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@sideb.chez.gay
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40-something Brit 🇬🇧 living in rural Ireland 🇮🇪 with my bear of a husband 🐻🏳️‍🌈 Sometimes NSFW 🔞 If you don’t want to see my junk, don’t follow me.

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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 01/10/2026
Ooh baby baby you been talking tough But you boys can′t get enough When the girls don't need your love Who says boys don′t cry?
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 30/09/2026
Bedtime = bedtime treats.
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 30/09/2026
Remember when #Apple was famed for attention to detail and everything “just worked”? Pretty sure this button in the Apple TV+ UI is supposed to say “skip recap” or something similar.
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 30/09/2026
“We are filling up the crack with gooey goodness.” 👀😆 #GBBO
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 30/09/2026
Sent my husband a message which I know he will be super excited to receive but he’s asleep cos he was on a night shift and I’m all
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Surprise
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 29/09/2026
I’m not a massive PSB fan but I’d consider buying this just for the cool packaging! 😍
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 22/09/2026
I switched back to iOS last week and while I’m generally happier I do miss my minimal Home Screen from Android (Niagara launcher and Kwidget). Working on it using Widgey and Home Assistant. The text is dynamic based on various sensors and helpers, it’s not live but updates throughout the day.
My iPhone Home Screen. The background is overlapping waves in shades of orange at the top and green at the bottom. It features a large widget with the weather, time and date in a rectangle at the top, and some text below which reads “Evening, Brad. Rob is at work. Dryer needs emptying. Water the plants!” All the text is white. There is space below for some more fun stuff I plan to add later. The only app icons are in the dock. I’m using the transparent theme so the icons look white.
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Dave K 🔜 PSLP @stiefelkopp.bsky.social · 20/09/2026
Recon may not be interested in discussing their platform's security over social media, but that doesn't mean the rest of us can't.
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I Told Recon Their App Is Horribly Insecure. Then They Banned Me.
Recon’s Platform is Leaking Your Private Data On The Open Web and They Don’t Really Give A Shit
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 19/09/2026
lol Rob just informed me that while I was sending hilarious messages about how Oran is a “poor oppressed minority in our wonderful three-way relationship” to our group chat, the nice lady at Specsavers had his phone in her hand trying to sort out his hearing aids. 😅
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 14/09/2026
Oh, man, the last ten seconds of Traitors Ireland tonight!
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Chris Pratt Whoa
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 14/09/2026
I just tried to fold my new iPhone. (It’s not a Duo!)
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 13/09/2026
I wrote about my Android experiment which is coming to an end tomorrow when my new iPhone arrives. 🍊
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So I switched to Android...
...and I don't hate it but I also don't love it. It's fine, and for a "normal" person it would probably be a lot better than my experienc...
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 13/09/2026
It was a very good dinner. 😮‍💨😋
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 12/09/2026
Going through my photos sorting them out before I switch phones and found this place we drove past in Iceland before I could get my phone out to get a photo of the sign. 😏😆
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 11/09/2026
Rob always has the TV on when we go to bed. Tonight's movie is Maleficent. She just said "Go away, I don't like children" and Oran said it's like when he and I first met. 😆
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 10/09/2026
We're watching Hoppers. Just look at Timber watching the movie! 😍
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 10/09/2026
My parents have gone home! They arrived mid-July, it's been a looooong 8 weeks or so. Gonna spend an hour putting the house right and then spend the rest of the day just enjoying having the place to ourselves again. ☺️
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 09/09/2026
I booked the rest of this week off work, felt like I needed a break. Not much planned, my parents are here until tomorrow so this is my last full day with them, and then we have a few days without them to decompress and relax. Gonna spend today catching up on Silo and messing with Home Assistant.
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 09/09/2026
Seriously, we fucked this morning, I had a wank after he left, and I'm STILL horny enough to post a nude pic (which I almost never do). Maybe I caught some kind of horny disease in Iceland. God help Oran when he arrives on Thursday!
