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Helen

@saagmum.bsky.social
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Wife, mother, home educator and foster carer. Looking for a kinder place to be online. Trans ally. She/her

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Helen @saagmum.bsky.social · 14/10/2026
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Helen @saagmum.bsky.social · 14/10/2026
I’m sat watching a 5 month old tugging at her sock having made a similar discovery!
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Mike (They/Them) 🏳️‍⚧️🇵🇸🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 @mxmike.co.uk · 11/10/2026
Bethany wore a “Protect The Dolls” t-shirt during rehearsals. The BBC posted it on their socials then quietly deleted and reposted it without showing her from the front. On TV last night they actually blurred the message #Strictly
Bethany Antonia rehearsing for Strictly Come Dancing in a Protect The Dolls t-shirt Bethany Antonia rehearsing for Strictly Come Dancing in a Protect The Dolls t-shirt that’s been edited to look like a plain white t shirt
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Jenny Pain (she/her) @jennyjanewrites.bsky.social · 11/10/2026
If they censored a Black Lives Matter shirt, you’d call it racism. If they censored a Love Is Love shirt, you’d call it homophobia. Call this what it is: transphobic censorship. Shame on you, BBC
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Helen @saagmum.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
We’ve also been doing this for years!
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Helen @saagmum.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
Absolutely and I know who I’d rather have like my baking!
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Helen @saagmum.bsky.social · 21/09/2026
Absolutely, periods suck and menopause is so worth it for coming out the other side!
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Helen @saagmum.bsky.social · 12/09/2026
Currently using metanium barrier cream which seems to work reasonably well, never liked sudocreme, too harsh. I would also use good old fashioned zinc and castor oil cream.
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Saraarrgh Clarke @damselindystopia.northsky.social · 03/09/2026
I feel like boycotting Harry Potter stuff is such bare minimum shit that it just fucking exhausts me that it's such a constant subject of discourse. If you give a shit about trans people, don't give JK Rowling your money. There's really no further productive discussion to be had about it.
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Jessica Ellis @baddestmamajama.bsky.social · 02/09/2026
Watching this show isn’t going to get you cancelled, you won’t lose your job, you won’t be tied to a flagpole in your underwear. It just makes you a shitty person, contributing to the wealth of a bigoted monster, against the request of the people she’s harming.
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Patrick Ness @patricknessbooks.bsky.social · 01/09/2026
The bitter irony of course is that THERE IS NO APPEASING THEM. They will merely continue to demand more and more and more concessions, until you have the backbone to tell them to go to hell.
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Patrick Ness @patricknessbooks.bsky.social · 01/09/2026
The intense harm that this causes, ignoring all science and medicine, to appease a few rich bigots and Spectator columnists. Trans kids exist, have always existed, will continue to exist. You can help them or harm them. This cowardly government has chosen the worst harm. Forever shame.
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Patrick Ness @patricknessbooks.bsky.social · 01/09/2026
You may think I post too often about trans people? Tough. I want them to have lives of joy and freedom and safety and love. But until all of us are free, none of us are free. Protect queer kids. Protect trans kids. Rights can taken away in an instant. That’s why I shout.
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Helen @saagmum.bsky.social · 31/08/2026
What about the rest of us that just throw things in at 200 and hope for the best?
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Angharad @angharad.tech · 30/08/2026
If the first paragraph of this story had one word changed: "The only [heart] clinic in Wales has cancelled all of its operations over concerns that too many people were being referred for treatment." the absurdity of the "concerns" would be obvious. People are being treated! The horror!
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Helen @saagmum.bsky.social · 29/08/2026
I wish for a fraction of your ability to really see what’s happening around you and spot the joy 🥰
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Helen @saagmum.bsky.social · 27/08/2026
Ah! Not so good, hope all better soon.
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Helen @saagmum.bsky.social · 27/08/2026
Or announcing proudly that they ate a bogey! 🤦🏻‍♀️
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Helen @saagmum.bsky.social · 27/08/2026
Wait, you have small children who allow you to lay on the sofa and listen to rain? You sure they’re not jumping on you, demanding snacks or garden or that you dance to the Bluey dance mode music? 🤔
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Helen @saagmum.bsky.social · 26/08/2026
My wife handed me a tissue and told me to watch this, good call! Such a sad loss of such a wonderful lady 😢
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Helen @saagmum.bsky.social · 23/08/2026
What you need is the books about big bear and little bear including ‘Can’t you sleep little bear?’ By Martin Waddel. Big bear is everything big nutbrown hare is not! Wonderful characterisation of a parent child relationship 🥰
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Stéphanie says… 🏴‍☠️🦈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ @stephaniejane.bsky.social · 20/08/2026
Go on! Tell us the one about the so-called ‘human rights organisation’ that backed down from supporting a vulnerable minority, just because some bigot threatened to sue them. Yeah, that one always gets everyone rolling in the aisles.
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Helen @saagmum.bsky.social · 16/08/2026
That’s generous!
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Not In Our Name (NION) Women @nionwomen.bsky.social · 10/08/2026
These words of encouragement are from across the UK to the trans+ community, written with care, compassion and the hope that love will always be louder than hate. If you want to help us spread love, not hate, sign our letter: Women in support of the trans+ community. #WithTheT
You are unique, you are special, you see the world differently and you bring more to this world than you’ll never know - and you have more support and encouragement from the wider world than it seems!

