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@dansavage.bsky.social
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Host of the Savage Lovecast, author of Savage Love. "A deviant of the highest order!" — The Daily Caller

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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 5h
Imogen was a seasoned Burning Man pro. But she’d never done a threeway with whippets there before. Hear all about her dusty experience on this week's After Action Report. What have YOU done lately? Hmmmm? Write up your experience (good or bad) and send it to Q@Savage.Love!
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 8h
Not the obituary I wanted to read today. www.google.com/goto?url=CAE...
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‘We’ll never forget him, ever’: Chicago Bears fans reminisce on Mike Ditka’s legacy
Football fans at Chicago Bears tailgates reflected on a tough coach whose spirit became synonymous with Chicago.
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 12h
That was my advice too!
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The Tennessee Holler @thetnholler.bsky.social · 08/10/2026
Devastating 💔 Abolish ice www.instagram.com/reel/DePkMcN...
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Bill Savage @rogersparkman.bsky.social · 22h
As we come up on the time of the night when The Great Chicago Fire started 155 years ago today, a family heirloom: plates that survived the Fire, straw from their packing excelsior scorched into their glazed surfaces.
Two cracked dinner plates in an octagonal frame, with patterns of burnt straw, in a variety of colors.
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 07/10/2026
A gay man is about to move in with his boyfriend. The boyfriend (who makes a lot more money than the caller,) is asking the caller to pitch in to a shared vacation fund in lieu of full rent. Is this fair? Is there a way to make their arrangement more equitable?
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 06/10/2026
On this week's Magnum Edition, it’s a bisexuality brawl with sex therapist Claire Perelman! Dan and Claire talk about that new YouGov poll, why so many bi people stay closeted, and how bi people can overcome the stigma. New Savage Lovecast out now!
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
Ever find yourself tongue tied in bed when asked to "talk dirty"? Try this quick and simple tip! All you dirty talking pros, sound off in the comments with more tips!
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
Which is not to say it's an obituary I was saddened to read. Just not the one I was hoping to read.
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
Not the obituary I wanted to read today. www.reuters.com/world/us/for...
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Dennis Hastert, former US House speaker and admitted child molester, dies at 84
Dennis Hastert, the longest-serving Republican US House of Representatives speaker who later admitted to sexually abusing boys as a high school wrestling coach and pleaded guilty to charges arising fr...
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
On her vacation to Bali, she hooked up with a hot, rich dude with a glass house in the jungle. But, what tricks did he have up his sleeve? Listen to her full story on this week's After Action Report! And then send us your stories at Q@Savage.Love
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
This caller is having a tattoo conundrum. Should she let her fiancé off the hook with the removal of a previous tattoo? The answer seems pretty obvious, but it's a good jumping off point to discuss tattoos, their permanence, meaning, and possible removal. Do you have tattoo regrets?
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
This is the least boggling thing I’ve read in weeks.
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
Somewhere in the valley that lies between monogamy and polyamory lives the concept of being "MONOGAMISH". The word and concept was uttered by Dan and took off, probably because a lot of people were finding themselves in this valley. For full vid, go to buff.ly/X3GrSx6
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
Oh. www.nytimes.com/2026/09/24/a... Sorry, I don't read... about pop music? My eye skips right past headlines with the names of pop stars in them. But the idea that someone (Taylor Swift) is paying me to be silent about this... is ridiculous.
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Taylor Swift Named Her New Song ‘Patient Zero.’ Where Does the Term Originate?
“Patient zero” has long been associated with virus outbreaks and fictional health investigations. It was coined in the 1980s, by accident.
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
I have no idea what this is about.
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
Just how polite are Canadians? Meet Owen, a Canuck whose good manners went above and beyond when he visited the red light district in Amsterdam. Name a lake after this guy! Listen to this week's After Action Report for the full story! Tell us your story, right away! Send it to Q@Savage.Love
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
I was like... wait, what? Happy to the least famous Dan on that list. An honor just to be nominated.
