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LRP - this is something I think about often and feels kind of lost in the era of fast friendships and social media window shopping. i think ppl can be a little quick to cut others out at minor grievances or disagreements and it makes me bummed as hell

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Solaire Stark, Professional Bisexual Disaster @snowbound-stark.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

I say limited because y'all should also be nicer to people who get plastic surgery done on their boobs, too. Be it making them bigger, reducing size etc. St Dolly Parton herself did not work 9 to 5 to have her own bosom lovingly crafted for people to be buttheads about it!!

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Rory aka Mrs. Asina 🧪 ❄️🐦‍⬛ @guttersnipe.bsky.social · 20h

"Would you trust a furry as your pilot" yeah actually because I know planes are probably their hyperfixation and they could probably fix the airplane midair if some shit went down

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female wifeguy @snowlikeash.bsky.social · 20h

Whos gonna tell this chucklehead that we already have an AI service for this. Its called "When Pandora Was Good" or "The Algorithm"

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Nina Modaffari @ninamodaffari.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

absolutely no hatred towards teen fantasy but I heard someone once call titles that are like 'a crown of blank and blank' stories as 'A kraft of mac and cheese' and I cannot stop thinking about it

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female wifeguy @snowlikeash.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

please dear god look up interactions. for real.

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female wifeguy @snowlikeash.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

I generally use their starting ages as what they were in ARR, even if they don't appear until later, ESPECIALLY if they are long-lived races. (Do not tell me the twins don't age and yet Krile is only 22 in EW??? Eat Shit)

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XIV Women Week @xivwomenweek.bsky.social · 28/07/2026

hey everyone! #xivwomenweek is a ffxiv fandom event created to highlight the female cast of the game, running from september 28 to october 4. all types of creative work are encouraged & welcome, feel free to both follow and disregard prompts as you wish and/or use the joker whenever!

FFXIV Female Character Appreciation Week

09/28-10/04 #xivwomenweek

1. 1.x / moon / stars
2. a realm reborn / challenge / refusal
3. heavensward / return / departure
4. stormblood / echo /silence
5. shadowbringers / crystal /flora
6. endwalker / light / darkness
7. dawntrail / love / loss
X. JOKER / free day

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🌈 Hailey Piper 🌈 @haileypiperfights.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

This is part of what I'm referring to with many people demanding stories that reassure them they're a good person. They want the moral instruction because otherwise, rather than processing the reading experience, there's a thrum of "am I bad? am I bad? what if someone finds out I'm bad?"

Tumblr post by graftini:

stories about abuse are allowed to exist without reducing themselves to moral instruction. i think sometimes when people complain about the “romanticization” of abuse, what they're actually objecting to isn't necessarily the way abuse is being represented, but the fact that the representation doesn't provide them with constant moral reassurance. like, there is a difference between “this story frames abuse as desirable or inherently romantic” and “this story depicts abuse in an erotic/ambiguous/complicated way and doesn't repeatedly tell me that abuse is bad, therefore the depiction itself is irresponsible.”

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female wifeguy @snowlikeash.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

realized that i already decided krile was basically g'zaya's other parent bc raha is her brother and now tsaaya is slowly emerging to be A Thing it's sort of SUPER REAL!!!

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Kam 🐊🌱✨ @kamgigari.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

🐉 IT'S HERE!!! I'm happy 2 announce that you can get your own First Brood keychain! I've priced it as low as I reasonably can... I hope u all enjoy! :D #ffxiv #dragon kamgigari.acggoods.com/product/ffxi...

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female wifeguy @snowlikeash.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

this is such a mood. sometimes a thing that is Bad is also So Very Good.

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female wifeguy @snowlikeash.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

I think the first time Tsara *said* it to Thancred was in EW on the boat to Sharlayan, after they'd had *crazy* tail-pulling sex in her cabin. Tsara is still like, in the Feelings stages with Krile. I'll keep yall posted. (Love a good intense asexual romance.)

