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Aɳɳαɭเรє รкєєƚιɳɠ @myconfatssions.blacksky.app · 31/08/2026

We love to say, “What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger.” But no one really talks about what happens when you survive the worst circumstances of your life.

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Aɳɳαɭเรє รкєєƚιɳɠ @myconfatssions.blacksky.app · 18/08/2026

It’s no available beds at either shelter and I don’t have anywhere to go after 6pm tonight. I’m basically going to be on the streets. I’m scared and can’t believe this is happening to me.

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Aɳɳαɭเรє รкєєƚιɳɠ @myconfatssions.blacksky.app · 18/08/2026

The sheriff comes today to remove me from my home. I don’t have anywhere to go. I truly don’t want to be in a shelter. Pls help w getting me a hotel room just for today and tomorrow while I figure things out? I need about $200. #mutualaid PayPal.me/tamolaburford Varo/Venmo/Apple Pay avail.

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Aɳɳαɭเรє รкєєƚιɳɠ @myconfatssions.blacksky.app · 18/08/2026

If I could sum up my feelings rn, this would be it.

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Demi @demi0186.blacksky.app · 18/08/2026

I'll talk anybody's drawls off respectfully.

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Aɳɳαɭเรє รкєєƚιɳɠ @myconfatssions.blacksky.app · 18/08/2026

I highly dislike who I’ve become in trying to survive (and reach a place outside of) all of this trauma and grief.

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Aɳɳαɭเรє รкєєƚιɳɠ @myconfatssions.blacksky.app · 18/08/2026

Folks can say it gets better, but what happens when it doesn’t? When it FEELS like it won’t and all the circumstances around you affirm those feelings?

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Aɳɳαɭเรє รкєєƚιɳɠ @myconfatssions.blacksky.app · 18/08/2026

I’m so emotionally exhausted and mentally unstable. This is a direct result of losing a job and not being able to recover from it. I, now, see why hundreds of thousands of folks end up succumbing to drugs, alcohol, and su*c*de, bc who wants to consciously live through shit like this?

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Aɳɳαɭเรє รкєєƚιɳɠ @myconfatssions.blacksky.app · 18/08/2026

I’ve done all that I can this past year to not end up, homeless and completely broken emotionally, and nothing helped. Tomorrow, I’ll be houseless and having to go to a shelter for the first time in my 38 years of living. I don’t want to live this life anymore.

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Indige Tea 🦬🧡 : ✊🏾 @colouredwilde.bsky.social · 18/08/2026

The only issue with being Black is that, typically, we're extremely cool (or most cultures within the umbrella are) in a deeply uncool world. You'd think that isn't an issue, a steak too juicy and lobster too buttery type complaint, but we die over this juicy buttery goodness.

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Aɳɳαɭเรє รкєєƚιɳɠ @myconfatssions.blacksky.app · 04/08/2026

In 3 days, I will officially be unemployed for a full year. On Friday, I lost my SNAP benefits due to not meeting the minimum work requirements. I ran out of groceries a few days prior to losing those benefits. As of today, I am now housing and food insecure. 1/2

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Aɳɳαɭเรє รкєєƚιɳɠ @myconfatssions.blacksky.app · 01/07/2026

I have a week from today to get the funds needed to keep me safely housed. Please donate if you can or share for visibility. Anything helps!

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Aɳɳαɭเรє รкєєƚιɳɠ @myconfatssions.blacksky.app · 01/07/2026

I’m sad af, yes, but I can’t help, but to think: “Nie, why would you go and die at a time like this?” Like all of times, you had to leave now, Pops? 🤣 Man say.

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Aɳɳαɭเรє รкєєƚιɳɠ @myconfatssions.blacksky.app · 30/06/2026

Today is 06/29. In 9 days, I go to court to be most likely be evicted due to past due rent. With no future job in sight and no assistance from anyone, I’m sitting with how losing my last job completely uprooted the stability I built.

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Aɳɳαɭเรє รкєєƚιɳɠ @myconfatssions.blacksky.app · 28/05/2026

I will never get over the fact that America will fund education, healthcare, and infrastructure overseas while backing systems that exploit folks for their land, labor, and resources — all while siphoning wealth from its own communities, allowing us to suffer in the process.

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Aɳɳαɭเรє รкєєƚιɳɠ @myconfatssions.blacksky.app · 24/05/2026

Folks be happy inside that barrel as long as they can stand on top of somebody else. That’s why you gotta realize when mfs wanna keep you in the same place — because your complacency is essential to their fake ass idea of success. They need you stagnant so they can feel elevated.

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Aɳɳαɭเรє รкєєƚιɳɠ @myconfatssions.blacksky.app · 13/05/2026

It is by design that we forget we have free will, especially under white supremacy and cisheteropatriarchy. Systems built on domination depend on our disconnection from ourselves. They need our obedience, our self-doubt, and our belief that confinement is natural.

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Aɳɳαɭเรє รкєєƚιɳɠ @myconfatssions.blacksky.app · 13/05/2026

Under these circumstances, I lost sight of the fact that I have the power to choose. I can choose what I want, entertain my desires, and decide what I like or dislike.

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Aɳɳαɭเรє รкєєƚιɳɠ @myconfatssions.blacksky.app · 13/05/2026

What baffles me most is how, in a world where my freedom is constantly being encroached upon—especially as a Black person, a fat person, and someone who has endured all forms of trauma—it is by design that we are made to forget we have free will.

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Kay Lynch @kaywithfire.bsky.social · 13/05/2026

It shows up everywhere. It not only rewires your nervous system, it alters your DNA. Living in hyper vigilance means living in a constant state of inflammation. Brain, heart, gut - lifelong dysfunctions that require monumental intervention to repair.

