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Gillian Fagan, AcoraTherapy

@acoratherapy.bsky.social
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Psychotherapist, Trainer, ND, LGBTQ+ & Kink Affirmative. Queer neurodivergent overwhelmed older parent. Anti-Oppression Always. Writing a book… ADHD style… #AuDHD #Dyspraxic #speirgorm

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Gillian Fagan, AcoraTherapy @acoratherapy.bsky.social · 21/09/2026
It works! I finally have my Spotify back. Feels weird not having Super Simple Songs and Steve & Maggie coming up in recommended… www.thejournal.ie/spotify-wrap...
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A new Spotify setting finally stops your kids’ music taking over your Wrapped and recommendations
The setting was introduced by Spotify last week.
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Gillian Fagan, AcoraTherapy @acoratherapy.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
I made a surf and turf ramen tonight and it was so good!
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Gillian Fagan, AcoraTherapy @acoratherapy.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
As an ADHDer I sometimes get bored with clothes and pass them on… only to find myself a year or 5 later buying almost the same thing! Lesson learned, things need to go into a pending place for me to revisit before saying a final goodbye.
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Gillian Fagan, AcoraTherapy @acoratherapy.bsky.social · 09/09/2026
Haha sometimes I totally forgot I’m writing a book until I look at my BlueSky bio! Fuck ADHD I’ve written 12,000+ words since Friday but it was for assignments. I need to redirect the flow state!
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Gillian Fagan, AcoraTherapy @acoratherapy.bsky.social · 09/09/2026
Shout out to all parents who are having a tough week as their children struggle with the return to school. The novelty of new school bags wearing off, night terrors creeping in, tired and cranky, a new routine & many of them separated from friends.
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Gillian Fagan, AcoraTherapy @acoratherapy.bsky.social · 08/09/2026
My nephew vomited on my shoes on Saturday. While they’re washed and fully dried (twice) it really brought home that autistic thing of there really only being one pair of shoes… despite owning many.
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Gillian Fagan, AcoraTherapy @acoratherapy.bsky.social · 07/09/2026
Pretty ableist if you ask me…
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Gillian Fagan, AcoraTherapy @acoratherapy.bsky.social · 26/08/2026
I love my work! My day is so rich, varied, sad, funny, complex and human. When I think of the misery I lived doing an office job. So grateful to that part of me that got sense in 2013 and changed careers!
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Gillian Fagan, AcoraTherapy @acoratherapy.bsky.social · 26/08/2026
In a shop yesterday my child is dawdling along. Several high vis jackets behind us in the queue, clearly on lunch, getting a little impatient. “Pick up the pace love” I say to him. “What pace? Where?” He says looking at the ground. Whole shop erupted with laughter & he got a free lollipop. ❤️
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Gillian Fagan, AcoraTherapy @acoratherapy.bsky.social · 19/08/2026
Hand on heart I don’t think I ever really knew how to “do supervision” until this training I’m currently doing to be a supervisor. How come in all of my years as a therapist I was never guided through how to make the most of supervision?
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Gillian Fagan, AcoraTherapy @acoratherapy.bsky.social · 19/08/2026
How many of you self employed people haven’t even started their taxes for last year yet. Someone reminded me today we’ve got about 2 months for the Irish deadline. Every year! #Speirgorm #selfemployed
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Gillian Fagan, AcoraTherapy @acoratherapy.bsky.social · 19/08/2026
Me: We need to get you a schoolbag this weekend Him: no mammy. I’m not going to school. I already know everything. He’s 3 and a half! And by school I mean preschool/ ECCE
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Gillian Fagan, AcoraTherapy @acoratherapy.bsky.social · 17/08/2026
Here I go back to college again!
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Gillian Fagan, AcoraTherapy @acoratherapy.bsky.social · 07/07/2026
Doctors with opinions that have nothing to do with science and everything to do with misogyny are dangerous damaging people. What a harmful, misinformed article. The women who are finally finding answers after decades of internalizing that they’re the problem are not “deluded”.
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Gillian Fagan, AcoraTherapy @acoratherapy.bsky.social · 03/07/2026
Started watching Severance…
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Gillian Fagan, AcoraTherapy @acoratherapy.bsky.social · 03/07/2026
I have to say I hate when I have an appointment for something and I’m still in the waiting room a half hour later.
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Gillian Fagan, AcoraTherapy @acoratherapy.bsky.social · 29/06/2026
And still a long way to go given the comments we’re still hearing.
