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@turtle4life.bsky.social
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Gen X queer disabled polyam autistic parent who identifies as varying levels of tired & alarmed most days. (they/them) Scared but determined to survive.

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Turtle @turtle4life.bsky.social · 19/05/2026
Update. Offspring is now living in Boston and happy. Still waiting on permanent housing. We’ll figure it out. For me, I’m managing MCAS ok. Irony of being more active is finding out I now have a cardiac issue. Like I needed another dx. Hey, I’m smart, I’ll figure that out too. :)
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Turtle @turtle4life.bsky.social · 19/01/2026
Right now, the hardest part of being a MCAS newbie is figuring out which online resources I can trust to guide me on this journey. I don't trust integrative or functional practitioners on YT, & MCAS isn't taught in med school. My doc isn't available outside of appts.
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Turtle @turtle4life.bsky.social · 20/12/2025
Learning as much as I can about: A) How to live with Mast Cell issues B) What is the most reliable/affordable large format printer I can buy used for $500 or less?
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rahaeli @rahaeli.bsky.social · 21/09/2025
The updated COVID/histamine link thread because people keep tagging me in to explain it and I keep intending to update the post from 2023 (synecdochic.dreamwidth.org/805203.html) and just not having the capacity because of my own health shit so here is a thread I can pin
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Turtle @turtle4life.bsky.social · 24/09/2025
Wow! Beautifully & powerfully said. Audio only podcasts are usually a barrier for me, but I could fully follow what Yeshes said. I’ve read the research article. It’s a good summary. Not scientific, but I *know* that my brain was made for weaving. I’m no savant, but it is profoundly satisfying
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Turtle @turtle4life.bsky.social · 23/09/2025
Some balm for our world-weary souls…. 🐢💜
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Turtle @turtle4life.bsky.social · 22/09/2025
This article really speaks to me and people like me,helps me to stay calm and purposeful.
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Turtle @turtle4life.bsky.social · 19/09/2025
While Cabaret and the Sound of Music are 2 of my favorite musicals, I’m not liking these reality show versions so much.
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Turtle @turtle4life.bsky.social · 17/09/2025
Gave myself an early birthday present. As most of my access needs fall outside of the narrow ableist definition of reasonable accommodation, ok, fine. I shall simply declare myself unreasonable and keep going.. 🐢 🌈💜♾️♿️ #disability
White Tshirt with airbrushed art created by an artist at the fair. flying turtle swimming among pink clouds and blue sky with the word “unreasonable” above
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Turtle @turtle4life.bsky.social · 17/09/2025
Still waiting for the NT medical researchers to catch up to autistic folk wisdom. Back before ABA brainwashed everybody, families understood that autistic kids needed to play and connect w/ their imaginations. Many of us are gestalt language processors. Play is where we learn to navigate sensory
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Turtle @turtle4life.bsky.social · 17/09/2025
My friend Sue, an autistic occupational therapist, was teaching this in the early years of Autreat. She also educated many grateful autistic adults in the Phx area. I was one. She planned to write a book after she retired, but then her husband became ill.
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Xtra @xtramagazine.com · 11/09/2025
"Any connection they can draw between us and this act of violence will be used to strip more of our rights, or threaten us more in our homes, our schools and our communities," writes @melwoods.me, on how trans people have been roped into the narrative around Charlie Kirk's death
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Trans people didn’t ask to get pulled into any of this | Xtra Magazine
Charlie Kirk’s murder is the latest event in which trans people have suddenly, inexplicably, become main characters
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Turtle @turtle4life.bsky.social · 31/08/2025
It’s nice being a turtle! :)
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Turtle @turtle4life.bsky.social · 25/08/2025
Especially since green tea strongly inhibits CYP3A4, the metabolic pathway all my meds use. Nuthin' like having all of them fail at the same time. I'll stick with coffee, thanks.
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🇨🇦Greg Stefan aka Fella Dogfather 🇨🇦 @ih8handles.bsky.social · 22/08/2025
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Turtle @turtle4life.bsky.social · 20/08/2025
Our dogs, Jake & Elwood, peacefully and gently crossed over the Rainbow Bridge yesterday. They will be missed greatly.
