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HelenWaite @mstakenlee.bsky.social · 12/12/2025

Chilled through all my bones Teeth chattering in my mouth Winter has arrived #haiku #noprompt #poem #poetry

HelenWaite @mstakenlee.bsky.social · 28/11/2025

This is fitting again this year. What did I ever do to the babies I brought into the world; loved, adored, nurtured and nourished, for them to treat me with such casual disregard? #holidays #brokenfamily #mentalhealth

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HelenWaite @mstakenlee.bsky.social · 22/06/2025

I've been telling people this for years.

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lisabug @lisabug.bsky.social · 19/06/2025

[at roller rink] My fanny pack contains 237 marbles, in case I need to create a diversion.

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PAM! @pamtoo.bsky.social · 22/06/2025

AND NOW IT'S TIME FOR PICKUP LINES WITH PAM The world is ending and I have a fresh jar of coconut oil (wink)

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HelenWaite @mstakenlee.bsky.social · 07/01/2025

That seems counterproductive and counterintuitive. I'm not judging you and don't know a thing about your needs in this area. I know for me, given the things I'm trying to manage, I can't afford to lie to my therapist. I need help and tools.

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HelenWaite @mstakenlee.bsky.social · 07/01/2025

Here's a prime example of what an engagement farming account looks like. They've got a few hundred followers, are following over 1k accounts, and have 0 posts. If I were to follow them back, I'd get a DM w/a link asking me to check them/their content out. #EngagementFarming #BlueSkySupport

A screenshot showing a prime example of what an engagement farming account looks like. They've got a few hundred followers, are following over 1k accounts, and have 0 posts.

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HelenWaite @mstakenlee.bsky.social · 06/01/2025

Well, I see that the sex bots with all their similar first names and nearly identical profiles have invaded. I hope a solution can be found soon. It's super annoying to have to block them daily. @bsky.app @safety.bsky.app @support.bsky.team

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HelenWaite @mstakenlee.bsky.social · 04/01/2025

It smells like winter and snow outside today. Am I the only one who notices these things? Can anyone else smell rain in the air? Does anyone else notice that the color of sunlight during spring and summer is more warm than in the fall and winter when it gets very white and cold looking? I'm curious.

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HelenWaite @mstakenlee.bsky.social · 02/01/2025

Yes, unintentional harm is still harm. Yes, intent doesn't negate the impact, but it's a justifiable reason not to vilify the one who unintentionally caused harm.

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HelenWaite @mstakenlee.bsky.social · 02/01/2025

Cuz I'm gonna make you see, there's nobody else yeah, no one like me, I'm special so special

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HelenWaite @mstakenlee.bsky.social · 02/01/2025

I love contributing to the shenanigans of my dogs by taking a stick from one of them and then giving it to the other one. 😏

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HelenWaite @mstakenlee.bsky.social · 01/01/2025

Do you want to try and rebuild your credit in #Year2025? Try the #KikoffApp. kikoff.com/refer/UMQ5PQMQ

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HelenWaite @mstakenlee.bsky.social · 01/01/2025

If you have a dog with incontinence issues, or they seem to have accidents in the house frequently, use dog poop bags to scoop up pee soaked paper towels and poop plus paper towels used to clean up what the bag couldn't. It will cut down the smell in your trash can.

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HelenWaite @mstakenlee.bsky.social · 01/01/2025

Which men are easy? Some of the men I know aren't taking the crap anymore, nor should they. Any woman using their bodies as weapons against men to get what they want, are wrong, and always gonna be wrong. Not saying Mir Mir does this, just giving my two cents. Please resume normal skeeting.

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HelenWaite @mstakenlee.bsky.social · 01/01/2025

A couple things as I'm heading into 2025. 1) www.facebook.com/share/r/18sd...

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Redirecting...

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HelenWaite @mstakenlee.bsky.social · 31/12/2024

Why does her face look like she's a Muppet?

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HelenWaite @mstakenlee.bsky.social · 27/12/2024

Do you want to know something mind blowing? No matter how close or far two objects are in relation to each other, if you keep dividing the space between them in half, they'll never touch. #science #zenosparadox

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HelenWaite @mstakenlee.bsky.social · 27/12/2024

Choose 20 films that have stayed with you or influenced you. One film per day for 20 days, in no particular order. No explanations, no reviews, just .gifs #filmsky #moviechallenge 🎞️1/20

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Poet Jodie Foster GIF

Alt: Jodie Foster from the movie Contact saying "It's so beautiful. They should've sent a poet."

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HelenWaite @mstakenlee.bsky.social · 27/12/2024

Why is Dwayne Johnson the only man who can turn a lesbian straight? Because Rock beats Scissors. #joke #funny #lmaooo #naughtyjoke #itsajoke

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HelenWaite @mstakenlee.bsky.social · 27/12/2024

If you see this post, post a pic from your device without an explanation

A picture of a little donkey stuffed animal sitting on the legs of someone wearing a pair of faded jeans, while seated inside a car.

