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Scarleteen @scarleteen.com · 28/09/2026

Thanks to the 102 people who raised $7,695 to support Scarleteen, whether you donated or signal-boosted this year’s fundraiser! Your support pays for real sex ed from real people who lead with experience, care, and connection…and you can donate any time right here: pro.gofundme.com/give/566676#... 😉

Back of a yellow school bus. On the back door it reads "Scarleteen-- Queer sex ed for all since 1998". Above the bus is teal and red text saying "Thanks to the 102 people who donated $7,695 to keep this bus on the road!"

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Scarleteen @scarleteen.com · 26/09/2026

"This website is probably the best resource of its kind. I am so lucky, as are all readers of Scarleteen, that this website exists and can provide facts to those who need them." —R Support more like this: Visit the link in our replies and help us raise $7k for celebrate 7 million 2026 visitors!

An apple and star with testimonials from fans of Scarleteen: Someone had told me Scarleteen was the best place on the internet for sexual health info, and I see now that they were completely right! — B. It's so so nice to talk to people who see and hear me as a person. So many places on the internet aren't very inclusive and this has got to be one of the most inclusive spaces I've found online. I wish I had found it back when I was in high school but I'm glad I found it now. —L. This website is probably the best resource of its kind. I am so lucky, as are all readers of Scarleteen, that this website exists and can provide facts to those who need them. —R

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Scarleteen @scarleteen.com · 26/09/2026

Friends, we are SO CLOSE to our fundraising goal! Only $820 more to get us to $7k! Can you help us get there? Every little bit helps 🙏🏻❤️

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Scarleteen @scarleteen.com · 25/09/2026

In an era where queer & trans people are under attack, our team is defiantly queer & trans led, providing real support to scared people in scary times. But it’s scary for us, too. We need your support so we can provide community care to all who need it, every day: give.gofundme.com/7kfor7m

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Scarleteen @scarleteen.com · 23/09/2026

Sex ed doesn’t just center pleasure, but human connection. At Scarleteen, you’ll find education that includes navigating friendships, building community, and celebrating our whole selves. We’re raising $7k in honor of our 7 million visitors in 2026: join our donors today! give.gofundme.com/7kfor7m

Three photos of three couples; two women, two men, and a man and a woman laid out on the graphic with little pieces of tape as if they are in a scrapbook. The text below them reads "Pleasure, connection, joy. Scarleteen-- queer sex ed for all since 1998."

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Scarleteen @scarleteen.com · 22/09/2026

Hi friends! We are just over halfway to our fundraising goal! Can you help us continue doing what we do best? Young people deserve respect, care, and connection from sex ed. Scarleteen delivers that 365 days a year, for free, boldly and unapologetically, with your help: give.gofundme.com/7kfor7m

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Scarleteen's Raising $7,000 to Celebrate 7 Million Visitors in 2026!

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Scarleteen @scarleteen.com · 21/09/2026

Parenting isn’t a solo project. Scarleteen helps parents—including some who got sex ed from us—with resources and support 365 days a year. We’re raising $7,000 by September 28th to make sure we’re always here for them. Join our donors today! give.gofundme.com/7kfor7m

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Scarleteen @scarleteen.com · 21/09/2026

Our content is made by our staff & volunteers; NOT AI. It's made by real queer, trans, & disabled people FOR queer, trans, & disabled people! By the way, that includes our founder & director, @heathercorinna.bsky.social, who writes articles and actively participates in direct services every day! 🙌

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Scarleteen @scarleteen.com · 18/09/2026

At Scarleteen, our learner-led sex education includes tough conversations about abuse and harm reduction alongside celebration of the diversity of human relationships and experiences. We’re raising $7k by 9/28: Contribute today, and challenge someone to match you! give.gofundme.com/7kfor7m

Checklist: What makes us special? We offer comprehensive and queer-inclusive sex ed based in facts, care, and research. Staffed by real queer and trans and disabled humans. We never, ever use AI for anything. We're sex nerds who love what we do! Scarleteen.

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Feral Kwe -- Elidibus Truther @feralkwe.bsky.social · 15/09/2026

Scarleteen is, IMO, the best sex, health, and relationship education site on the internet. They've striven to provide the best science-based help and resources for longer than some of you have been alive, and continue to do so. They are so worthy of your help if you're able.

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Scarleteen @scarleteen.com · 17/09/2026

Thank you thank you thank you @eli.pizza! This is so very generous of you ❤️ If you'd like your donation to be matched, please consider donating to Eli's page for our fundraiser.