Sending strength joy and courage.

Your friend advocate and ally
Nick What a beautiful human you are both inside and out. You are the living embodiment of a butterfly! I can’t imagine how awful and scary the world must be for you right now, but please don’t think that these vile people speak for the majority.

I am your ally and I am raising young allies too.
Sending you lots of love, strength and joy.

Love Cheryl 
xxxxxxxxxxxYou are seen and loved. 

Come and help fight the Patriarchy - we stand together.
We are sisters. I will not give up fighting for your rights, dignity, safety and liberation.

In solidarity, always. 
Sarah

P.s. you can pee with me!
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Helen @saagmum.bsky.social · 09/08/2026
In addition to being cruel, discriminatory and a blatant attempt to make trans people disappear, this whole debacle is an absolute shit show! The sheer incompetence on display is staggering.
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Amy @justsewamy.bsky.social · 08/08/2026
And they will keep pushing the use of them. Yet we have puberty blockers banned for trans kids on ‘safety’ grounds when there has never been a negative consequence of taking them. Just the negative consequences of not being able to access them.
A screenshot of a news headline from The Times saying “More than 100 deaths after Mounjaro or Wegovy use reported”.
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Not In Our Name (NION) Women @nionwomen.bsky.social · 07/08/2026
Too often, the public conversation gives the impression that one narrow viewpoint speaks for all women. It doesn't. Over 100,000 UK women have already signed our letter because they believe in fairness, inclusion and treating trans+ people with kindness, compassion, and inclusively. Join us.
“The majority of women are trans-inclusive, or are happy just living their lives alongside trans people without any concern. However, we are being ignored – by politicians and the media – in preference to a small, loud, group of ‘gender critical’ anti-trans lobbyists masquerading as ‘feminists’.”
#WhyWeSigned
NION logo
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Helen @saagmum.bsky.social · 05/08/2026
This is fascinating
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Helen @saagmum.bsky.social · 05/08/2026
It really is! Raising boys is an adventure.
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Helen @saagmum.bsky.social · 05/08/2026
🤣🤣🤣🤣 I’ve raised 4 boys and that’s one thing I’ve never had to deal with!
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Oxford Clarion @oxfordclarion.bsky.social · 05/08/2026
As the EHRC Code of Practice comes into force, we’ve compiled a new Oxford toilet guide highlighting unisex/gender-neutral provision. 38 facilities across the city for when you need to go. Read it here: oxfordclarion.uk/oxford-publi...
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Oxford public toilets: Where to go when you need to go
We are all the Clarion – and, sometimes, we all need the loo. And especially if you're pregnant, have an unreliable postnatal pelvic floor, are looking after children, or just need to spend a penny wi...
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Helen @saagmum.bsky.social · 05/08/2026
Us too, hmm could just be my post menopause brain but I know there are lots of things where I guess a random time 🤣
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Helen @saagmum.bsky.social · 05/08/2026
If you are cis and see someone being challenged, push back, stand up for them. This is segregation, discrimination and wrong on every level imaginable. I’m so angry right now!
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Helen @saagmum.bsky.social · 05/08/2026
If you are cis and see someone being challenged, push back, stand up for them. This is segregation, discrimination and wrong on every level imaginable. I’m so angry right now!
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Helen @saagmum.bsky.social · 05/08/2026
Also in the U.K. and just occurred to me only actually have one teen left!
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Helen @saagmum.bsky.social · 05/08/2026
Maybe because my kids are teens/ in their 20’s so it’s mostly ready meals.
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Helen @saagmum.bsky.social · 05/08/2026
Well this is odd as we have a 900 watt one and every single microwave instruction is for 800 or 1000 🫤
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Not In Our Name (NION) Women @nionwomen.bsky.social · 05/08/2026
You are loved by women around the world and this movement’s growing
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The Green Party of England & Wales @greenparty.org.uk · 05/08/2026
No one should face exclusion or discrimination because of who they are. The Green Party stands in solidarity with the trans community and will keep fighting for equality that includes everyone.
Quote graphic from Rachel Millward co-deputy leader that reads. The EHRC's guidance sets a dangerous precedent. In its current form, it is appalling and risks legitimising bigotry, harassment and violence. The Green Party stands in solidarity with the trans community. The guidance must be withdrawn, and the government must act to fix our equality laws so they protect the rights, dignity and safety of everyone.
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Not In Our Name (NION) Women @nionwomen.bsky.social · 05/08/2026
These messages are from UK women who know that behind every headline is a human being who deserves kindness, dignity and joy. We hope these words bring even a small moment of comfort to trans+ people in the UK today. 💗 #WithTheT #NotInOurName
I'm appalled that the lives of trans people have been used as a political football, to score points by raising a faux moral panic. The politicians and media types who have done this to you, for their own gain, need to be held to account by society. 