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Nikko Bangz 🤠🤎🫶🏾 @nikkobangz.bsky.social · 13/05/2026

In order to become a better person, you must first realize how horrible you really are. Not in the dramatic sense, but in the quiet ways you sabotage yourself, repeat unhealthy patterns, hurt people who care about you, or tolerate what wounds you. You cannot grow if you don’t acknowledge it.

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Skye from TX🇩🇲 @htxskye.bsky.social · 13/05/2026

sex without love just doesn’t interest me

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Aɳɳαɭเรє รкєєƚιɳɠ @myconfatssions.blacksky.app · 13/05/2026

Particularly, men. Like they must be terrorized lmao

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Aɳɳαɭเรє รкєєƚιɳɠ @myconfatssions.blacksky.app · 13/05/2026

It’s ironical that you’ve mentioned something about being able to get back into the driver’s seat. To me, I’ve always felt like I was in a spaceship, but on autopilot, then I got hit (after barely recovering from past damage), and lost that ability. I feel like I’ve been crashing for a while now.

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Aɳɳαɭเรє รкєєƚιɳɠ @myconfatssions.blacksky.app · 13/05/2026

All of this talk about grief has brought me here. Wayne experiencing Hurricane Katrina brought him to this point and he defined grief in the only way he could, lyrically and spiritually. When you’ve been through something, these words hit so deeply and differently.

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Aɳɳαɭเรє รкєєƚιɳɠ @myconfatssions.blacksky.app · 13/05/2026

I believe our minds do “go bad.” Grief is trauma, and trauma alters the brain. Memory, focus, regulation, perception—all of it shifts. In many ways, grief belongs under the umbrella of traumatic brain damage bc loss does not just wound emotionally. 1/2

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Aɳɳαɭเรє รкєєƚιɳɠ @myconfatssions.blacksky.app · 13/05/2026

Grief will hijack an already complicated mind and make it feel like the floor keeps moving. If your brain already works differently—through trauma, neurodivergence, whatever—grief doesn’t arrive politely. It crashes in; scrambles time, memory, focus, language, appetite, sleep, & your sense of self.

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Written by Uju ✍🏽 @writtenbyuju.bsky.social · 13/05/2026

I learned this during grief therapy. Since my loss, my mind doesn’t operate the way it used to. At times I feel I’m having an out-of-body experience & things don’t correlate. Things I used to trip over don’t affect me the same way, and other things don’t fully make sense anymore. I don’t know.

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Mia Myers 🔪 🎃 @mia-sade.blacksky.app · 13/05/2026

I have so many holes in my memory because of trauma

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Hunt @chizarone.bsky.social · 13/05/2026

Text reads:
Trauma literally, physically f*cks with the parts of our brain that handle judgment, decisions, & memory (the prefrontal cortex & hippocampus, for those keeping score).
Expecting an injured brain to function like an uninjured one is like trying to run a
marathon on a broken leg.
Dr. Glenn Patrick Doyle | @DrDoyleSays

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Aɳɳαɭเรє รкєєƚιɳɠ @myconfatssions.blacksky.app · 13/05/2026

I am stalled at $15/$5000. I need $220 for my storage unit to not go to auction by Friday. My rent is still past due by two months. Please send directly (cash gift on Throne or PayPal) linktr.ee/myconfatssions

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Aɳɳαɭเรє รкєєƚιɳɠ @myconfatssions.blacksky.app · 13/05/2026

Too often, folks expect grief to look like sadness, tears, and obvious mourning, but more often than not, it looks like forgetfulness, irritability, brain fog, exhaustion, numbness, missed calls, unfinished tasks, and staring at a wall for hours trying to remember what day it is. 1/3

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Aɳɳαɭเรє รкєєƚιɳɠ @myconfatssions.blacksky.app · 13/05/2026

I don’t think we talk enough about how trauma affects memory loss and how it impacts our cognitive functioning in terms of how we process information and draw conclusions from the data our brains interpret as truth and reality vs what isn’t.

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Aɳɳαɭเรє รкєєƚιɳɠ @myconfatssions.blacksky.app · 13/05/2026

I’m considering going back to finish a degree. I’m 90% sure I’m going to need to be officially diagnosed (neurodivergent) and medicated to actually obtain it.

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Aɳɳαɭเรє รкєєƚιɳɠ @myconfatssions.blacksky.app · 12/05/2026

It’s such a strange feeling when you realize how stacked trauma can become when you’re in the trenches of life. I don’t think we talk enough about the fact that while it can get better, it also can get worse and oftentimes, it gets worse before it gets better.

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Aɳɳαɭเรє รкєєƚιɳɠ @myconfatssions.blacksky.app · 12/05/2026

We still can’t edit skeets??? This NEEDS to change alr

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Aɳɳαɭเรє รкєєƚιɳɠ @myconfatssions.blacksky.app · 12/05/2026

Black men are often deeply complicit in their own undoing bc so much of their worldview is shaped by internalized anti-Blackness. Misogynoir, patriarchy, proximity to whiteness, the performance of masculinity—all of it becomes a desperate attempt to distance themselves from their own Blackness.

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PEONÁRT @homebodymedia.bsky.social · 12/05/2026

One of the main & manyfold reasons I refuse to ever engage with popular American sports in general is because of the pointed & expansive continuum of white predation upon Black bodies, and the weird epigenetic attachments to chattel slavery that all of it stems from. Immediate multifold ICK!!! 😷

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Aɳɳαɭเรє รкєєƚιɳɠ @myconfatssions.blacksky.app · 12/05/2026

If I make it out of this part of my life alive, just know ima be on you mfs necks like that hyperpigmentation. (Lmao but seriously)

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