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Veronica.at.last

@veronicaatlast.bsky.social
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Trans/Wife/Mom My identity isn’t a flaw, it’s a feature Pronouns: she/her open.substack.com/pub/veronicas2nda…

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Veronica.at.last @veronicaatlast.bsky.social · 23/06/2025
Yes, all the money big pharma makes on generic hormones that have been around for decades 🙄 How fucking stupid are you?
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Veronica.at.last @veronicaatlast.bsky.social · 06/06/2025
New Substack post! Five More Things To Be A Better Trans Ally! Link below. open.substack.com/pub/veronica...
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Five More Things To Be a Better Trans Ally
I'm continuing my series of five things.
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Veronica.at.last @veronicaatlast.bsky.social · 25/05/2025
He’s a platformed charlatan
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Veronica.at.last @veronicaatlast.bsky.social · 29/04/2025
In my latest Substack post, I finally conclude the unbelievable events of my name change last year. open.substack.com/pub/veronica...
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The Unbelievable Events of Changing My Legal Name - Part IV
The Final Chapter
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Veronica.at.last @veronicaatlast.bsky.social · 26/04/2025
One year ago today, my legal name change went through and I legally became Veronica! It was one of the happiest moments of my life!
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Veronica.at.last @veronicaatlast.bsky.social · 25/04/2025
Every conversation about height 😆😆😆
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Veronica.at.last @veronicaatlast.bsky.social · 24/04/2025
Important article from my friend @evln7.bsky.social about HRT. open.substack.com/pub/queersci...
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A guide to HRT self-management.
i wish i didn't have to write this
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Ellie, Daughter of Nyx @elliedaughterofnyx.bsky.social · 23/04/2025
They are going after DEI because they know intersectionality worked. And a lot of liberals and leftists both jumped right on board with finding people they could exclude to appease the imaginary “centrist” voter.
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Veronica.at.last @veronicaatlast.bsky.social · 23/04/2025
This is one of my earlier posts, but with last week’s Supreme Court ruling that jeopardizes the safety of all trans people in the UK, it seems very relevant to reshare. open.substack.com/pub/veronica...
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My Dream Hours Before Coming Out
It was not a fairytale
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Veronica.at.last @veronicaatlast.bsky.social · 14/04/2025
New Substack post! You may be familiar with @chasestrangio , the first open and out transgender lawyer to argue before the Supreme Court. This article is about my interactions with the trans forerunner who preceded him. open.substack.com/pub/veronica...
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Who Came Before Chase Strangio?
My Interactions with a Trans Forerunner
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Veronica.at.last @veronicaatlast.bsky.social · 07/04/2025
I always knew this is who I wanted to be when I grew up.
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a woman is holding a clipboard and saying no i 'm veronica
ALT: a woman is holding a clipboard and saying no i 'm veronica
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Science Magazine @science.org · 31/03/2025
In a landmark commentary last year, 24 scientists from around the globe—all of whom either identify as trans or have trans family members—called for recognition and support from the research community. #TransDayOfVisibility scim.ag/4l8LK5O
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‘We’re hurting.’ Trans scientists call for recognition and support from research community
“Rigorous science demands” it, authors write in landmark commentary
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Veronica.at.last @veronicaatlast.bsky.social · 31/03/2025
I love that Transgender Day of Visibility exists. But sometimes visibility is the last thing I want as a trans person. This article discusses my experiences with Transgender Day of Visibility, and how visibility can be a doubled edged sword. open.substack.com/pub/veronica...
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Transgender Day of Visibility, a Double Edged Sword
The unbelievable events of changing my legal name - Part III
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Melissa Ingle @m1ngle.bsky.social · 26/03/2025
The following countries have issued travel advisories to the US for trans ppl: Finland, France, Germany, Canada, the Netherlands, and the UK, with Belgium soon to follow. Do you know how messed up your country has to be for the UK to think you’re transphobic?! Please be safe out there everyone.
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US travel warning: After Canada, UK, France, Germany, and Denmark, now Netherlands issues a U.S travel warning, Belgium to follow suit; here's what you need to take note of if you are travelling to th...
The Netherlands and Belgium have updated travel advisories for the USA, cautioning LGBTQ+ travelers and highlighting stricter entry requirements amidst growing concerns over border controls. Here's wh...
