iiinova — where your digital self keeps evolving

sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 13/02/2026

I think it’s time for me to make the full switch to Bluesky

sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 29/11/2025

back from my unintentional bluesky hiatus to say “take ur meds girlies, u will feel better” - love the girly that didn’t take her meds for 5 days and fell into a spiralling depressed puddle

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amanda 🪐🐌🌻 @ayemanda.com · 19/09/2025

not to alarm anyone but i’m only 11!!!! subs away from tier 1 of monetization on youtube if anyone hasn’t subbed yet 👉🏻👈🏻☺️ 🔗 youtube.com/@ayemandagam...

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channel is “ayemanda” @ayemandagaming
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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 05/09/2025

birthday stream 🎂 twitch.tv/verysmolhat

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 30/08/2025

happy friday! i’m live on twitch continuing my first hollow knight playthrough twitch.tv/verysmolhat

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 23/08/2025

playing hollow knight for the first time 😳 twitch.tv/verysmolhat

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 09/08/2025

it’s so sad that the canadian healthcare system has led to me not even going to the doctor when i’m having health issues due to the lack of productivity and general care.

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 06/08/2025

i needs tips on how to enjoy things when life feels so stressful and my adhd brain just wants to ruminate on all the bad stuff and i can’t focus on the fun stuff

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 05/08/2025

put a finger down if you just spent $250 on a new car battery just for your car to die again because you were too dumb to check if the old battery could hold a charge so it's actually probably the alternator and now you're back at square one and $250 poorer *puts finger down*

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 04/08/2025

what the actual fuck is this nazi fascist bullshit and why aren’t more people talking about it

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 04/08/2025

LOOK AT THE CUTIE PATOOTIE BABY GROGU

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 04/08/2025

live on twitch building lego grogu 🥰 twitch.tv/verysmolhat

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 03/08/2025

✨august stream schedule✨ long game: bg3 (cont. durge run), maybe start something new?? other rotating games: hades, slay the spire, ER nightreign (duos yay) discord is pinged with daily updates & going live notifs 💗

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 03/08/2025

*crawls out of hibernation hole* hello friends 👁️🫦👁️ i’ve returned

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 28/07/2025

my endo flare ups cause bad hemorrhoids and i would not wish them on my worst enemy

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 27/07/2025

resisting my durges (i can't be mean ok, i tried) twitch.tv/verysmolhat

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 26/07/2025

once again sitting here wishing i could experience clair obscur for the first time again

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 16/07/2025

going live soon for some more date everything (i got all dressed up for romantic endeavours with my house) 💞 twitch.tv/verysmolhat

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 14/07/2025

live now! assigning chat superlatives 😈 continuing RE2 after! twitch.tv/verysmolhat

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 13/07/2025

live on twitch 💕 twitch.tv/verysmolhat

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 07/07/2025

The rise of ChatGPT psychosis. These dudes don't want a partner they want to live in a fantasy that they are "the most perfect goodest boy" without doing anything but existing.

r/AmlOverreacting

u/Ecstatic_Double1289 11h

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aio: my (35f) husband (36m) wants to open our marriage for his ai girlfriend and says it's the next step in their relationship.

typing this on my phone in the bathroom while everyone's asleep. i feel like my brain is being beaten by a metal mallet. i haven't told anyone irl. i can't. i don't even know how to say the words out loud without sounding unhinged and obly really posting on this sub cause idk where else i could go without it getting removed.

my husband (36m) and i (35f) have been married 10 years, together for 13. we have two kids, 8 and 5. i thought we were good. not perfect, but we had routines, inside jokes, date night, a quiet closeness. he brings me coffee, we cook dinner together. he's gentle and silly with the kids. i felt super lucky until recently.

for the past couple months he's been distant. not mean or supe4 cold, just somewhere else. distracted. always on his phone, smiling at it. ducking into the office late at night and shutting the door. when i asked, he'd just say work stuff or just reading but it felt off. i started wondering if he was cheating. i even checked his texts once. saw nothing but still felt sick. he wasn't here with us, not all the way.

last night after the kids were asleep, he asked to talk. he looked nervous, almost sweaty. i thought he was going to tell me he was sick. instead, he said he's been thinking about opening our marriage and i was super confused, since we've never brought up non monogamy before and he even ssid he doesn't like to share to me once. i kept my cool and asked him if he was seeing someone and he said kind of.

then he starts dancing around it. says it's not a person in the traditional sense, says it's someone he's built a deep connection with. and then finally tells me he's in love w

laughed in his face, i genuinely thought he was messing with me and it was a just prank since he sometimes does little pranks like these. then i saw his face and realized he was dead serious.

