Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 13/10/2026Being an adult means no one being able to tell you "no" to getting up and having a slice of cheesecake when you cant sleep at 5 am 010
Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 19/08/2026Me each and every time I come back for a rewatch of Kenny and Armando's story on #90DayFiance:static.klipy.comRiver of Tears: Animated Crying FigureAlt: [ID: A South Asian person purses their lips as huge streams of tears pour from their eyes like water from spigots] 010
Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 08/08/2026To me, House Hunters is so much more rage bait-y than stuff like 90 Day 000
Reposted by Steph 💜🩷💛💚The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 26/07/2026you're stronger than you think you are 082
Reposted by Steph 💜🩷💛💚Evangelion Screenshots @ngescreenshot.bsky.social · 26/07/2026Evangelion: 2.22 You Can (Not) Advance 210331
Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 24/07/2026Composed and sent a professional email; caught myself (too late) assuming that this person, with whom I may soon have a working relationship, was a man because of unconscious bias toward my own gender (& not being familiar with the name). Ew 😵💫. 000
Reposted by Steph 💜🩷💛💚Nicole Filippone, Autistic Advocate & Author @nicolefilippone.bsky.social · 17/07/2026Talking about things that disable you is not learned helplessness. Talking about things that disable you is not weaponized incompetence. Talking about things that disable you is not playing the victim. Talking about things that disable you is self-advocacy. Thank you for coming to my Ted Talk. 116348
Reposted by Steph 💜🩷💛💚Nicole Filippone, Autistic Advocate & Author @nicolefilippone.bsky.social · 12/07/2026"Everyone is claiming to be autistic for attention" and "everyone is using autism as an excuse" (for supposedly "unacceptable" behavior) are two extremely popular social media sentiments that have been making their rounds lately... 1593
Reposted by Steph 💜🩷💛💚Larry Mitchell @drlarrymitchell.bsky.social · 02/07/2026Every religion has a food rule that sounds like somebody got diarrhea once and made it everyone’s problem. 1924949611
Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 29/06/2026Wish this had alt text. Also, what is this even meant to be depicting? 😅 000
Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 23/06/2026Love how the headline can be read 2 different ways bc of the "used to": either "The ferrets [are/were being] used [by humans]" (horrible, unethical); OR "The ferrets did this in the past, of their own accord; however, they have since seen the error of their ways and ended this barbaric practice". 010
Reposted by Steph 💜🩷💛💚The Daily Tism @thedailytism.com · 18/06/2026The event, which takes place today, the 18th of June, encourages autistics to feel positive about themselves – until the clock strikes 12, turning them back into neurotic balls of self-loathing.thedailytism.comAutistic Pride Day welcome break from Autistic Shame YearAutistic Pride Day is to provide a much-needed temporary respite from the remainder of a year spent marinating in shame, it has been rumoured. The event, which takes place today, the 18th of June,… 013847
Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 17/06/2026For a show as sanitized & depoliticized as "Ink Master", and usually so intensely and strictly focused on "reality TV drama" tropes– Matti's reaction to the news in s7e11 that they would be covering up swastika/confederate flag tattoos was so refreshingly raw and authentic 👏 000
Reposted by Steph 💜🩷💛💚Them @them.us · 16/06/2026 Zohran Mamdani Pushes Back Against DOJ’s Subpoena for Trans Youth Health Recordsthem.usZohran Mamdani Pushes Back Against DOJ’s Subpoena for Trans Youth Health Records“Your medical decisions and personal health information belong to you, not the government,” Mamdani wrote in a post to X on June 15. 0103
Reposted by Steph 💜🩷💛💚The Tennessee Holler @thetnholler.bsky.social · 16/06/2026Billboards spotted in KNOXVILLE… www.threads.com/@kayla_dayy/... 301600428
Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 15/06/2026idrlabs.comNeon Genesis Evangelion TestNeon Genesis Evangelion Test – Which Neon Genesis Evangelion character do you most resemble? 000
Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 15/06/2026This tracks... I ID with just about everyone at least a little but Misato/Shin the most 110
Reposted by Steph 💜🩷💛💚The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 14/06/2026Regulation doesn’t always look like calm.open.substack.comAutistic Regulation Isn’t Calm – It’s ConnectionRegulation doesn't always mean what you think it does 1103
Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 11/06/2026Been alternating between rewatches of 90 Day and my other "docuseries-style-reality-TV comfort show", #DanceMoms I feel bad for the kids, but Cathy's such an iconic "reality TV villain" 😭 000
Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 03/06/2026This scene is fucking P E A K on a rewatch 😩🤌 #90DayFiance 000
Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 03/06/2026Why didnt anyone tell me rewatching old reality TV could be so comforting? 🥹 000
Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 02/06/2026If my brain had a bluetooth signal and someone connected their device to it, they'd just hear an unending loop of the "Ink Master" opening music 🎸🔥 000
Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 01/06/2026Why do ppl post videos of themselves talking at length and have captions popping up on screen and then half of the captions are wrong anyway bc the tech is too primitive to hear/interpret correctly and they don't bother to check it? Just be accessible or don't be 000
Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 27/05/2026When someone comes looking for me after I've been dealing with car insurance BS all morning: 000
Reposted by Steph 💜🩷💛💚The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 25/05/2026You’re allowed to have boundaries before you are completely “articulate.” Before you have the “perfect script.” Before you can explain the neuroscience behind the need. Before you can “prove” harm. Before you are at breaking point. “I can’t do this” is enough information to start and it’s legit 05823
