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Stacey

@Vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy
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Artist, watercolourist, writer, mom, bi. #ADHD #neurodiverse 💜 #books, #games, #BoardGames, #gardening, #plants, #FountainPens, #Cycling, #TTRPGs, being a wizard. 🌉 bridged from ⁂ gamepad.club/@Vidyala, follow @ap.brid.gy to interact

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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 17/10/2026
V suggested I take two Vyvanse today instead of one (I’ve never really increased my dose) and uh. Yeah. I feel good. Focused. Did I mention I applied for a BSW (social work) program at the university? It’s two years if you have a bachelor degree already, thanks to transfer credit. I wanted to do […]
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 13/10/2026
New Becky Chambers preorder came in and I laughed because WHEN? anyway I got P3 to the bus, have to pack up all my stuff for gym, and clean clothes for V at the hospital, and food leftovers from thanksgiving and Queersgiving and go see him then be back here before 2 pm when the adjustable bed […]
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 07/10/2026
Right about this time most nights that V is in the hospital it starts to feel Real Bad. If a friend is with me, it staves it off until 9 PM when they leave. I think it’s the Vyvanse wearing off, the sun going down, and the feeling of another slow, lonely evening of trying to feed us both and […]
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 03/10/2026
My bestie got me book recs on SBTB 🥲 smartbitchestrashybooks.com/2026/10…
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The Rec League: Non-Romance, Page Turners
This request was asked by SBTB Tara on behalf of a friend: > I need a book recommendation for a friend. It needs to be a page turner, but it can’t have romance. It also can’t demand a lot of cognitive load. Her husband is in the ICU and wants to sink into something without using her brain. > > I should mention that she’s already read everything by Becky Chambers and the whole Murderbot series. **Amanda** : I did love _Sleeping Giants_ by Sylvain Neuvel, especially on audio. It’s fully narrated, so it feels like a radio play. Reading it might require slightly more attention since it’s more of an epistolary format with journal entries, interviews, etc. Perhaps _Automatic Noodle_ by Annalee Newitz ( A | BN | K | AB )._Dungeon Crawler Carl_ ( A | BN ) is a wild ride and just a really fun experience. I really like Jane Harper’s mysteries. Not too cozy and a great sense of place. **Shana** : I was going to recommend _Dungeon Crawler Carl_. It recently got me through worrying about a relative’s illness. **Sarah** : _The Parisian Heist_ ( A | BN | K | AB ) and _Everyone is Lying to You_ by Jo Piazza ( A | BN | K | AB ). The first is a dual timeline about the woman who made Van Gogh famous, his sister in law Jo. The second is a murder mystery set in the world of online influencers. An older title: _Charms for the Easy Life_ by Kaye Gibbons ( A | BN | K | G | AB ). Three generations of healers in North Carolina set during WWII. **What books would you recommend? Tell us in the comments!**
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 02/10/2026
V has been moved from the ICU to a regular ward. They’ve got him on blood thinners that are working well. He just went for an MRI to find out what’s up with his right knee. The physio was finding him a wheelchair that can get him out and about, and I’m helping him shave again today. His spirits […]
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 27/09/2026
Got V screen sharing from the hospital so him and P3 can watch clone wars together. The future is good sometimes.
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 23/09/2026
Good things today: no major changes. He was cleared to start drinking clear fluids and he was so happy. His nurse (Maria) said “Wow, you have Gatorade! Usually when people are cleared they just have sad hospital orange juice and I feel bad.” I put the Gatorade in the fridge for him on Monday. 💜
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 22/09/2026
I made a note on iPhone to share with people about help we need right now with V in hospital. My Android friends can’t open it. I don’t have the spoons to google this, can someone who’s smart at tech suggest a solution for me? I’ve sent plain text copies to people but then they need me to […]
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 17/09/2026
One of the ADHD things I struggle with (in general) is forgetting where things are when I can’t see them. So for this trip I have made a note on my phone with photos of the *interior* of my backpack and assigned each zipped section a name. Once I pack it, I’ll update the note with like - […]
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 15/09/2026
I’ve been checking daily for tickets for Edinburgh castle for weeks now. “Tickets often sell out far in advance” apparently not, since you haven’t released any for October yet ☠️
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 15/09/2026
Finished this painting of my best friend’s dog Elphie! Turned it into a reel on other socials in an attempt to be seen. It’s been great to create again. #painting #art #pets
A small acrylic painting on canvas hanging on a grey wall. It’s a black dog licking her nose. She has some grey and white in her fur. Her eyes are brown and look softly sweet because she is the best girl. There’s stripes of colours comprising a rainbow flag behind her, starting with blue at the top, then green, yellow, orange, and red.