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Veronica.at.last @veronicaatlast.bsky.social · 25/03/2025
Chrome is always good
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Veronica.at.last @veronicaatlast.bsky.social · 25/03/2025
The nonprofit I recently joined just set up our first equality connect pantry! I’m thrilled to be part of an organization that is providing 100% complimentary products for those in need in our community. #thepridefulpathproject
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Veronica.at.last @veronicaatlast.bsky.social · 24/03/2025
With all the shit coming down on trans people right now, it is incredibly unhelpful to tell us we should do something that is impossible. Trans people have many options, but asylum isn’t one of them today. Every time I hear this I feel like I need to correct people and that shit is exhausting.
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Veronica.at.last @veronicaatlast.bsky.social · 24/03/2025
Since the election, I keep seeing well meaning people telling trans Americans that they should leave the US and declare asylum. Please, please, please, fucking stop this shit. To my knowledge, there isn’t a country in the world that would grant the asylum request of a trans American today. 1/2
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Veronica.at.last @veronicaatlast.bsky.social · 24/03/2025
Have that friend ping you every hour for twelve hours or until they hear from you. If they don’t hear from you, their job is to raise hell that you’ve been disappeared. Yes, this is where we are. 2/2
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Veronica.at.last @veronicaatlast.bsky.social · 24/03/2025
If you are trans, live in America, and travel to a foreign country, I suggest tagging in a trusted friend when you are reentering the US. Tell the friend the time and port so they can plan to be ready. Then, when you near reentry, send a message that you are nearing customs. 1/2
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Veronica.at.last @veronicaatlast.bsky.social · 19/03/2025
Thank goodness there is still new research being published on trans health outside the CDC. Ev breaks down the new study and the positive impact of HRT for trans people who seek it.
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Veronica.at.last @veronicaatlast.bsky.social · 15/03/2025
I’ve updated my pronouns. She/her. I’ve removed “they” from my preferred pronouns list. When I first came out, I had memories that are best described as genderless. Now that I’ve been myself for over a year, it’s clear that these memories were based on how I went through the world, not who I am.
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Veronica.at.last @veronicaatlast.bsky.social · 15/03/2025
Go follow my friend Ev!
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Veronica.at.last @veronicaatlast.bsky.social · 10/03/2025
Here’s a pic from my vacation today. Two things this administration thinks don’t exist. They are me, a trans woman, and the Gulf of Mexico. I’m pretty sure both of these are real.
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Veronica.at.last @veronicaatlast.bsky.social · 09/03/2025
People like to say there aren’t trans kids. I was a trans kid. I wasn’t out. I was rarely happy. Seeing the social proof of how I am today and how often I am joyful because I’m experiencing the world with so much joy is incredible.
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Veronica.at.last @veronicaatlast.bsky.social · 07/03/2025
I have a date! July 14! LFG!!!!!
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Veronica.at.last @veronicaatlast.bsky.social · 07/03/2025
The feeling sad for no particular reason times. Felt.
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Veronica.at.last @veronicaatlast.bsky.social · 07/03/2025
The results from The Trevor Project’s 2024 national survey show that when queer youth was asked what people can do to support them, a whopping 88% said that people should believe them when they say who they are. Supporting queer youth does not take a Herculean effort. Just start by believing them.
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Veronica.at.last @veronicaatlast.bsky.social · 05/03/2025
There are over 35,000 concessions suffered each year by girls in high school volleyball. The rate is 7.5 concussions per 100 players. Highlighting one incident with a unique variable while not highlighting the other 34,999+ concussions is nothing but manipulation.
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Veronica.at.last @veronicaatlast.bsky.social · 05/03/2025
I mean, I think this auto response is a thing of beauty
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Veronica.at.last @veronicaatlast.bsky.social · 05/03/2025
After socially transitioning, I continued to have people sending things to my old email address, containing my deadname. So I changed my name literally to deadname and put an out of office message on telling them I won’t check this address. Amazing how fast people switched after saying it was hard.
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Veronica.at.last @veronicaatlast.bsky.social · 05/03/2025
Block the email addresses
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Veronica.at.last @veronicaatlast.bsky.social · 03/03/2025
New Substack post! With so much going on that’s so dangerous to people like me, where do I draw my energy from? open.substack.com/pub/veronica...
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Monday Morning Brava
Every Monday morning, I end up lying in bed, trying to get up.
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Veronica.at.last @veronicaatlast.bsky.social · 03/03/2025
NIH letters went out Friday abruptly cutting off funding to current grant recipients of transgender health. This will take generations to recover from. It’s na*i level shit that accompanies genocide. What is happening to trans people is genocide.
