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blah blah blah i have to pack bye loves

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sometimes fear is protection, sometimes its evidence that you arent protecting yourself enough. i no longer see people as untrustworthy, i see them as human. i trust myself enough to appreciate their humanity - and guard myself from it, too, if need be. life changing adjustment

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suspicion is not intuition. sometimes that “feeling” people give you is insecurity. and projection of your own untrustworthiness

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candy 🍭 @writeresque.bsky.social · 2h

my friend doesnt trust my nosy neighbor. “you gotta watch out for her”. no… i gotta watch out for you, and she is helping lol. inside thought, of course

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middle easterners & black women have been hard to work with. everyone else has been fine. black men have been the best leaders

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candy 🍭 @writeresque.bsky.social · 2h

based on follower count? pinky’s t rex arms. quiet, consistent lurkers? manute bol

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candy 🍭 @writeresque.bsky.social · 2h

mind my business, stay kind. i dont even take the mean/misdirected anger online personally. people be goin thru it

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Wize @thewizeken91.bsky.social · 2h

Damn ppl are mentally unstable on social media

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Leland @lelo3.bsky.social · 3h

You have the kind of energy that makes reserved men feel both wanted and seen. Wanted feels good. Seen feels exposing. That is why they may be drawn to you but also nervous around you.

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candy 🍭 @writeresque.bsky.social · 3h

my kid said he tired of seeing meg naked 😫😆

candy 🍭 @writeresque.bsky.social · 4h

going to a doggy shelter, just to look around. not sure i want the responsibility, but i guess we will see 😌

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candy 🍭 @writeresque.bsky.social · 5h

on the flip side, being the terry of the family, people ALWAYS expect me to foot the bill. they will invite me out, and look at me when the bill comes. it gets exhausting. i dont want to manage everyone & everything

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candy 🍭 @writeresque.bsky.social · 5h

ive only been with providers. but if we are meeting up somewhere, i can get myself there. ill offer to pay for dinner or activities sometimes. i think its just courtesy. just because they can, doesnt mean they should have to all the time

candy 🍭 @writeresque.bsky.social · 5h

every single time? say you go on 20 trips a year. if you book separately, you calling the he airline to upgrade them every time? 100 dinners a year, you paying every time?

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candy 🍭 @writeresque.bsky.social · 6h

best compliment in the world to receive. i feel calm, peaceful, safe around you

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candy 🍭 @writeresque.bsky.social · 15h

loves taken over, quiet storm remix

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these videos genuinely make me feel good 😌

i will be the fuse… boom 😆

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i prefer horny bluesky to angry bluesky. your appointed leaders have chips on their shoulders & too much dip on their chip

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i like how old men talk to me. and how they arent scared of me

its not highly unlikely that i end up with an older man. and i do mean old.

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mike on better call saul is an attractive man. idc idc. so thorough. i do love em thorough

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lips, hips, hair drip down her back, crazy.

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sun in the sky… you know how i feel

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the selfie thread/mutual aid combo was innovative. thats all i got

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the beef stroganoff wasnt so bad.

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dare i say, better call saul (spinoff) is better than breaking bad?

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loss dont exist where you placed no value

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everybody dont value the same things. if i value individuality, and you seeking approval - being seen as different would hit you a lot different than it hits me

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ehh. depends on how much you care

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“i would NEVER…..” you so right lol

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people always talkin about what they would do in situations they will never be in

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interesting seeing people attack savannah james for not footing the bill for her friends

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candy 🍭 @writeresque.bsky.social · 19h

maybe not 90. but moreso than not, i think

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90% of people on here are in committed relationships. i thought that was fairly obvious

candy 🍭 @writeresque.bsky.social · 19h

bluesky is like.. diet cheating. where people come to play & get away a lil bit. nothin major lol

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candy 🍭 @writeresque.bsky.social · 19h

80% of the reason im on here is i dont get much attention & can post into the void. i dont even tell yall my birthday cuz i dont want a bunch of @‘s lol