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Kam 🐊🌱✨ @kamgigari.bsky.social · 26/09/2026

keychain finally arrived and it came out wonderfully I thinks!!! colors preserved really good, and tho i had to assemble it myself, I think ACGoods assembles keychains for buyers, so... 💭 I'll officially put the keychain up on my shop later today hopefully!

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female wifeguy @snowlikeash.bsky.social · 24/09/2026

For the first time since I was scared shitless by the film "Miracle Landing/Panic in the Open Sky" (1990), I felt nothing but joy in the takeoff of this flight.

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treacherous deathcat @diablerie.gay · 23/09/2026

with stuff like discord and age verification i just can't get too impassioned about essentially kicking the can down the road because once basically anything gets big enough they're gonna get pressured and it'll start over

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female wifeguy @snowlikeash.bsky.social · 23/09/2026

like this screed does extend to things people have purchased for pleasure (like an entire video game system lmao) or something/someplace convenient at the time/whatever. it very much does.

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female wifeguy @snowlikeash.bsky.social · 23/09/2026

cool one of my closest friends disappeared because discord was fucking COMPLETELY BANNED in her DENSELY POPULATED COUNTRY

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female wifeguy @snowlikeash.bsky.social · 23/09/2026

the "stop using this (product) or experience social death!!" attitude is never helpful for people who rely on x or y (product), people have gotta chill with these declarations because it's fucking stupid. it's literally "there is no ethical consumption under capitalism" in motion.

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female wifeguy @snowlikeash.bsky.social · 23/09/2026

discord's just the start yall can do whatever with your nitro but legislation is way more effective in the long run

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matt @ 7.56 @donthebreeze.bsky.social · 22/09/2026

ultimately the problem isnt discord its age verification laws. any platform people would move to away from discord would obviously eventually be big enough to also be under scrutiny from International Lawmakers. thus likely forcing them to implement age verification as well

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Yuyuka is a lalesbian 🌈 @strixthings.bsky.social · 22/09/2026

He is weak and won’t survive the winter /j

Low quality edit of Yotsuyu, Lyse and Fordola on a meme that says “Hating Stormblood is a disease. Get well soon!”

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pudding @puddraws.bsky.social · 13/09/2026

IT'S FINALLY DONE. taking a long break from lace now 😮‍💨 #crafts #FFXIV

Emet-selch's ascian glyph in bobbin lace with the design in half stitch against a double torchon ground, done in red cotton thread, mounted and framed in a black picture frame.

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pudding @puddraws.bsky.social · 04/08/2026

attack for @meganehaven.com of his OC Solithe!! I tried some new stuff with this one which was really fun! #ArtFight #art

A pale-skinned elf in a green and gold outfit with fingerless gloves, half length cape and long coat that exposes their midriff. Their hair is platinum blond at the front and brown behind the ears with a long plait that reaches to their feet. They are stood in front of a stone arcade with pointed arches covered in ivy and they are smiling and raising their hands up as if in praise of a higher power.

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pudding @puddraws.bsky.social · 03/08/2026

halmarut charms are now LIVE! they came out soooo nice I'm really happy with them. big shoutout to rin at @mltpizzago.bsky.social for design check and sorting out some issues I had with the proofs. it's always a pleasure making merch with you 💖 #FFXIVMerch puddraws.bigcartel.com/product/halm...

Screenshot of a shop page showing the quoted design in full as an acrylic keychain. Text reads: Halmarut Dried Flower Charm. £20. This charm is made up of three layers sealing inside a dried yellow rose that can be seen through the transparent sections in the top and bottom layers of the design. Because these are real flowers each one is unique! On the top layer there are also gold foil details in a Celtic knot style running around the edge of the charm.

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female wifeguy @snowlikeash.bsky.social · 20/09/2026

This will come as no surprise but: Chrono Trigger. As someone without an SNES, I was *obsessed* with playing it myself, somehow, after playing a little at a friend's house. I know the old translation by heart. I've bought every iteration since. It is (to me) the capstone of the console.

