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rebeccasugarday.bsky.social @rebeccasugarday.bsky.social · 13h
Calling them agents humanizes it. It’s a replication machine.
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Andrea González-Ramírez @andreagonram.bsky.social · 21h
"My assailant was found responsible for my sexual assault ... His punishment? He received a 'written reprimand,' was ordered to write a 'reflection paper,' and was placed on behavioral probation until he graduated two months later." Must-read by a Cornell grad: www.thecut.com/article/i-wa...
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I’m Not the Only Cornell Student Title IX Failed
When I was raped in 2023, my attacker, too, only had to write an essay. Now, I see I’m not alone.
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Wagatwe Wanjuki @wagatwe.bsky.social · 09/10/2026
this is the only reason why certain people wanted to know—and spread—her name without her consent. so they can abuse her, too.
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Cornell’s Jane Doe is ‘terrified’ after death threats and a swatting incident, her lawyer says | CNN
One month ago, the woman now known to America as Cornell’s Jane Doe was living in New York City and trying to break into the hotel industry, her lawyer says. Now she’s facing threats and hiding out at...
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rebeccasugarday.bsky.social @rebeccasugarday.bsky.social · 09/10/2026
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rebeccasugarday.bsky.social @rebeccasugarday.bsky.social · 09/10/2026
I didn’t feel any pressure. I just figured I was dealing with another mediocre dude bro so that’s all the effort I needed.
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rebeccasugarday.bsky.social @rebeccasugarday.bsky.social · 09/10/2026
You have Joe Rogan vibes.
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rebeccasugarday.bsky.social @rebeccasugarday.bsky.social · 09/10/2026
You are assuming that all families are hetero and have two parents. I didn’t grow up that way. Where I come from single moms hold up the world. And now I’m surrounded by mostly same sex couples.
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rebeccasugarday.bsky.social @rebeccasugarday.bsky.social · 08/10/2026
Being a stay at home parent is work. A fuck ton of it actually. It is just unpaid. So both spouses are working.
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rebeccasugarday.bsky.social @rebeccasugarday.bsky.social · 08/10/2026
1 income family is code for taking financial independence away from women.
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rebeccasugarday.bsky.social @rebeccasugarday.bsky.social · 08/10/2026
He is Vance’s pro dictator friend.
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rebeccasugarday.bsky.social @rebeccasugarday.bsky.social · 08/10/2026
Having met Altman in real life, I can confidently say I think he would fall over from high fiving someone. So unlikely this happened.
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rebeccasugarday.bsky.social @rebeccasugarday.bsky.social · 07/10/2026
They know! They also do not see us as fully human so our consent does not matter.
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rax ‘levon honkers’ king @raxkingisdead.bsky.social · 06/10/2026
a little louder for the cheap seats in the back
One of the biggest myths is that men rape by mistake. Like, "Oh, they need consent training." But research is very clear: Sexual violence is not a mistake. It is an intentionally made decision by people who know they don't have consent. They just don't prioritize consent over things like status, power, domination, and sexual gratification.
For my research, I got a certificate of confidentiality from the National Institutes of Health, so my notes couldn't be subpoenaed. One of the reasons I call them perpetrators in my work is because every single person I interviewed confessed in that context. The first question I would ask them was, "When you received that email from Title IX that you were under investigation, did you know what it was about?" Every perpetrator I interviewed said "yes." If sexual assault were a miscommunication, you would be wondering, What have I possibly done wrong? That is not the way that any of them reacted because they knew.
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rebeccasugarday.bsky.social @rebeccasugarday.bsky.social · 07/10/2026
He also wants abusers. Like him.
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rebeccasugarday.bsky.social @rebeccasugarday.bsky.social · 06/10/2026
I printed it out a while back
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rebeccasugarday.bsky.social @rebeccasugarday.bsky.social · 06/10/2026
I went to art school in the 90s and we had no frats. It was so great. Gender was more fluid than the outside world. Homophobia did not exist overtly. Parties felt safe. Even back then. I can only live in the worlds of art and theatre. It’s the only safe places to me.
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Anthony L. Fisher @anthonylfisher.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
Found the perfect screengrab to use the next time someone tries to tell me I’m missing out on important discourse by not using Elon Musk’s mircoblog site
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rebeccasugarday.bsky.social @rebeccasugarday.bsky.social · 06/10/2026
They have women servants though. They are invisible to them.
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rebeccasugarday.bsky.social @rebeccasugarday.bsky.social · 06/10/2026
This man has never done care work for another human. AI cannot wipe a butt.
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rebeccasugarday.bsky.social @rebeccasugarday.bsky.social · 06/10/2026
“Talkin’ rape” like it’s a sport.
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rebeccasugarday.bsky.social @rebeccasugarday.bsky.social · 06/10/2026
The horrors of diverse cultures and how people dress and exhibit gender.
