iiinova — where your digital self keeps evolving

sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 13/02/2026

I think it’s time for me to make the full switch to Bluesky

sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 29/11/2025

back from my unintentional bluesky hiatus to say “take ur meds girlies, u will feel better” - love the girly that didn’t take her meds for 5 days and fell into a spiralling depressed puddle

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 26/09/2025

finally finished everything except for some of the meal prep… it’s midnight… cozy game time and then sleep 😴

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 26/09/2025

Tiny Bookshop!! it’s indie and fully hand-drawn. very cozy and i get to live out my dreams of owning a bookstore 🥰 hehe and i get to play it all cozied up on my switch

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 25/09/2025

and fit a dog walk into there somewhere 🥹

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 25/09/2025

✔️ clean kitchen ✔️ start laundry ✔️ make healthy brekky 2pm: get a sweet treat for doing hard things 3pm: phone call with papa hat 4pm: lil bit of life admin 5pm: lil bit of work admin 6pm: grocery shop 7pm: meal prep/make dinner 9pm: relax and enjoy my lil game 🥰

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amanda 🪐🐌🌻 @ayemanda.com · 19/09/2025

not to alarm anyone but i’m only 11!!!! subs away from tier 1 of monetization on youtube if anyone hasn’t subbed yet 👉🏻👈🏻☺️ 🔗 youtube.com/@ayemandagam...

screenshot of youtube mobile
channel is “ayemanda” @ayemandagaming
489 subscribers 24 videos

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 05/09/2025

birthday stream 🎂 twitch.tv/verysmolhat

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 30/08/2025

happy friday! i’m live on twitch continuing my first hollow knight playthrough twitch.tv/verysmolhat

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 23/08/2025

playing hollow knight for the first time 😳 twitch.tv/verysmolhat

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 18/08/2025

live on twitch yapping and catching up and gaming??? twitch.tv/versymolhat

sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 09/08/2025

as someone with chronic illness and an invisible disability, getting my quality of life back is an uphill battle. i have yet to find a medical professional on my side that genuinely wants to help. i’m tired.

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 09/08/2025

sorry for the rant. as mentioned, i see the privilege in free healthcare 100%, but it is still a flawed system.

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 09/08/2025

but even when i did have a family doctor, it was a nightmare. when i asked about alternative birth control options when i was 25 (i’d been on oral contraceptive for 10 years at the time), he told me i was “demonizing hormones” and that it “doesn’t cause breast cancer”??? that’s not what i asked???

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 09/08/2025

i don’t even have a primary care physician after living here for 2 years (i’m on the provincial list) because there just isn’t enough of them. so i go to urgent care and i’m treated like a burden and dismissed even after clearly communicating very real and life-altering issues.

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 09/08/2025

i recognize that i have SO MUCH privilege to have healthcare at all, especially when it comes to life-saving medical care. but the preventative care is lacklustre - so many healthcare professionals are overworked and jaded, especially in urgent care/walk in clinic environments.

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 09/08/2025

it’s so sad that the canadian healthcare system has led to me not even going to the doctor when i’m having health issues due to the lack of productivity and general care.

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 06/08/2025

i have dnd tonight for the first time in years and i’m so excited but so worried that i won’t be fully present because my bad brain just won’t turn off and it makes me so cranky but i know fun things will help??? idk being an adult is hard

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 06/08/2025

i needs tips on how to enjoy things when life feels so stressful and my adhd brain just wants to ruminate on all the bad stuff and i can’t focus on the fun stuff

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 05/08/2025

put a finger down if you just spent $250 on a new car battery just for your car to die again because you were too dumb to check if the old battery could hold a charge so it's actually probably the alternator and now you're back at square one and $250 poorer *puts finger down*

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 04/08/2025

what the actual fuck is this nazi fascist bullshit and why aren’t more people talking about it

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 04/08/2025

LOOK AT THE CUTIE PATOOTIE BABY GROGU

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 04/08/2025

live on twitch building lego grogu 🥰 twitch.tv/verysmolhat

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 03/08/2025

✨august stream schedule✨ long game: bg3 (cont. durge run), maybe start something new?? other rotating games: hades, slay the spire, ER nightreign (duos yay) discord is pinged with daily updates & going live notifs 💗

