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@sideb.chez.gay
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40-something Brit 🇬🇧 living in rural Ireland 🇮🇪 with my bear of a husband 🐻🏳️‍🌈 Sometimes NSFW 🔞 If you don’t want to see my junk, don’t follow me.

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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 04/10/2026
We attended the GALAs (LGBTQ+ awards) in Dublin last night. Dublin Bears were nominated in the Best Event category, didn’t win but we still had a blast. Met Anna from Traitors Ireland too!
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 30/09/2026
Bedtime = bedtime treats.
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 30/09/2026
Remember when #Apple was famed for attention to detail and everything “just worked”? Pretty sure this button in the Apple TV+ UI is supposed to say “skip recap” or something similar.
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 22/09/2026
I switched back to iOS last week and while I’m generally happier I do miss my minimal Home Screen from Android (Niagara launcher and Kwidget). Working on it using Widgey and Home Assistant. The text is dynamic based on various sensors and helpers, it’s not live but updates throughout the day.
My iPhone Home Screen. The background is overlapping waves in shades of orange at the top and green at the bottom. It features a large widget with the weather, time and date in a rectangle at the top, and some text below which reads “Evening, Brad. Rob is at work. Dryer needs emptying. Water the plants!” All the text is white. There is space below for some more fun stuff I plan to add later. The only app icons are in the dock. I’m using the transparent theme so the icons look white.
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 12/09/2026
Going through my photos sorting them out before I switch phones and found this place we drove past in Iceland before I could get my phone out to get a photo of the sign. 😏😆
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 10/09/2026
We're watching Hoppers. Just look at Timber watching the movie! 😍
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 09/09/2026
Seriously, we fucked this morning, I had a wank after he left, and I'm STILL horny enough to post a nude pic (which I almost never do). Maybe I caught some kind of horny disease in Iceland. God help Oran when he arrives on Thursday!
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 09/09/2026
First night with an air quality monitor in the bedroom... Oh dear. This is with two of us in the room and the windows slightly open; we regularly have Oran here too. Kinda wanna see how bad it gets with him here too before I try anything to mitigate it!
A graph from the CO2 sensor in our bedroom showing the levels last night. It quickly climbs above 1000ppm and within an hour are it's above 2000ppm and stays there. The peak level was around 2700ppm. There's a dip towards the end when Rob opened the en suite door, followed by a peak when we were fucking. 😜A description of the effects of levels of CO2 concentration. 

250-400ppm Normal background concentration in outdoor ambient air 
400-1,000ppm Concentrations typical of occupied indoor spaces with good air exchange 
1,000-2,000ppm Complaints of drowsiness and poor air. 
2,000-5,000 ppm Headaches, sleepiness and stagnant, stale, stuffy air. Poor concentration, loss of attention, increased heart rate and slight nausea may also be present. 
5,000 Workplace exposure limit (as 8-hour TWA) in most jurisdictions. 
>40,000 ppm Exposure may lead to serious oxygen deprivation resulting in permanent brain damage, coma, even death.
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 08/09/2026
We redecorated our bedroom recently. It's not totally finished, needs some pictures on the walls and a few bits for the final polish, but I really love it. It's quite dark even in the daylight, but I don't mind that. It's a bedroom, it's for resting in, and I find it really restful. 💚
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 07/09/2026
Fleeced one more time for breakfast in the airport, now we're boarded for our flight home. What a weekend! 🇮🇸🐻❤️ #RABOT #RVKBEAR
Us on the plane waiting to take off. I look a bit manic after a stupidly early start and not enough coffee.
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 07/09/2026
We spent our last night in Iceland eating soup from a bread bowl and freezing our bums off in an ice bar. Worth it! Had a fantastic trip, some great memories, we'll be back! #RABOT #RVKBEAR
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 06/09/2026
Today is the last day of the scheduled #RVKBEAR stuff, a farewell brunch, a bunch of the bears went off to the Blue Lagoon but we decided to stay and explore Reykjavik since we haven't had much time in the city. Early start tomorrow, so a quiet night tonight I think. #RABOT
A selfie of me on the Rainbow Road in Reykjavik. The three of us on the Rainbow Road. Rob has his Mr Bear Ireland sash on cos we had been taking some promo shots. The Hallgrímskirkja, it looks like a rocketship made from basalt columns. Oran standing under a pub sign which reads "The Irishman Pub". He looks very excited.
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 05/09/2026
Mr Bear Reykjavik 2027 is Ormur! ❤️⁨#RABOT⁩ ⁨#RVKBEAR⁩
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 05/09/2026
Today we went to the incredible Sky Lagoon just outside Reykjavik. Designed to sink into the landscape with black lava rocks and turf and moss on the roof, the heated infinity pool blends seamlessly into the ocean, with views of jagged volcanic peaks in the distance. Absolutely gorgeous spot!
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 04/09/2026
Today was a tour of the Golden Circle; Thingvellir, Geysir and Gullfoss. Really interesting and fun, the tour guide was great, and we were so lucky with the weather, even if the sun made for some very squinty selfies. Disco nap now before tonight's "Tops Off" party. 😜 #RABOT #RVKBEAR
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 04/09/2026
Didn't get many pics yesterday but we checked into the hotel, wandered around a bit to get our bearings, got traumatised by how expensive some snacks for the hotel room were and then went to the welcome party. Rob is a bit delicate this morning cos he had free drinks last night. 😉 #RABOT #RVKBEAR
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 03/09/2026
Skál! #RABOT #RVKBEAR
The three of us in a bar at Dublin airport. I'm holding a pint of lager.