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Scarleteen @scarleteen.com · 16/09/2026

Scarleteen is people! That’s right, no generative AI here. We’re raising $7k by September 28th in honor of the 7 million visitors we expect this year to support the real humans delivering sex ed. Help out with a one-time contribution or become an annual donor! give.gofundme.com/7kfor7m

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Scarleteen @scarleteen.com · 15/09/2026

Support queer- and trans- led sex ed and share our fundraiser so people can learn more about us and contribute to our work!

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s. e. smith @sesmith.lol · 15/09/2026

Okay rich friends employed with companies that do employer matching: Please help me raise $7k to support @scarleteen.com's fall fundraiser. We're expecting 7 million visitors this year (up from 5 million!) in a climate where access to good sex ed, esp. for LGBTQIA+ young people, is dwindling.

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mo 🐀 @ranyart.bsky.social · 14/09/2026

Please help support the best source of information about sex, relationships, consent, & identity (among other things!) for young people online. Scarleteen makes real compassionate information and advice available in a landscape that has a huge amount of incorrect and fear- or shame-based content.

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Scarleteen @scarleteen.com · 14/09/2026

School’s in! And so is Scarleteen’s annual fundraiser. We’re raising $7k for our 7m visitors in 2026. Chip today or become a monthly recurring donor here: give.gofundme.com/7kfor7m

Yellow school bus against a teal background. The side of the bus reads "Scarleteen. Queer sex ed for all since 1998." The text above the bus reads "Your math homework: help Scarleteen raise $7,000 by September 28th so a trans- and queer-led team of REAL PEOPLE can provide inclusive sex, health, and relationships education. (AI is an automatic F!)" in red and black text.

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Scarleteen @scarleteen.com · 19/08/2026

Did you know Scarleteen has award-winning moderated message boards, a text/SMS service, advice columns, and live chat for young people who need support? Head to www.scarleteen.com/ask to get help from real humans with the experience and training to handle sex, health, and relationships questions.

Text: "However you need to reach us... we've got your back! Learn more about the different lines of direct support and education we provide to youth across the world," alongside two young people talking through pretend paper cup phones.

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Scarleteen @scarleteen.com · 08/09/2026

What do you do when struggling to accept your identity and also afraid that accepting yourself fully might make the future feel uncertain? Scarleteen staffer @sesmith.lol answers with insight from lived experience and many conversations with other trans elders: www.scarleteen.com/read/ident...

Text: Black and white image of a person with a pensive look on their face. Above their head is a thought bubble with a question mark with text that reads, "I can't seem to accept myself." To the left is more text reading, 'I'm worried that if I remain a girl I would regret it for life. What can I do? How can I understand what is the best for me?' "Swipe to get a sneak peek at s.e's advice," along with an arrow pointing to the right.

A sticky note held up by two pieces of tape on the top corners reads, "s.e. writes... I see a I see a few things that are troubling you. One is the larger question of your identity, but I think you have the answer to that one: You say that if you “remain a girl, I would regret it for life,” which sure sounds to me like you are finding a sense of self as a trans man. You’ve been thinking about this since you were 14, and have had time to consider who you are and who you want to be. Trying to live as a person you’re not is painful, hard, and stressful, as you already know, and no one should have to live with a part of themselves shut down like this." Below the sticky note is more text reading, "Read their full answer at Scarleteen. Have your own question? Need some advice? You can write to us in the 'Ask for Help' section of our website!"

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Scarleteen @scarleteen.com · 04/09/2026

Loneliness can feel especially confusing when we’re supposed to be more “connected” than ever through social media. Adam England shares how to cope with these very human feelings and what to do when connection feels out of reach. www.scarleteen.com/read/feeli...

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Scarleteen @scarleteen.com · 01/09/2026

Sassafras Patterdale has advice for a visitor with a common question: What do you do when someone you consider a friend repeatedly crosses your boundaries, makes uncomfortable comments about your identity, and treats you like an accessory? www.scarleteen.com/read/relat...

Black and white image of a trans man wearing glasses and a floral button up shirt against a teal background. Above his head is text reading, "I feel like the token 'queer friend'... what should I do?" To his left is more text reading, "'I don't know how to emotionally invest in a friendship I don't feel safe or valued in.' Swipe to get a sneak peek at Sassafras' advice." With an arrow pointing to the right.

