Reposted by Candle 🕯️🧳~MOVED acc to @candleglimmers.etheirys

i wish a lot of ppl here wld also reassess the ways in which u talk abt polyamory bc u are, without realizing it, perpetuating a lot of harmful ideas. "my oc could NEVER", "my oc only has [x] partners bc i have to put so much thought into their ships", harem jokes, "easy" jokes, cheating jokes --