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Hapexamandios - Ian C @hapexamandios.bsky.social · 22/06/2026
It's called rape. Nobody 'had sex' with anyone. And then a suspended sentence? After producing child sex abuse materials as well? Sickening. www.thejournal.ie/limerick-man...
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Young man who had sex with 14-year-old girl and filmed her given suspended sentence
The Limerick man, who was aged 18 at the time of the offences, pleaded guilty of three counts of defilement and one count of producing child pornography.
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Gillian Fagan, AcoraTherapy @acoratherapy.bsky.social · 29/06/2026
Me moving through time as an adult. It’s already July this week!
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Alice Falling in Wonderland
ALT: Alice Falling in Wonderland
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Gillian Fagan, AcoraTherapy @acoratherapy.bsky.social · 27/06/2026
Very happy Pride to my fellow queers.
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Gillian Fagan, AcoraTherapy @acoratherapy.bsky.social · 25/06/2026
1 year of preschool done, 1 year to go. Now to navigate the summer as a self employed therapist!
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Gillian Fagan, AcoraTherapy @acoratherapy.bsky.social · 24/06/2026
And that’s that. I don’t have to pack a lunch again for school til 27th August.
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Gillian Fagan, AcoraTherapy @acoratherapy.bsky.social · 19/06/2026
Meanwhile ours are going up. Go Ireland! Solar panels feel like another Boots Theory example: spend money to save money. Which is great if you have the money to spend…
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Gillian Fagan, AcoraTherapy @acoratherapy.bsky.social · 18/06/2026
This morning my son said “no mammy I can’t bring that dinosaur to school…it’s pink” And? “Pink is for girls” My heart broke a little. He’s 3 & he definitely isn’t getting any of this gender crap at home. It starts that young? 💔
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Abortion Rights Campaign @freesafelegal.bsky.social · 17/06/2026
"3 day wait abolition passed 86/70” with the ARC logo in the bottom right hand corner, against a background of diamonds in different shades of purple, yellow and teal
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Chronic Illness Humor @chronicillness.bsky.social · 17/06/2026
"Imagine what it would have been like if a doctor had recognized your symptoms and put them together earlier in life"
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Gillian Fagan, AcoraTherapy @acoratherapy.bsky.social · 16/06/2026
My son is just 3. We’re a week off his first ‘school’ summer holidays. It’s mad how much juggling this means for someone self employed! Childcare solutions are few and far between here. To the parents in a similar boat with no village & zero family support, I see you (I am you) 👋
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Hapexamandios - Ian C @hapexamandios.bsky.social · 10/06/2026
Lads on twitter talking about how immigrants are going to 'take are jabs' (typos deliberate) while the owner of the CSAM generator is promoting AI and driverless vehicles. The lack of self awareness is off the charts.
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Gillian Fagan, AcoraTherapy @acoratherapy.bsky.social · 16/06/2026
Nothing like a shit night’s sleep. It’s going to be one of those days.
Therapist doing online therapy with a screen behind them. It looks like they’ve got their shit together but behind the screen is messy chaos. Just a day in a therapists world.
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End Deportations Belfast @enddbelfast.bsky.social · 13/06/2026
Absolutely huge crowds in Belfast to reject the far-right, paramilitarism, racism and border violence. A loud message to the politicians who pandered to violent paramilitary groups this week
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Gillian Fagan, AcoraTherapy @acoratherapy.bsky.social · 12/06/2026
Do people really buy books written by AI? Why?? I’m back on fire with my own writing and there’s a huge part saying why bother? AI will have it as a best seller before I even consider how to publish.
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Gillian Fagan, AcoraTherapy @acoratherapy.bsky.social · 12/06/2026
I’m seeing more and more places advertising themselves as “neuro-informed”. Whats that supposed to mean? You know we have nerves? Is it just me? I’m perceiving that as a bit of a red flag. You’re either neuro-affirmative or not. I feel neuro-informed is not at all the same as neuro-affirmative.
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Gillian Fagan, AcoraTherapy @acoratherapy.bsky.social · 12/06/2026
“Mammy can you be the bread and I be the butter?” A new way my child is asking for snuggles. Very cute.
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Robert @callicoinnc.bsky.social · 11/06/2026
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Gillian Fagan, AcoraTherapy @acoratherapy.bsky.social · 11/06/2026
My child often seems indecisive. Until he’s getting a back scratch! “On the skin, left, up, circles, down, right, triangle scratches, faster, softer…” when it matters to him he knows his mind! (He didn’t lick that off a stone…)
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Gillian Fagan, AcoraTherapy @acoratherapy.bsky.social · 06/06/2026
Whatever happened to essay type stream of consciousness blogs? So many of my newsletters and blogs I follow are now bulletproof points with several M dashes. To the person who I originally followed it was YOUR voice I read, don’t lose your confidence in this AI era.