Reposted by Steph 💜🩷💛💚The Daily Tism @thedailytism.com · 24/05/2026After hearing about it in conversation, Megan Aldrich, 30, has declared the beast “significantly less believable, but even more fuckable, than a vampire”.thedailytism.com“Permanent sense of self” autistic woman’s favourite mythical creatureAn autistic woman has announced that a "permanent sense of self" is the most fantastical and intriguing mythical creature she's ever heard of. After hearing about it in conversation, Megan Aldrich,… 310219
Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 24/05/2026Still recovering from the disappointment of the second Pokémon Legends game not just being like... exactly the same as PLA mechanically, just with a different setting/story and more polished visuals 🫤static.klipy.comVegeta: Emotional Moment in the RainAlt: [ID: GIF of Vegeta from "Dragon Ball Z" with his head turned upward into pouring rain and then pensively closing his eyes (or doing so because the rain was getting in them, I suppose).] 000
Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 23/05/2026Petition to stop using the word ""gifted"" and start using the word "burdened by Knowing" 000
Reposted by Steph 💜🩷💛💚Them @them.us · 21/05/2026‘Heated Rivalry’ Star Harrison Browne on Trans Athletes: “Sports Have Never Been Fair”them.us‘Heated Rivalry’ Star Harrison Browne on Trans Athletes: “Sports Have Never Been Fair”The actor and former hockey player said that focusing “solely on one hormone” ignores “real barriers to fairness.” 0146
Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 21/05/2026Rewatching season 6 of #90DayFiance has been unexpectedly, massively comforting 🥹. Back when this show was TV GOLD instead of very obviously trying too hard. This sad-bg-music-laden soliloquy from Asuelu had me actually tearing up the other day 😭. 110
Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 18/05/2026Just got done ff'ing through that *harrowing* "bath time" scene with Shea. Folks... I really don't know if I can do this show anymore if this is the direction it's continuing to go. 😭 #90DayFiance 010
Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 18/05/2026And yes, I know that the ppl who don't win can & often do go on to have a moderately to hugely successful career. That's not the point. Accolades, and proper recognition for hard work and genuine talent, still matter. 000
Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 18/05/2026She sang one original song at her audition about cheese and coasted to the very end on an inexplicable hype wave despite Keyla, Jordan, and Daniel having more talent in each of their pinkies than she has in her whole body AND in her weekly Dixieland-Bo-Peep-ass gimmick outfits. 100
Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 18/05/2026Sorry, but I'm still processing this season's "American Idol" winner being a privileged, bland white woman who can barely sing, beating out two DEMONSTRABLY more talented black artists. & I do find it particularly nauseating given the actual Jim Crow shit happening in the Southern U.S. right now. 100
Reposted by Steph 💜🩷💛💚Accessibility Awareness @a11yawareness.bsky.social · 13/05/2026Manual testing with a screen reader will help you catch and fix accessibility issues that can't be identified by automated tests. Sara Soueidan has a great guide on various screen readers and how to set them up on your computer. www.sarasoueidan.com/blog/testing...sarasoueidan.comSetting up a screen reader testing environment on your computer— The personal website of Sara Soueidan, inclusive Web UI engineer 03115
Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 12/05/2026I'm shocked. Shocked, I tell you! Well, not that shocked 000
Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 12/05/2026None of these fathers I described above intrinsically deserve the label ""absentee father"", while "single mother" (a morally neutral term & not a slur) remains accurate in all of these scenarios. & that's putting aside the heteronormativity of it all 😂 100
Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 12/05/2026Just off the top of my head, fathers sometimes: - break up but responsibly co-parent - are incarcerated/deported - are left due to chronic illness (e.g. substance addiction) - die 100
Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 12/05/2026The illustrator really thought they did something with this but it's such a weird non sequitur and all the positive comments I've seen on it are annoying me, so, uh... 😐 ranting for a sec– Far from every father in a "single mother" situation is just like... a willfully absent deadbeat? 120
Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 11/05/2026Okay, Elise 2.0 Stop. Describing. Your. Partner's. Genitals. On. TV. #90DayFiance 030
Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 11/05/2026No, the pastel binder pack I added isn't needed for this project; it's just a lil treat for me. But I have plans for them, I swear 000
Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 11/05/2026My ADHD means the strat has to walk the tightrope between "reducing immediately paralyzing visual chaos by grouping" (good 😌), and "stuff all in boxes = out of sight, out of mind and I never look at the contents therein again and later wonder where That One Thing is" (BAD 🚨) so... wish me luck? 100
Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 11/05/2026Ordered some basic supplies hoping it will make tidying up finally possible. Clean living space = way better mental health. I'm drowning in clutter but if I put everything that's not trash into different labeled file boxes, I can sort through them one at a time after the area is clean. 100
Reposted by Steph 💜🩷💛💚Bits @bitshammer.bsky.social · 08/05/2026So you enjoyed the game so much you BEAT IT then SAT THROUGH THE CREDITS and only *then* did you find out she was involved and got mad? Sounds like you don't actually care about games just about if your politics are being catered to. 2745465814
Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 08/05/2026Yeah I deactivated my Meta accounts and removed most photos on them over a year ago. Basically when fb explicitly changed their policy to say "being a homophobic and transphobic piece of trash is good, actually" 000