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relying on it to "just come up in conversation" isn't going to cut it. so how do we start this ... intervention?

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and it is clear now that that is woefully insufficient for the task. so how the fuck do we do this? how do we start broaching topics about power dynamics, clear, unambiguous, revocable, meaningful consent

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so i'm soliciting ideas from everyone on how we start doing things now. that will necessitate change, and it will also necessitate an understanding of _where we are_. in my experience, men don't discuss this kind of shit - meaning every one of us is just winging it and relying on our moral compass

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i've been sitting with this feeling of inadequacy the last few days; what happened to Jane Doe, like with so many millions of women in my lifetime alone, is an unacceptable blight on our society. a deep moral rot that needs be excised.

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hell, i thought i was a fucking weirdo for telling my best friend i finally had a one night stand once! (narrator: he did not, in fact, have a one night stand. he married her.)

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but i am 44 now and i can honestly say i have never once, in my entire life, had a conversation with any friend or peer about their love life not one! not once!

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that's rape or rapey or rape adjacent - just as soon as the opportunity is there, take it and discuss standards of conduct and responsibility and safety and that's great!

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aslynn is just a ghoul 👻 @aslynnromano.com · 20h

@kccomplainsalot.blacksky.app has made some good points the last few days about how men have to be holding other men accountable, but i've been rather despondent about the process because I don't know _how_ it's all well and good to say that we need to speak up in the moment when we hear anything

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"Aslynn, what are you talking about?" Chloe, a goddamn hero, who rushed to get her patient out the door because she knew he was in danger It's not clear that she committed a crime. I'd argue she didn't! & she's a hero either way I hope we can all help pay for an attorney to prove her innocence!

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Ann Arbor nurse charged with helping ICE detainee escape from Trinity Health hospital

Chloe Freeman, a registered nurse at Trinity Health Ann Arbor, faces a federal misdemeanor charge after prosecutors say she removed an immigration detainee's IV and escorted him out of the hospital.

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aslynn is just a ghoul 👻 @aslynnromano.com · 20h

An absolute hero. I am SO fucking proud to be a nurse and among such courageous people. Please spread the word of this Florence Nightingale level bravery. I hope that a way to support her legal fees becomes evident soon. Thank you, Chloe 🫶

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even kagi is not immune to this kind of nonsense 😭

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i don't care if only 4 people have written Voyagers of Nera guides on the entirety of Al Gore's internet, *THOSE ARE THE FOUR I NEED TO SEE, YOU PATRONIZING SEARCH ENGINE FUCKS*

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I think the thing that makes me hate Search more than anything else is that when I type something like "Terratoise" in, it has the *gal* to be like "hrm, not many results with that in it, he probably means something different" re: ranking no bitch, i meant terratoise!

K.C. Clyburn, Author @kccomplainsalot.blacksky.app · 22h

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a key reason why rape culture persists is because men do not fear reprisals from *other men*. they do not expect other men to care if they raped someone. they do not expect other men to treat them poorly. they believe that most men will doubt a victim's story and demand evidence.

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K.C. Clyburn, Author @kccomplainsalot.blacksky.app · 22h

i'd add your long-form blog to my rss subscriptions instantly if i could.

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you, yes you, a man, are not pissed off enough about rape culture.

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K.C. Clyburn, Author @kccomplainsalot.blacksky.app · 22h

You, a man, are not upset enough about rape culture, if a man can say this OUT LOUD, IN PUBLIC, **WHILE RUNNING FOR GOVERNOR**, and still be running for governor the next day.

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Dax Pryce @dax.pryce.io · 23h

let's not beat around the bush with it; we've prioritized comfort and veneers of civility for too long, and we've let people get away with far too much bullshit that needed to be called out the moment it happened. well, the bill is coming due

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Dax Pryce @dax.pryce.io · 23h

the take isn't shitty i've typed like 8 or 9 followups to "the take isn't shitty" but they all diverge from the point; men are the ones who have to have the contentious conversations with our peers and blow up our social networks when our peers refuse to fix their hearts

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Dax Pryce @dax.pryce.io · 23h

nobody was going to throw you on it until you said something this disgusting, and now we're going to use you as the tinder good job bud.

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gamera obscura @ohrobin.bsky.social · 26/02/2026

liberty spikes and shorn sides

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Purity test is shorthand for “you care about the people I have already decided are expendable.”

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I agree, it is more memorable, but I quote "I learned it from watching you" far more frequently, by several orders of magnitude but i still remember the egg more vividly, and when i visualize the 'i learned it from watching you', it's fred savage from the princess bride in that bed

stupid bitches finding out in real time that there's a fast track to ignominy and it's writ in indelible ink

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I went from "aight he seems relatively okay, as far as texas goes, at any rate" to "i hope he falls down the steps and redacted his redacted and lives the rest of his life in a redacted redacted state" in a single 5 minute period that's pretty impressive, if you think about it

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the one in new jersey, right? split-level, built in 1973?

Andi Zeisler @andizeisler.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

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As fallout from the Cornell story continues, do you want to hear some history about the rape-on-campus/false-accusation panic from someone who was starting college as it took shape? Because this isn’t new, and it’s going to get ugly

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Dax Pryce @dax.pryce.io · 25/09/2026

plz ev swap my kei truck, I'll stand there and keep you company and run small well defined erands i mean when the swaps are cheaper

Dax Pryce @dax.pryce.io · 25/09/2026

then we'd never know the status of the grunts

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Dax Pryce @dax.pryce.io · 25/09/2026

fresnel lenses ingenious

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i have been fending off a persistent sea of unattributed, unaspected cortisol this entire week, and i don't know why my brain is doing this to me but i would like for it to stop please and thank you

yeah, that is exactly what i expected from her

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Tyler, from the Internet @tylerfromtheinternet.com · 24/09/2026

I mean, we _want_ to, but looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooool we're going to work until we're dead

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voter, making eye contact with me as he is eaten: this is your fault for being right early

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i can tell by how you treated it

Dax Pryce @dax.pryce.io · 23/09/2026

ah, gandalfin' it, i see

Dax Pryce @dax.pryce.io · 23/09/2026

"my credit card number? i don't think my credit card has a cell phone actually"

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sometimes, you choose anger other times, anger chooses you

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I also want someone else to bring them to me, because it's the kind of day I'm super gd lazy about

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I want high tea Like, not the fanciness. I want to sit in my PJs and eat finger sandwiches and tasty treats.

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i wildly overpaid on my 25+ year old kei truck but i also didn't care because i just wanted the one with 25k miles on it

Rayna @queenrayna1337.bsky.social · 20/09/2026

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Can confirm ;-;

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<chanting> little man! little man! little man!

what kind of abject loser builds a business on looksmaxxing and still drugs and rapes women either your shtick works or it fucking doesn't (I know it has nothing to do with whether he *could* pull or not, but instead taking what he wanted, because he's a piece of shit)