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Blue Wave @votebiue.bsky.social · 04/06/2026
It’s the puppy herder’s first day on the job and the sheep understood the assignment with being supportive and encouraging.
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Thriving Autistic @thrivingautistic.bsky.social · 04/06/2026
Do you offer autism assessments for adults? We know clinics are busy! Our PASS (Post-Assessment Support Service) offers a referral pathway so your clients receive neuro-affirming 1:1 support after assessment without you having to manage the service internally. thrivingautistic.org/pass-service/
Thriving Autistic graphic promoting PASS — Post-Assessment Support Service for Autistic Adults. Text reads: PASS gives newly identified Autistic adults a supportive, neuro-affirming next step after assessment, while keeping the process simple for clinics. Three steps shown: 1. Clinic refers clients to us. 2. Client chooses practitioner. 3. We provide neuro-affirming 1:1 support with a neurodivergent professional. Contact: www.thrivingautistic.org and partnership@thrivingautistic.org. Quote at bottom: "Finding Thriving Autistic was a liferaft for me." Image includes the Thriving Autistic infinity logo and a photo of four smiling adults of different races and ages.
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Gillian Fagan, AcoraTherapy @acoratherapy.bsky.social · 03/06/2026
Ah fuck off. Not you Jo! Obviously. I love our local library, it’s so inclusive and welcoming. I’ve hosted and talked at events in SDCC libraries. Libraries are so community focused this is a very disturbing decision.
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Jo Ní Ghiolla Shúiligh @jogil.bsky.social · 02/06/2026
“Legislation states a child has a right to a completed AON within six months of a valid application. Current waiting times, however, are up to 27 months” There is no excuse for the state of our health system. None. www.irishtimes.com/health/2026/...
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Psychiatrists’ body ‘cannot endorse’ new State autism protocol
Approach will ‘streamline’ access to autism diagnoses, HSE says
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Gillian Fagan, AcoraTherapy @acoratherapy.bsky.social · 01/06/2026
We’re a Lego household, thanks to my 3 year old. I love it! Where was this all my childhood? As an AuDHDer I’m surprised I’ve never done Lego before, So many benefits for my neurotype!
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Gillian Fagan, AcoraTherapy @acoratherapy.bsky.social · 31/05/2026
As an ADHDer I miss the “edit post” option here. It really highlights how uh I press send, then read it, then rewrite it better in my mind.
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Maria Ní Fhlatharta @nifhla.bsky.social · 30/05/2026
What an thoughtful decision of the event coordinators at St Annes to ensure that disabled people are protected from seeing #CMAT by providing an incredible view of this tree. We paid for #CMAT...but I'm sure the tree is in our best interests.
A stage viewed from an accessibility platform. You can see a performer on the screen but the stage is obscured entirely by a tree.
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Amber Woods @amberspeaks.bsky.social · 30/05/2026
Reminder: The Epstein files are 162 days past the congressional deadline for full release. The DOJ is withholding more than 3m files.
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Gillian Fagan, AcoraTherapy @acoratherapy.bsky.social · 30/05/2026
Em just opened a yorkie. What the actual! They’re tiny! Shrinkflation at its finest.
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Gillian Fagan, AcoraTherapy @acoratherapy.bsky.social · 29/05/2026
I know spouse is a great dad but when I see him on his hand and knees in the garden pretending to be a dinosaur with red and yellow paint in his hair and green on his nose my heart just melts.
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Jo Ní Ghiolla Shúiligh @jogil.bsky.social · 28/05/2026
“Women become frightened not by their abortion, but by the social expectation that they should be emotionally ruined by it. The threat of future guilt and regret becomes a disciplinary tool.” Excellent article. www.theguardian.com/commentisfre...
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Abortion regret is a myth. Irish women don’t need laws to make them ‘reflect’ on their choices | Roe McDermott
More people regret knee surgery than abortion. So why is the patriarchy still scaring us with lifelong torment, asks Irish writer Roe McDermott
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 29/05/2026
i'm leading a free online discussion and support group for autistic parents - NOT parents of autistics kids - but those of us who are autistic AND parents come join us and connect w people who get it www.theautisticcoach.com/autism-discu...
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Gillian Fagan, AcoraTherapy @acoratherapy.bsky.social · 28/05/2026
The start of nearly all couples therapy…
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