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T🌼M

@bigtallgay.bsky.social
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📍Providence, RI & Provincetown, MA. He/him. 🏳️‍🌈. Partner to @duggah.bsky.social. 🐶 dad to Pearl.

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T🌼M @bigtallgay.bsky.social · 09/08/2026
There we go! I knew one of you gays would come through for me!
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T🌼M @bigtallgay.bsky.social · 28/07/2026
With all this talk about The Odyssey, has anyone made an Odussy joke yet? There’s gotta be something there, right? I’m too tired to put it together myself…
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T🌼M @bigtallgay.bsky.social · 18/07/2026
Last night I won our Drag Race draft! I’ll be keeping the crown on at all times.
Wearing my crown and holding my scepter after winning the Drag Race draft from last night’s All Stars finale
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Colin @csmith03.bsky.social · 16/07/2026
Simpsons once again predicting things smh
Bart, Homer, and Marge in a conga line singing “YOU DON'T WIN FRIENDS WITH SALAD”
Lisa sits sadly on the couch behind them
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T🌼M @bigtallgay.bsky.social · 13/07/2026
I’m back at work after more than a week off, I had to put on socks and shoes and pants this morning, I turned Outlook notifications back on, and I have a lot of emails to sort through… 😫
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T🌼M @bigtallgay.bsky.social · 12/07/2026
From now on, any nudes I take will be shot using this tiny little diva.
Cute little Kodak Charmera in my hand, with the lower half of my body visible in the mirror in front of me. I’m barefoot in dark blue boxer briefs.
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T🌼M @bigtallgay.bsky.social · 10/07/2026
But here’s proof of life - me, @duggah.bsky.social, and Pearl from our NC beach vacation!
Me in a floral shirt, Doug in green, as he holds Pearl, our Maltipoo on the beach in the early evening in North Carolina.
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T🌼M @bigtallgay.bsky.social · 10/07/2026
Currently experiencing my biannual I-should-post-more thoughts… Hopefully my next post won’t be in another 6 months, sharing a similar sentiment!
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T🌼M @bigtallgay.bsky.social · 23/03/2026
I must confess: I haven’t watched any of the Real Housewives franchises in at least 10 years now, but I’m pretty pumped for Real Housewives of Rhode Island… even though I know it will not portray our little state in a positive light 🙃
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мɑгκ @drumrollplease.bsky.social · 16/03/2026
Millennials have fewer wrinkles because we stopped smiling during the Bush administration.
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T🌼M @bigtallgay.bsky.social · 18/03/2026
A few more sweet pics of our best girl!
Cute pic of Pearl in the yard where she kinda looks like she’s smiling even though she’s giving me some side eye.Profile shot of Pearl looking out the front window at cars driving by.Pearl all curled up, napping on the couch next to meThere was already a casualty with one of Pearl’s new birthday toys, so she only has half of this toy left - a little rainbow stuffed squeaker that only says “Farts”
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T🌼M @bigtallgay.bsky.social · 18/03/2026
This crazy girl just turned 1 a few days ago! She definitely still has her puppy energy… We love her so much.
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T🌼M @bigtallgay.bsky.social · 15/03/2026
In #acnh, usually when a favorite villager says they’re thinking about moving away, I say “absolutely not!” and make them stay. But Mitzi, one of my favs who has been on my island practically since the beginning, just wanted to move on so she could “continue growing as a cat”
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T🌼M @bigtallgay.bsky.social · 05/03/2026
Considering this a step toward justice for Cricket…
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T🌼M @bigtallgay.bsky.social · 05/03/2026
How your email finds me:
A selfie with Pearl the cream and white Maltipoo climbing all over me while I tried to both work and give her attention simultaneously. I was not successful in this.
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T🌼M @bigtallgay.bsky.social · 03/03/2026
No cheating. Your last saved picture of a celebrity is your therapist
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T🌼M @bigtallgay.bsky.social · 24/02/2026
The Ring app in Providence is wild today! Aside from MANY posts asking why the city didn’t make plowing their tiny little side street the #1 priority, these got me. There was another one that said something like “can someone come shovel my driveway? I need to get some.” but now I can’t find it!
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T🌼M @bigtallgay.bsky.social · 23/02/2026
Woke up and thought I’d check to see what the storm was doing outside, but all our windows look like this. We have power, though!