Elwood, black mastiff pit mix looking soulfulJake, black & white mastiff pit mix, snuggling with his blankie.
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Turtle @turtle4life.bsky.social · 28/07/2025
Trying so hard not to full out gigglesnort at this while my partner is teaching a class, but yeah, I've noticed Dunkin wrappers in the car....
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Transgender World @transgenderreport.com · 28/07/2025
Critics claim gender clinics are seeing an excess of trans boys. But new data suggest otherwise theconversation.com/... #transgender #trans #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA
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Critics claim gender clinics are seeing an excess of trans boys. But new data suggest otherwise
Some claim ‘social contagion’ is driving teenagers who were assigned female at birth to identify as transgender and seek medical care.
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Turtle @turtle4life.bsky.social · 07/07/2025
I wanted to like Disability Pride month, but it feels like another month of more shallow empty gestures that don't actually do anything for the people they're supposed to be uplifting. Instead I'm going to celebrate by throwing some axes this weekend in Maine (SCA event).
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Turtle @turtle4life.bsky.social · 07/07/2025
This tragedy was preventable.
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Rachel W. Martin @rwmartin.bsky.social · 07/07/2025
This is adorable
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Turtle @turtle4life.bsky.social · 24/06/2025
Happily stimming w/ #autisticjoy at discovering an intersection of several of my special interests... I need to know everything about this pretty...
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The Daily Tism @thedailytism.com · 12/06/2025
“You don’t need to look so bloody anxious. I’m not recruiting – and even if I was… no thank you?”
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Poly woman really not trying to fuck you
An autistic woman who just told you she’s polyamorous has absolutely no interest in banging you, so chill the fuck out, sources have revealed.  Sarah Harrow, 27, who currently has two romantic partner...
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Ellie Tsang 🔜 NEXUS Games Summit @fairemortal.bsky.social · 26/05/2025
Have you supported your local degenerates today?
Blocky white handwriting on a black background. It reads:
Say no to generative AI art. Buy art from real degenerates. -Joe Wos
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Turtle @turtle4life.bsky.social · 04/06/2025
Crisis teams don't know shit about the needs of autistic ppl in crisis. I don't know how anyone accesses treatment. It's such a maze of unhelpful ppl calling too much offering nothing I haven't desperately tried several times already to help my family member.
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Thinking Person's Guide to Autism @thinkingautism.com · 26/05/2025
Today in Hell Yes, Research! Autistic quality of life improved by access to accommodations like earplugs & headphones to manage sounds. "Our study demonstrates that many aspects of auditory environments—beyond noise alone―can negatively impact Autistic people’s QoL." www.nature.com/articles/s41...
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Auditory environments influence the link between Autistic traits and quality of life - Scientific Reports
Scientific Reports - Auditory environments influence the link between Autistic traits and quality of life
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Turtle @turtle4life.bsky.social · 22/05/2025
This is why I keep returning to the makerspace. Losing myself in the creative flow is therapy for my weary mind. The socially prescribed method of talking to a kind stranger 1 hour a week does *nothing*. Its sole benefit is placating medical doctors ignorant of autistic adult lives and needs.
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Turtle @turtle4life.bsky.social · 18/05/2025
I bought electric scissors online, with a switch which looks like it ought to be a safety lock, but NO, the accompanying diagram labeled it as "Decorative Switch". wtf? Henceforth in our family, BDE will now stand for "Big Decorative Switch Energy", which tbh works for us on several levels. 🤣🤣🤣
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Turtle @turtle4life.bsky.social · 17/05/2025
In hard times, making space for joy & wonder is vital self care for the soul. Sharing what moved me today. youtu.be/7VM8MsR4K10?...
