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Steph 💜🩷💛💚

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{ Level 36 } she/her 🦄 AuDHD 🌈🧠🐝🐝, Green Planeswalker, Metalhead, Nerd, Serial Plushie Adopter, and 90 Day Fiancé Addict. Cozy Games™️ Only 🦝💰🏡 for a girl who loves all soft, warm things

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Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 13/10/2026
Being an adult means no one being able to tell you "no" to getting up and having a slice of cheesecake when you cant sleep at 5 am
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Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 19/08/2026
Me each and every time I come back for a rewatch of Kenny and Armando's story on #90DayFiance:
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River of Tears: Animated Crying Figure
Alt: [ID: A South Asian person purses their lips as huge streams of tears pour from their eyes like water from spigots]
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Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 08/08/2026
To me, House Hunters is so much more rage bait-y than stuff like 90 Day
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Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 28/07/2026
[ID (1 of 2): Still/frame from anime series "Welcome to Demon School, Iruma-kun!" season 3, episode 7. Supporting character Clara, a teenage demon girl with long, lime green hair, blunt-cut bangs, pointed ears, and a pair of curled, ram-like, light pink horns, is cozily laying down on a cloud with her arms folded under her and facing toward the camera. Her eyes are heavily lidded with a broad, warm smile spread across her closed lips and blushing cheeks.][ID (2 of 2): Squidward grimacing with caption text that says, "Oh no, she's cute!"]
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 26/07/2026
you're stronger than you think you are
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Evangelion Screenshots @ngescreenshot.bsky.social · 26/07/2026
Evangelion: 2.22 You Can (Not) Advance
Misato enjoying her beer
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Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 24/07/2026
Composed and sent a professional email; caught myself (too late) assuming that this person, with whom I may soon have a working relationship, was a man because of unconscious bias toward my own gender (& not being familiar with the name). Ew 😵‍💫.
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Nicole Filippone, Autistic Advocate & Author @nicolefilippone.bsky.social · 17/07/2026
Talking about things that disable you is not learned helplessness. Talking about things that disable you is not weaponized incompetence. Talking about things that disable you is not playing the victim. Talking about things that disable you is self-advocacy. Thank you for coming to my Ted Talk.
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Nicole Filippone, Autistic Advocate & Author @nicolefilippone.bsky.social · 12/07/2026
"Everyone is claiming to be autistic for attention" and "everyone is using autism as an excuse" (for supposedly "unacceptable" behavior) are two extremely popular social media sentiments that have been making their rounds lately...
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Cheshire Cat ᓚᘏᗢ, @autismsupsoc.bsky.social · 11/07/2026
A shirt that says: 

IT'S ALWAYS
"YOU'RE AUTISTIC"
AND NEVER THANK YOU FOR TELLING ME EVERYTHING YOU KNOW ABOUT...
NEON GENESIS
EVANGELION.

There is also an image from Neon Genesis EVANGELIOn on the shirt
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Larry Mitchell @drlarrymitchell.bsky.social · 02/07/2026
Every religion has a food rule that sounds like somebody got diarrhea once and made it everyone’s problem.
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Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 29/06/2026
Wish this had alt text. Also, what is this even meant to be depicting? 😅
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Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 23/06/2026
This makes the point in my comment even funnier 😂
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Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 23/06/2026
Love how the headline can be read 2 different ways bc of the "used to": either "The ferrets [are/were being] used [by humans]" (horrible, unethical); OR "The ferrets did this in the past, of their own accord; however, they have since seen the error of their ways and ended this barbaric practice".
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The Daily Tism @thedailytism.com · 18/06/2026
The event, which takes place today, the 18th of June, encourages autistics to feel positive about themselves – until the clock strikes 12, turning them back into neurotic balls of self-loathing.
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Autistic Pride Day welcome break from Autistic Shame Year
Autistic Pride Day is to provide a much-needed temporary respite from the remainder of a year spent marinating in shame, it has been rumoured.  The event, which takes place today, the 18th of June,…
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Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 17/06/2026
For a show as sanitized & depoliticized as "Ink Master", and usually so intensely and strictly focused on "reality TV drama" tropes– Matti's reaction to the news in s7e11 that they would be covering up swastika/confederate flag tattoos was so refreshingly raw and authentic 👏
[ID: First of two frames from Season 7 of "Ink Master" depicting finalist Matti, a white man shown looking to the left with pursed lips while sitting near his fellow competitors. Caption text begins:

"[Voiceover] Who agrees to tattoo this kind of symbol on somebody for the rest of their life? You have no moral values. ..."]["... What is your name, where can I find you, and I will cover up your face with my boot."