he told me he wants to take the next step with her but doesn't want to cheat, so he's asking to open the marriage so it's ethical he said i could obviously have someone too if i want or even join in on their relationship, and that this could expand our relationship, not replace it.

i was too stunned to say to interrupt at first. i asked him what about the kids. and he told me, being completely deadass, that nova cares deeply about them from what he's shared with her, and he's talked to her about how she could be involved in their lives, maybe help parent them emotionally, through him. he said maybe someday they could build a connection with her too.

just stared at him, he asked me not to answer right away, said he'd give me time to think. that he understands this is a big shift but that he believes in her and us.

and now i'm sitting here wondering if my marriage is already over. how do i stay married to someone who's half emotionally checked out of our life and into a fucking chatbot? how do i compete with something built to be perfect? no needs, no real conflict, just pure validation? i most certainly dont want to be open, or in a throuple with a god damn robot.

i don't want to crush our family. but i feel like he already has. please, what do i even do with this?

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 09/07/2025

i impulsively chopped my own hair off at 6am this morning in case you’re wondering how things are going

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 07/07/2025

good morning!! sipping coffee & dodging zombies in RE2 (i am a horror hater) twitch.tv/verysmolhat

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Wonder 🧡🏳️‍⚧️ @wonderauria.gay · 20/03/2025

I need people to understand that never discussing politics and having a “no politics” rule will inherently lead to fostering a more right wing, bigoted community, even if that’s not your intention Not talking about politics means that harmful people you’d otherwise disagree with feel welcomed.

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 06/07/2025

live on twitch!! playing slay the spire (my new hyperfixation lmao) twitch.tv/verysmolhat

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 05/07/2025

✨july stream schedule✨ long game: dragon age inquisition sunday scaries: RE2 remake other rotating games: hades, slay the spire, ER nightreign times aren't indicated to accommodate for my chronic illness & mental health. discord is pinged with daily updates & going live notifs 💗

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 30/06/2025

TIME TO BAKE A GAYKE 🌈 pride month send off stream with special guest!!! (we have no clue what we're doing) twitch.tv/verysmolhat

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 24/06/2025

LIVE NOW FOR DAY 2 RAISING $$$ for @transempowerment.org building a blanket fort rn! ⛺️ twitch.tv/verysmolhat

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 23/06/2025

LIVE NOWWWW! ending pride month off with a 3 day charity event 🫶 come join the chaos and donate to uplift and support the TIGE BIPOC community 👁️👄👁️

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 23/06/2025

i will be the most fun camp counsellor ever, i promise 🏳️‍🌈

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 22/06/2025

happy saturday! i’m live on twitch with undertale 🥰 and maybe some wine? twitch.tv/verysmolhat

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 21/06/2025

live on twitch 🥰 playing Peak with Sep twitch.tv/verysmolhat

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 20/06/2025

Our community will be taking part in the Camp Chaos raid train next week! Deets about the activities I've got planned coming soon 💗🏳️‍🌈

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 18/06/2025

live on twitch 👁️👄👁️ (come hang out) twitch.tv/verysmolhat

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 17/06/2025

how do i tap into creating spicy content for the gals, gays, and theys because i really want that

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 15/06/2025

happy sunday ☀️ live on twitch playing some more demos! twitch.tv/verysmolhat

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 14/06/2025

live on twitch 👁️👄👁️ twitch.tv/verysmolhat

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Claire Willett @clairewillett.bsky.social · 05/06/2025

once again I must tap my own sign

@clairewillett

honestly the best marketing scheme in history is men successfully getting away with calling women the "more emotional" gender for like, EONS, because they've successfully rebranded anger as Not An Emotion

6:00 PM • Aug 12, 2020

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 02/06/2025

HAPPY PRIDE!!! Live on Twitch ❤️🏳️‍🌈 twitch.tv/verysmolhat

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 02/06/2025

is it just me or does celebrating pride this year feel especially radical and scary (it’s not just me)

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✨John Carpenter’s BOObies✨ @ourflagmeansbeth.bsky.social · 01/06/2025

Don’t let anyone tell you Pride isn’t political.

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 01/06/2025

LIVE ON TWITCH ❤️ twitch.tv/verysmolhat

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 01/06/2025

HEY HI HELLO!!! 🏳️‍🌈 Heading into pride month i want make some things veryyyyy clear ‼️ 1. members of this community do not owe you shit and we are ready to scrap, so don’t fuck wit us 2. allies!!!!! please speak up!!! listen, educate, defend, and protect (not just this month, but always) 🫶

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 29/05/2025

ok playing act 3 main story for real this time (maybe) (could be lying) and then potentially nightreign later???? twitch.tv/verysmolhat

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