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Emilia

@emiliagb.bsky.social
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Just a gay, middle aged trans girl. She/her Also a software engineer, an avid reader, and a woman of rapidly shifting hyperfocus.

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Emilia @emiliagb.bsky.social · 18h
Mine listens to me ramble and cry and basically does two things: 1. Ask the occasional really pointed question, generally over something I'm refusing to think about. 2. Tell me stuff like "how you were treated was wrong. You should be upset. That was fucked up, and you didn't deserve it"
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Emilia @emiliagb.bsky.social · 15/10/2026
I vaguely recall that either 3.0 or 3.5 would allow abuse the greater cleave feat to go FTL. Because with greater cleave after killing something with cleave, you could take a five foot step and cleave again. So you just needed enough chickens in a line, five feet apart....
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Emilia @emiliagb.bsky.social · 15/10/2026
Congrats from someone who still has 8 more months before that magic one year. (at least I'm down to 2x a day...)
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Emilia @emiliagb.bsky.social · 14/10/2026
Her makeup coloring is all wrong. All just off enough to look bad. It's like she got color matched by someone who hated her.
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Emilia @emiliagb.bsky.social · 12/10/2026
Like I'd go to anyone but the experts :)
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Emilia @emiliagb.bsky.social · 12/10/2026
Damn. Just.... Damn. The only reason I'm not seriously contemplating further self improvement is I'm still recovering from a massive updating of my metaphorical kitchen.
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Big Dracula Energy @mayawest.online · 07/10/2026
Stream Paramore 🫶
Williams, 37, then unleashed her response to the DHS’ statement in an Instagram Story post Monday: “And may I suggest all Nazi bitches suck on my fat d***.”
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Emilia @emiliagb.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
That's her feelings. :) mine were a joful "squeeeeee" with a lot of hand flapping and some bouncing and the sort of happy grin that makes your cheeks hurt. I like seeing people happy and in love. It makes the whole world brighter.
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Emilia @emiliagb.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
Allow me to sum up my feelings here:
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Pinkie Pie Internal Squeeing
Alt: Pinkie Pie Internal Squeeing
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Emilia @emiliagb.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
Let me rework Londo's line here - - "ah, but in crimson you're stunning!"
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Emilia @emiliagb.bsky.social · 04/10/2026
That look lives forever in my soul. Also I have got to find a Ren fair me me now.
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Anna Holmes @annabookwriter.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
There’s a behavioral dog rescue in NC called STAB that does absolutely hilarious dog bios. After posting “Two Mommy Tommy”, a dog looking for lesbians because he despises men, men have been bombarding their FB page and escalated to doxxing and threats to family. Men: validating Tommy forever
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Emilia @emiliagb.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
Lots of people go on good vacations. How many people randomly discover they're apparently great at adjusting precision clockwork?
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Emilia @emiliagb.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
Piano and cello are on my list. I at least have a head start - - several years playing a wind instrument in school, so I can at least read sheet music even if bass cleff is an unexplored mystery.
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Emilia @emiliagb.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
I can tell you this - - this stuff doesn't just happen at Cornell. It doesn't get swept under the rug at just Cornell. It's every university and college. It's worst at those with frat systems, but it's all of them. All to protect the reputation of the institution and the men involved.
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Emilia @emiliagb.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
I do, but the problem is that I don't think it's possible to equal, much less surpass his 2008-2011 ones. Those years just hit so hard.
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Blue Oleta @blue-oleta.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
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Xela Hart @xelahart.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
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Emilia @emiliagb.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
I absolutely appreciate all of this so much.
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Emilia @emiliagb.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
Oh thanks!!
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Emilia @emiliagb.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
I'm trying to work from body shape. I'm slightly hourglass but not a ton, I'm tall but not lean (I'm working on that!) and I want the result to be "woman in a suit" rather than androgyny.
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Emilia @emiliagb.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
I'd love to be able to afford bespoke, but I'd have to make do with altered off the rack. The problem is figuring out how to flatter my body shape and keep the resulting look feminine. Sigouney Weaver and that suit photoshoot, but with hair down and femme makeup is closer.
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Emilia @emiliagb.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
Just the person I need. I'm tall and I'm pretty sure I could rock thinks like a suit, but I do want to highlight my femininity. Kind of soft masc and dark academia. Evie in a suit in the 1999 Mummy. But I'm a lesbian, so I need it to be super gay without crossing into butch. Any advice?
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Emilia @emiliagb.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
I love this for you so much.
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Emilia @emiliagb.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
I can think of at least two friends who would use that like for anything from an ear infection to a colonscopy to being stabbed so... I have weird friends. Wonderful, but weird.
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Emilia @emiliagb.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
Congrats. :) unless I'm badly misreading that.
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Emilia @emiliagb.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
Weirdly progesterone seemed to revere the premature graying I've had since I was like 18. And now I'm waiting to see if I get a post surgical shed (my minoxidil shed ended right before surgery...)
