Reposted by gluedownguy
You don't have to interact with people that make you feel uncomfortable or unsafe!
You don't have to post or send pictures if you don't want to!
You don't have to play with everyone!
You don't have to like sex to enjoy kink!
You don't have to be someone you don't want to be!
![think about my father being called
"boy", my uncle being called "boy", my brother, coming back from Vietnam and being called "boy". So I questioned myself: "What does a black man have to do before he's given respect as a man?" So when I was 18 years old,
when I was old enough to fight and die for my country, old enough to drink, old enough to vote, I said I was old enough to be called a man. I self-ordained myself Mr. T, so the first word out of everybody's mouth is "Mr."
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