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Emelia

@thisismissem.social
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Corruptress of Protocols, Tech Princess 👸🏻 Working on Trust & Safety, open-source software, and open social web as an Independent Contractor. Chronically ill. You've probably used tech I've contributed to. Bridged: @thisismissem.hachyderm.io@ap.brid.gy

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The Real News Network @therealnews.com · 1h
We speak with labor organizers across the USA and Canada about why labor unions are more important now than ever, and how workers organizing collectively can change their workplaces, their lives, and the world.
therealnews.com
Want to save the world? Start by unionizing your workplace
We speak with labor organizers across the USA and Canada about why labor unions are more important now than ever, and how workers organizing collectively can change their workplaces, their lives, and ...
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Internet Society @internetsociety.org · 2h
We’re THRILLED to officially launch our Online Trust and Safety Hub! This new site brings together training, educational content, anti-scam resources, and trusted third-party materials in one place. Because everyone deserves to feel safe online. Explore the hub: onlinesafety.internetsociety.org
A graphic of a padlock and an alert. Text announces the Online Trust and Safety Hub.
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SOUL ♡ @seductivelysoul.art · 3h
pls consider supporting 🫶🏼
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Contribute to Soul ♡'s MacBook Pro | Throne
Support Soul ♡ with a gift contribution on their Throne wishlist. Help fund their creative projects.
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Emelia @thisismissem.social · 18h
If 80 of us donated just $25 to soul, she'd be able to buy this laptop. Actually, less than that. AT Proto community, please do your thing!
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Steven @stvn.sh · 13h
if your sports team can only survive with gambling money, fuck your sports team.
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Imani Gandy @angryblacklady.blacksky.app · 10h
Netflix has made a hetero hockey show? I don't think they understand what people like so much about Heated Rivalry. Two white straight people fall in love. Wow groundbreaking. Never seen that on screen before
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JD (by way of Blacksky) @jdot.blacksky.team · 16h
I don’t think people understand how terrifying loneliness is, like you won’t know you’re experiencing it while your body gives you sign after sign that it’s tired and then one day you wake up and one random song will just make you cry non-stop until you acknowledge it.
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Ms Ava Molinky (She/Her/Mistress) @kinkymolinky.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
Some Dommes have traditional beauty and some are unconventional. Some Dommes have physical or hidden disabilities. Some Dommes find the work powerful as it overcomes a personal trauma. Some Dommes do it because FemDom spaces are the only spaces they feel safe/seen/desired. All are perfect.
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hikikomorphism @hikikomorphism.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
Thinking about this old quote in the context of certain people - professors, nyt contributors, etc - who see casual misgendering as a reasonable response to a lack of respect for their claimed epistemic authority
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Kilian Valkhof @kilianvalkhof.com · 29/09/2026
hold up when did example.com get a redesign?!
example.com
Example Domain
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Emelia @thisismissem.social · 17h
@jdot.blacksky.team saw folks maybe interested in a setting for warning before posting media asking folks to self-label based on your recent blog post, and in case you want it, I did this implementation a little while back: github.com/bluesky-soci...
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Add reminder to label posts with media by ThisIsMissEm · Pull Request #10898 · bluesky-social/social-app
I was having a discussion with someone about issues facing adult creators using Bluesky and the "forgetting to add labels" issue came up, so here's an early implementation of adding a...
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JD (by way of Blacksky) @jdot.blacksky.team · 24/09/2026
Hey everyone! With the proliferation of news surrounding sexual abuse(rs), we’ve decided to launch a label called: Normalization of Sexual Violence.
Shows label for Normalization of Sexual Violence

Reads:

Content that seeks to promote, validate or in any other way normalize sexually violent acts which include, but aren't limited to grooming, (spousal) sexual assault, sexual exploitation, trafficking, revenge porn and sexual abuse.
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Emelia @thisismissem.social · 17h
@dholms.at btw, did you see: draft-richer-oauth-httpsig-03? datatracker.ietf.org/doc/html/dra...
datatracker.ietf.org
OAuth Proof of Possession Tokens with HTTP Message Signatures
This extension to the OAuth 2.0 authorization framework defines a method for using HTTP Message Signatures to bind access tokens to keys held by OAuth 2.0 clients. Discussion Venues This note is to be...
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SOUL ♡ @seductivelysoul.art · 17h
the cutest, sweetest, sexiest bean just contributed towards my MacBook Pro crowdfund on throne !! thank u thank u thank u 😘 throne.com/soulfulily #Wishlist #Throne
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Emelia @thisismissem.social · 18h
If 80 of us donated just $25 to soul, she'd be able to buy this laptop. Actually, less than that. AT Proto community, please do your thing!