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
A woman from Southeast Asia is considering getting into a lavender marriage in order keep her queerness secret from her conservative family. She knows that in the West this is considered ethically questionable. But she might do it anyway. Should she?
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
It's like there are two kinds of youth pastors out there: the ones who got caught and the ones who haven't gotten caught yet. www.joemygod.com/2026/09/flor...
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Florida Youth Pastor Arrested On Child Sex Charges - Joe.My.God.
Gainesville’s ABC affiliate reports: Officers arrested a youth pastor accused of grooming an underage teen in Ocala. Caleb Fischer Ray, 27, a youth pastor for Connection Church in Ocala, was accused o...
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A Self-Respecting Fish @fishhat.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
Casper the GGG Ghost
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
If having dirty pics is disqualifying criteria for public office, no one under 50 is qualified! If you wanna make history by sending a hot guy who looks good in a harness to Congress, you can donate to Gallant’s campaign. New Savage Lovecast out now!
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 21/09/2026
We have Dr. Eugene Fan on Savage Lovecast this week to discuss a myriad of sexual health issues and to answer a caller's question about erections after a heart attack. Out tomorrow!
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Rob Delaney @robdelaney.bsky.social · 21/09/2026
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
No words exchanged. He lying in a hotel bed. She enters and just watches. It was their first and only date. Rachel’s story proves that scheduled sex most certainly CAN be hot. Hear her story on this week's After Action Report, out now! Send your stories to Q@Savage.Love.
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
Not the obituary I wanted to read today. www.nytimes.com/2026/09/18/a...
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Duncan Sheik, Who Traded Pop Stardom for Broadway, Dies at 56 (Gift Article)
Weary of the heartthrob label after his 1996 hit “Barely Breathing,” he pivoted to musical theater and won two Tonys for composing “Spring Awakening.”
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
Have any of you dealt with intrusive thoughts? This caller is battling a particularly annoying one. Do you have advice on how to get this mediocre man out of her head when she's having sex with her wonderful man?
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 15/09/2026
Instances of genuine human connection ARE possible in dating app culture. It's good to be reminded of that at times. Share your stories of genuine connection via apps in the comments! New episode of Savage.Love/Lovecast is out now!
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 14/09/2026
Actor Julian Shaw is finally coming out...as straight! And though some have accused him of being "gay for pay" he says he never accepted a fee and is also coming out to set the record...straight! Julian is our guest this week on Savage Lovecast, out tomorrow!
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 14/09/2026
Not the obituary I wanted to read today. people.com/bob-mackie-d...
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Bob Mackie, Legendary Costume Designer, Dead at 87
Bob Mackie has died at the age of 87. The iconic fashion designer was best known for his collaborations with Cher, and creating outfits for legends including Diana Ross, Tina Turner, Carol Burnett and...
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 12/09/2026
He knows this is going to happen whenever he goes out in public and he still goes out in public. It must make his dick hard. It’s the only explanation.
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 11/09/2026
Meet Tom who went on a very special vacation with his girlfriend. Packing checklist: Kink outfits ✅️ Consent Form ✅️ Waste bag ✅️ Ability to witness your partner get railed by someone else ✅️ How did it really go? Listen to After Action Report to find out! And send us your stories to Q@Savage.Love
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Bill Savage @rogersparkman.bsky.social · 10/09/2026
My lecture on the "Loveable Losers" Cubs and Norman Rockwell's "The Dugout" is now available online from the Art Institute. www.youtube.com/watch?v=W2sS...
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Lecture: Norman Rockwell and the Chicago Cubs—The Making of Baseball's "Loveable Losers"
YouTube video by The Art Institute of Chicago
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 10/09/2026
Zach Noe Towers helps us answer this question on this week's Savage Lovecast, but we want to know YOUR tips / products / routines to get those hands sparkling clean and smelling fresh, post-fingering!