Pic of the inside of our living room window. Snow has blown onto the glass and you can’t see anything outside.
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T🌼M @bigtallgay.bsky.social · 21/02/2026
Blizzard conditions? 10-17”? Are you fucking kidding meeeeee
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T🌼M @bigtallgay.bsky.social · 16/02/2026
I have way too many meetings this week. Friday seems so far away. Heeeeelp
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T🌼M @bigtallgay.bsky.social · 15/02/2026
I made a huge pot of chili last night and I am so, so excited about all the leftovers and the fact that we won’t need to cook for dinners for the rest of the week. Whether or not I’m sick of chili by the end of the week is a problem for Future Tom.
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T🌼M @bigtallgay.bsky.social · 14/02/2026
First one awake, so it’s ACNH time for me! And since it’s Valentine’s Day, you can have free feet, but free out-of-focus feet. You’re welcome!
My legs and feet are up on a leather ottoman with a cup of coffee on the coffee table and my Switch controller on my leg, out of focus. Animal Crossing is on the tv.
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T🌼M @bigtallgay.bsky.social · 14/02/2026
Also, please enjoy my favorite Pearl pic of the week:
Pearl, our little 11 month old tan & white maltipoo, laying on a light gray blanket on a dark gray couch in our office, probably glaring at me because I was trying to work and not playing with her.
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T🌼M @bigtallgay.bsky.social · 14/02/2026
Happy Valentine’s Day, no matter how you spend it!
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T🌼M @bigtallgay.bsky.social · 04/02/2026
This is how my evening is going… how’s yours?!
Pearl is laying on my lap, on top of a gray fluffy blanket. She’s looking back at the camera, being super cute.
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T🌼M @bigtallgay.bsky.social · 02/02/2026
Oooh… I’m an early reservation holder on the Slate truck and I keep going back and forth on whether I’d pull the trigger or cancel, when the time comes… but this was exciting to watch! youtu.be/L6_9_HHLOSY
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A $25,000 Electric Truck Made in America? The Slate Prototype | Jay Leno’s Garage
YouTube video by Jay Leno's Garage
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T🌼M @bigtallgay.bsky.social · 02/02/2026
To hell with that damn groundhog!
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T🌼M @bigtallgay.bsky.social · 02/02/2026
January highlights! Snowy New Year’s Day in Provincetown, and a little sweetie in the snow. She needed help getting around her yard so we dug her some paths.
Bas Relief Park in Provincetown, Massachusetts in the snow, with the Pilgrim Monument in the background.Provincetown, MA after a light snow, taken from the McMillan Pier parking lot. The Pilgrim Monument and top of the Town Hall are in the background.Pearl luxuriates in our hotel room in Provincetown over New Year’s. She’s on the bed looking back at the camera as a fire burns in the room’s fireplace.Pearl looks tiny in the snow, taken from across the yard while she explores the paths we dug for her in the snow.
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T🌼M @bigtallgay.bsky.social · 01/02/2026
After the snow last weekend, the side of my car was covered in snow up to the roof… last night I figured I should extract it, and half the snow wall came with the car!
My white Prius in the driveway after the snow storm, with the front end mostly buried in snow, and snow piled up on the passenger side nearly up to the roof.My car after I backed it out of its parking spot a week later. The top half of the wall of snow fused somehow to the car.My car after I backed it out of its parking spot a week later. The top half of the wall of snow fused somehow to the car.
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T🌼M @bigtallgay.bsky.social · 01/02/2026
I keep thinking about how I should be using this platform more… since IG is owned by a total piece of shit, and all.
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T🌼M @bigtallgay.bsky.social · 01/02/2026
I’m gonna go ahead and document here my predictions for the 2nd half of Bridgerton, season 4. - Mama Bridgerton (MB) will invite new neighbor, Penwood (PW), over for tea. PW will mention being from Aylesbury or wherever, and MB will say “oh Sophie, my new lady’s maid is from there” and PW will flip
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T🌼M @bigtallgay.bsky.social · 25/11/2025
I went from having one officemate to three. They’re all lovely but now there’s no question that I’ll be more productive WFH compared to being in-office…
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T🌼M @bigtallgay.bsky.social · 24/11/2025
This should be an easy 2-day work week… so why did I just send an email that opened with “I swear, I think I'm going to have PTSD from this…” and close the email with “For my sanity, can we…”
Adele on SNL, holding a wine glass and then crushing that wine glass in her hand.
