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candy 🍭 @writeresque.bsky.social · 1h

yes lol she aint new, she true lol

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candy 🍭 @writeresque.bsky.social · 1h

the last 3 minutes of that song… inject in my veins

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candy 🍭 @writeresque.bsky.social · 1h

that and emotional intelligence, i think

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candy 🍭 @writeresque.bsky.social · 1h

if im always defensive, what room do i give others to let their guard down? pain is human but self-indulgence is preventable. spirit, help me to get over myself and out the way.

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candy 🍭 @writeresque.bsky.social · 1h

im not always in this energy - content enough in my own experience that i can be receptive & sensitive to those around me. i pray that i, and everyone else, experiences this more, so we can be of service to others. if im always in need, what room does that give others to need me?

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candy 🍭 @writeresque.bsky.social · 2h

last thought, 2 chainz used the word “alone”, a lot. then said, without prompting, “i might need help”. 🥹 i caught that & i hope he catches this healing energy im sending

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candy 🍭 @writeresque.bsky.social · 2h

keke is a yapper, but also an active listener. she is good at leaning in when her guests bite on a particular question & moves on quickly when their response is flat. i see you, baby girl

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candy 🍭 @writeresque.bsky.social · 2h

2 chainz is the guest. a few observations. i love kekes interview style. you could tell chainz energy was low at the start, kekes energy stayed high. her question about dealing with stress led to him revealing he just lost his friend, his energy changed immediately after expressing that

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candy 🍭 @writeresque.bsky.social · 2h

wait lol. listening to this keke palmer interview while i pack

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candy 🍭 @writeresque.bsky.social · 3h

blah blah blah i have to pack bye loves

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candy 🍭 @writeresque.bsky.social · 3h

sometimes fear is protection, sometimes its evidence that you arent protecting yourself enough. i no longer see people as untrustworthy, i see them as human. i trust myself enough to appreciate their humanity - and guard myself from it, too, if need be. life changing adjustment

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candy 🍭 @writeresque.bsky.social · 3h

my friends suspicion is reflected in the 1st post; my nosy neighbors, the 2nd. i see them both clearly and without fear, and move accordingly. thats intuition

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candy 🍭 @writeresque.bsky.social · 3h

or projection of your past experiences & outcomes on the current situation. fear moves faster than logic… slow it down

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candy 🍭 @writeresque.bsky.social · 3h

suspicion is not intuition. sometimes that “feeling” people give you is insecurity. and projection of your own untrustworthiness

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candy 🍭 @writeresque.bsky.social · 3h

my friend doesnt trust my nosy neighbor. “you gotta watch out for her”. no… i gotta watch out for you, and she is helping lol. inside thought, of course

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candy 🍭 @writeresque.bsky.social · 4h

middle easterners & black women have been hard to work with. everyone else has been fine. black men have been the best leaders

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candy 🍭 @writeresque.bsky.social · 4h

based on follower count? pinky’s t rex arms. quiet, consistent lurkers? manute bol

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candy 🍭 @writeresque.bsky.social · 4h

mind my business, stay kind. i dont even take the mean/misdirected anger online personally. people be goin thru it

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Wize @thewizeken91.bsky.social · 4h

Damn ppl are mentally unstable on social media

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Leland @lelo3.bsky.social · 5h

You have the kind of energy that makes reserved men feel both wanted and seen. Wanted feels good. Seen feels exposing. That is why they may be drawn to you but also nervous around you.

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candy 🍭 @writeresque.bsky.social · 5h

my kid said he tired of seeing meg naked 😫😆

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candy 🍭 @writeresque.bsky.social · 5h

lol im open to that. my last dog was a gift & our energies were not a match lol

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candy 🍭 @writeresque.bsky.social · 5h

going to a doggy shelter, just to look around. not sure i want the responsibility, but i guess we will see 😌

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candy 🍭 @writeresque.bsky.social · 7h

im not mad at that. can we be friends? lolol

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candy 🍭 @writeresque.bsky.social · 7h

on the flip side, being the terry of the family, people ALWAYS expect me to foot the bill. they will invite me out, and look at me when the bill comes. it gets exhausting. i dont want to manage everyone & everything

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candy 🍭 @writeresque.bsky.social · 7h

ive only been with providers. but if we are meeting up somewhere, i can get myself there. ill offer to pay for dinner or activities sometimes. i think its just courtesy. just because they can, doesnt mean they should have to all the time

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candy 🍭 @writeresque.bsky.social · 7h

every single time? say you go on 20 trips a year. if you book separately, you calling the he airline to upgrade them every time? 100 dinners a year, you paying every time?

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