ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 12/10/2026made the mistake of forgetting that people hate it when you're sad in front of them 010
ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 10/10/2026(very soon i am likely to be the experienced older dyke for a gorgeous early 20s woman who wants casual with me real bad) 000
ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 10/10/2026when will it be my turn to have fun with an experienced older dyke? 100
ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 05/10/2026"but she'll just use you as a sex object and fetishize you" oh like other trans women don't already do that? 010
ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 05/10/2026this is what progesterone has done to me. i am becoming a stereotype of an insane top that thinks with her dick first and brain third. 120
ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 05/10/2026what sort of degradation do you think i would have to put myself through in order to bag a creepy c4t lesbian chaser 140
Reposted by ember a.francis @dilfkink.kindboys.online · 04/10/2026"it's valid to not transition!" kills. it kills people. please stop saying this shit. you are allowing suicidal people to languish in the closet and repress who they really are and want they truly need, all to soothe the insecure anxieties of cissexuals who aren't part of the cool T slur club. stop. 311211
ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 04/10/2026idk anything about a "top shortage" or whatever, but what i do know is i'm so fucking untoppable that i accidentally made a girl realize she very much wants bottom surgery 010
ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 01/10/2026expressed bedtime boundaries because it's late as fuck and i work in the morning and this girl who hasn't talked to me at all in over a month just decides to go "ember wtf" what the fuck indeed, i guess 010
ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 28/09/2026i mean offline friendships, offline social. *not* social media. i am already not really active online anymore, besides the very occasional journalpost whine every several days. 010
ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 22/09/2026when is it my turn to heal and have things go right for more than one or two nights of the brief euphoria 030
ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 19/09/2026like if i could just be wrong one fucking time that would be cool 100
ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 19/09/2026what a fucking awful series of mistakes this year has been. i was right when i wrote that note last september. how stupid i was to forget my own hard-won lessons. 000
ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 17/09/2026a reignited hypersexuality plus a return of sex repulsion is making me feel really awful kinds of ways :/ 010
ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 17/09/2026three days in and i've decided that i don't want to be partners with her after all. 030
ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 16/09/2026became her girlfriend two days ago and there's already major problems. why am i bothering. i really must be stupid, huh? 010
Reposted by ember a.may @maysuser.name · 04/09/2026"gender is made up there are no rules" feels like a super reductive way of looking at gender, the rules exist and there are rewards and consequences for following and breaking them, it's just up to you to decide how you want to engage with them 4454
ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 29/08/2026you're so real for this, i constantly feel the temptation 010
ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 19/08/2026some people call themselves submissive because they've engaged in so much self hatred and infantilization that they cannot conceive of themselves as having agency and desires beyond being an abstract toy for someone they don't really care about other than to continue to avoid making any decisions 030
ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 18/08/2026met a lovely girl who is acting the precise opposite of everyone i've been bitching about for the last 6 months and sunday, just out of view of anyone, she pushed me up against a wall, kissed me, and grabbed my ass IN PUBLIC anyway, she's taking me on a date saturday night 060
Reposted by ember a.yaoi gagarin @mel.bzky.team · 08/08/2026trans girl with zero bottom dysphoria who still gets GRS to permanently opt out of the godawful nicknames people give tgirl dick 1229335
ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 06/08/2026goddess free me from these chaser brained "bottoms" 010
ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 06/08/2026if someone is saying their expectations are "use me like a fleshlight" and they have no desire for anything other than my dick and they're calling themselves a "subby bottom"... i know what you are. 020
ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 06/08/2026ended up deciding, based on conversation yesterday morning with the new person, that their vibes were fucking rancid and they were treating me like a man in all of their sexual expectations of me so i called it off and chilled by myself instead, and i was happier for doing so 120
ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 04/08/2026friend and i are both feeling really weird today so that's probably a mutual no today but the other stuff is still exciting! 040
ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 04/08/2026yesterday i fucked my friend, might tomorrow too. wednesday i am hooking up with someone new. soon there's a real possibility that the second person's meta will fuck me. and it's not entirely unrealistic that there could be a threesome or foursome from this mix. and holy fuck im getting FERAL 150
ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 26/07/2026and it was so cool to not have to give a single fuck about the insane spike in the price of eggs! 010
ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 26/07/2026god yeah that gets to me. people who don't cook look at premade food specifically labelled vegan/plant-based/whatever and go "wow that's more expensive" and then their brain stops there. we never see it go the other way of "wow meat is so expensive" even though that's literally true x_x 150
ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 25/07/2026how the fuck is everyone on "lesbian" tinder monogamous except the cishet couples trying to get a threesome with a dyke who would rather kill the man than fuck him 020
Reposted by ember a.Olúfẹ́mi O. Táíwò @olufemiotaiwo.bsky.social · 21/07/2026every time you write overly defensively you should remember that you are pursuing a strategy of writing careful sentences specifically for people who demonstrably either won't or can't read them 484810960
ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 21/07/2026feels 2025 and like it's begun to develop already but is still sprouting from seed (not full grown), that's about my only note on this tbh, feels very accurate for the upcoming wave that will make these ingredients coherent enough to be extremely dangerous rather than just extremely obnoxious 000
ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 20/07/2026the only thing that gives me bottom dysphoria is the way other trans women offline/irl tend to treat me and expect me to act for them just because i actually enjoy using it. it's ironic i guess, because the more they center their expectations on its presence and use, the more i want it gone. 000
ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 19/07/2026in the past 2 weeks i have apparently quietly crossed some threshold of confidence and swagger offline that has made me SIGNIFICANTLY more fuckable. which is both fascinating and also confusing, but it's sure as hell gonna be fun. 040
Reposted by ember a.francis @dilfkink.kindboys.online · 15/07/2026everyone who's called the latest MAHA testosterone grift "gender affirming care" needs to pay the nearest trans man $20 172037495
ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 15/07/2026toto africa is a song about what if you were a chaser for a continent 010
ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 14/07/2026TME nonbinary people be fucking normal about trans women and transfeminine enbies challenge (impossible) 040
ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 14/07/2026or oh tell me more about how your student has the malest voice in the room and it's intimidating that her voice is so male, fuck off! 130
ember a. @emberwitchy.bsky.social · 14/07/2026reading How to Live Freely in a Dangerous World, by Shaya Lawson, for queer book club this month. i am so fucking close to DNFing it over the author's transmisogyny in the middle of the book. like. tell me why you're putting your transfem student's deadname in your published hardcover textbook. 120