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T🌼M @bigtallgay.bsky.social · 20/11/2025
Hello from Pearl!
Pearl, the cutest little Maltipoo pup, laying down on the couch and looking up at the camera
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T🌼M @bigtallgay.bsky.social · 20/11/2025
Yes I too am a gay who will be seeing Wicked Part 2 tonight! I didn’t think I could manage the double feature so we watched Part 1 last night, and the puppy decided to carry on and go crazy during Defying Gravity, so it turns out our sweet little girl is actually a homophobe.
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a woman in a pink dress is in a room
ALT: a woman in a pink dress is in a room
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T🌼M @bigtallgay.bsky.social · 17/11/2025
WHAT!? 🤩🥳
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T🌼M @bigtallgay.bsky.social · 17/11/2025
The biggest news from the past 6 months is that we added a member to our family! Her name is Pearl and she’s a Maltipoo. She has her moments of being a tiny little psychopath but she’s definitely growing up to be a sweetie, too. We are absolutely obsessed with her.
Pearl the Maltipoo on her very first day home, in Doug’s arms.Pearl the Maltipoo on her very first trip to Provincetown!Pearl the Maltipoo on a pink boogie board in a swimming pool.Pearl the Maltipoo doing a little mlem as my reading glasses fall off her face.
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T🌼M @bigtallgay.bsky.social · 16/11/2025
I really need to get back into the swing of things on here! It’s been a busy 6 months! I’ve missed you all…
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T🌼M @bigtallgay.bsky.social · 25/04/2025
Allegedly, it is backed by a piece of shit monster billionaire, but… at least it isn’t Musk…?
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T🌼M @bigtallgay.bsky.social · 25/04/2025
This thing is super cool! It’s near impossible to start a new car company, so odds are this will evaporate away to nothing. But $50 secures a refundable reservation, so I reserved one even only to show support for a company that’s *trying* to make simple, cheap transportation. Also - crank windows!
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T🌼M @bigtallgay.bsky.social · 10/04/2025
Help this little ditty is stuck in my head, on loop. “Come on baby… do the locomotion! Yeah, yeah, yeah… woo-woo!”
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T🌼M @bigtallgay.bsky.social · 10/04/2025
Okay fine here’s two pics of me and @duggah.bsky.social, too!
Selfie of me and Doug before the Kylie Minogue concertSelfie of me and Doug before the Kylie Minogue concert
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T🌼M @bigtallgay.bsky.social · 10/04/2025
This is my first video on Bluesky, and it feels correct for it to be a video of Kylie. This woman is an absolute icon!
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T🌼M @bigtallgay.bsky.social · 10/04/2025
I know I haven’t posted much lately, but tonight I spent some quality time with Mother! I knew a Kylie show would be great, but holy fuck, she blew me away. What a fabulous entertainer! ❤️
Kylie Minogue in a red sequin jumpsuit kneeling and bowing for her backup singers during her Tension tour in Boston, MARear view of Kylie Minogue in a red sequin jumpsuit singing into her mic during her Tension tour in Boston, MA
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T🌼M @bigtallgay.bsky.social · 11/03/2025
Is there seriously no way to turn off text notifications for every time a friend in a group chat goes though and 👍s or ❤️s 7 different messages at a time…? Surely we have the technology.
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☕️ @cursedkief.bsky.social · 10/03/2025
some of you still use twitter? actively putting more money into elons pockets after everything you’ve seen him do the last month? we really are fucked with mass-complacency huh
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T🌼M @bigtallgay.bsky.social · 10/03/2025
Hey look I worked out!
Sitting on the floor in the basement gym after stretching. A mirror selfie with a blank cement wall behind me. I’m in a blue gray tank top and blue gym shorts.
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☀️ @vamospeat.bsky.social · 10/03/2025
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T🌼M @bigtallgay.bsky.social · 07/03/2025
He’s planning to sign an executive order re: the public service loan forgiveness program, per the AP… trying not to fly off the fucking handle right now, even though this is fully what I was expecting. apnews.com/live/donald-...
apnews.com
Live updates: Trump seeks a new nuclear deal with Iran
President Donald Trump sent a letter to Iran's Supreme Leader Ali Khamenei, seeking a new deal with Tehran to restrain its rapidly advancing nuclear program and replace the one he withdrew America fro...
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