A sticky note held up by two pieces of tape on the top corners reads, "Sassafras writes... Friendship can be really hard sometimes, and navigating interactions with people who say one thing and do another can be especially difficult. From what you are describing, it doesn’t sound like your friend is behaving like a very good friend to you or to others in his life right now... While your main question is about how to invest in the friendship, I also want to offer the perspective that now or in the future, if the investment doesn’t feel worth it, it’s ok to end friendships. Not all friendships are destined to last forever." Below the sticky note is more text reading, "Read their full answer at Scarleteen. Have your own question? Need some advice? You can write to us in the 'Ask for Help' section of our website!"

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Scarleteen @scarleteen.com · 28/08/2026

The way people talk, you'd think it would be sooo easy to build healthy relationships with other people. But we know that things aren't always as simple as they seem. So we created a handy guide to help you build, board, and navigate healthy relationships! www.scarleteen.com/read/relat...

Collage image. On the left, a black and white image of a woman wearing a 1920s style bathing suit. She is looking to her right in the direction of a sailing ship and exclaiming, "Hello, Sailor!" In the middle of the image, text reads: "How to Build, Board, and Navigate a Healthy Relationship." A dotted navigation line leads to text: "Find the guide at Scarleteen" above a black and white image of a man wearing a sailor costume and life preserver, using binoculars.

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Scarleteen @scarleteen.com · 26/08/2026

Many Scarleteen visitors are worried about their sexual fantasies. They think that they're bad people or their fantasies are dangerous. Learn about the difference between fantasy and reality, and how fantasies can be a healthy part of your sexuality and identity. www.scarleteen.com/read/sex-s...

Text: "Your sexual fantasies reflect the diversity of human sexuality NOT a moral failing by s.e. smith. Read Now at Scarleteen," written in multiple fonts alongside a vase with flowers.

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Scarleteen @scarleteen.com · 19/08/2026

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B! 🐝 Cavello (they/them) @b-cavello.bsky.social · 16/08/2026

Wow! I'm constantly impressed with the resources from @scarleteen.com 💖 There are so many topics that young people need support with, and Scarleteen produces so many amazing resources that show people compassion, respect, and real care. What an awesome org. www.scarleteen.com/read/culture...

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Kicked Out: A Survival Guide

Are you being, have you been, or are you afraid you might be kicked out? Former kicked-out kid, excellent human and writer Sassafras Patterdale is here to help you get through it.

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Scarleteen @scarleteen.com · 11/08/2026

Pumps seem simple in theory but they are one of the more misunderstood sex toys. A lot of us know about them from jokes about people trying to make their penises bigger (they can't, just fyi). But pumps have lots of uses and can be very pleasurable. Learn more: www.scarleteen.com/read/sex-s...

Text reads: "How to Play With Toys! Pumps Edition" above a bright pink heart with bubbles and two different styles of pumps. There is a squiggly arrow in the bottom right corner encouraging users to swipe right.

Red and white text on a pink background reads: “Pumps are tools that use a gentle vacuum-like suction over the body. When in use, the pump brings blood flow to an area, which can temporarily increase sensitivity⁠, swelling, size, and/or create a feeling of fullness or engorgement. Some people enjoy the physical sensations that accompany wearing, using, or removing the pump. Others like the temporary visual changes in size or aesthetic, or enjoy them merely as a gateway to more sensitivity or responsiveness. ” -Gabrielle Kassel, Queer sex educator and journalist

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Scarleteen @scarleteen.com · 07/08/2026

We're bringing back another greatest hit from Heather Corinna today! The beauty of this piece lies in the driving home of the message that no two bodies are ever built the same and thus pleasure looks different for every body! www.scarleteen.com/read/bodie...

Text: "With pleasure! A view of whole sexual anatomy for every body. Our go-to guide on sexual anatomy. Dive into all things relating to bodies, including genitals and pleasure. Read now at Scarleteen," beside a figure of a body with stars on different erogenous zones.

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Scarleteen @scarleteen.com · 04/08/2026

Everyone's timeline on T is different: For Cay Macres, it felt frustratingly slow, until they started relating to their body with more curiosity, and less impatience. www.scarleteen.com/read/ident...

Text: "Are changes from testosterone taking longer than you expected? Cay Macres has some advice on how to deal with the wait at Scarleteen," alongside a snail on a winding trail and a Speed Limit sign with a question mark on it.