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Emilia @emiliagb.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
I saw a little on my face and body, but really not much. Every after I no longer needed spiro. (and God, I'm so happy to not need to constantly pee). I might pay for a laser session or two on my arms and hands. My face was through Milan so it's fee now, and I'm already doing electro for the white
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Emilia @emiliagb.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
People took that seriously? I thought it was crackfic in the usual "what if you science magic" vein, you know like those Sprague Dr Camp/Pratt stories from the 40s. Only fanfic. What the hell. I knew about the stupid Basilsk though. Let's reinvent Pascals Wager but even dumber
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Emilia @emiliagb.bsky.social · 15/09/2026
I'm hoping they break out. And I'm hoping I can see them live in November...
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Emilia @emiliagb.bsky.social · 15/09/2026
Late to this, but I really like Honey Revenge. Their stuff is goood
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Robin SPOOKS! @assumptionprime.bsky.social · 11/09/2026
I can just have a dumb idea and a week later have a bunch of stickers of it and this is dangerous power for me to have
a sticker I made that says "create more yuri" in lesbian flag colors followed by "trans your boyfriend" in trans flag colors
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Amanda Wong @amandawtwong.bsky.social · 08/09/2026
No, babe, I NEED the $200 Le Creuset Star Trek shuttlecraft casserole dish for my banana bread.
Le Creuset Star Trek shuttlecraft casserole dish
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miss fern (scarier) 🏳️‍⚧️🎃 @miss-fern.bsky.social · 01/09/2026
[getting into an argument with another trans woman] okay yeah well my dad could repress harder than your dad
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Emilia @emiliagb.bsky.social · 06/09/2026
By and large, all the lesbians I know are quite gruntled. Well, unless they're around a bigot. So I guess Riley Gaines has only met the disgruntled kind.
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Emilia @emiliagb.bsky.social · 06/09/2026
I've yet to meet a transphobe who was only bigoted against trans people. In fact, transphobes tend to collect bigotries in a manic and obsessed way. So at a guess? She's homophobic too, and views lesbians as 'failed women' who became lesbians because they couldn't 'get a man'.
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Emilia @emiliagb.bsky.social · 06/09/2026
I wore a dress I never thought I'd ever wear out of the house - - incredibly low cut, slit up the thighs to nearly my waist, fishnets and Mary Jane flats (I wanted to dance!). Purple lips and smokey eyes and wild hair and glitter on my face and décolletage. I looked like fire and felt it.
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Emilia @emiliagb.bsky.social · 06/09/2026
Went to sapphic night at a gay bar this weekend. It was amazing. The DJ was another trans woman and she was on fire, and I danced my heart out surrounded by other queer women doing the same. I'd never felt so free and open, shout singing the words to songs on a floor full of women doing the same.
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Emilia @emiliagb.bsky.social · 26/08/2026
Huh, I didn't know you lived in Illinois! I moved here last year and it's quite an improvement over Texas. Also much closer to the kiddo and grand-kiddo.
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Lazysnout 🔞 @lazysnout.bsky.social · 16/07/2026
One must imagine Sisyphus happy; perhaps transitioned into a puppy girl so she can get excited chasing after the big ball after it rolls down the hill
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Emilia @emiliagb.bsky.social · 09/07/2026
Yup. Yup yup yup. A lot.
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Emilia @emiliagb.bsky.social · 08/07/2026
Congrats!!
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Emilia @emiliagb.bsky.social · 03/07/2026
Genuine mystery. Have you asked Nancy Drew?
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Emilia @emiliagb.bsky.social · 01/07/2026
That gown though... Fuck yes.
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Emilia @emiliagb.bsky.social · 27/06/2026
Oh sure if you're going to be all clever... :)
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Emilia @emiliagb.bsky.social · 27/06/2026
Incredibly impressive. I was going to ask where you got those body stickers...
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Emilia @emiliagb.bsky.social · 27/06/2026
Yes it is. I've found kissing girls is generally always good advice.
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Emilia @emiliagb.bsky.social · 27/06/2026
Me too. So achingly gay. I'm gonna go be useless now.
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⚡⚡MAD DOCTOR IMPOSSIBLE⚡⚡ @impossiblephd.bsky.social · 24/06/2026
My coauthor @jamiegeeksout.bsky.social and I are BEYOND excited to announce DREAMING OURSELVES INTO BEING: THE RHETORIC OF TRANS COMICS, through @bloomsburyacademic.bsky.social, & featuring cover art from the absolutely amazing @assumptionprime.bsky.social out on February 4th! tinyurl.com/5u2fadxd
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Dreaming Ourselves into Being
Examining the works of ten different transgender comic creators, including Julia Kaye, Mae Dean, and N.D. Stevenson, Zoe Wendler and Jamie Garner show the vital…
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Emilia @emiliagb.bsky.social · 23/06/2026
I've not managed to make one in the three years I've been out. Something truly urgent always conflicted. Next year I'm making it for certain
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