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Stacey

@Vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy
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Artist, watercolourist, writer, mom, bi. #ADHD #neurodiverse 💜 #books, #games, #BoardGames, #gardening, #plants, #FountainPens, #Cycling, #TTRPGs, being a wizard. 🌉 bridged from ⁂ gamepad.club/@Vidyala, follow @ap.brid.gy to interact

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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 23/10/2026
Had to get V ready at 11:00 PM to go to urgent care by taxi (couldn't leave P3). He spent the night waiting and came home around 7:00 AM. They gave him IV antibiotics though, with follow up oral doses, so that's good. Then we went to his appt with the orthopedic doctor a 40 min drive away. I'm […]
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 21/10/2026
posted in our community neighborhood group asking to hire someone to help us every few days with home stuff. it’s fine it’s fine it’s ok. 🔥 asking for help continues to be (high pitched continuous dog noise)
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 20/10/2026
Yesterday V put his food on a small plate for supper, but one of the things was massaman curry loaded real high and once it was hot it leaked over the edge of the plate. So I said to V as I brought it, “I’d prefer if you didn’t do that in future and you’re about to find out why,” and P3 (9) goes […]
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 20/10/2026
wow shocking, it’s almost as if the vast majority of us didn’t want this colossal waste of time and money! Huh 🤔 Who could have foreseen?
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 20/10/2026
Today I managed to make butternut squash soup (V’s favourite) and empty the fridge of copious overdue food, run/empty the dishwasher, two loads of laundry, new gym routine, took P3 to his psychology appt, made breakfast/lunch/supper for everyone, enrolled in the winter semester social work […]
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 17/10/2026
V suggested I take two Vyvanse today instead of one (I’ve never really increased my dose) and uh. Yeah. I feel good. Focused. Did I mention I applied for a BSW (social work) program at the university? It’s two years if you have a bachelor degree already, thanks to transfer credit. I wanted to do […]
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 13/10/2026
I kind of want to just sit here and cry instead of doing any of those things. I just feel so drained. Yesterday my friends were here and a few times all I could do was stare into the middle distance.
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 13/10/2026
New Becky Chambers preorder came in and I laughed because WHEN? anyway I got P3 to the bus, have to pack up all my stuff for gym, and clean clothes for V at the hospital, and food leftovers from thanksgiving and Queersgiving and go see him then be back here before 2 pm when the adjustable bed […]
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 07/10/2026
Right about this time most nights that V is in the hospital it starts to feel Real Bad. If a friend is with me, it staves it off until 9 PM when they leave. I think it’s the Vyvanse wearing off, the sun going down, and the feeling of another slow, lonely evening of trying to feed us both and […]
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 03/10/2026
My bestie got me book recs on SBTB 🥲 smartbitchestrashybooks.com/2026/10…
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The Rec League: Non-Romance, Page Turners
This request was asked by SBTB Tara on behalf of a friend: > I need a book recommendation for a friend. It needs to be a page turner, but it can’t have romance. It also can’t demand a lot of cognitive load. Her husband is in the ICU and wants to sink into something without using her brain. > > I should mention that she’s already read everything by Becky Chambers and the whole Murderbot series. **Amanda** : I did love _Sleeping Giants_ by Sylvain Neuvel, especially on audio. It’s fully narrated, so it feels like a radio play. Reading it might require slightly more attention since it’s more of an epistolary format with journal entries, interviews, etc. Perhaps _Automatic Noodle_ by Annalee Newitz ( A | BN | K | AB )._Dungeon Crawler Carl_ ( A | BN ) is a wild ride and just a really fun experience. I really like Jane Harper’s mysteries. Not too cozy and a great sense of place. **Shana** : I was going to recommend _Dungeon Crawler Carl_. It recently got me through worrying about a relative’s illness. **Sarah** : _The Parisian Heist_ ( A | BN | K | AB ) and _Everyone is Lying to You_ by Jo Piazza ( A | BN | K | AB ). The first is a dual timeline about the woman who made Van Gogh famous, his sister in law Jo. The second is a murder mystery set in the world of online influencers. An older title: _Charms for the Easy Life_ by Kaye Gibbons ( A | BN | K | G | AB ). Three generations of healers in North Carolina set during WWII. **What books would you recommend? Tell us in the comments!**
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 02/10/2026
V has been moved from the ICU to a regular ward. They’ve got him on blood thinners that are working well. He just went for an MRI to find out what’s up with his right knee. The physio was finding him a wheelchair that can get him out and about, and I’m helping him shave again today. His spirits […]
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 27/09/2026
Got V screen sharing from the hospital so him and P3 can watch clone wars together. The future is good sometimes.
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 24/09/2026
@raenbow.xyz I keep some followers only, and it may be that.
