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@emberwitchy.bsky.social
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34 transfem she/her ypsilanti, MI

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ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 12/10/2026
made the mistake of forgetting that people hate it when you're sad in front of them
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ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 12/10/2026
i am not the kind of woman who can be loved
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ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 10/10/2026
AJJ song parody called Bottom As A Noun
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ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 10/10/2026
when will it be my turn to have fun with an experienced older dyke?
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ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 06/10/2026
i really truly cannot do anything right
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ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 06/10/2026
waiting in line for a show :)
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ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
what sort of degradation do you think i would have to put myself through in order to bag a creepy c4t lesbian chaser
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francis @dilfkink.kindboys.online · 04/10/2026
"it's valid to not transition!" kills. it kills people. please stop saying this shit. you are allowing suicidal people to languish in the closet and repress who they really are and want they truly need, all to soothe the insecure anxieties of cissexuals who aren't part of the cool T slur club. stop.
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ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 04/10/2026
idk anything about a "top shortage" or whatever, but what i do know is i'm so fucking untoppable that i accidentally made a girl realize she very much wants bottom surgery
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ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
i wanna be someone's wife
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ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
expressed bedtime boundaries because it's late as fuck and i work in the morning and this girl who hasn't talked to me at all in over a month just decides to go "ember wtf" what the fuck indeed, i guess
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ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
when is it my turn to heal and have things go right for more than one or two nights of the brief euphoria
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ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
like if i could just be wrong one fucking time that would be cool
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ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
what a fucking awful series of mistakes this year has been. i was right when i wrote that note last september. how stupid i was to forget my own hard-won lessons.
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ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
a reignited hypersexuality plus a return of sex repulsion is making me feel really awful kinds of ways :/
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ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
three days in and i've decided that i don't want to be partners with her after all.
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ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
why do i even bother getting out of bed.
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ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
became her girlfriend two days ago and there's already major problems. why am i bothering. i really must be stupid, huh?
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ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 15/09/2026
t4c yuri can save me
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may @maysuser.name · 04/09/2026
"gender is made up there are no rules" feels like a super reductive way of looking at gender, the rules exist and there are rewards and consequences for following and breaking them, it's just up to you to decide how you want to engage with them
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ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 19/08/2026
some people call themselves submissive because they've engaged in so much self hatred and infantilization that they cannot conceive of themselves as having agency and desires beyond being an abstract toy for someone they don't really care about other than to continue to avoid making any decisions
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ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 18/08/2026
met a lovely girl who is acting the precise opposite of everyone i've been bitching about for the last 6 months and sunday, just out of view of anyone, she pushed me up against a wall, kissed me, and grabbed my ass IN PUBLIC anyway, she's taking me on a date saturday night
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yaoi gagarin @mel.bzky.team · 08/08/2026
trans girl with zero bottom dysphoria who still gets GRS to permanently opt out of the godawful nicknames people give tgirl dick
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ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 06/08/2026
goddess free me from these chaser brained "bottoms"
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ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 06/08/2026
ended up deciding, based on conversation yesterday morning with the new person, that their vibes were fucking rancid and they were treating me like a man in all of their sexual expectations of me so i called it off and chilled by myself instead, and i was happier for doing so
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ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 04/08/2026
yesterday i fucked my friend, might tomorrow too. wednesday i am hooking up with someone new. soon there's a real possibility that the second person's meta will fuck me. and it's not entirely unrealistic that there could be a threesome or foursome from this mix. and holy fuck im getting FERAL
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ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 03/08/2026
ember whore era is real
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ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 25/07/2026
how the fuck is everyone on "lesbian" tinder monogamous except the cishet couples trying to get a threesome with a dyke who would rather kill the man than fuck him
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Olúfẹ́mi O. Táíwò @olufemiotaiwo.bsky.social · 21/07/2026
every time you write overly defensively you should remember that you are pursuing a strategy of writing careful sentences specifically for people who demonstrably either won't or can't read them
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ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 19/07/2026
in the past 2 weeks i have apparently quietly crossed some threshold of confidence and swagger offline that has made me SIGNIFICANTLY more fuckable. which is both fascinating and also confusing, but it's sure as hell gonna be fun.
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francis @dilfkink.kindboys.online · 15/07/2026
everyone who's called the latest MAHA testosterone grift "gender affirming care" needs to pay the nearest trans man $20
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ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 15/07/2026
toto africa is a song about what if you were a chaser for a continent
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ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 14/07/2026
reading How to Live Freely in a Dangerous World, by Shaya Lawson, for queer book club this month. i am so fucking close to DNFing it over the author's transmisogyny in the middle of the book. like. tell me why you're putting your transfem student's deadname in your published hardcover textbook.
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ill-boo-mi @yallchemist.bsky.social · 12/07/2026
I’m saddened to announce the passing of my work colleague, The Zodiac Killer. While we were often on opposing sides of the business, I always enjoyed his silly little scavenger hunts.
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ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 03/07/2026
got a new car today then a few hours later i got head in the back of my car from someone i'd just met at a bar today went pretty good i think <3
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ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 01/07/2026
unfortunately, the opening Lysander oneliner was the height of the script. this was abysmal, frankly borderline unreadable. perhaps the live performance is fun, but if i wasn't afraid of disappointing my group leader, i'd have DNF'd this atrocious script by mid act 3.
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ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 01/07/2026
chasers be like feminism? what about femme in this him
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ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 01/07/2026
reading midsummer nights dream (the script). i've never read shakespeare and i've only seen a recording of R&J performed in high school one time. i'm like 2 minutes in and this Lysander guy is already like "why don't you go fuck her dad instead, he's clearly in love with you and she's not"
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ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 30/06/2026
i love the locked tomb i love tamsyn muir i love harrowhark nonagesimus
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ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 29/06/2026
i think i am at the point where i have begun to mentally equate "femboy" with "shemale" in terms of both function and offensiveness, and i am not particularly inclined to be apologetic about it
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Talia "ATTACK DOGS is out now!" Bhatt ⚢ @taliabhatt.itch.io · 28/06/2026
The UN (yes, the UN) put out a graphic in support of trans women that depicted us as... women. Feminine women. Much of Xitter was up in arms about that being "bad rep" (what) because you "couldn't tell". They'd just "drawn women and called them trans". And it's so revealing.
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ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 28/06/2026
sometimes i think about how many things i wanted that i have been denied because other people thought they knew better than i did what i wanted or needed. given that, is it any wonder being patronized, condescended to, or infantilized is such an instant redline frustration for me?
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ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 28/06/2026
feeling insane every time i see things like this, given the number of times i have been complimented on my hands by someone who had no interest in me whatsoever
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ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 28/06/2026
watching stepfamily porn must be like getting cucked out of your incest kink
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ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 28/06/2026
not holding my breath about the supposed 2026 DSA congress cretins because i am old enough to remember getting excited in 2018 about DSA congress cretins
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ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 28/06/2026
to be on lesbian tinder is to report more unicorn hunters than the number of women you actually swipe right on
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Katie Tightpussy, Editor-In-Chief @katie.bzky.team · 27/06/2026
trans women are the best to ever do it
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ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 27/06/2026
sometimes i go spend a bit of time on reddit, and it is never long before i am reminded of how incredibly transmisogynist the rest of it is.
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ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 25/06/2026
this is the only humiliation scene i can tolerate actually
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