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 09/09/2026
I'm absolutely fucking feral since we got back from Iceland! 🥴 Like a horny teenager, can't get enough of my husband.
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 09/09/2026
First night with an air quality monitor in the bedroom... Oh dear. This is with two of us in the room and the windows slightly open; we regularly have Oran here too. Kinda wanna see how bad it gets with him here too before I try anything to mitigate it!
A graph from the CO2 sensor in our bedroom showing the levels last night. It quickly climbs above 1000ppm and within an hour are it's above 2000ppm and stays there. The peak level was around 2700ppm. There's a dip towards the end when Rob opened the en suite door, followed by a peak when we were fucking. 😜A description of the effects of levels of CO2 concentration. 

250-400ppm Normal background concentration in outdoor ambient air 
400-1,000ppm Concentrations typical of occupied indoor spaces with good air exchange 
1,000-2,000ppm Complaints of drowsiness and poor air. 
2,000-5,000 ppm Headaches, sleepiness and stagnant, stale, stuffy air. Poor concentration, loss of attention, increased heart rate and slight nausea may also be present. 
5,000 Workplace exposure limit (as 8-hour TWA) in most jurisdictions. 
>40,000 ppm Exposure may lead to serious oxygen deprivation resulting in permanent brain damage, coma, even death.
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 08/09/2026
We redecorated our bedroom recently. It's not totally finished, needs some pictures on the walls and a few bits for the final polish, but I really love it. It's quite dark even in the daylight, but I don't mind that. It's a bedroom, it's for resting in, and I find it really restful. 💚
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 07/09/2026
Fleeced one more time for breakfast in the airport, now we're boarded for our flight home. What a weekend! 🇮🇸🐻❤️ #RABOT #RVKBEAR
Us on the plane waiting to take off. I look a bit manic after a stupidly early start and not enough coffee.
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 07/09/2026
We spent our last night in Iceland eating soup from a bread bowl and freezing our bums off in an ice bar. Worth it! Had a fantastic trip, some great memories, we'll be back! #RABOT #RVKBEAR
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 06/09/2026
Apparently the bears prefer the Blue Lagoon because you can't see what's going on under the water... 👀 I wouldn't like that cos my brain would tell me there are sharks and sea monsters under the water. 😖
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 06/09/2026
Today is the last day of the scheduled #RVKBEAR stuff, a farewell brunch, a bunch of the bears went off to the Blue Lagoon but we decided to stay and explore Reykjavik since we haven't had much time in the city. Early start tomorrow, so a quiet night tonight I think. #RABOT
A selfie of me on the Rainbow Road in Reykjavik. The three of us on the Rainbow Road. Rob has his Mr Bear Ireland sash on cos we had been taking some promo shots. The Hallgrímskirkja, it looks like a rocketship made from basalt columns. Oran standing under a pub sign which reads "The Irishman Pub". He looks very excited.
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 05/09/2026
Today we went to the incredible Sky Lagoon just outside Reykjavik. Designed to sink into the landscape with black lava rocks and turf and moss on the roof, the heated infinity pool blends seamlessly into the ocean, with views of jagged volcanic peaks in the distance. Absolutely gorgeous spot!
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 05/09/2026
Mr Bear Reykjavik 2027 is Ormur! ❤️⁨#RABOT⁩ ⁨#RVKBEAR⁩
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 04/09/2026
Absolute firstest of first world problems but I'm really not sure which of the sexy bears here in Reykjavik to drag to the dark room first tonight. 😈
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 03/09/2026
And we're off! I'll be using our usual hashtag for trips if you want to avoid a gazillion probably boring updates. #RABOT (Rob And Brad On Tour, or maybe Rob And Brad Oran Tour this time!) #RVKBEAR
Three men in a car. We're all in black tops, Rob and Oran have caps on. Maybe I should have worn a cap...A photo of the car stereo playing "Mum's Gone To Iceland" by Bennet. You can also see the cute little bear pilot air freshener with the propeller that spins when the air con is turned on.