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 24/09/2026
@fallah.bsky.social V is in the ICU, my posts may not have been bridging properly to Bsky but I also have none energy to fix it
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 23/09/2026
Good things today: no major changes. He was cleared to start drinking clear fluids and he was so happy. His nurse (Maria) said “Wow, you have Gatorade! Usually when people are cleared they just have sad hospital orange juice and I feel bad.” I put the Gatorade in the fridge for him on Monday. 💜
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 22/09/2026
I made a note on iPhone to share with people about help we need right now with V in hospital. My Android friends can’t open it. I don’t have the spoons to google this, can someone who’s smart at tech suggest a solution for me? I’ve sent plain text copies to people but then they need me to […]
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 17/09/2026
@Meadhbh I’ll let you know if it works 😂
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 17/09/2026
One of the ADHD things I struggle with (in general) is forgetting where things are when I can’t see them. So for this trip I have made a note on my phone with photos of the *interior* of my backpack and assigned each zipped section a name. Once I pack it, I’ll update the note with like - […]
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 15/09/2026
I’ve been checking daily for tickets for Edinburgh castle for weeks now. “Tickets often sell out far in advance” apparently not, since you haven’t released any for October yet ☠️
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 15/09/2026
Finished this painting of my best friend’s dog Elphie! Turned it into a reel on other socials in an attempt to be seen. It’s been great to create again. #painting #art #pets
A small acrylic painting on canvas hanging on a grey wall. It’s a black dog licking her nose. She has some grey and white in her fur. Her eyes are brown and look softly sweet because she is the best girl. There’s stripes of colours comprising a rainbow flag behind her, starting with blue at the top, then green, yellow, orange, and red.
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 10/09/2026
me picking up this drawer organizer and realizing it’s full of pens I don’t know whether they work or not: aw what the heck I’ve been organizing my studio! so that it will be ready for me post trip. It’s going pretty well.
A white drawer organizer full of random artist pens.A room painted white with a desk and a drafting desk piled high with stuff. There are bins etc on the floor and a scanner on a chair. A cork board holds tubes of paint with binder clips and that’s actually organized.Same room but the drafting desk is nearly clear, more art has been hung on the main wall (mostly depictions of people tied with rope). It’s overall much neater.
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 02/09/2026
@alicemcalicepants “man, this woman is always on her way to work” haha (no one notices or cares except for the restaurants I am going to 😂)
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 01/09/2026
genuinely what would you do? I can post other outfits with example shoes. I have a blue dress they’d look fine with. They look kinda funny with a pencil skirt. A bit zany but workable with my leopard print. I could just look like a doof? I could hope for the best and wear my adidas for 20k steps?
A leopard print skirt with a white t-shirt, grey hoodie, and aqua, orange and green sneakers.
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 01/09/2026
Friends. Travellers. I have a question about walking, travelling, and fashion. I got these white Salomon shoes to wear on my trip. I’ve been breaking them in and they hurt my foot! I can’t even just wear them around my own city. It sucks. They’re too narrow in a […] [Original post on gamepad.club]
A white background showing clothes arranged in an outfit of black pants, white t shirt, quilted comber jacket (it looks brown but mine is black) and three shoes overtop of the clothes:
-teal and orange and green Saucony, blue and white and red Hoka, and white adidas with gold at the back
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 01/09/2026
this is going to sound ridiculous, but I keep saying “I’m an artist!l I think some part of me forgot. I’m allocating important luggage space to sketchbook/sketch supplies for my trip, can’t wait to do some art in the UK. 😍🥰🥹
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 01/09/2026
Another outdoor painting session before picking up the kiddo yesterday. It wasn’t dry! It also wasn’t finished. I had to carry it back to the car with the sketchbook open in a completely normal way. 😂 I really need to find my paintbrush roll for carrying brushes […] [Original post on gamepad.club]
A sketchbook with a two page spread rests on a woman’s knees. She’s wearing white shoes and a white and blue striped dress. The painting depicts colourful orange and pink garden beds and some trees. Dark purple shadows and a purple tree in the centre are the most prominent contrasting colours against lighter green and yellow. At the woman’s feet is dappled sunlight in grass.
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 28/08/2026
PRed my deadlift today and broke 100 lbs! (105, including the bar which is 45). 🥹 Am getting stronger. #VidGym
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 28/08/2026
There’s a pancake restaurant near my hotel in London called Where The Pancakes Are and you’d better believe I’ll be going there. 😂
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 27/08/2026
RE: gamepad.club/@scopique/117168275675… Optimus Prime died on the day Mike (Rades) died five years ago. Yes, my friend. I see you. 💜
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 27/08/2026
got my hair refreshed yesterday with the Most Colours 🌈 just in time for local Pride stuff (we don’t do it in June because June always rains the whole month). before/after except I didn’t put in eye makeup today because whatevs.
white wkman wearing a black tank top with brown glasses, she’s got curly hair dyed a faded violet with also faded blue and teal parts by her face.same white woman wearing a brown jacket but her hair is now bright teal, orange! violet and a hint of bluethe other side of her face shows there’s a little bit of pink at the back.