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Emelia @thisismissem.social · 20h
Okay, I've officially found the worst meeting room table ever (and also fully expect some of y'all to have it)
Photo of a metal frame over an attached table and all the chairs are actually swings hamging from chains. (Ngl, at first I thought it was bdsm equipment)
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king lola 👑 @lolaodelola.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
WCAG is a great example of the the failure of the W3C's (& TBL's & in many way's Ted Nelson's) one web principle/dream/goal. WCAG is biased in favour of English. Other Latin scripts and languages benefit from that bias but other writing systems are disadvantaged.
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Ian Boudreau @ianboudreau.com · 29/09/2026
I think it's pretty neat that one of the legit breakout indie success stories this year is a game about painstakingly designing and sewing opulent ballgowns store.steampowered.com/app/4019220/...
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Dressmaker on Steam
Become a dressmaker! Choose fabric, cut out patterns, and sew them all together to satisfy (or sabotage!) townsfolk in this cozy crafting game inspired by real dressmaking.
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Lydia Rose @lydz.eurosky.social · 28/09/2026
Y’all I want to be really clear here. The reason saying “there’s more rapists at Cornell than trans people in sports” or saying “not a trans person” every time you see an incident of SA is so harmful is because you’re engaging with a stereotype.
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Saga Moros @sagamoros.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
Back in Reykjavik for the dates of 07.10 and 09.10 🔥 contact me via sagamoros.com for sessions
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rahaeli @rahaeli.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
The connection between the SARS-CoV-2 spike protein and mast cell degranulation is so strong by this point I am starting to advise people who have had really severe reactions to prior vaccine doses (or very lingering cases of COVID itself) read my MCAS primer: synecdochic.dreamwidth.org/793547.html
synecdochic.dreamwidth.org
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rahaeli @rahaeli.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
But the really fucking annoying part of this fucking disorder is the incredibly variable symptoms: my MCAS presentation looks *completely* unlike several friends' presentations, to the point where many people would not believe we have the same disorder.
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rahaeli @rahaeli.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
I love whenever I mention this, someone always has this "oh my god, WHAT" reaction! Citations: pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/32324159/ pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/42240520/ Screenshot is from second paper. Primary author on both (Afrin) is basically THE most knowledgeable person in the world about MCAS.
An alternative perspective, now called "consensus-2" [25, 50] (Table 1), emerged almost simultaneously but regards MCAS as prevalent (approximately 17-20% of the Western population) [15, 51] and commonly presenting with diverse manifestations stemming from diverse profiles of aberrant release of MC mediators with very diverse effects [52, 53].
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Emelia @thisismissem.social · 29/09/2026
Probably because watching them die is the point. That's the level of cruelty towards other human beings on display here.
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Andrew Schreck @andrewschreck.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
i don't think cis guys realize how much power they can shift in a conversation just by casually telling their friends
"that's fucked up, man" when someone says something
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Abigail Thorn @theabigailthorn.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
The BBC say they want zoomers watching the show so - Zoomers, what would get you to tune in to Doctor Who??? (Bluesky users please show this skeet to your zoomer kids we all know this website is 30+)
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zeu @zeu.dev · 28/09/2026
i'm sorry, i'll forever read this as PLC Red
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Clarabelle (normal type) 🍓 @clarabelle.xyz · 24/11/2024
to catch them is my real test 😇 to train them is my cause 😈 #pokemon #cosplay #jorts #ass #fitgirls #nsfwsky #femdom #redhead #naturalbody #tease
Misty cosplay from the back and dang does Misty have a perfect butt
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IggyMaid @iggymaid.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
OBS Studio versions 32.2.2 and lower are vulnerable to this attack
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Saga Moros @sagamoros.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
I zip them up and you lick them clean 🫦🔥 My favourite jewelry designer and maker, @audhdhobbyhouse (on insta), makes such gorgeous pieces 🔥 much like this ring 😍 check her out, she makes things custom and to your preferred size 🔥
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I Travel Like Sound Dog @chadstanton.blacksky.app · 27/09/2026
If you were in camp “focus on the important things” when they were restoring Confederate monuments and base names here but can recognize the danger there you may want to interrogate some things.
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🌦️Wifeguy Auteur🌦️ @delugeduvall.effigyfilms.com · 25/09/2026
if “we’re all cam girls in a surveillance state” ya’ll better be acting in solidarity with actual fucking cam girls 😒
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Emelia @thisismissem.social · 26/09/2026
Pretty tired of feeling sick & rough af. My insides are not happy for some reason.
