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you can tell dnp aren’t american bc i could not imagine buying this hat lol. i’m not particularly reverent of vets or anything but i also don’t want to get accosted by random people

Dan and Phil merch for their current tour. It’s a trucker hat that says “Proud Veteran: Phan Shipper”

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sophia @coastaldefeat.bsky.social · 22h

excited for “you can see everything” and praying that it won’t be as misogynistic as his previous body of work

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sophia @coastaldefeat.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

man you really have to put in work to change your physical form to become who you want huh

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sophia @coastaldefeat.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

steven universe is the best mommy issues show because not only does it have the main character’s large, problematic mommy, it also has three larger and more problematic mommies

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schwa @lizardinhat.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

omg tell me about it the video essayification of youtube is so bad. you cannot be an expert on everything!! feels like the only good stuff is videos that have already been peer reviewed by friends

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sophia @coastaldefeat.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

god when will youtube incentivize 10 minute videos again. like there is no way anyone has more than 20 minutes of interesting thoughts about 95% of things. yet every video is like 30-60 minutes long now.

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sophia @coastaldefeat.bsky.social · 26/09/2026

yay: asmr is popular enough that a lot of salons and spas offer ASMR services! nay: they change $100 for brushing and scratching. more than actual trained massage therapist prices.

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sophia @coastaldefeat.bsky.social · 26/09/2026

literally just can’t figure out what’s wrong with me. i get that fucking pit in my stomach whenever i think about i saw the tv glow. im not trans, i’m not lesbian, i don’t know what it is but its killing me all the time

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Stellbound: Stellraiser II @antlervel.vet · 25/09/2026

Hey friends. Don’t forget to get this year’s flu shot and your COVID booster. CVS has them available now, at least in NY. Just scheduled mine

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sophia @coastaldefeat.bsky.social · 26/09/2026

you will neverrrrr get me with glow-up propaganda. no matter how little work it takes for me to adjust my appearance closer to beauty standard, it will always take less work for me to decide that i don’t want to do that.

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Steve E. Tricks @refreshingtime.bsky.social · 23/09/2026

happy bi visibility day from the nobody believes you hand sofa

bisexual visibility couch with many disturbing hands reading "when you change or to and nobody believes you"

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sophia @coastaldefeat.bsky.social · 23/09/2026

guys it wasn't that bad, i just usually don't get any side effects from the vaccine 😭 please go get it! just allow yourself some extra rest in the days after!

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sophia @coastaldefeat.bsky.social · 22/09/2026

wow this year’s covid vaccine was a doozy amirite

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sophia @coastaldefeat.bsky.social · 21/09/2026

sometimes at work you get to see little slideshows about employees that have worked here for a long time. every time i see a guy who is a stellar employee and a marathon runner and also a dad…. i have it out for him

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sophia @coastaldefeat.bsky.social · 17/09/2026

on the bus in a standing area with a couple of guys who somehow both happen to be wearing the exact same shoes as me. i said “seems like we’re wearing the same shoes :)” they look down and say “oh” and say nothing else

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sophia @coastaldefeat.bsky.social · 14/09/2026

tried talking to another nonbinary person with the same name as me at work and i complained that every other developer on me team is a cis man and they replied "gender doesn't really matter to me" like fuck i got outwoked

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sophia @coastaldefeat.bsky.social · 10/09/2026

i'm not really a fan of posts where it's just one leftist statement over and over again in capital letters, but if i made one myself it would go: GREEN TEA DOESN'T GO IN BOILING WATER GREEN TEA DOESN'T GO IN BOILING WATER YOUR GREEN TEA TASTES BAD BECAUSE YOU BOIL IT

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capybara @carebearritual.bsky.social · 09/09/2026

What is it about getting over ur ptsd symptoms that makes u wanna tell everyone what happened

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sophia @coastaldefeat.bsky.social · 08/09/2026

phil lester asking “do you think he’s gotten better or worse as a person” oh the interviewer you are

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sophia @coastaldefeat.bsky.social · 08/09/2026

everyone says they love smokey bear, but no one wants to pour water over the coals and stir until they’re cool to the touch. fake fans!

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sophia @coastaldefeat.bsky.social · 30/08/2026

thinking about getting a talking button for my dog since he’s learned to ask for a new toy by biting furniture

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sophia @coastaldefeat.bsky.social · 29/08/2026

yesterday i thought “what if i made the lsat my new hobby?” and turns out it’s $300??? why can’t a girl take standardized tests

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sophia @coastaldefeat.bsky.social · 29/08/2026

fighting with people about the wire mother cloth mother experiment in tiktok comments. life is good.

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sophia @coastaldefeat.bsky.social · 28/08/2026

these comments look exactly like every comment about dan and phil like 6 years ago lmao. they are all about jaidenanimations and alpharad.

I’m very very not in the know of their status as a duo but I’ve although thought it was a partnership? Like a platonic marriage i dunno. They just seem like life partners to me

Whatever their relationship is, they clearly care a great deal about each other, glad they have each other. And they have great onscreen chemistry, they bounce off each other very well and it makes for great content every time

Ngl i just saw them as best friends lmao. Of course we all have that innate human interest of like “oh what if something is going on between these two” but genuinely it’s none of our business at the end of the day, we’re just the viewers getting a small peek into their lives and should leave it at that. It’s their relationship to define, and it doesn’t need a label especially for random people on the internet. Don’t be parasocial y’all

I strive to have a relationship like theirs. They’re so funny and supportive to each other. I always just saw two people who were really close. Like yeah, they do fun things with each other because they like doing fun things with each other. It’s not that hard to understand.

