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@sackclothqueen.butchsky.social
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late 20s cymraes transsexual, God's fave ace dyke i like good coffee, bad sports teams and loud sad music they/she/nhw en.pronouns.page/@dltkw

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Better Things Are Possible @internethippo.bsky.social · 1h
Yes, computers do everything at our company but don't worry, there's always a human reviewer. Nothing goes out the door without one of our highly trained shruggers briefly glancing at it and clicking Approve
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Moby Dick @mobydickatsea.bsky.social · 9h
all this is both foolish and unnecessary
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happy halLoween @sackclothqueen.butchsky.social · 03/10/2026
my queen honestly
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Dr Liam Sims @liamsims.bsky.social · 03/10/2026
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hoots @hoots.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
Since so much of it is out there at the moment…

I’ve seen the take that rape is “a fate worse than death” a lot. This is usually from well-meaning people who want SA to be taken as seriously as it should be in a society that regularly sacrifices victims at the altars of Men With Bright Futures.

But it’s wrong. And it’s damaging and dangerous for victims to hear. You are not better off dead than raped. 

After your assault, you’ll navigate the feelings of betrayal and anger and hurt. You may experience suicidal ideation. You probably will. But you are not better off dead than raped.

There is a whole life you will live after SA. It may be different than the life you once saw stretch out before you, but it’s no less valuable. You will heal and grow and change. You will know more happiness than you could ever imagine from that dark, angry, fearful place you once inhabited. 