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 10/09/2026
me picking up this drawer organizer and realizing it’s full of pens I don’t know whether they work or not: aw what the heck I’ve been organizing my studio! so that it will be ready for me post trip. It’s going pretty well.
A white drawer organizer full of random artist pens.A room painted white with a desk and a drafting desk piled high with stuff. There are bins etc on the floor and a scanner on a chair. A cork board holds tubes of paint with binder clips and that’s actually organized.Same room but the drafting desk is nearly clear, more art has been hung on the main wall (mostly depictions of people tied with rope). It’s overall much neater.
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 01/09/2026
Friends. Travellers. I have a question about walking, travelling, and fashion. I got these white Salomon shoes to wear on my trip. I’ve been breaking them in and they hurt my foot! I can’t even just wear them around my own city. It sucks. They’re too narrow in a […] [Original post on gamepad.club]
A white background showing clothes arranged in an outfit of black pants, white t shirt, quilted comber jacket (it looks brown but mine is black) and three shoes overtop of the clothes:
-teal and orange and green Saucony, blue and white and red Hoka, and white adidas with gold at the back
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 01/09/2026
Another outdoor painting session before picking up the kiddo yesterday. It wasn’t dry! It also wasn’t finished. I had to carry it back to the car with the sketchbook open in a completely normal way. 😂 I really need to find my paintbrush roll for carrying brushes […] [Original post on gamepad.club]
A sketchbook with a two page spread rests on a woman’s knees. She’s wearing white shoes and a white and blue striped dress. The painting depicts colourful orange and pink garden beds and some trees. Dark purple shadows and a purple tree in the centre are the most prominent contrasting colours against lighter green and yellow. At the woman’s feet is dappled sunlight in grass.
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 28/08/2026
PRed my deadlift today and broke 100 lbs! (105, including the bar which is 45). 🥹 Am getting stronger. #VidGym
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 28/08/2026
There’s a pancake restaurant near my hotel in London called Where The Pancakes Are and you’d better believe I’ll be going there. 😂
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 27/08/2026
RE: gamepad.club/@scopique/117168275675… Optimus Prime died on the day Mike (Rades) died five years ago. Yes, my friend. I see you. 💜
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 27/08/2026
got my hair refreshed yesterday with the Most Colours 🌈 just in time for local Pride stuff (we don’t do it in June because June always rains the whole month). before/after except I didn’t put in eye makeup today because whatevs.
white wkman wearing a black tank top with brown glasses, she’s got curly hair dyed a faded violet with also faded blue and teal parts by her face.same white woman wearing a brown jacket but her hair is now bright teal, orange! violet and a hint of bluethe other side of her face shows there’s a little bit of pink at the back.
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 26/08/2026
ADHD things: reverse engineering your departures because of time blindness. I’ve got to be at my hair appt by 3:00 (2:50). I tell maps when I want to be there by, then set a reminder to leave by the time it says to leave. the salon is 10 min away 😂
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 26/08/2026
@RogerBW @alicemcalicepants @satsuma Hey friends, I know I’ve been holding up the game. You may want to just remake this one without me, I need a bit of time away (from BGA). Sorry for not telling you sooner.
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 25/08/2026
Dude who seems to hang out at the coffee shop shop said to me while I was holding my plate with muffin: “No calories.” “Pardon me?” “No calories in that muffin!” Coffee shop owner, who clearly knows him, says “You wish!” I smiled and said “I don’t care. Calories keep me going.” Coffee shop owner […]
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 24/08/2026
Spending a little more time with my earl grey (hot) in the car before I head into the gym.
a white wokan wearing sunglasses holding a pink yeti travel mug and sitting in the drivers seat of a car. She’s got a faded aqua streak in her hair. She’s kinda smiling.