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rebeccasugarday.bsky.social @rebeccasugarday.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
bsky.app/profile/maur... It’s not just about assault. It’s the entire system of the commodification of women’s bodies. I should be able to exist without my body being a commodity.
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rebeccasugarday.bsky.social @rebeccasugarday.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
They feature these men (always men) often. Like they want to normalize dictators.
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God @thegodshow.com · 05/10/2026
Dennis Hastert died. Who's that? He was the longest serving Republican Speaker in history, a registered sex offender and a serial child molester. But somehow most Americans don't know about him. Anyway, he's in hell now.
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rebeccasugarday.bsky.social @rebeccasugarday.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
“Not all men,” they said.
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rebeccasugarday.bsky.social @rebeccasugarday.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
The makeup artist did not like him.
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rebeccasugarday.bsky.social @rebeccasugarday.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
I try very hard to have it not show up in my life at all.
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rebeccasugarday.bsky.social @rebeccasugarday.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
But she isn’t blonde??
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rebeccasugarday.bsky.social @rebeccasugarday.bsky.social · 04/10/2026
The first guy was doing a crime against capitalism, which we love 💗. The second guy was doing crimes against women, who don’t really matter.
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rebeccasugarday.bsky.social @rebeccasugarday.bsky.social · 04/10/2026
I think it’s important to find out what kind of learners you are. I get severe depression when I have had a desk job. I need to move physically.
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rebeccasugarday.bsky.social @rebeccasugarday.bsky.social · 04/10/2026
I easily expect to be able to keep doing it into my late 60s. I do a lot of yoga.
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rebeccasugarday.bsky.social @rebeccasugarday.bsky.social · 04/10/2026
Ok I got through college but it turns out I’m a kinetic and tactile learner with ADHD. So if I have to sit still for longer than 20 minutes, I get anxiety. I absolutely need a job where I move around a lot. I install big art. And I take really good care of my almost 50 year old body.
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Ben Collins @bencollins.bsky.social · 04/10/2026
Part of why I don't like the AI-or-bust economy is the constant flopsweat of people on the news who say this HAS to work. Quit making everyone so anxious. Goddamn. If this is the next Google then why are you acting like this? I don't remember being told to buy an iPhone at gunpoint.
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rebeccasugarday.bsky.social @rebeccasugarday.bsky.social · 04/10/2026
Go to lunch with people that think it’s your fault if you are raped.
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rebeccasugarday.bsky.social @rebeccasugarday.bsky.social · 04/10/2026
I’m getting a “not all men” vibe from this.
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rebeccasugarday.bsky.social @rebeccasugarday.bsky.social · 04/10/2026
He can read & write??
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rebeccasugarday.bsky.social @rebeccasugarday.bsky.social · 04/10/2026
I’m so tired of this. I am friends with one of them and he is truly a wonderful person.
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rebeccasugarday.bsky.social @rebeccasugarday.bsky.social · 03/10/2026
Share it with the Oregon Country Fair community. They will donate. The non profit may donate directly to you too. I can give you contacts.
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rebeccasugarday.bsky.social @rebeccasugarday.bsky.social · 03/10/2026
This in the small city that launched the modern environmental movement.
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Nicole Bedera @nbedera.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
I’ve gotten a lot of questions from journalists like, “If my son were in that group chat, I’d want him to say something. How can I teach him to speak up?” The question should be: “How do I raise a son who would never rush a fraternity?”
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Professa Murray @kalimurray.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
Again: for Black Women, in particular, the ability to chose, a time and place to reproduce is a function of liberty. The most fundamental fact of enslavement was the Black Women had no control over their reproduction; in fact, their ability to reproduce was a key source of other’s wealth.
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rebeccasugarday.bsky.social @rebeccasugarday.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
Ugg Newsom. Such a disappointment.
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rebeccasugarday.bsky.social @rebeccasugarday.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
Scheduled with Kaiser for Monday.
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Gianmarco Soresi @gianmarcosoresi.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
Mf gonna turn me catholic
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rebeccasugarday.bsky.social @rebeccasugarday.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
Nah.
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rebeccasugarday.bsky.social @rebeccasugarday.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
Sounds like the whales need to look out for the mega yachts.
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rebeccasugarday.bsky.social @rebeccasugarday.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
No I’ve never been on a sailboat. I’m one of the poors.
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rebeccasugarday.bsky.social @rebeccasugarday.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
It’s about the yacht man.
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Nicole Bedera @nbedera.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
All of this. I also want to add that, in my research, I found that a lot of “inconsistencies” in a victim’s story actually came from gender bias affecting investigators’ record keeping and interview methods.
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rebeccasugarday.bsky.social @rebeccasugarday.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
That’s rape culture in a nutshell.
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