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female wifeguy @snowlikeash.bsky.social · 18/09/2026

i need someone to tell me how to make sure when i apply an melezen idle pose to a fmiddie how to keep the eldritch horror that it produces.

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female wifeguy @snowlikeash.bsky.social · 18/09/2026

me: oh this is a good starting point for my favilla/ash-on-lava modpa-- me: *sees the name of a piece of shit is credited for a single thing that isn't even applicable since i'm using another body* me: god DAMN it

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Starfire’s Deranged Neocon Foreign Policy Podcast @irhottakes.bsky.social · 18/09/2026

It’s very simple. A reality TV host became dictator because he turned down a role for Sharknado 4 and that’s why the king of outer space, who cheats at Diablo, got to kill Africa. Now the economy is controlled by a sex cult that has something to do with Harry Potter fanfic because of robots.

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Arc @aerheart.bsky.social · 18/09/2026

I think the highest tier wedding package on Mogstation should let you choose somebody to crash the ceremony, and then you, your partner, and all the guests have to do a combat instance. The newlyweds get to read their vows as they do an LB3 together.

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Katie Howland @katiehowland.bsky.social · 18/09/2026

Here's the thing: it's pretty simple to look at @zohrankmamdani.bsky.social or @katmabu.bsky.social & realize that the core of what people want right now is really simple - get tangible stuff done. Show us. Don't write a press release about it. Just make the damn community better. That's it.

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female wifeguy @snowlikeash.bsky.social · 18/09/2026

When 2010 would be an improvement over the mid-90's fandom culture you grew up with. ...not saying the 2010s didn't have foul problems (I'd consider it more insidious than the earlier reactive/violent shit), but a decade before that, it. Well.

Cringing Harold (Smiling Through The Pain)

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female wifeguy @snowlikeash.bsky.social · 18/09/2026

Okay, I'm trying to work on a m0dpack for fun, so I'm doing my usual drill-down of places to go. - Heliosphere first, always - The Glamour Dresser, even though it's all paid - Google Search and then, well, You Know.

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female wifeguy @snowlikeash.bsky.social · 17/09/2026

she'd probably burst into tears crying in relief, tbh.

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mauve 🦇 @cerebellvm.bsky.social · 17/09/2026

playing thru dt in real time has made the w/uk l/amat reception look even crazier to me. it's literally this image

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Immanuel Cunt @sheogorath.bsky.social · 17/09/2026

he is a video game streamer

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female wifeguy @snowlikeash.bsky.social · 17/09/2026

this is Tsara's egch. her ania. i don't talk about this often but the ONLY reason she calls y'shtola her whole name and not "shtola" is because she respects her so much as a scholar and a mentor. when y'shtola needs redirection, tsara can just softly say "shtola ania" and snap her back into it.

(Pre-DT) ARR, the pale Xaela and the cultured conjurer in conversation in Limsa Lominsa.

(Pre-DT) EW, the pale Xaela and the mysterious mage laugh (likely at the poor Handsome Stranger) in the Noumenon.

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female wifeguy @snowlikeash.bsky.social · 17/09/2026

how will they do that mike. who will be doing it.

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Haus of Decline @hausofdecline.bsky.social · 17/09/2026

Folk music is drastically increasing in popularity. Prepare for an apocalyptic recession.

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female wifeguy @snowlikeash.bsky.social · 16/09/2026

i wish the USA gave a shit about children

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Matt Bors @mattbors.bsky.social · 16/09/2026

I'm not sure it matters in the slightest anymore, but it's clear that a ton of people have still never seen the full comic.

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female wifeguy @snowlikeash.bsky.social · 16/09/2026

he is like the antimatter of rizz. this guy is not a tar pit, he is a black hole of personality. he'd cry if you handed him the football (both kinds tbh)

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thene @thene.bsky.social · 16/09/2026

this is why it's my pet peeve fake science fact. It's absolute bs! nothing happens to brains at age 25, they do not "fully mature". you will notice that many societies have an age of majority or coming-of-age or whatever and none of them have ever chosen mid-20s.

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