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Esmé Weijun Wang @esmewang.com · 08/07/2025

thank you so much ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

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Kate Sloan (she/her) @katesloan.com · 19/06/2025

"[Writer's block is] the internal critic gone haywire, the imposter syndrome that whispers you're not good enough, smart enough, or talented enough to tell this story." www.reasonsforliving.co/p/when-the-t... (@esmewang.com with some brilliant wisdom on writing, as ever)

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When the Thread Breaks

Navigating the Difference Between Writer's Block and Brain Fog

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TRossi (she/her) @trossiwriter.bsky.social · 08/05/2025

I’ve found @esmewang.com’s free guides helpful and generative. This class could help get your memoir started!

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Because I couldn’t message you—

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A really interesting (& brutal) piece about the commodification of Black identity in the art market in 2020-2022, & the opportunists who inflated art prices, only to devalue the same Black artists later

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Esmé Weijun Wang | Memoir Writing & Personal Nonfiction

I’m teaching a new (& free!) class called Shape Your Story: How to Create a Full-Length Memoir with Confidence next week—It’s esp good for people who’ve written short pieces, such as blogs or Substack posts, & want to write memoir. Live class, but recording available: esmewang.com/shape-your-story

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Explore Esmé Weijun Wang’s memoir writing courses, The Collected Schizophrenias, The Border of Paradise, personal essays, and living well with chronic illness.

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This is so helpful! Thank you—if it’s not TOO heavy, I think we could manage it. Much gratitude to you for this generous advice ❤️

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I have POTS and did not know about coat hanger pain, but I think I have it! Is it possible to only have it in the neck and one shoulder/arm?

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Good to know! Thank you. Copyeditors are my heroes.

shauna @goldengateblond.bsky.social · 07/05/2025

Hi Dorothy!!! I love you and your books!!!!!!!!

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eight years ago today we all watched the glory of zendaya falling madly in love with tom holland and the internet was never the same

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Well, it all started with the employees of a restaurant called SUR, which stands for Sexy Unique Restaurant… (And yes, this is true.)

My husband (who has a handicapped spot placard) certainly got a kick out of it.

Thank you for this wisdom! Can I somehow download your knowledge into my brain? I will trade you for a LOT of knowledge about the storylines and characters of Vanderpump Rules

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Oh hi, Matt! Glad to have you join the discussion!

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I feel like yesterday that video was EVERYWHERE. People I know who have zero interest in disability issues were sharing it in their bro Discord chats.

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I could definitely be persuaded to remove it! Out of curiosity, for these kinds of sentences—how do you make the judgment call when your “mental ear” hears it a certain way?

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You’ll know more hopefully in not TOO too long ❤️

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Oh my gosh, what a fun response! Thank you so much; I’ll jot that term down in my notes. I could be persuaded that I use it too much, and there are certainly times when I could reconfigure the sentence to avoid the issue. (& thank you so much, dear friend, for the kind word about the sentence.)

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“It didn’t help that Cyprian’s youth had also conjured a grotesque jump-rope rhyme, which shocked Sabina anew when she heard it in the carpeted hallways of the Asters or on the playground in the Santa Marias’ K-8 school." I would rather put a comma before "or on the playground."

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(And yes, I did look up the answer, but I’m curious to know if what I found holds true in the minds of people who work primarily with literature.)

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My husband had a really strong grammatical education (taught by the Jesuits, after all), and I often feel very in the weeds about such things.

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Slumberland Records @slumberlandrecords.com · 07/05/2025

A dorky question (and tailored-made, I think, for @bcdreyer.social): I often want to put a comma after an independent clause even if the clause that comes after it is a dependent one—because I hear it in my head as having a pause. What’s the rule there? What’s best practice w/literary fiction?

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SO much good stuff out now and coming up, give our SLR NOW playlist on BNDCMPR a spin and bookmark it for frequent updates! bndcmpr.co/012f6f44

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It’s for me—a chair to have someone push when I’m feeling weak or too fatigued

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I use a fountain pen, but I think it has less to do with the pen/ink and more to do with having learned over the years to hold my hand in a way that doesn’t smear easily—good luck!!!

❤️❤️so grateful thank you!!!!

Hi friend!!!!! I’ve missed you!