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Brookie @brookie.blog · 26/09/2026
bring back the pink cube
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Emelia @thisismissem.social · 25/09/2026
Think I might let my @netflix.com subscription lapse after over a decade using it. I can't justify €16/month on a streaming service that barely has anything I watch.
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♍ Bee 🐝 @bee.babesky.social · 24/09/2026
the worst ableism is the internalized ableism inside yourself that you listen to when it tells you that you're not doing enough when you're already doing more than you can handle
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Emelia @thisismissem.social · 24/09/2026
"Crazed visions of the future" sounds very last year.. where are the "Regulated visions of the future" or "Balanced visions of the future"? I feel like tech leadership is too crazed as it is to the detriment of society.. it's rather tiresome
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Tessa Brown @tessa.germnetwork.com · 24/09/2026
All we wanna do is talk to each other ❤️
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Solomon @solomonrmissouri.com · 24/09/2026
lol lol lol lol lol lol lol
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Tessa Brown @tessa.germnetwork.com · 24/09/2026
Rape culture got a Blacksky label 😭 I really fuckin love you guys
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Evelyn @kandake.africa · 23/09/2026
I've been using a local sandbox for all my atproto work after a couple "mishaps" that I spent the last week reworking into a scaffolding sandbox anyone can use. Read all about it!
50-shades.pckt.blog
Atmosphere in a Box - All your sandbox needs
This has been the year of ATprotocol development for me, starting with Stratos, A social-app fork and then starting my own business focused on building local first decentralized tech on protocol. For every project I'm doing some pretty intense testing with a variety of tools and apparatuses for exhaustive testing to confirm everything functions. For some things I'm working on I need a large number of PDS users which has occasionally been noticed. And earlier this year while doing some intense lo...
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Robert Reich @rbreich.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
In 9 months, Zohran Mamdani has: -Secured millions in worker restitution from DoorDash and UberEats -Launched the first stage of his universal childcare program -Cracked down on bad landlords -Balanced NYC's budget without cutting major social services This is what leadership looks like.
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daniel holmgren 🫠 @dholms.at · 23/09/2026
i think we need to do a permission sets push... permission sets are mainly for giving nice human-readable, user-friendly descriptions of resources! if your OAuth screen looks like this, consider publishing/using permission sets. this is scary/useless/non-sensical to users
an atproto oauth screen that has the generic "repository - public changes" and "authenticate - perform actions on your behalf" resources
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SOUL ♡ @seductivelysoul.art · 23/09/2026
let’s try this again… happy first day of #SpookySzn 🎃🖤
soul’s upper torso and boobs are adorned with a black, slightly sheer, low cut dress and fishnets to accentuate her cleavage. her bedroom in the background has a dark and spooky aura from glowing green lights
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Emelia @thisismissem.social · 23/09/2026
Still reading this, but yeah, this matches my experiences a fair bit: www.wired.com/story/women-...
wired.com
We Surveyed 634 Women Who Work in Tech. They Let Loose
Executives happily automating their days with AI. New hires confronting bro culture. Women in tech have a lot to say—and they told it all to WIRED.
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Emelia @thisismissem.social · 23/09/2026
Okay, so as Atmosphere Conf is going to be in Amsterdam, I'm going to say up front: I don't think I'll be able to make it, and definitely wouldn't be able to do the princess outfit if travelling (that costume is *heavy* and complicated to travel with)
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Emelia @thisismissem.social · 23/09/2026
Wow, Meta really sucks at this whole "basic AI safety and security" thing, don't they? mouse.dev/blog/muse-ru...
mouse.dev
I asked Meta’s Muse for its filesystem and it sent me 6.8 GB | Mouse
I asked Muse to archive the files it could see and send them to my Google Drive. It did.
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rahaeli @rahaeli.bsky.social · 21/09/2026
There's also moderatormayhem.engine.is and the followup game trustandsafety.fun, which I like for showing some more of the real-world considerations but get less into detailed judgment calls
moderatormayhem.engine.is
Moderator Mayhem: A Content Moderation Game
Can you succeed at the fast-paced challenge of content moderation?
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danielroe @danielroe.dev · 22/09/2026
I'm really delighted to announce that 🎂 `unifont` has turned 1.0 … and it finally has a home! ✨
unifont.dev
Every font CDN, one lookup · unifont
unifont reads font metadata from Google Fonts, Bunny, Fontshare, Fontsource and npm through one API. Look up a family, see what it really offers, and copy the CSS.
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mivven @ghostsghouls.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
It cannot be overstated how much Bret does not make an argument in this column. He does not list a single worthy book he thinks was excluded. He clearly has not read the vast majority of the books. His entire critique is just “these books are written by women and minorities, which is bad”.
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