Second frame shows Matti in a production interview, appearing resolute as he delivers this line.]
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Them @them.us · 16/06/2026
Zohran Mamdani Pushes Back Against DOJ’s Subpoena for Trans Youth Health Records
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Zohran Mamdani Pushes Back Against DOJ’s Subpoena for Trans Youth Health Records
“Your medical decisions and personal health information belong to you, not the government,” Mamdani wrote in a post to X on June 15.
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The Tennessee Holler @thetnholler.bsky.social · 16/06/2026
Billboards spotted in KNOXVILLE… www.threads.com/@kayla_dayy/...
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Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 15/06/2026
idrlabs.com
Neon Genesis Evangelion Test
Neon Genesis Evangelion Test – Which Neon Genesis Evangelion character do you most resemble?
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Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 15/06/2026
This tracks... I ID with just about everyone at least a little but Misato/Shin the most
[ID: Results for a test of how much you're like seven major Evangelion characters. My results:

Shinji: 65%
Misato: 60%
Asuka: 55%
Rei: 55%
Ritsuko: 50%
Kaworu: 35%
Gendo: 30%]
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 14/06/2026
Regulation doesn’t always look like calm.
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Autistic Regulation Isn’t Calm – It’s Connection
Regulation doesn't always mean what you think it does
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Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 11/06/2026
Is Disney actually serious with this? 🥴
[ID: Frame from an official trailer for Disney's live action Moana remake depicting Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson in a bad wig as Maui.]
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Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 11/06/2026
Been alternating between rewatches of 90 Day and my other "docuseries-style-reality-TV comfort show", #DanceMoms I feel bad for the kids, but Cathy's such an iconic "reality TV villain" 😭
[ID: Still/frame from season 1 of Lifetime's "Dance Moms". In a production interview, Cathy, a middle-aged white woman with short, chunkily-highlighted blonde hair in a "mid-2010s Karen cut" with possibly overplucked eyebrows, is looking down her nose at the off-camera producer, resulting in an expression that appears conniving. Captions show her to be saying, "... because I want her to see what Vivi's capable of."]
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Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 07/06/2026
Mike Wazowski'd
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Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 03/06/2026
This scene is fucking P E A K on a rewatch 😩🤌 #90DayFiance
[ID: Scene from Season 1 of "90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way" shown in this and the next three images. Sumit, and Indian man in his 30s, and Jenny, a white American woman in her 60s, are seated at an attorney's desk. Captions show the Indian attorney beginning, off camera: "Like, take for example, ..."]["... you [Sumit] have a wife..."]["... [who] is staying at your permanent place."][Sumit's eyes are closed as he rapidly shakes his head "no" in response to the attorney's hypothetical. Jenny, who is paying attention to the attorney, doesn't notice that Sumit, one could say, is looking a bit guilty in this moment.]
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Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 03/06/2026
Why didnt anyone tell me rewatching old reality TV could be so comforting? 🥹
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Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 02/06/2026
If my brain had a bluetooth signal and someone connected their device to it, they'd just hear an unending loop of the "Ink Master" opening music 🎸🔥
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Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 01/06/2026
Why do ppl post videos of themselves talking at length and have captions popping up on screen and then half of the captions are wrong anyway bc the tech is too primitive to hear/interpret correctly and they don't bother to check it? Just be accessible or don't be
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Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 27/05/2026
When someone comes looking for me after I've been dealing with car insurance BS all morning:
[ID: Still from season 6 of "90 Day Fiancé". The shot shows only a closed bedroom door and brass door handle. Caption text shows that someone on the other side is saying, "I'm emotional exhausted."]