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Beethoven, The Blues and Finding Your Sound (A Conversation With Jon Batiste)
YouTube video by Pianote
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Turtle @turtle4life.bsky.social · 15/05/2025
Doctors kept telling us that our AuDHD AFAB offspring had bipolar disorder, but in hindsight it's very clear that it was PMDD all along. *This* is what autism researchers should be looking at, not more useless vax studies. www.additudemag.com/pmdd-autism-...
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PMDD, Autism, and ADHD: The Hushed Comorbidity
Premenstrual dysphoric disorder (PMDD) is a hormonal health condition that causes severe mood and functioning issues, and disproportionately affects people with ADHD or autism. Here, learn about PMDD ...
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Turtle @turtle4life.bsky.social · 12/05/2025
This is a wonderful read. 🩷the use of crochet as stimming - been doing so for years. Also 🩷 that ppl are speaking out about the lack of accessibility at conferences. Plus 🩷 for talking about Universal Design. Interesting topics I rarely get to hear about.
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Jesus Lizard Superstar 🖤 🐀🐀🐀 @acekatana.bsky.social · 07/05/2025
Well that was fuckin lit
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Turtle @turtle4life.bsky.social · 04/05/2025
Why?
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Turtle @turtle4life.bsky.social · 03/05/2025
I am a slow reader, but I am making my way through Jane Austen's books. It is a happy distraction. I am only a little ways into Emma. I am very sure that Mr. Woodhouse, Emma's father, is autistic. He does not mask. People are kind to him, especially Emma. Movies have left that part out.
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Turtle @turtle4life.bsky.social · 30/04/2025
Me, when I'm having a really good art day. What I teach my offspring: sometimes being different can make us feel very sad & left out. Days like these, our difference makes us stronger. Hold onto that, sweetie. Also me: Queen's Gambit flashback moment!
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J. L. Westover @mrlovenstein.bsky.social · 29/04/2025
that's all
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Turtle @turtle4life.bsky.social · 30/04/2025
I did not expect the Emperor to acknowledge his nudity.
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Turtle @turtle4life.bsky.social · 26/04/2025
Boosting….
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Turtle @turtle4life.bsky.social · 26/04/2025
ER visit yesterday (kidney stone). My anxiety was even higher than my pain & nausea b/c I was trying so hard to be closeted. People were kind. I didn’t get profiled. Eventually I was able to relax & be myself. Past medical trauma sucks…
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Abigail Nussbaum @abigailnussbaum.bsky.social · 22/04/2025
At some point it has to be possible to say "we have examined this question thoroughly and the answer is X; we're not coming back to it unless actual new evidence turns up". The conservative move is to keep demanding relitigation of settled questions until they get the answer they want.
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Turtle @turtle4life.bsky.social · 24/04/2025
I found something happy to post. 🐢
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Satan @thedevil.bsky.social · 22/04/2025
never forget that we’re currently facing total economic destruction because fox news got upset about 0.0001% of our population wanting equal rights
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Turtle @turtle4life.bsky.social · 22/04/2025
The real research they’ll be doing is calculating how many “wellness camps” they need to build. That’s the fight we need to be ready for, to stop institutions from coming back.
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Turtle @turtle4life.bsky.social · 22/04/2025
Anticipating that a number of disability supports & disability orgs will cease to exist soon, I need to find an online resource where I could tap into collective knowledge around creatively solving accessibility issues. Might this already exist on Reddit? Not seeing it so far... Advice pls.
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Turtle @turtle4life.bsky.social · 21/04/2025
So cool to have a pic. I posit they might be a piece of the underlying science of what makes acupressure work. No easy way to test that. Also could be involved in reversing endometriosis and other things I haven't thought about. Saving it to refer back to it.
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Turtle @turtle4life.bsky.social · 21/04/2025
@Katelyn Burns was one of the very first people I followed when I first came to Bluesky & one of the few Patreons I have. I lack talent to translate my internal wordless rage into coherence. She says what lives in my heart. In the words of Squirrely Dan (Letterkenny), I appreciates it greatly.
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Turtle @turtle4life.bsky.social · 14/04/2025
I started this process last November. I wish this article had been around then! It's daunting and it is isolating, but protecting myself and my fam is a necessity.
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