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Veronica.at.last @veronicaatlast.bsky.social · 25/02/2025
Name: Veronica Nouns: She/Her/Hers/They Height: 5'11” Sexuality: Bi/Omnisexual Sign: Scorpio Piercings/Tats: 1 piercing in each ear. Tattoo TBD Drink: Coffee Food: Pizza Animals: Unicorns, dogs, deer
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Veronica.at.last @veronicaatlast.bsky.social · 25/02/2025
With all the poor experiences trans people get in the medical community, it was so nice to be treated in an affirming manner every step of the way.
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Veronica.at.last @veronicaatlast.bsky.social · 25/02/2025
The nurse: “Are you still having menstrual bleeding?” Holy shit is that an awesome question to get. I let her know I’m trans. We talk for a moment so she can confirm things to treat me respectfully. She tries to apologize for asking about periods, and I won’t let her because she interacted properly.
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Veronica.at.last @veronicaatlast.bsky.social · 25/02/2025
I needed to go to urgent care for rectal bleeding. I walk in with my wife and check in. “I might be listed under a different name.” Reception: “I see, it was under a different name, but let me update that for you. Female?” That was so well done.
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Veronica.at.last @veronicaatlast.bsky.social · 24/02/2025
…to “today’s the day” as they see the GOP trying to close those future avenues. Their policies aren’t just immoral and wrong, they seem to be driving people to realize the external costs to transition are small compared to the costs of not being yourself. 2/2
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Veronica.at.last @veronicaatlast.bsky.social · 24/02/2025
In 2020, 0.6% of the population identified as trans. Today it’s 1.3%. This increase is despite the GOP’s best efforts to make trans lives miserable. It’s as if so many trans people have gone from “maybe someday” in thinking about transitioning… 1/2
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Veronica.at.last @veronicaatlast.bsky.social · 24/02/2025
Friday I was on a call at work with someone I worked with circa 2006 at a past company. So I needed to decide if I would out myself or not. I chose not to because there were people on that call that know me now and don’t know my deadname. There’s no way I trust a cis person not to deadname me.
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Veronica.at.last @veronicaatlast.bsky.social · 23/02/2025
New set!
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Veronica.at.last @veronicaatlast.bsky.social · 22/02/2025
…communities while emphasizing intersectional transgender, gender non-conforming (TGNC), and neurodiverse individuals through the foundational principles of mutual aid. I’m thrilled that I am joining this organization with this mission and look forward to seeing what we can accomplish! 2/2
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Veronica.at.last @veronicaatlast.bsky.social · 22/02/2025
I’m pleased to share that I’ve joined the board of The Prideful Path Project as their Vice President. Founded in 2023 by a genderfluid, autistic parent of neurodiverse, trans, and non-binary children, The Prideful Path Project is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit dedicated to empowering marginalized… 1/2
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Veronica.at.last @veronicaatlast.bsky.social · 21/02/2025
Oof
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Veronica.at.last @veronicaatlast.bsky.social · 21/02/2025
I had surgery on this area as a kid (THAT is a story much too long for Bluesky) and from today’s exam, she wants to ensure there won’t be any surprises at the time of the surgery.
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Veronica.at.last @veronicaatlast.bsky.social · 21/02/2025
Top picture: 2006, In a limo with my wife on our way to complete in the World Championship of Fantasy Football in Las Vegas. This was a bucket list item for my wife, as she had never been in a limo before. Bottom picture: Getting a selfie with a colleague and friend at work earlier this month.
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Veronica.at.last @veronicaatlast.bsky.social · 20/02/2025
No worries! If you’re seeking a typical vaginoplasty, most surgeons require full hair removal. I’m pursuing what’s known a vulvoplasty (sometimes called a zero depth vaginoplasty). There’s no canal in what I’m pursuing so hair removal isn’t required. Good luck to you on your journey!
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Veronica.at.last @veronicaatlast.bsky.social · 20/02/2025
I’m so happy for you! FYI for others- there are multiple types of bottom surgery. Some procedures require electrolysis while others do not.
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Alejandra Caraballo @esqueer.net · 20/02/2025
The National Park Service just took down Marsha P. Johnson's page. www.nps.gov/people/marsh...
Screenshot of a National Park Service webpage in a browser window. At the top is the NPS.gov header with the U.S. Department of the Interior logo on the right. The page title reads 'Page In-Progress,' followed by text stating 'This page is currently being worked on. Please check back later.' Below is a link labeled 'NPS Home.
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