[Context: Larissa, who speaks English as a second language, says this after telling her husband, Colt, to go away.]
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 25/05/2026
You’re allowed to have boundaries before you are completely “articulate.” Before you have the “perfect script.” Before you can explain the neuroscience behind the need. Before you can “prove” harm. Before you are at breaking point. “I can’t do this” is enough information to start and it’s legit
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The Daily Tism @thedailytism.com · 24/05/2026
After hearing about it in conversation, Megan Aldrich, 30, has declared the beast “significantly less believable, but even more fuckable, than a vampire”.
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“Permanent sense of self” autistic woman’s favourite mythical creature
An autistic woman has announced that a "permanent sense of self" is the most fantastical and intriguing mythical creature she's ever heard of. After hearing about it in conversation, Megan Aldrich,…
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Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 24/05/2026
Still recovering from the disappointment of the second Pokémon Legends game not just being like... exactly the same as PLA mechanically, just with a different setting/story and more polished visuals 🫤
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Vegeta: Emotional Moment in the Rain
Alt: [ID: GIF of Vegeta from "Dragon Ball Z" with his head turned upward into pouring rain and then pensively closing his eyes (or doing so because the rain was getting in them, I suppose).]
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Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 23/05/2026
Petition to stop using the word ""gifted"" and start using the word "burdened by Knowing"
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Them @them.us · 21/05/2026
‘Heated Rivalry’ Star Harrison Browne on Trans Athletes: “Sports Have Never Been Fair”
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‘Heated Rivalry’ Star Harrison Browne on Trans Athletes: “Sports Have Never Been Fair”
The actor and former hockey player said that focusing “solely on one hormone” ignores “real barriers to fairness.”
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Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 21/05/2026
Rewatching season 6 of #90DayFiance has been unexpectedly, massively comforting 🥹. Back when this show was TV GOLD instead of very obviously trying too hard. This sad-bg-music-laden soliloquy from Asuelu had me actually tearing up the other day 😭.
[ID: Hastily snapped photo of poster's screen from an early episode of "90 Day Fiancé" season 6. Asuelu, a young man from Samoa, has his eyes closed softly while trying to hold back tears. Caption text shows him to be in mid-sentence, saying, "... not good enough for you, ..."]
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Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 18/05/2026
Just got done ff'ing through that *harrowing* "bath time" scene with Shea. Folks... I really don't know if I can do this show anymore if this is the direction it's continuing to go. 😭 #90DayFiance
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Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 18/05/2026
And yes, I know that the ppl who don't win can & often do go on to have a moderately to hugely successful career. That's not the point. Accolades, and proper recognition for hard work and genuine talent, still matter.
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Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 18/05/2026
She sang one original song at her audition about cheese and coasted to the very end on an inexplicable hype wave despite Keyla, Jordan, and Daniel having more talent in each of their pinkies than she has in her whole body AND in her weekly Dixieland-Bo-Peep-ass gimmick outfits.
[ID: Photo of semi-finalist Daniel Stallworth, a dark-skinned black man with short hair performing "Best Part" by Daniel Caesar feat. H.E.R. He's wearing glasses and a mauve/pink button-down shirt, and singing into a microphone while sitting at a piano.][ID: Photo of Hannah wearing one of her many ugly outfits, a steel blue dress with a giant collar with a white ribbon bow and white ruffly trim like she's just transformed into her superhero alter ego, Sailor Appalachia. She's wearing a closed-eye, strained expression with her chin pushed forward as if she is really trying to sing (despite undoubtedly sounding as boring as white, butterless toast) while standing at the mic.]
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Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 18/05/2026
Sorry, but I'm still processing this season's "American Idol" winner being a privileged, bland white woman who can barely sing, beating out two DEMONSTRABLY more talented black artists. & I do find it particularly nauseating given the actual Jim Crow shit happening in the Southern U.S. right now.
[ID: Cropped photo of this year's three "Idol" finalists. Shown, left to right: Hannah Harper (winner), Keyla Richardson, and Jordan McCullough. The three are smiling at the camera. Hannah, a blonde white woman, has been dressed in a conspicuously WHITE and bedazzled pantsuit. Keyla, a black woman with short hair styled in finger waves, stuns and outshines her in a metallic, blue-purple long sleeved gown. Jordan, a light skinned black man with short curly hair and a neatly trimmed beard, rocks a maroon (velvet?) striped suit.]
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Accessibility Awareness @a11yawareness.bsky.social · 13/05/2026
Manual testing with a screen reader will help you catch and fix accessibility issues that can't be identified by automated tests. Sara Soueidan has a great guide on various screen readers and how to set them up on your computer. www.sarasoueidan.com/blog/testing...
sarasoueidan.com
Setting up a screen reader testing environment on your computer
— The personal website of Sara Soueidan, inclusive Web UI engineer
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Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 12/05/2026
I'm shocked. Shocked, I tell you! Well, not that shocked
Screenshot wherein I reverse image searched the illustration, highlighting its text, and asked:

