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Sarah Clarke - Not your doll @damselindystopia.northsky.social · 27/09/2026

I'm not gonna quote post that estrangement article doing the rounds cos I ain't giving them the metrics but part of being in queer community is knowing a lot of people who are estranged from family. None of them broke contact for trivial reasons.

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 26/09/2026

It's tragic how often empathetic, well-meaning people will still outright defend the kinds of people that will lay into them when they're in personal, ruinous, self-sacrificing debt to fund a venue. They end up isolated and things collapse because everyone else leaves for self-protection

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 26/09/2026

In the exact fashion of the kind of people I meant, there's now the scolding narrative that this was all engineered by a bigot. The bar's statement since is entirely in keeping with people that got a mediator rather than telling abusive people to go away early enough

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Dr Alex Fitzpatrick @animalarchaeology.com · 25/09/2026

I maintain my strong belief that “white feminism” in Britain is a fucking massive problem that continues to be ignored because I continue to see white British women who should know better uphold these other white women as some sort of ‘feminist icons’ and ignore their outright bigotry.

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 23/09/2026

My experiences with this kind of person in the 2010s killed my desire for most organising. They seemed to thrive on the fact that the people actually doing practical, real-world things to make a difference are also often very open-hearted and overly-patient to the point of vulnerability

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 18/09/2026

Being in a chat with my girlfriends was a mistake. Now they're making software dev jokes. Have to re-separate them because my humanities brain can't take this

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 15/09/2026

Oh no, now I don't know if I do this and just never thought to change it. Is it when you politely smile and tilt your head a tiny fraction to the side? Because I've always done that and I never thought to question it ahhhh

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 05/09/2026

That isn't true... but also what if though? <.< That sounds darkly fun!

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 04/09/2026

The sound of rain used to just be relaxing. Now it keeps pulling me into the memory of (very nervously) telling an amazing woman that I love her too while drops pattered on the trees around us. Looking into her eyes. Holding her close. And just being together

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 04/09/2026

Hi #Wales , please sign this Senedd petition asking that they immediately unfreeze the pause on gender affirming care: petitions.senedd.wales/petitions/24… This is super important, we need to show that there is enormous demand for them to do this so sign it, share it, stand over your […]

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Cal Horton (they/them) @fiercemum.bsky.social · 30/08/2026

For many, today is the last weekend before school restarts. Sorting uniform, finding books, preparing to be reunited with friends. For my kid, who won't be returning to school, it is a time of huge uncertainty. We don't yet have a clear path forward. English schools are no longer a viable option.

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 30/08/2026

Glad to see these getting more use. Do people have to pull a sword from a stone and resist stealing a coin as part of the campaign too?

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 27/08/2026

It's a £50 sewing night course. How are they overcomplicating it by this much?

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 27/08/2026

Trying to sign up for a beginner's, self-paid 8 week course at the local FE college. They want me to attend an adult learner's day and hand over all of my past qualifications to do it. Whyyyy? Just give me a date and a payment portal so I can learn more low level skills for my hobby!!

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 27/08/2026

Having the back measurement on the t-shirt is so, so helpful, thank you!

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 27/08/2026

Oh no, what a terrible situation to be in. How could she do this to you? So inconsiderate

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Dr Jo Kershaw @mthrjo.bsky.social · 15/08/2026

Something that’s struck me recently is how easy it is to conflate “bravely speaking the truth” with “cruelty and enjoying joining the mob”, and while for most people on here today to see through the fascist concept of “ruinous empathy,” that doesn’t stop you worshiping cruelty under another name.

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Mallory Moore @sexabolition.blog · 15/08/2026

The industriousness of destroying members of marginalised groups in elite spaces marked for ousting needs to be looked at because it carries enough force when it goes critical it doesn't stop until someone is badly hurt, and that involves many...

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 12/08/2026

Very new me, but I'm really pleased with how this turned out! Even if these are after I managed to melt my makeup off. Sharing them because I'm sick of not using social media to be social and want to mark the things that make me happy

Closer, brighter selfie under partial blacklight. A woman is wearing a bisexual flag themed floral crown. Small pink painted hearts are on (annoyingly) barely visible on her cheek, and bright UV-reactive hearts and star patterns decorate her chest. She is wearing a neon pink fishnet hooded micro crop top, a matching lace bra, and a clear zippered pvc corset with turquoise fishnets visible underneath.

Selfie of a woman illuminated by blacklight wearing a bright, reactive neon pink fishnet crop top over a pink lace bra; a clear pvc corset; and a (sadly non-reactive) skirt. UV-reactive hearts and temporary tattoos are on her upper chest.

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Rose⁺ @mewmus.bsky.social · 11/08/2026

Cannot stress enough how much you should go play Lunacid store.steampowered.com/app/1745510/... Aside from the vibes being immaculate, this short game is the epitome of the Kingsfield/Shadowtower-like genres With an incredible soundtrack, engaging gameplay loop & hot crow lady

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Cast into the Great Well, unwanted by the world above. You delve the dark in search of the Old One, your last salvation. Lunacid is a dark fantasy dungeon crawler inspired by Shadow Tower and King’s F...