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HelenWaite @mstakenlee.bsky.social · 27/12/2024

I try to remember this. The first 37 years of my life were filled with sexual abuse, emotional and psychological abuse, and ended with domestic abuse. Even after I walked away from all my abusers, the lingering scars, the internalized voices, still make me question if I'm good enough. #AbuseScars

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HelenWaite @mstakenlee.bsky.social · 26/12/2024

Unlike Chaka Khan, I'm not every woman. I'm married to the best man on the planet, and no other man could ever give me a fraction of what my husband does. He supplies all my needs. All other men are cheap knock-offs by comparison, and would be a waste of my time or attention.

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HelenWaite @mstakenlee.bsky.social · 25/12/2024

I think the whole point of the movie was simply to make a nonsensical adventure of Deadpool and Wolverine as if someone had written the screenplay while on shrooms or LSD. I enjoyed the utter mayhem and disjointedness of it, myself.

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HelenWaite @mstakenlee.bsky.social · 25/12/2024

It's interesting seeing how privileged Americans have become since the 80s. The growing sense of entitlement is a symptom of a culture of selfishness. To honestly think that other people are responsible for making sure you don't get triggered is a Freud level of ego. I have a bit of bad news.

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HelenWaite @mstakenlee.bsky.social · 25/12/2024

Maybe not, but that shouldn't discourage anyone from trying. 😏

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HelenWaite @mstakenlee.bsky.social · 25/12/2024

With the proper amount (100%) of open and honest communication between you and the girlfriends, and the girlfriends with you and each other, it's workable. It also requires a strong leader who can ensure they're all secure in their place and what's expected of them, vs a demanding tyrant.

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HelenWaite @mstakenlee.bsky.social · 25/12/2024

My new Christmas Eve tradition is going to be Malt o Meal cereal for dinner, with slices of banana on top. So nice on a cold winter's night. 🍲

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HelenWaite @mstakenlee.bsky.social · 24/12/2024

Me: Shows pic to my Rottweiler... Me: Pushes Rottweiler's mouth away from my phone so she stops trying to bite it. Me: Stop being such a Rottweiler!

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HelenWaite @mstakenlee.bsky.social · 24/12/2024

This one assuming my people doesn't encompass all human beings. 🤨🤷‍♀️

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HelenWaite @mstakenlee.bsky.social · 24/12/2024

This time of year is rough for me. What usually helps me, is being there for others who are also struggling. I'm here if anyone wants or needs someone to talk to.

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HelenWaite @mstakenlee.bsky.social · 24/12/2024

Here's some #UsefulAdvice in a world filled with so many bad advisors.

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HelenWaite @mstakenlee.bsky.social · 24/12/2024

This one thinking I can't comment where I want to on this app. 🤣🤣🤣

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HelenWaite @mstakenlee.bsky.social · 24/12/2024

I live on the corner of "Lemons From Life Avenue" and "What The Fresh Hell Lane" in the bustling burg known as Sucksville, USA. Come on down, we'll have a dreadfully mediocre time.

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HelenWaite @mstakenlee.bsky.social · 24/12/2024

Holy Oliver Twists, Batman! 🤣🤣🤣

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Twin Dad @twinsurvivalist.bsky.social · 24/12/2024

I took off my shirt and won an ugly Christmas sweater contest

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Amy Vants to Suck Your Blood 🩸 @msfoxifurnasty.bsky.social · 24/12/2024

happy tuesday, merry wintertime, warm and soft and sweet holiday eve if this week is hard for you due to loss, extra stress, mental health stuff, or trauma, take a hug, leave a hug, and know that it’s ok to be quiet amidst the noise 🫂❤️🫂

bright red blooms of thanksgiving cactus with deep green “leaves” hanging down in the foreground. bokeh effect on stockings and lit christmas tree in the background

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HelenWaite @mstakenlee.bsky.social · 24/12/2024

When my SO plays the game where he says something and now I have to figure out if that's what he meant, or if there's a hidden msg. I'm a clear communicator. So no, when I say something, I don't really mean something else. I mean exactly what I said.

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HelenWaite @mstakenlee.bsky.social · 24/12/2024

No. It means No, Jesus. Do I need to get another restraining order this year?

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HelenWaite @mstakenlee.bsky.social · 24/12/2024

Oooo, I need to call and further annoy the curmudgeons I know. *dials my dad's house*

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HelenWaite @mstakenlee.bsky.social · 24/12/2024

How many days do you have to spare?

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HelenWaite @mstakenlee.bsky.social · 24/12/2024

Right, because you're the arbiter of beauty in the world. Your standards of beauty must be adopted by everyone else. Nobody asked you, you can change your moderation settings yourself, and you can kindly trample off. Buh-bye now.

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