"is Lainey Molnar a 'child of a single mother'? [Because] this argument is such a stupid non sequitur and sounds like it was written by someone who has only been exposed to the concept of single...""... motherhood from stereotypical TV depictions and who indeed may have unconscious bias against single mothers themselves."Screenshot of a Google search result that says, "No, Lainey Molnar was not raised by a single mother. Public interviews and her own statements confirm that she grew up in a supportive, conventional family environment."
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Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 12/05/2026
None of these fathers I described above intrinsically deserve the label ""absentee father"", while "single mother" (a morally neutral term & not a slur) remains accurate in all of these scenarios. & that's putting aside the heteronormativity of it all 😂
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Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 12/05/2026
Just off the top of my head, fathers sometimes: - break up but responsibly co-parent - are incarcerated/deported - are left due to chronic illness (e.g. substance addiction) - die
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Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 12/05/2026
The illustrator really thought they did something with this but it's such a weird non sequitur and all the positive comments I've seen on it are annoying me, so, uh... 😐 ranting for a sec– Far from every father in a "single mother" situation is just like... a willfully absent deadbeat?
Illustration attributed to Lainey Molnar. It depicts a young, blonde, white woman wearing a crop top, a long denim skirt with a high slit, and a colostomy bag. She's holding an infant and in the background is a silhouette of a man outlined by a nondescript dotted line, implying his absence.

Lainey's text atop the image reads: "I wish we said 'children of absentee fathers' instead of '[children of] single mothers', because how is the parent who stayed the problem?"
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Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 11/05/2026
Okay, Elise 2.0 Stop. Describing. Your. Partner's. Genitals. On. TV. #90DayFiance
[ID: Frame from the premier of the twelfth season of "90 Day Fiancé". Marissa, a thin white woman with long blonde hair wearing a black top and gold jewelry, is looking at someone with one hand near her mouth and saying, "He got his -- he got his body ready."][ID: Marissa's co-worker, another, younger blonde white woman wearing a black top, is looking back at her, appearing a bit taken aback. Captions show Marissa continuing: "He's gonna kill me for telling you."]

[Context: Marissa then, in this scene, goes on to describe the tale of her fiancé's recent/ongoing "adult circumcision" journey.]
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Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 11/05/2026
No, the pastel binder pack I added isn't needed for this project; it's just a lil treat for me. But I have plans for them, I swear
[ID: Screenshot of Staples.com product listing for a "Davis Group Standard View 1" 3-ring binders" 4 pack. Product photo shows four lined up binders in pastel blue, purple, green, and pink.]
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Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 11/05/2026
My ADHD means the strat has to walk the tightrope between "reducing immediately paralyzing visual chaos by grouping" (good 😌), and "stuff all in boxes = out of sight, out of mind and I never look at the contents therein again and later wonder where That One Thing is" (BAD 🚨) so... wish me luck?
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Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 11/05/2026
Ordered some basic supplies hoping it will make tidying up finally possible. Clean living space = way better mental health. I'm drowning in clutter but if I put everything that's not trash into different labeled file boxes, I can sort through them one at a time after the area is clean.
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Bits @bitshammer.bsky.social · 08/05/2026
So you enjoyed the game so much you BEAT IT then SAT THROUGH THE CREDITS and only *then* did you find out she was involved and got mad? Sounds like you don't actually care about games just about if your politics are being catered to.
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Steph 💜🩷💛💚 @sneferie.bsky.social · 08/05/2026
Yeah I deactivated my Meta accounts and removed most photos on them over a year ago. Basically when fb explicitly changed their policy to say "being a homophobic and transphobic piece of trash is good, actually"
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