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 03/09/2026
And we're off! I'll be using our usual hashtag for trips if you want to avoid a gazillion probably boring updates. #RABOT (Rob And Brad On Tour, or maybe Rob And Brad Oran Tour this time!) #RVKBEAR
Three men in a car. We're all in black tops, Rob and Oran have caps on. Maybe I should have worn a cap...A photo of the car stereo playing "Mum's Gone To Iceland" by Bennet. You can also see the cute little bear pilot air freshener with the propeller that spins when the air con is turned on.
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 29/08/2026
Fancy new presence sensor (Aqara FP2) knows who is in bed. 😉
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 27/08/2026
My husband bought me three bottles on Tuesday. 😋
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 25/08/2026
Flew to Chicago, got drunk a bit, took an awesome multi-day train ride over the Rockies and the Sierra Nevadas to San Francisco, where I got drunk again.
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 14/08/2026
Some major gear changes coming up on the office Jukebox this morning! 🥴
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 13/08/2026
Just spent waaaaay too long trying to get three dogs to sit down at the same time. 🙃
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 12/08/2026
Kinda cloudy here but hopefully we'll see some moon on sun action soon. Almost 96% totality here. 🌑
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 09/08/2026
Looool looks like I was very excited to meet Mr Leather London. Pretty sure most of it is just the fabric but yeeeah, he was hot. 😏
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 08/08/2026
Disco nap before we head back out.
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 08/08/2026
Having a fun day at Galway pride. Grabbing food before we head out for the evening's festivities!
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 08/08/2026
Sonos really have shit the bed, haven't they? I don't use the app much if I can help it these days but I just opened it to play some music and was greeted by this unskippable screen telling me I have to update before I can do anything else. So I picked up an iPad and used Airplay instead.
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 24/07/2026
And some more.
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 24/07/2026
Office Jukebox is quite eclectic today. Some abrupt gear changes coming up!
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 23/07/2026
Second year in a row seeing Sophie Ellis Bextor at the Galway Arts Festival. She always puts on a fun show. 💃🏻 Support this year was Kate Nash... not quite the same vibe. 😅
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 22/07/2026
The Lime Mi Wadi drought continues.
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 20/07/2026
Apparently there's a national Lime Miwadi shortage. Rob has been hunting it down for me, multiple branches of different supermarkets over the last two weeks but there's none to be found. 😭 Tesco own brand stuff isn't the same. 😒
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 18/07/2026
We got a pergola from IKEA, need to tweak some things but it's a lovely shaded space to enjoy the garden now.
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 12/07/2026
We indulged in some careoke on the drive home. 🎤🚗 True friends don't care how badly you wail along to power ballads. Luckily.
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 12/07/2026
Bonus 360⁰ video from the top.
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 12/07/2026
Picked a stupidly hot day to go hiking up Diamond Hill in Connemara, been wanting to do it for years and my mate dragged me up there yesterday. Incredible views from the top, and then we went for a dip in the Atlantic to cool off afterwards.
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 03/07/2026
This is what happens when we eat prawn crackers.
A photo from my point of view sitting on the sofa in my underwear. My bare legs are stretched out in front of me with a bowl of Chinese food just visible in my lap. There are three dogs all staring raptly at a point just above the camera.
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 27/06/2026
Have some video too.
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 27/06/2026
Super fun day marching with the bears in Dublin pride! 🌈 We started on the bus but then we walked in front of it the rest of the way.
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 27/06/2026
Awww I just checked on the dogs and Timber is lying with his head out the cat flap, feels like he's watching for us to come home. 🥺
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 26/06/2026
Here comes trouble.
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 26/06/2026
Mr Bear Ireland and his entourage are en route to Dublin for Pride! 🌈 🐻 @bearbares.bsky.social
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 25/06/2026
I think she played every track from Sexistential (it's a short album) and I honestly don't love the album but the live performances made a difference. A scattering of older stuff, a surprise visit from CMAT, and an epic finale in Dancing On My Own. She's an incredible performer.
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 25/06/2026
Very basic but effective staging too, a scaffold with a grid of lights, a translucent screen, and some white fabric. The opening was so cool, she was silhouetted on the fabric and a light bar lit her so that it looked like she was moving side to side. There were some other cool lighting effects too.
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 25/06/2026
I was at the opening night of the Sexistential tour last night, never seen Robyn live before and Jesus fucking Christ, she owned that stage! No dancers, no backing singers, just her and the band who were way in the background, and she just... Fucking ruled! Absolutely magnetic performance.
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 20/06/2026
Took the dogs to Connemara this afternoon, a good run on a boggy hillside followed by exploring a wind farm.
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 19/06/2026
I think Maya disturbed a bee or wasp nest. We noticed her eye was swollen and assumed she had been stung once, but then the swelling went down and she's covered in bumps, all over her head and flanks and chest and legs. She seems fine thankfully, doesn't seem to be too bothered at all, but still. 😭
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 19/06/2026
Everyone loved him, of course. How could they not?
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Side B @sideb.chez.gay · 14/06/2026
Just finished Dungeon Crawler Carl book 8. Simultaneously surprised and unsurprised at the direction he's taken. 😆 CW on the image for spoilers. 😉
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