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Dark nights of the Soul when a dear friend has died
There is a particular darkness that arrives after a dear friend dies. Not the darkness of the death itself. Not the darkness of the phone call, the text message, the hospice update, the social media announcement, or the funeral. These mechanics of the death process come without warning, but you can handle these parts in community, even when the loss is not a local friend. The darkness I am talking about comes later. When everyone else returns to their regularly scheduled programming. When the world seems strangely comfortable moving forward without someone you deeply loved in it.