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 02/09/2026
What GIF pops up when you type in your name?
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Brad Pitt Flexing in Red Shirt
ALT: Brad Pitt Flexing in Red Shirt
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 02/09/2026
We're all packed ready for Iceland. Oran sure does pack a lot of clothes for someone who wears mostly tiny GAA shorts and sleeveless tops. 🤔
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 30/08/2026
I was super excited for the PS5 upgraded version of Witcher 3 but found it really awful to play, the controls just didn't feel right after playing modern games for so long. Didn't get far at all. Gonna give the new "complete" version a blast, hopefully they fixed it.
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 29/08/2026
Fancy new presence sensor (Aqara FP2) knows who is in bed. 😉
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 29/08/2026
Pinnochio Unstrung is the best of the Poohniverse movies by a long shot but maaaaan the dialogue is bad.
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Bear @bearbares.bsky.social · 27/08/2026
Happy birthday to my baby boy, Timber! He’s 1 today!
Image shows a black dog, sitting (for once!) with his eyes closed.
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 26/08/2026
Absolutely infuriating that I can do everything relating to my credit card online apart from cancel it. That takes a phone call, and I've been waiting on hold for 18 minutes so far... It's almost as if they want people to give up and just keep the card or something.
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 25/08/2026
Flew to Chicago, got drunk a bit, took an awesome multi-day train ride over the Rockies and the Sierra Nevadas to San Francisco, where I got drunk again.
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 25/08/2026
I've misplaced my leather wrist cuffs. Kinda miffed cos I liked them, but they were getting a bit shabby after years of wear anyway. So I need new ones. Can't find anything like what I had (single piece of leather with two buckles, not separate straps across a leather panel, not press-studs). 😖
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 24/08/2026
We're off for a big beary long weekend in Reykjavik next weekend. Lots of stuff already planned, including a tour of the golden circle and a geothermal spa, but we will have some free time. Anything we should make sure we see or do or eat?
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 22/08/2026
Severely underestimated how much paint we would need for our bedroom and it's not in stock anywhere nearby. Now we get to live with a half-painted bedroom for 4 days. 🙃 Definitely not the end of the world, but annoying all the same.
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 14/08/2026
Some major gear changes coming up on the office Jukebox this morning! 🥴
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Bear @bearbares.bsky.social · 13/08/2026
Your thoughts would be appreciated. unhinged.ie
unhinged.ie
Unhinged. SERIOUS ABOUT THE ART, NOT ABOUT THE RULES.
Unhinged: an arts collective founded by Rob Partridge & Oran Tobin. Choirs, chamber ensembles, operas, classical music, operetta, poetry, salons, and workshops in Galway.
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 13/08/2026
Just spent waaaaay too long trying to get three dogs to sit down at the same time. 🙃
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 12/08/2026
Kinda cloudy here but hopefully we'll see some moon on sun action soon. Almost 96% totality here. 🌑
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 10/08/2026
Rob received a lovely* message from an absolute melter who should know better but couldn't comprehend that someone who wears two hearing aids due to hearing loss might not be able to hear them in the middle of a busy Pride parade with music, drums and chanting all around. *hateful and drama-queeny
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 09/08/2026
Looool looks like I was very excited to meet Mr Leather London. Pretty sure most of it is just the fabric but yeeeah, he was hot. 😏
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Bear @bearbares.bsky.social · 09/08/2026
Galway Pride was yesterday. Here's my thoughts. rob.chez.gay/blog/posts/t...
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Two Prides, One Bear, and a Dangerous Amount of Vodka | The Personal Disquiet of Me
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 08/08/2026
Disco nap before we head back out.
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 08/08/2026
Having a fun day at Galway pride. Grabbing food before we head out for the evening's festivities!
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