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 22/08/2026
Went out today for a sketchwalk for the local watercolour festival. Did not find the organizers at all but did chat with a few other folks who also couldn’t find the organizers. 😂 Still sat and painted for two hours! #urbansketching #art #watercolor #painting #sketch
An open sketchbook on a blue cushion with a pen sketch of a city scene. It’s been painted with watercolour, depicting some green trees, a few people sitting on chairs and benches, and walking down the street. There are big, dark planters on the right hand side with flowers in them and rainbow inclusive pride flags flying from several lamp posts.
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 20/08/2026
I’ve been posting these on IG but not here, here are a few of my favourites. Taking a line for a walk. I close my eyes and make a line then find an image in it. Second one got my fave reaction as a friend said: “How dare you turn that cowboy hat into the root of my trauma?” 🤣 . #sketch #art
Sketchbook page with a black squiggly line.The previous sketchbook page has been turned into an elephant and a baby elephant.Sketchbook page with a black squiggly line.Previous line has been turned into Littlefoot the dinosaur from The Land Before Time holding a tree star.
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 10/08/2026
Yesterday this drag queen told me I look too queer for this to be my first drag show and it was the most affirming thing anyone’s ever said to me. 😂 “What? With this hair, and the Florence and the Machine t-shirt? I am very surprised”
A drag queen wearing very tall PVC platform boots is half-reclined on an outdoor stage with a lattice of green leaves as a backdrop. They have makeup making their face pale and a wig of long, dark hair. The rest of their outfit is pink and neon greens. Their expression is intense and there are a few scattered Canadian five dollar bills on the stage around them.
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 06/08/2026
@alicemcalicepants @RogerBW @satsuma Alice’s turn to choose, friends!
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 05/08/2026
My new workout has leg press again (I used to do it, then it was taken out, so haven’t done it since January). My new leg press PR is 180 lbs! Previous to this, it was 130 lbs and I couldn’t repeat that so it was more like 100-115 when I was by myself. 😮 I am so much stronger!? #VidGym
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 03/08/2026
Booked my ticket to see Hadestown in London today and it is my big splurge I am SO hyped. I got an awesome seat. I am going to cry in public again. 😂
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 30/07/2026
Went in to wake up P3: “Hey, your watch alarm is going off and I don’t know how to stop it.” P3, groggily: “Slap your face on it.” 🤣🤣
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 29/07/2026
I set up a consult with a local trainer for Thursday after getting my physio’s advice about creds. Here’s hoping she can make me a program and that we’re a good fit. He also cleared me to start some runs so I went out and ran 2k tonight, running 2 min/walking 30 seconds. There’s a queer run club […]
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 27/07/2026
knocked on my son’s door and he said “no thanks” which honestly, fair enough 😂
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 27/07/2026
Am at the “must make sense of all the random things I COULD do or see” stage of UK trip planning. I’ve got plane, lodgings, trains between cities and (1) one day tour booked in Scotland. The IG algo figured out I’m travelling so it’s giving my videos about chocolate cafes, baked potatoes, and […]
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 25/07/2026
Tagging my gym stuff with #VidGym so you can mute it if you’re not into it! I finished the first week of my new program and it’s tough *because* it’s not tough. She said to think of it as a deload week but I never did those so it just feels so short. WDYM the exercise is “stand there and rotate […]
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 23/07/2026
tl;dr I’m in my messy bitch and heavy lifting era. 🤙
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BIRTHDAY TIME! Everyone please wish #BakedBeansOwl a happy first birthday!!! The keepers have made this lovely hat for bird birthdays. Beans didn't seem to mind the hat, but he was was a bit grumpy about having to go out in public and meet people. If anyone […] [Original post on mstdn.social]
A tiny screech owl wearing a yellow cone-shaped party hat made from a foam sheet. It has little pink foam flowers glued to it and some paper streamers from the top.
Beans is looking ruffled and grumpy as usual. He's standing on a glove with stars and owls on it.
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 02/06/2026
@alicemcalicepants @satsuma @RogerBW Hey all, Roger’s turn to choose!
