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Sarah Clarke - Not your doll @damselindystopia.northsky.social · 27/09/2026

I'm not gonna quote post that estrangement article doing the rounds cos I ain't giving them the metrics but part of being in queer community is knowing a lot of people who are estranged from family. None of them broke contact for trivial reasons.

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Dr Alex Fitzpatrick @animalarchaeology.com · 25/09/2026

I maintain my strong belief that “white feminism” in Britain is a fucking massive problem that continues to be ignored because I continue to see white British women who should know better uphold these other white women as some sort of ‘feminist icons’ and ignore their outright bigotry.

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 23/09/2026

My experiences with this kind of person in the 2010s killed my desire for most organising. They seemed to thrive on the fact that the people actually doing practical, real-world things to make a difference are also often very open-hearted and overly-patient to the point of vulnerability

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 18/09/2026

Being in a chat with my girlfriends was a mistake. Now they're making software dev jokes. Have to re-separate them because my humanities brain can't take this

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 04/09/2026

The sound of rain used to just be relaxing. Now it keeps pulling me into the memory of (very nervously) telling an amazing woman that I love her too while drops pattered on the trees around us. Looking into her eyes. Holding her close. And just being together

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 04/09/2026

Hi #Wales , please sign this Senedd petition asking that they immediately unfreeze the pause on gender affirming care: petitions.senedd.wales/petitions/24… This is super important, we need to show that there is enormous demand for them to do this so sign it, share it, stand over your […]

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Cal Horton (they/them) @fiercemum.bsky.social · 30/08/2026

For many, today is the last weekend before school restarts. Sorting uniform, finding books, preparing to be reunited with friends. For my kid, who won't be returning to school, it is a time of huge uncertainty. We don't yet have a clear path forward. English schools are no longer a viable option.

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 27/08/2026

Trying to sign up for a beginner's, self-paid 8 week course at the local FE college. They want me to attend an adult learner's day and hand over all of my past qualifications to do it. Whyyyy? Just give me a date and a payment portal so I can learn more low level skills for my hobby!!

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Dr Jo Kershaw @mthrjo.bsky.social · 15/08/2026

Something that’s struck me recently is how easy it is to conflate “bravely speaking the truth” with “cruelty and enjoying joining the mob”, and while for most people on here today to see through the fascist concept of “ruinous empathy,” that doesn’t stop you worshiping cruelty under another name.

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Mallory Moore @sexabolition.blog · 15/08/2026

The industriousness of destroying members of marginalised groups in elite spaces marked for ousting needs to be looked at because it carries enough force when it goes critical it doesn't stop until someone is badly hurt, and that involves many...

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Rose⁺ @mewmus.bsky.social · 11/08/2026

Cannot stress enough how much you should go play Lunacid store.steampowered.com/app/1745510/... Aside from the vibes being immaculate, this short game is the epitome of the Kingsfield/Shadowtower-like genres With an incredible soundtrack, engaging gameplay loop & hot crow lady

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Lunacid on Steam

Cast into the Great Well, unwanted by the world above. You delve the dark in search of the Old One, your last salvation. Lunacid is a dark fantasy dungeon crawler inspired by Shadow Tower and King’s F...

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 07/08/2026

Going to a uv/neon themed pride party tomorrow and my partner's reaction to my outfit is adorable. To be fair, neon pink micro crop, bra, skirt, fishnets, clear pvc underbust corset, and lots of uv reactive body paint is not something people would ever expect me to wear

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 07/08/2026

Friend said that my partner is like "a teaching assistant that chats with you and swears" whereas I'm "like the strict teacher that you realise is really sound and very helpful after a while". I'm not sure if I should feel insulted or complimented.

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cornish person girl @gemma.transwrites.world · 07/08/2026

you know what fights we can win? getting our people healthcare! giving them safe places to live! helping their art work and media projects succeed! we can do so much to benefit our community and absolutely none of it is posting about jk rowling every fucking day.