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Sheryl Weikal says Prosecute ICE @leftistlawyer.com · 03/08/2026

Being undocumented in the United States is not a crime. Being undocumented in the United States is not a crime. Being undocumented in the United States is not a crime. Being undocumented in the United States is not a crime. Being undocumented in the United States is not a crime.

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Scarleteen @scarleteen.com · 31/07/2026

Sometimes, even when you really like someone your dynamic just isn't right for a romance. And that's ok! But it's not always easy going from LIKING someone to liking someone, y'know? Lisa Laman is here to help you navigate transitioning from dating to friendship: www.scarleteen.com/read/relat...

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Jax Romana, Bimbo Reprobate ✨🌹🌈 @rufflejax.bsky.social · 30/07/2026

Scarleteen remains undefeated in the clear and concise sex ed department

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Scarleteen @scarleteen.com · 28/07/2026

Seen people talking about “sex addiction” and “porn addiction"? These are not real medical diagnoses. Dr. Amy Marsh explains, with information for people who are concerned about the role of sex and porn in their lives. www.scarleteen.com/read/sex-s...

Text: "Want the fact on porn and sex 'addiction'? Dr. Amy Marsh sets the record straight on a misunderstood term. Read it on Scarleteen," alongside a person squinting one eye into a magnifying glass they're holding up to their face.

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Scarleteen @scarleteen.com · 24/07/2026

After experiencing sexual assault or abuse, many survivors struggle with sexual/romantic relationships. Scarleteen founder @heathercorinna.bsky.social writes about how to feel safe in your own body, rediscover your sexual self, and be kinder to yourself: www.scarleteen.com/read/abuse...

Black and white image of a young man sitting on the ground against a teal background. He is pinching the bridge of his nose as if he is frustrated or disappointed. The text above his head reads: "How can you create a happy, healthy sexual life with a partner when a history of abuse has left you with an array of wounds, fears, and physical and emotional reactions outside your control?"

A graphic of a sticky note against a teal background. The text on the sticky note reads: "Heather writes... Ultimately, none of us are ever in full control of our bodies. So much of what our bodies do, including a lot of our sexual response, is involuntary, and that can be some of why sex⁠ can be extra challenging for sexual and physical abuse⁠ survivors. We’ve already struggled to feel real agency, autonomy⁠ and control when it comes to our bodies because of the experience and impacts of abuse, and now here go our bodies doing things without our permission or direction, or not doing things when we want them to..." Below the sticky note is more text that reads, "Read their advice at Scarleteen. Have your own question? Need some good help? You can post your own questions at the 'Ask for Help' section of our site."

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Scarleteen @scarleteen.com · 22/07/2026

For unhoused young people who left dangerous living situations, the risk of being picked up by police and returned to those situations is a big concern. Sassafras Patterdale offers practical safety tips if this happens to you or someone you care about: www.scarleteen.com/read/sent-...

Text: "Sent back home: What to do if you're picked up by the police and brought back home. Part of the kicked out series by Sassafras Patterdale at Scarleteen," alongside a raccoon looking forward.

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Scarleteen @scarleteen.com · 19/07/2026

Thanks for sharing the week with us and the Abortion Positivity Project! At Scarleteen, we deliver abortion & other vital info & direct help 365 days a year. Want to help support us and keep this kind of content available online and free? Consider becoming a donor with Scarleteen, the APP or both! ⤵️

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Scarleteen @scarleteen.com · 17/07/2026

At Scarleteen, abortion isn’t something we whisper about or shame. Everyone deserves accurate, nonjudgmental information about their bodies, options, and care. Here are a few resources on supporting someone having an abortion, protecting privacy, and prioritizing safety while getting care.🧵

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Scarleteen @scarleteen.com · 16/07/2026

Everyone deserves the information they need to make informed decisions about their own body. This week, we’re collaborating with Abortion Positivity Project (abortionpositivity.com) to share clear, accurate, and nonjudgmental resources and to help destigmatize abortion.

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Kat Tenbarge @kattenbarge.bsky.social · 15/07/2026

When guys are like “that’s not rape, all my friends have done that,” that’s exactly what we’re talking about. That’s the problem. Rape is so common and unpunished that a guy could casually reveal all his friends are rapists and not see it as a problem.