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 14/05/2026
Spent 45 min cleaning up the garden. I might have to add some stuff this year. 🤔 🪏 🪴
Front of a house with garden below the window, quite filled with dead leaves and some plants beginning to grow.The same garden except it’s sunny and the garden has some long tree shadows cast over it. The leaves have been raked out, making the growing plants stand out more.
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 23/04/2026
[rope/shibari clothed leg] just tying this exact futo over and over again till I die #shibari
A leg wearing burgundy yoga pants on top of a light blue rug and light purple yoga mat. The person’s leg has been tied with rainbow coloured rope in a pattern know as a futomomo. One tie at the ankle, then a decorative knot at the calf, four wraps of rope around the upper tight and calf, then another knot and wraps at the junction of the calf and thigh.
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 21/04/2026
Snippets from the last few days since we’ve been home. Birthday cake baked on Sunday. A Chinook sunset. Taco! I met him yesterday. He’s blind but kept coming back for more pets and scratches because he could hear us talking. 🥰 Finally, yesterday’s roasted veg/hummus pita pizza. #food
A white plate with a rectangular slice of vanilla cake with vanilla icing.An open bedroom window with two panes, showing a suburban line of houses outside with streaks of colourful clouds in the sky, yellow and pink and purple.A person’s knees and hands are visible kneeling behind a fluffy corgi dog with a white face and tan markings. The dog’s eyes show a pale green, he is blind. He has a big, happy grin with his tongue lolling out.Pita on a white plate that has been cut in half. Hummus has been spread on the base and on top are colourful roasted red peppers, mushrooms, and broccoli with feta.
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 11/04/2026
thank you, Wednesday Me, for having made banana muffins so that today me could have breakfast in Montréal this morning without waiting for a grocery trip or food delivery.
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 08/04/2026
@alicemcalicepants @RogerBW @satsuma Hey friends, Alice’s turn to choose!
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 30/03/2026
P3 and I just beat our high score at a gentle rain - 17! 🌺 #BoardGames
A glass table with tiles laid out on it in a pattern with flowers coloured orange, blue, yellow, pink, white, black and red. Plastic moulded flowers have been placed where tiles intersect. Underneath the glass table are legs wearing Nordic pink patterned long johns because it snowed last night and I’ve got to go walk in it soon.
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 26/03/2026
[Food] uhm I needed to make some cookies for a charcookie board tomorrow so I figured I’d make extra to bring for friends at rope figure drawing (and also for family ofc) and then sent the photos to V. “So I’ve got five bags of a dozen toffee softies and three […] [Original post on gamepad.club]
Two very full cooling racks of toffee softie cookies - white sugar cookies with Skor bits in them on a white countertop.Two cooling racks of peanut butter cookies each with a single peanut in the centre of them on a white countertop with a red mixer in the background.
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 26/03/2026
Pouring my tea back and forth between the nearly empty honey jar and my mug in order to get every drop of sweetness I deserve. 💛
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 25/03/2026
I composed a whole message about therapy stuff and then forgot to post it, wow. Anyway I met with the travel agent yesterday and she had a lot of advice. The thing she can’t decide for me is how to break up the trip. Right now I’m kinda sitting at London/York/Edinburgh but every time I try to […]
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 20/03/2026
It is the first day of spring break, and I was woken by the sound of my child banging his feet on the walls until the knocking merged with my dream and then sadly - reality. 🙄
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 19/03/2026
Okay, specifically UK friends (there are a lot of you here, I feel like?). If someone was planning a first trip to the UK--about 11 days, but that includes travel to/from Canada--what would you recommend? Starting from London. I was kind of thinking see London (lots to see?) a few day trips […]
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 17/03/2026
I went out and got my passport photo taken today! Unfortunately the government is limiting the number of online passport renewals each day and I only got a digital photo so…now I’m stuck in queue hell every day unless I go get a physical photo instead. 🤦🏻‍♀️
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 13/03/2026
Yesterday at games (five of us) my friend said to me, “So how does it feel to be the token cis person at the table?” 🤣
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 12/03/2026
I just deleted thirteen thousand e-mails from my "Promotions" tab. I feel free. Still working on the unsubscribing and other tabs. No unread e-mails in the ol' inbox, though!
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