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 07/08/2026

Going to a uv/neon themed pride party tomorrow and my partner's reaction to my outfit is adorable. To be fair, neon pink micro crop, bra, skirt, fishnets, clear pvc underbust corset, and lots of uv reactive body paint is not something people would ever expect me to wear

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 07/08/2026

nope, I just fell out of a coconut tree

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 07/08/2026

This got a really wicked snort giggle out of me. I'll keep it in mind for the future options because it would definitely beat the kind of post-break pining I (and R) have been dealing with lately

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 07/08/2026

Look... yeah, okay, fair, but this was a different context!

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 07/08/2026

Friend said that my partner is like "a teaching assistant that chats with you and swears" whereas I'm "like the strict teacher that you realise is really sound and very helpful after a while". I'm not sure if I should feel insulted or complimented.

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cornish person girl @gemma.transwrites.world · 07/08/2026

you know what fights we can win? getting our people healthcare! giving them safe places to live! helping their art work and media projects succeed! we can do so much to benefit our community and absolutely none of it is posting about jk rowling every fucking day.

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 06/08/2026

This is an incredible read, but the point about numbers stays with me too. In the early 2000s, local institutions said they'd never dealt with a trans kid before. One estimated that there were 5 to 10 trans people in an area of 300,000. I cried when the last census said there were ~1000 of us here

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 05/08/2026

It's wonderful that UK Supreme Court now has a habit of declaring the workable unworkable and the unworkable workable

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 05/08/2026

This captures why I absolutely can't stand the current UK Supreme Court's shift into absurdly rigid textualism and a version of the mirror principle that leads to viciously narrow readings of the ECHR. For a while, there was at least some awareness that judgments don't exist in a conceptual bubble

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Ashleeee 🌊🪭 @reactiveashley.cat · 05/08/2026

The EU law principle of equality means that none of this shit could happen. If there was an indication that the justification used to exclude trans people from positive action would affect other rights, the courts, including the Supreme Court, would have to refer it to the ECJ.

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 04/08/2026

Can't wait to read it to see whether this continues the pattern of heinous people being protected because they have the funding and social status to put a sufficiently disingenuous, middle-class veneer on their actual beliefs

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 28/07/2026

If we're doing transition age gaps, you're not allowed to date outside of your name generation. No, Zoe and Katie, you can't date the Luna or the Lily. You're clearly at very different life stages

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 28/07/2026

Oh I didn't think you were commenting on lawfulness, I just felt like I should include a caveat because I agree but also don't want to seem like I'm commenting on lawfulness!

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 28/07/2026

Even acknowledging that it can be legally justifiable to retain data in some areas (e.g. R (on the app of C) v SoS for Work and Pensions), the approach the NHS is taking here feels like such a bizarre unreality

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Mallory Moore @sexabolition.blog · 24/07/2026

Others have said this but this is the exact same argument around trans healthcare right now - some people (Hilary Cass) saying that you can't prove that affirmation doesn't cause trans people to continue to be trans and therefore we should try conversion therapy on kids

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Mallory Moore @sexabolition.blog · 21/07/2026

My main thing I've learned from being a feminist since I was a teen is that feminism isn't intuited by people who are negatively affected by sexism, it's hard worked through critical thought about the experience of sexism, and most people just refuse to learn that and default to prejudices about it.

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 19/07/2026

It's always instinctively reminded me of versions of The Three Little Pigs that include the wolf feigning generosity and friendship to lure them out of the brick house

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 17/07/2026

Oh, to be clear, I don't have any opinion on no-platforming personally and have actually appreciated aspects of his writing. I'm just wearily bitter about motive for some people, including helping to advance an agenda in the ways that don't leave too many public fingerprints

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 17/07/2026

Sadly, I wouldn't be surprised if this might be just to maintain the illusion of some balance. I've been so disappointed by a few UK consti academics because they've made their personal politics quite obvious in this area and leaned on the scales (e.g. M Elliott)

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Moira Donegan @moiradonegan.bsky.social · 16/07/2026

Really grateful for Alexandra Brodsky—for everything, but especially for this commentary on the disappearance of public feminism: newsletter.thedriftmag.com/p/in-the-vac...

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In the vacuum of feminism

Alexandra Brodsky on online Platner apologia

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 16/07/2026

At the minute, I'm guessing it'll be under the Communications Act 2003, like the guy that was found guilty of a grossly offensive tweet about Captain Tom?

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Cal Horton (they/them) @fiercemum.bsky.social · 16/07/2026

Just had meeting with kiddo's school. She has been fully supported, treated with full equality & dignity for years. All of that changes from September. Full segregation & humiliation across the board. The school staff cried in the meeting. This will absolutely lead to children's deaths 1/2

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 15/07/2026

It's baffling to me because so many of us argue for a model of medicine that would also push back against medical misogyny by removing ignorant stereotyping, making research inclusive, and individualising treatments??

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 15/07/2026

Cynically, I think Burnham's Cabinet is going to be functionally more transphobic than Starmer's. Burnham has portrayed himself as an antidote to Starmer's 'boy's club' and, sadly, I think that will mean more bigoted members of the Women’s Parliamentary Labour Party wielding greater influence

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Eve Stradiol @eveocation.bsky.social · 15/07/2026

Choosing to believe that this and the nike football ad were both intentionally drafted this way by trans people

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Ranmara @ranmara.bsky.social · 15/07/2026

It's time

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