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sophia @coastaldefeat.bsky.social · 27/08/2026

i keep having to remember that tiktok is not real. i keep getting mad about the concept of “bag etiquette” and then i remember that i’ve never heard about it a single time in real life

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sophia @coastaldefeat.bsky.social · 27/08/2026

lots of people who just learned what a labrys is have big feelings about it

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sophia @coastaldefeat.bsky.social · 26/08/2026

my hollywood, ending tour stop has no tickets and is operating on a “first come first serve” basis. they have absolutely no idea how famous john green is. i think i’ll have to take the day off to camp 😭

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Kellalena @kellalena.bsky.social · 25/08/2026

This bagel has everything, why can’t I

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sophia @coastaldefeat.bsky.social · 25/08/2026

encores are OUT. exit music is IN. let me go HOME!!

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sophia @coastaldefeat.bsky.social · 16/08/2026

and it’s even crazier that jaidenanimations and alpharad are somehow also doing the “soulmates living together” bit as a straight-passing pair

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sophia @coastaldefeat.bsky.social · 16/08/2026

it’s so crazy that dan and phil are real

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sophia @coastaldefeat.bsky.social · 16/08/2026

posted a personal update :) i’m rereading it and it always sounds like i am always two sentences away from saying something interesting and then i change topics but oh well coastaldefeat.com/2026/08/15/t...

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Trauma Recovery So Far

I’ve been in a full-time group trauma recovery program for about 9 weeks now. My thinking feels different than it did when I started the program. Unfortunately, the spot that I’m in is a messy one.…

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sophia @coastaldefeat.bsky.social · 13/08/2026

like i love these pictures but even the gray tshirt is washing me out, i can’t just wear colors like “mottled earth” for the rest of my life

me hugging my dog. his eyes are closed. i am wearing a bright white tank top. Tbh it doesn’t look that bad actually.

me petting my dog. his head is in my hap. i am wearing a kind of bright gray tshirt. it doesn’t look terrible, but it comes off as the focal point of the image

me lying next to my dog on the floor. he is licking my cheek. i am wearing a green-gray tshirt. this is by far the best color on me and makes my skin look alive

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Rachel 💜✨ @rachelicate.swifties.social · 13/08/2026

i truly believe one of the hardest things of being an adult is figuring out what to eat every damn day (extra hard if you’re neurospicy!)

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sophia @coastaldefeat.bsky.social · 11/08/2026

i need to dye my hair dark again. i make fun of color analysis but unfortunately they’re right, with light hair i only look okay in like 3 wishy washy colors and it’s getting hard to put together outfits.

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Ben Collins @bencollins.bsky.social · 11/08/2026

It's important we use Woke 2 as a decoy and put a bunch of stuff in it. "We will and must ban HGTV." "Abolish Olympic dressage." "Mandatory colonoscopies at age 25." We run on Woke 5.

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sophia @coastaldefeat.bsky.social · 10/08/2026

one benefit of positive reinforcement training for dogs is just the love you feel when your dog lets you do something they hate like clean their ears and you know they’re letting you do it because they trust you to not hurt them and to give them a treat later, not because they’re afraid of you

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sophia @coastaldefeat.bsky.social · 09/08/2026

from this screenshot, you may think that Matthew Morrison has a TikTok. that is not true! HUNDREDS of gleeks buy cameos from him and post them online. he is entirely aware that this is happening. he is getting people to pay him to make TikToks and promote those TikToks for him. crazy crazy gig

A screenshot of a TikTok account. The entire account is made of up vertical selfie videos filmed by Matthew Morrison.

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sophia @coastaldefeat.bsky.social · 07/08/2026

dog is in a funhouse contraption of shame because 1) he can chew through any cone 2) he can pull any collar over his head 3) his wound must remain uncovered

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sophia @coastaldefeat.bsky.social · 02/08/2026

man i know that the internet is up in arms about hank right now but i’m so glad he made that reddit post. i’d already gone through the five stages of grief of accepting that he’s a twitterpilled techbro now and i’m genuinely so excited to hear that he may be diverting from that path.

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sophia @coastaldefeat.bsky.social · 01/08/2026

i’m glad katherine and john seem aware of whatever is happening to hank. hopefully he gets better soon.

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sophia @coastaldefeat.bsky.social · 01/08/2026

having a puppy is like playing doctordle every week. patient presents with chief complaint of awooooooooooo

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sophia @coastaldefeat.bsky.social · 31/07/2026

sorry i need to be a hater one more time. people kept telling me that obsession was a feminist masterpiece and it’s crazy that it was made by a man. unfortunately it is not a feminist masterpiece and it was obviously made by a man.

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sophia @coastaldefeat.bsky.social · 29/07/2026

i’m really trying to be less of a hater. so in real life when i saw hadestown with my friends in theaters and they cried i as very nice. but i can’t hold it in. hadestown is deeply deeply cringe to me. mad props to you if you love it. to me it feels like an snl parody of a musical.

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sophia @coastaldefeat.bsky.social · 15/07/2026

really trying to become a bike commuter. so far i have a blister on my labia

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sophia @coastaldefeat.bsky.social · 25/06/2026

bluesky has started producing tumblr fake stories. very excited for the ace discourse and porn bots to arrive soon.

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sophia @coastaldefeat.bsky.social · 25/06/2026

i wish there were a way to turn off scoring for 4x3… i need accommodations for being a wuss

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