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Scarleteen @scarleteen.com · 15/07/2026

Today we’re sharing resources on self-managed abortions, why they’re important, and guides on how to find safe abortion care even when the barriers to accessing this care may be overwhelming.🧵

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Scarleteen @scarleteen.com · 13/07/2026

Abortion is a core tenet of human dignity, freedom, and bodily autonomy. It should be safe, accessible, legal, stigma-free, and affordable for anyone who wants or needs it. This week, we’re collaborating with APP and sharing abortion resources that uphold these values.🧵

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Scarleteen @scarleteen.com · 10/07/2026

The term "grooming" is getting thrown around a lot these days. It is often used to wrongly target members of the LGBTQ+ community. But this misuse of the word obfuscates its true meaning... and makes it easier for real abusers to get away with causing harm. www.scarleteen.com/read/abuse...

Text: "The term 'grooming' has been in a lot of headlines lately... but what is grooming? Learn more at Scarleteen," alongside a rusty sign that reads "Danger. Keep Out."

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Scarleteen @scarleteen.com · 07/07/2026

If you have ovaries, ovarian cysts are a possibility, and they’re more common than many people realize. Adrienne Santos-Longhurst breaks down what ovarian cysts are, the different types to know, and the signs that it may be time to check in with a doctor. www.scarleteen.com/read/sexua...

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Scarleteen @scarleteen.com · 02/07/2026

Social media platforms keep flagging our posts as “mature/adult content,” but Scarleteen is still here doing what we’ve always done: providing inclusive, accurate, comprehensive sex ed. Platform rules can make sharing harder, but the need for this info does not go away.

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Catherine Winters @catherinewinters.com · 02/07/2026

@moderation.bsky.app, how in the world is this "Adult Content" and why isn't there a "no, it isn't" button I can hammer?

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Scarleteen @scarleteen.com · 02/07/2026

A user recently wrote to us about feeling uncomfortable with her breasts. Can people like her benefit from gender-affirming care despite being cisgender? Writer s.e. smith says yes! Everyone deserves to feel good in their own body. Check it out here: www.scarleteen.com/read/bodie...

A young woman looks down at her chest with a distressed look on her face. She has her hands pressed against the top of her breasts. Above her is a question mark and text reading: "I'm a nineteen-year-old cis girl, and I really hate my chest." To her left is additional text reading, "Swipe to get a sneak peek at s.e.'s advice." Along with an arrow pointing to the right.

An image of a sticky note with a piece of clear tape over the top left corner and top right corner. The text on the sticky note reads, "s.e. writes... Feeling uncomfortable in your body can really weigh on a person. Sometimes changes associated with puberty⁠ are welcome and exciting, and sometimes they are definitely not. You should know that you’re not alone; lots of cis women and girls aren’t thrilled about having breasts, or don’t like the ones they have. That’s not exclusive⁠ to people who are trans. It sounds like you’ve been doing a lot of thinking about this, and hopefully some insight from an outsider will help you clarify a few things for yourself." Below the sticky note is more text reading: "Read their full answer at Scarleteen. Have your own question? Need some advice? You can write to us in the 'ask for help' section of our website!"

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Scarleteen @scarleteen.com · 30/06/2026

Find out about the world’s biggest Pride parade—in São Paulo, Brazil—with Gabriel Leão, Nelson Matias Pereira, and João Victor Rossi for Scarleteen: its history, what it offers in the current political climate and why it matters so much, even to a straight man. www.scarleteen.com/read/cultu...

Image description: A group of smiling Brown men, one holding a giant rainbow fan, with text: Spend the day with Scarleteen at São Paulo Pride! (Not actually, but if you read our article, you'll get a sense of what it's like and learn a lot too!)

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Scarleteen @scarleteen.com · 29/06/2026

However you need to reach us, we’ve got your back! Whether it’s through message boards, text message, advice columns, or live chat — we’re here to provide direct support and education to queer youth across the world.

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Scarleteen @scarleteen.com · 28/06/2026

This is a reminder that intimacy does not have to disappear during recovery. It may just need more patience, creativity, & honest communication. As Summer puts it, re-learning the ways you enjoy sex while recovering is an opportunity — a chance to become more acquainted with self and our partner(s).

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Scarleteen @scarleteen.com · 27/06/2026

Summer Tao returns to explore what it can look like to adapt sex during recovery, healing, and changing body needs. This piece focuses on listening to your body, adjusting with care, and learning how to name and ask for the support you need. www.scarleteen.com/read/sex-s...

Text: "Having sex while recovering from long-term injuries. A new guide by Summer Tao," alongside two legs sticking up, one in a cast where the top of the cast is a crown of flowers.

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