today is not the day.

Mastodon Post from Steve Sawczyn

@SteveSawczyn@mspsocial replying to
@Grrlintersect I think people are starting to get
really tired of hearing it over and over and over
though and I often wonder if that's making it
worse. Overheard in a recent D&I presentation,
"I'm trying to learn, trying to do better, but tired
of feeling guilty."

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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 11/07/2024

Y’all it’s the transmisogyny not polyamory being less stigmatized. Is there a specific way that fetishization shows up in Sex positivity focused non-monogamous spaces, yes, there is. But the root of that fetishization was baked into our culture before these spaces gained greater public acceptance.

Tweet saying poly is chill i love my poly friends but as a result of
poly normalization and proliferation every trans
woman who loves women gets viewed in "queer
spaces" as a piece of meat
11:53 • 7/10/24 From Earth • 1.2K Views
4 Reposts 2 Quotes 49 Likes 2 Bookmarks

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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 21/09/2023

Pool and jacuzzi time last night. Took one of my new Nerdy Keppi suits out into the world and the smoke.

I am a fat light-skinned black femme standing by a swimming pool in the evening. I am wearing a one-piece swimsuit with a pink purple orange green and blue roses pattern. I am holding onto a metal railing with one hand and have one foot on the edge of the pool,looking upwards with a happy expression. Behind, there are tall buildings with balconies and lit windows. There are also lounge chairs and a metal fence. The lighting is warm though not bright, the pool is calm and reflects the lights.

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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 20/08/2023

#Nfb has said a lot about making plans to keep people safer in Orlando, I’m guessing that translates to telling you which bathrooms close to the airport you might be able to use without getting arrested. Sign here: tiny.cc/NFBLGBTQOpenLetter

A long white straight cane for the blind is overlaid on an image of the Progress Pride Flag originally created by Daniel Quasar, which has a triangle on the left side with stripes in white, pink, baby blue, black, and brown. Adjacent to the triangle, the original six-color rainbow is displayed in order: red, orange, yellow, green, blue, and purple. Graphic designed by Murdock Storm. Find him on Instagram @startedsailing / @startedraining.

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D is tired, but there is coffee @grrlintersect.bsky.social · 14/07/2023

We should definitely go back to guillotining billionaires.

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