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 06/08/2026

This is an incredible read, but the point about numbers stays with me too. In the early 2000s, local institutions said they'd never dealt with a trans kid before. One estimated that there were 5 to 10 trans people in an area of 300,000. I cried when the last census said there were ~1000 of us here

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 05/08/2026

This captures why I absolutely can't stand the current UK Supreme Court's shift into absurdly rigid textualism and a version of the mirror principle that leads to viciously narrow readings of the ECHR. For a while, there was at least some awareness that judgments don't exist in a conceptual bubble

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Ashleeee 🌊🪭 @reactiveashley.cat · 05/08/2026

The EU law principle of equality means that none of this shit could happen. If there was an indication that the justification used to exclude trans people from positive action would affect other rights, the courts, including the Supreme Court, would have to refer it to the ECJ.

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 28/07/2026

If we're doing transition age gaps, you're not allowed to date outside of your name generation. No, Zoe and Katie, you can't date the Luna or the Lily. You're clearly at very different life stages

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Mallory Moore @sexabolition.blog · 24/07/2026

Others have said this but this is the exact same argument around trans healthcare right now - some people (Hilary Cass) saying that you can't prove that affirmation doesn't cause trans people to continue to be trans and therefore we should try conversion therapy on kids

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Mallory Moore @sexabolition.blog · 21/07/2026

My main thing I've learned from being a feminist since I was a teen is that feminism isn't intuited by people who are negatively affected by sexism, it's hard worked through critical thought about the experience of sexism, and most people just refuse to learn that and default to prejudices about it.

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Moira Donegan @moiradonegan.bsky.social · 16/07/2026

Really grateful for Alexandra Brodsky—for everything, but especially for this commentary on the disappearance of public feminism: newsletter.thedriftmag.com/p/in-the-vac...

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In the vacuum of feminism

Alexandra Brodsky on online Platner apologia

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Cal Horton (they/them) @fiercemum.bsky.social · 16/07/2026

Just had meeting with kiddo's school. She has been fully supported, treated with full equality & dignity for years. All of that changes from September. Full segregation & humiliation across the board. The school staff cried in the meeting. This will absolutely lead to children's deaths 1/2

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 15/07/2026

Cynically, I think Burnham's Cabinet is going to be functionally more transphobic than Starmer's. Burnham has portrayed himself as an antidote to Starmer's 'boy's club' and, sadly, I think that will mean more bigoted members of the Women’s Parliamentary Labour Party wielding greater influence

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Ranmara @ranmara.bsky.social · 15/07/2026

It's time

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Mallory Moore @sexabolition.blog · 14/07/2026

Posting this on behalf of a fellow researcher: Hello please reply to Transhate@proton.me with the most grim and egregious stuff Rowling has done targeting people.

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Libby from Biscuit @thisisbiscuit.org.uk · 08/06/2026

ANYWAY. 18th July. Details to follow.

Promo image for the sixth annual bi+ community pride picnic.

The image is a photo of bi+ peolle attending the picnic in years gone by. Over that and to the right is an illustrated tree with green boughs and a brown trunk. The branches are decorated with bi flag bunting.

The text reads: Saturday 18th July 2016 2pm onwards Hyde Park. Sixth Annual Bi+ Pride Picnic

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shaun @shaunvids.bsky.social · 09/07/2026

not that there isn't some pleasure to take in farage falling out of favour and taking a kicking, but i always resent what a fix the whole mainstream UK news media is. when you're in they help you hide your scandals, when you're out they suddenly rediscover them. breaking news: some old news we hid

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 09/07/2026

I know this is a football ad but...

A screenshot of an Instagram ad by nikefootball featuring a footballer (I guess, I don't know). He is holding a pointer stick and gesturing toward a presentation board that reads 'PASSING: Don't.' Underneath, a caption reads 'do you really need to?'

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yaoi gagarin @mel.bzky.team · 08/07/2026

since theyre killing the culture industry i suppose warhammer is going to become britains last remaining profitable business

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Mallory Moore @sexabolition.blog · 05/07/2026

It's important that women get listened to about problems they're facing in healthcare but if the problem is they don't like someone else's healthcare, that's frankly not a problem.

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 04/07/2026

Finally got to see the Angel's Egg remaster in the cinema, and it was such a fantastically immersive experience! Great film about a girl with a special interest in water, and nothing deeper.