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 26/08/2026
@Gazimoff yeaaah that’s a no from me 😬
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 26/08/2026
ADHD things: reverse engineering your departures because of time blindness. I’ve got to be at my hair appt by 3:00 (2:50). I tell maps when I want to be there by, then set a reminder to leave by the time it says to leave. the salon is 10 min away 😂
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 26/08/2026
@alicemcalicepants @RogerBW @satsuma thank you both. I’ll be back, I just need a minute and I know you were all waiting on me. 💜
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 26/08/2026
@alicemcalicepants Which is small: ruminants, research, or both?
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 26/08/2026
@RogerBW @alicemcalicepants @satsuma Hey friends, I know I’ve been holding up the game. You may want to just remake this one without me, I need a bit of time away (from BGA). Sorry for not telling you sooner.
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 25/08/2026
Dude who seems to hang out at the coffee shop shop said to me while I was holding my plate with muffin: “No calories.” “Pardon me?” “No calories in that muffin!” Coffee shop owner, who clearly knows him, says “You wish!” I smiled and said “I don’t care. Calories keep me going.” Coffee shop owner […]
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 24/08/2026
Spending a little more time with my earl grey (hot) in the car before I head into the gym.
a white wokan wearing sunglasses holding a pink yeti travel mug and sitting in the drivers seat of a car. She’s got a faded aqua streak in her hair. She’s kinda smiling.
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 22/08/2026
Went out today for a sketchwalk for the local watercolour festival. Did not find the organizers at all but did chat with a few other folks who also couldn’t find the organizers. 😂 Still sat and painted for two hours! #urbansketching #art #watercolor #painting #sketch
An open sketchbook on a blue cushion with a pen sketch of a city scene. It’s been painted with watercolour, depicting some green trees, a few people sitting on chairs and benches, and walking down the street. There are big, dark planters on the right hand side with flowers in them and rainbow inclusive pride flags flying from several lamp posts.
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 20/08/2026
I’ve been posting these on IG but not here, here are a few of my favourites. Taking a line for a walk. I close my eyes and make a line then find an image in it. Second one got my fave reaction as a friend said: “How dare you turn that cowboy hat into the root of my trauma?” 🤣 . #sketch #art
Sketchbook page with a black squiggly line.The previous sketchbook page has been turned into an elephant and a baby elephant.Sketchbook page with a black squiggly line.Previous line has been turned into Littlefoot the dinosaur from The Land Before Time holding a tree star.
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 12/08/2026
@Gazimoff Happy birthday!! I hope you had a great day 🎂
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 10/08/2026
Yesterday this drag queen told me I look too queer for this to be my first drag show and it was the most affirming thing anyone’s ever said to me. 😂 “What? With this hair, and the Florence and the Machine t-shirt? I am very surprised”
A drag queen wearing very tall PVC platform boots is half-reclined on an outdoor stage with a lattice of green leaves as a backdrop. They have makeup making their face pale and a wig of long, dark hair. The rest of their outfit is pink and neon greens. Their expression is intense and there are a few scattered Canadian five dollar bills on the stage around them.
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 06/08/2026
@alicemcalicepants @RogerBW @satsuma Alice’s turn to choose, friends!
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 05/08/2026
I said to my friend “well anyway it doesn’t seem that impressive” and they said “180 lbs is a whole ass grown man” 🤣 #VidGym
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 05/08/2026
My new workout has leg press again (I used to do it, then it was taken out, so haven’t done it since January). My new leg press PR is 180 lbs! Previous to this, it was 130 lbs and I couldn’t repeat that so it was more like 100-115 when I was by myself. 😮 I am so much stronger!? #VidGym
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 03/08/2026
Booked my ticket to see Hadestown in London today and it is my big splurge I am SO hyped. I got an awesome seat. I am going to cry in public again. 😂
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 30/07/2026
@Gazimoff yessss this is your public service, like me posting snow videos for you 😂
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 30/07/2026
Went in to wake up P3: “Hey, your watch alarm is going off and I don’t know how to stop it.” P3, groggily: “Slap your face on it.” 🤣🤣
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 29/07/2026
I set up a consult with a local trainer for Thursday after getting my physio’s advice about creds. Here’s hoping she can make me a program and that we’re a good fit. He also cleared me to start some runs so I went out and ran 2k tonight, running 2 min/walking 30 seconds. There’s a queer run club […]
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 27/07/2026
knocked on my son’s door and he said “no thanks” which honestly, fair enough 😂
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Stacey @vidyala.gamepad.club.ap.brid.gy · 27/07/2026
Am at the “must make sense of all the random things I COULD do or see” stage of UK trip planning. I’ve got plane, lodgings, trains between cities and (1) one day tour booked in Scotland. The IG algo figured out I’m travelling so it’s giving my videos about chocolate cafes, baked potatoes, and […]
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