Trans rights are human rights and it's time everyone came together to protect them. I can't imagine the fear this has caused to you and your community. The fact that trans people are ostracized and even criminalised just for living their lives is a stain on our country. This is not in my name. 
I stand with you. xxxEveryone should be free to be who they want to be, and that is a world I will strive towards. 

You are unique and beautiful.You are wanted, loved and appreciated. The strength and resilience you demonstrate everyday is awe inspiring. 

Thank you for being yourself xxxYour sisters will stand with you, not just today but every single day, until we win! An attack on one of us, is an attack on all of us and your existence matters. 

All my love, a Cis Black sister xxx
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Natacha @natacha.bsky.social · 04/08/2026
From @greenparty.org.uk
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Amy @justsewamy.bsky.social · 05/08/2026
Segregation is discrimination. I will not comply with my segregation. The new EHRC guidance might come into force today but I will not change how I interact with society. Solidarity with all my trans and non-binary siblings.
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Amy @justsewamy.bsky.social · 02/08/2026
The shadowy figures of the Hallouminati.
A photo of a street food stall called Hallouminati. Above the stall is the sign with the name. At the front is a logo that is a triangle that is an halloumini fry bent into the triangle shape. The two workers on the stall are completely in silhouette.
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Helen @saagmum.bsky.social · 31/07/2026
It would have been better if they’d just kept quiet in the first place 😡
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Helen @saagmum.bsky.social · 23/07/2026
Just you wait until she starts laughing too! Nothing like it, those early 3am smiles are amazing though.
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Amy @justsewamy.bsky.social · 21/07/2026
While every saving has to be welcomed it is an insult to say you are helping people with an annual saving of £45 when you could choose to make a significant change but are beholden to the private companies. £45 a year is about 86p a week or 12p a day.
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Amy @justsewamy.bsky.social · 21/07/2026
I think I’d prefer a policy that takes the profit and shareholder payments out and keeps some revenue for the government. That would reduce the price cap by considerably more than a measly £45 and would keep revenue for things like the NHS. apple.news/AOO0S9g2tSB2...
apple.news
Andy Burnham scraps VAT on electricity bills in first major policy announcement as PM — ITV News
Andy Burnham has announced a VAT cut to household electricity bills from October to help people with the cost-of-living crisis.
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Helen @saagmum.bsky.social · 19/07/2026
Cutest thing ever!
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