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 03/08/2025

*crawls out of hibernation hole* hello friends 👁️🫦👁️ i’ve returned

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 28/07/2025

also my car battery decided to die today so that’s really nice of Lola

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 28/07/2025

bleeding outta 2/3 holes 50% of the time and my job required me to be sexy???? 😭 nahhhhhhhhhhh bro

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 28/07/2025

my endo flare ups cause bad hemorrhoids and i would not wish them on my worst enemy

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 27/07/2025

resisting my durges (i can't be mean ok, i tried) twitch.tv/verysmolhat

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 26/07/2025

once again sitting here wishing i could experience clair obscur for the first time again

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 16/07/2025

going live soon for some more date everything (i got all dressed up for romantic endeavours with my house) 💞 twitch.tv/verysmolhat

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 14/07/2025

live now! assigning chat superlatives 😈 continuing RE2 after! twitch.tv/verysmolhat

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 13/07/2025

live on twitch 💕 twitch.tv/verysmolhat

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 07/07/2025

The rise of ChatGPT psychosis. These dudes don't want a partner they want to live in a fantasy that they are "the most perfect goodest boy" without doing anything but existing.

r/AmlOverreacting

u/Ecstatic_Double1289 11h

relationship

aio: my (35f) husband (36m) wants to open our marriage for his ai girlfriend and says it's the next step in their relationship.

typing this on my phone in the bathroom while everyone's asleep. i feel like my brain is being beaten by a metal mallet. i haven't told anyone irl. i can't. i don't even know how to say the words out loud without sounding unhinged and obly really posting on this sub cause idk where else i could go without it getting removed.

my husband (36m) and i (35f) have been married 10 years, together for 13. we have two kids, 8 and 5. i thought we were good. not perfect, but we had routines, inside jokes, date night, a quiet closeness. he brings me coffee, we cook dinner together. he's gentle and silly with the kids. i felt super lucky until recently.

for the past couple months he's been distant. not mean or supe4 cold, just somewhere else. distracted. always on his phone, smiling at it. ducking into the office late at night and shutting the door. when i asked, he'd just say work stuff or just reading but it felt off. i started wondering if he was cheating. i even checked his texts once. saw nothing but still felt sick. he wasn't here with us, not all the way.

last night after the kids were asleep, he asked to talk. he looked nervous, almost sweaty. i thought he was going to tell me he was sick. instead, he said he's been thinking about opening our marriage and i was super confused, since we've never brought up non monogamy before and he even ssid he doesn't like to share to me once. i kept my cool and asked him if he was seeing someone and he said kind of.

then he starts dancing around it. says it's not a person in the traditional sense, says it's someone he's built a deep connection with. and then finally tells me he's in love w

laughed in his face, i genuinely thought he was messing with me and it was a just prank since he sometimes does little pranks like these. then i saw his face and realized he was dead serious.

he told me he wants to take the next step with her but doesn't want to cheat, so he's asking to open the marriage so it's ethical he said i could obviously have someone too if i want or even join in on their relationship, and that this could expand our relationship, not replace it.

i was too stunned to say to interrupt at first. i asked him what about the kids. and he told me, being completely deadass, that nova cares deeply about them from what he's shared with her, and he's talked to her about how she could be involved in their lives, maybe help parent them emotionally, through him. he said maybe someday they could build a connection with her too.

just stared at him, he asked me not to answer right away, said he'd give me time to think. that he understands this is a big shift but that he believes in her and us.

and now i'm sitting here wondering if my marriage is already over. how do i stay married to someone who's half emotionally checked out of our life and into a fucking chatbot? how do i compete with something built to be perfect? no needs, no real conflict, just pure validation? i most certainly dont want to be open, or in a throuple with a god damn robot.

i don't want to crush our family. but i feel like he already has. please, what do i even do with this?

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 09/07/2025

i impulsively chopped my own hair off at 6am this morning in case you’re wondering how things are going

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sara ☁️📖✨ @verysmolhat.bsky.social · 07/07/2025

good morning!! sipping coffee & dodging zombies in RE2 (i am a horror hater) twitch.tv/verysmolhat

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Wonder 🧡🏳️‍⚧️ @wonderauria.gay · 20/03/2025

I need people to understand that never discussing politics and having a “no politics” rule will inherently lead to fostering a more right wing, bigoted community, even if that’s not your intention Not talking about politics means that harmful people you’d otherwise disagree with feel welcomed.

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