Should we be separating art from artist? A long rant in which I explain why this question is utter nonsense, using transphobe JK Rowling as an example.

It's been a long time. February Photofest was and always is quite the effort. I intended to take a short break afterwards, though not 3 months. Of course prior

“I just need you to know,” one guy told me, before we started fucking, “that I very rarely come during penetrative sex. In fact, I can count on the fingers of one hand the number of times that’s happened.” It didn’t matter who he was fucking or where his dick happened to be, he had […]

Understanding your emotions is a lifelong, ongoing project. We reap the rewards by building stronger, closer connections with the people we love.

"Life is about Being & Becoming." ~ Carl Rogers Some thoughts about the end of Sinful Sunday and what comes next for me blogging wise

I originally intended this post to be a simple celebration and goodbye to Sinful Sunday, but I realised I never fully shared the end of my blog in an actual blog post but rather some posts on my so…

Independent adult websites risk shutdown under the UK's Online Safety Act, threatening accessibility features and user inclusivity, says Girl on the Net

Part two of the test date I had with a blog reader, and a message I don't think men get to hear often enough: love yourself before you start dating.

“How do you know when it's over?" When you have to block your site to traffic in your own country because of new porn laws is maybe the answer

Welcome to the February Round-up 2025. This is the first of the monthly round-up posts that I will be doing here.

On a cold, wet and grey Saturday in February I’m looking forward in time, to the summer, to days where I can get out on long walks in the sun and where I might ocassionally take a photo like …

On a cold, wet and grey Saturday in February I'm looking forward in time, to the summer, to days where I can get out on long walks in the sun and where I might ocassionally take a photo like the one below. I'm in a transition period in life after more recent events so the future is unknown, but if anything I'm hoping to grab life by the balls, or arse cheeks in this photo, and try to get back to more exploration, more fun and a lot of new experiences big or small

"When giving directions, it's important to be precise." ~ Jarod Kintz

I took a trip to Glasgow this week for a gig and was staying overnight, before heading to work the next morning, and as is tradion when in a hotel, I take a nude selfie and that was no except this …

I took a trip to Glasgow this week for a gig and was staying overnight, before heading to work the next morning, and as is tradion when in a hotel, I take a nude selfie and that was no except this …

I could have sworn I’ve shared this photo on my blog before. It was taken in a spot I regularly visited and which I’ve shared on my blog previously a few times, which is probably why I …

I could have sworn I’ve shared this photo on my blog before. It was taken in a spot I regularly visited and which I’ve shared on my blog previously a few times, which is probably why I …

ALT: a group of people playing instruments on a stage with a woman in the background

2024 was tough and the last few months even tougher as I lost my mum in late November to cancer, and while everyday without her is hard I’m trying to not only look back at the good times but …

I started this blog 3 and a bit years ago which is something I still can't believe, the TLDR version of events is that I started to guest review sex toys for a fellow blogger and their site, and the w...

I started this blog 3 and a bit years ago which is something I still can't believe, the TLDR version of events is that I started to guest review sex toys for a fellow blogger and their site, and the w...