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Brent Toderian @brenttoderian.bsky.social · 09/09/2026
“We need an Ozempic for cars. They are growing at a phenomenal rate, wreaking havoc on roads, squeezing out smaller vehicles and endangering pedestrians. Like ever-hungry teenagers, cars in Europe are growing on average a centimetre wider every year.” Don’t repeat North America’s mistake, Europe.
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Britain’s cars and SUVs are growing bigger – but there is a way to stop this deadly ‘carspreading’ | Christian Wolmar
Larger vehicles crowd our roads and are far more dangerous to pedestrians. Let’s curb them before they do even more damage, says says transport commentator Christian Wolmar
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 09/09/2026
Rosh Hashanah Drama! A divorced woman is in an open relationship with her boyfriend. Her kids don't know. Her family doesn't approve. He wears a wedding ring. What should she do if kids start asking questions?
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 08/09/2026
Zach Noe Towers was one of the 1800 passengers on the gay cruise that was banned from multiple ports over the summer. He's our guest on Lovecast this week where he tells us all about it, plus he helps us answer a few questions from callers. To hear our full chat with Zach, become a Magnum sub!
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 05/09/2026
Maybe one day we’ll have a Democratic governor, a Democratic county executive, and Democratic majorities in both houses of the state legislature here in Washington State and we’ll finally be able to do something about this.
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Joan Price @joanprice.bsky.social · 04/09/2026
What advice would I give to younger people? My answer to this Q may surprise you. Thank you, dear @jessicadrake.bsky.social , for interviewing me for Glorious Broads. (Shoutout to @dansavage.bsky.social who explains this point of view frequently and powerfully.) www.instagram.com/reel/Dc3xV1i...
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 04/09/2026
I am at peace with this decision. www.joemygod.com/2026/09/trum...
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Trump To Fly Qatari AF1 Overseas Despite Security Risk - Joe.My.God.
The Washington Post reports: President Donald Trump plans to fly to Ireland next week aboard the Boeing 747 gifted to him by Qatar, a senior White House official said, marking his first international ...
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 04/09/2026
Cat started a sex toy company (Good Ember), so she had to come out as kinky to friends and family. What she didn’t expect was the stampede of her mother’s boomer friends asking for product. Hear all about it on this week's After Action Report, out now at buff.ly/8G0c7Mw!
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 03/09/2026
What role should this woman have in helping her trans sister to come out to her family and stand up for herself?
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 03/09/2026
Not the obituary I wanted to read today. www.nytimes.com/2026/09/03/u...
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Gloria Steinem, Personification of the Feminist Movement, Dies at 92 (Gift Article)
She challenged sexist assumptions, helping women develop a sense of self-worth and gain a measure of equality at work, at home and in society at large.
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 02/09/2026
This caller knows she doesn't want children, and is considering a tubal ligation. Have any of you had your tubes tied? What was recovery like? Any advice for this caller? Listen to the reply to this call on this week's Savage.Love/Lovecast!
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 01/09/2026
Is it DADT? Is it Toly? Whatever you call it, they made it work for them! For more, listen to this week's Savage Lovecast, out now!
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 28/08/2026
I once told Milo to Google Ernst Röhm. 🤷‍♂️
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 28/08/2026
Hey Everybody! Meet Jay- a pan, poly furry who, along with 15 other queer furries, met up for a “kink tasting, orgy event.” What goes on at kink cabin? Listen to this week's After Action Report to hear all about it! And if you have a tale to share, write it up and send it in to Q@Savage.Love
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 27/08/2026
On this Lovecast, a caller wonders if folks who enjoy adult baby play actually… well, actually sh*t themselves. The answer comes from Dan’s guest, Fancy of the InTheNook podcast. The show champions “nuance, kink-positive education, and unfiltered queer realness” for those into ABDL. buff.ly/k7rVfQt
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Dan Savage @dansavage.bsky.social · 26/08/2026
Ethics Alert! A man and a woman broke up, as men and women do. She asked him to delete all the hot videos and pics he possessed with her in them. But if he never ever shares the material, does he really have to?
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