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alyson “end journalism” greaves @badambulist.bsky.social · 01/07/2026

It’s fun to have gone from calling myself transsexual when I transitioned in 2002, to grudgingly updating to the new word and grumbling about bullshit “no trans person thinks you can change sex lol” rhetoric, back to calling myself transsexual again. Hello old friend, you’re so much fun to say.

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 29/06/2026

I'm so impervious to flirting that I thought somebody was just trying to be funny when she put a napkin in my handbag with her number on it and an actual kiss next to it 'Haha, she's doing the movie thing! What a fun new friend I've made' 🫩

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James Takahashi @jtvoiceover.com · 28/06/2026

RIP to a legend ▫️Survived the atomic bombing of Nagasaki ▫️Pioneered drag culture in Japan and was one of the first openly gay celebrities there ▫️Had a relationship with Yukio Mishima and became his muse ▫️Delighted Hayao Miyazaki in the recording booth for Princess Mononoke #voiceacting

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Mallory Moore @sexabolition.blog · 25/06/2026

As someone who has extensively researched conversion therapy promoters operating in the UK I have been raising alarms about the uselessness of the UK corporate charity sector in addressing the practical realities of it for several years now and unfortunately I was fucking right.

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 24/06/2026

I've said it before but I hate the way that some people speak to volunteers or campaigners like an angry customer. There's no resources or training and it's not a service. It's just people doing their best with very little and giving what they can

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Jess O'Thomson @jessothomson.co.uk · 24/06/2026

If you need someone to vent at, pay a therapist, or get a teddy bear. Don't send abuse to an effective org. I hope you understand that by making hard working campaigners like those at TSA deal with your bullshit, you are materially damaging your own interests – and the trans community's.

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Jess O'Thomson @jessothomson.co.uk · 24/06/2026

It's disgusting that an entirely volunteer trans org has been getting abusive emails for a difficult but necessary safety decision. If you have given them grief over this you should be utterly ashamed. Wasting our community's resources on soothing your tantrum – from an org actually doing the work.

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 24/06/2026

Using a hair dryer while the air conditioner is on feels perversely decadent and like I'm just being mean to physics

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 22/06/2026

love that I can track the intensity of a heatwave by checking how badly my curls have exploded

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Saul Staniforth @saulstaniforth.bsky.social · 19/06/2026

Burnham pays tribute to Josh Simons, who he says recognised it couldnt continue to be business as usual If theres anyone who understands what business as usual meant under the Labour right, its the man who arranged a smear campaign against journalists who were investigating them

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 17/06/2026

My GP almost always makes a point of joyfully saying "I never once saw you smile before you transitioned. You came to life" whenever he speaks to me. I know how lucky I am to have access to a doctor that is just happy for me, even so many years later.

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Trinket @trinketbirdy.bsky.social · 17/06/2026

We have to do something about the creeping policing of increasingly normal stuff online. It's getting ridiculous. If I could post a movie clip of someone looking busty but clothed, even in a sexy way, I should be allowed to post myself doing it.

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Mallory Moore @sexabolition.blog · 16/06/2026

Literally there are conversion therapy manuals that start with isolating your child from all potential sources of safeguarding and supportive information and cutting them off from unmonitored internet access so they can find the number for ChildLine while you're not watching is right up there.

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Mallory Moore @sexabolition.blog · 15/06/2026

In fairness, the historical memory of the Suffragettes that's been actively maintained by liberal feminists has erased all the arson, bombing and suicide protest attacks in favour of loads of twee bullshit about votes for women sashes and glorifying simultaneously Emeline Pankhurst and Nancy Astor..

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Jess O'Thomson @jessothomson.co.uk · 15/06/2026

I'm in my 20s. I grew up with social media. Without that and video games, I would have been so completely isolated. We should be making the world safer for kids, not trying to ban them from it.

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Cal Horton (they/them) @fiercemum.bsky.social · 15/06/2026

I frequently speak with advocates from other countries, where there is a proper institutional support network that targeted families or young people as individuals and as collectives lean upon & are actively supported by. In the UK there is just... nothing.

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