Your life has beauty and value and it is bigger than what SA took from you.
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happy halLoween @sackclothqueen.butchsky.social · 03/10/2026
responded to my friend thanking me for something last night with "i try" and she replied "i can always tell that you do" and that might be the nicest thing i've heard in a while
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chelsea bridge 🩸 @secretaboutbox.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
we improve by trying to
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happy halLoween @sackclothqueen.butchsky.social · 02/10/2026
going to a party with the theme "an outfit you never get a chance to wear" so i'm wearing a suit for the first time in maybe 8 years
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autumn Lavande @lavandesound.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
hi it's bandcamp friday check this out if u haven't already
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happy halLoween @sackclothqueen.butchsky.social · 02/10/2026
heard horses randomly coming down my street and got really excited until i saw they were police horses
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happy halLoween @sackclothqueen.butchsky.social · 02/10/2026
how many trans women do you think have ever had top surgery. decided that the rest of being on e is great but they don't actually want tits
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Jessica Cogswell 🌸 @jessicogs.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
Exactly. I am tired of seeing the “I always knew”/“their work was actually bad” takes whenever allegations emerge. Sometimes—often, actually!—bad people find their way into good spaces and make good things. And you’re not better than the folks who were taken advantage of for “always knowing”
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bites u @snuffbait.bsky.social · 21/11/2024
it's don't kill yourself thursday. repost to don't kill yourself
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happy halLoween @sackclothqueen.butchsky.social · 01/10/2026
out of nowhere i've gotten You're Beautiful by James Blunt stuck in my head and and it's making me uncomfortable
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maura quint @mauraquint.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
Yes every woman has been harassed, many assaulted. But every woman has also experienced invisible loss from moments she avoided harassment. She felt a space becoming unsafe, so she left, while men stayed on. And in leaving, she lost: opportunities, experiences, learning, promotions, even simply fun.
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happy halLoween @sackclothqueen.butchsky.social · 01/10/2026
lrt i think a lot abt how i possibly do have a more nuanced relationship with sex than i let on but it feels so hard to discuss it without allos shoving the door wiiiiide open and treating me like i'm one of them
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themboy insomniac @riotliturgist.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
but the result is that i have had people come onto me irl and have reasoned, explicitly in their appeals, that "well aces can have sex too!" the message allos receive is that asexuals are sexually available regardless of their stated identities and experiences. it becomes compulsory sexuality
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themboy insomniac @riotliturgist.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
tbh it bothers me that almost the only thing allos know about asexuality is that "ace people can have sex too! ace people are often the biggest sluts you know!" & they never acknowledge or even know that like 79% of aces report being sexually assaulted but only like 2% report having voluntary sex
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happy halLoween @sackclothqueen.butchsky.social · 01/10/2026
someone at work joked this morning abt writing all our code in Welsh to obfuscate it and honestly i think i could do a decent job at it
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happy halLoween @sackclothqueen.butchsky.social · 30/09/2026
one of my coworkers called me a bundle of joy yday and i haven't stopped thinking abt it
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happy halLoween @sackclothqueen.butchsky.social · 30/09/2026
hockey season is starting and once again i'm asking myself why i don't just cheer for east coast teams
LA Kings @ Colorado Avalanche at 3am tonight
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Jon Bois @jonbois.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
i wish baseball teams could resolve their differences without resorting to baseball
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happy halLoween @sackclothqueen.butchsky.social · 29/09/2026
i'm not going to stop thinking about "i may not be a cowboy but this ain't my first rodeo" all week
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happy halLoween @sackclothqueen.butchsky.social · 29/09/2026
go bears imo
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Sigmund Foid @sigmundfo.id · 29/09/2026
overhead view of a Ferrari F1 car with the caption "transgender is like Ferrari, the last few years have been rough"
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happy halLoween @sackclothqueen.butchsky.social · 28/09/2026
we need to get more threatening
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Hauntfren Lastname @ulyverse.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
If you have spare, why don't you match my £20 donation? If not can you send to at least 2 friends? 1 friend per £10?
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happy halLoween @sackclothqueen.butchsky.social · 28/09/2026
really fun state of politics where i see Ed Miliband talking abt Green Energy and Gaza and think "well at least one of them isn't completely irredeemable"
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Saul Staniforth @saulstaniforth.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
Miliband: "To the millions in this country.. who have been moved & outraged by the plight of the Palestinian people, we hear you. You were right" So scrap the proscription of Palestine Action. End all arms exports to Israel. Impose sanctions on the Israeli govt & economy.
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happy halLoween @sackclothqueen.butchsky.social · 28/09/2026
there's something actually kind of liberating about learning a second language. whenever i can read and understand something not in English my brain does excited alarm bells in a way i don't think i fully appreciated when i was made to study one in school
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happy halLoween @sackclothqueen.butchsky.social · 28/09/2026
worked for me
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happy halLoween @sackclothqueen.butchsky.social · 27/09/2026
what the fuck is happening in the last 10 minutes of the Australia-RSA game
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happy halLoween @sackclothqueen.butchsky.social · 27/09/2026
the problem with Getting Into Movies is that there's always more movies to watch and it feels like i Need to watch them all to understand the ways they're all in conversation with each other
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one frame from castration movie series every day @getcastratedidiot.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
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happy halLoween @sackclothqueen.butchsky.social · 26/09/2026
i watched T Blockers earlier today before the rugby started and immediately feel the need to watch everything else Alice Maia Mackay has made. i fucking love this current wave of trans cinema
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happy halLoween @sackclothqueen.butchsky.social · 24/09/2026
tired of living in a country where using the women's toilets at work invokes a fear response
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happy halLoween @sackclothqueen.butchsky.social · 24/09/2026
Prothero at 23, Wales by 50
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happy halLoween @sackclothqueen.butchsky.social · 24/09/2026
recently discovered i can carry pens/pencils in the top of my rat tail braid and it's my new fave thing to do
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Keezy Young🌼 @keezyyoung.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
on that note, if we could stop suggesting it "hallucinates" that would also be great, at it is the same
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An Anarchist Who Tried Her Best @nataliereed84.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
re: the massachusets article and its motives for existing DON’T TALK TO JOURNALISTS
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gwen howerton @kissphoria.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
only other thing I have to say about the Western Mass lesbian bar article is that as a person who reports on gay culture as one of my beats i do sort of feel like it's not really a story i would write and i don't love that it's going around online as "look at these crazy gay women"
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jamie ‼️🏳️‍⚧️ @jamologies.net · 22/09/2026
hello gay people and nerds on my phone i am here to ask people to donate to my close friend's top surgery fundraiser! feel like i don't need to do the spiel about why it is so necessary for him, but even just a share/repost is massively appreciated, thank u!!!!!!! gofund.me/5892d730b
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Donate to Bones' top surgery fund, organized by Bones Abbott
This is your chance to help a handsome and charming young man achieve his dreams of a flat ches… Bones Abbott needs your support for Bones' top surgery fund
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happy halLoween @sackclothqueen.butchsky.social · 23/09/2026
if we could talk about the lesbian bar story without Doing An Ableism that would be great
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happy halLoween @sackclothqueen.butchsky.social · 23/09/2026
if you're reading this tell me an album you've been really into lately and why you like it
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happy halLoween @sackclothqueen.butchsky.social · 23/09/2026
sometimes i am fine with getting up at 5:20am to go the office 3x a week. sometimes i even kind of like the morning person routine. today is not one of those days
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happy halLoween @sackclothqueen.butchsky.social · 22/09/2026
life is an eternal cycle of getting some friends to agree to start a band with me and then the band never gets started. this time it will actually happen i swear
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happy halLoween @sackclothqueen.butchsky.social · 21/09/2026
earnest question for the class. no wrong answers here. if i say i am in a queerplatonic relationship do you feel like you know what that means
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happy halLoween @sackclothqueen.butchsky.social · 21/09/2026
i need to get more full of myself
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happy halLoween @sackclothqueen.butchsky.social · 21/09/2026
i'm kind of glad Trans Women In Sports is still an actual debate in the USA bc it does kind of feel dead in the water here. it feels hard to see the world where i ever play on a proper rugby team again
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happy halLoween @sackclothqueen.butchsky.social · 21/09/2026
the last thing i need is another project but in another life i would be starting a trans rugby club in manchester
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