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Utterly Ridiculous @utterlyridiculous.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

My dearest friend (and ex-spouse, hence the same last name - yes, ex-spouses can be friends!) is going through difficult health issues compounded by workplace discrimination and ableism. Please read & share their story, and donate if you're able. I know the value of community support and mutual aid!

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Donate to Rey’s Path Back to Dance Movement Therapy, Health & Mobility, organized by Rey Cianciotto

Hi, I’m Rey! About two years ago, I graduated with a master’s… Rey Cianciotto needs your support for Rey’s Path Back to Dance Movement Therapy, Health & Mobility

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Utterly Ridiculous @utterlyridiculous.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

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Donate to Rey’s Path Back to Dance Movement Therapy, Health & Mobility, organized by Rey Cianciotto

Hi, I’m Rey! About two years ago, I graduated with a master… Rey Cianciotto needs your support for Rey’s Path Back to Dance Movement Therapy, Health & Mobility

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Utterly Ridiculous @utterlyridiculous.bsky.social · 18/09/2026

Tomorrow, Sat Sept 19th at 4pm at Caveat! In person and livestream tix available at www.transvoicescabaretnyc.com and we'd love to see you there!

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Utterly Ridiculous @utterlyridiculous.bsky.social · 17/09/2026

Trans Voices Cabaret is happening THIS SATURDAY, September 19th at 4pm at Caveat on the lower east side. Livestream tix available as well! Visit www.transvoicescabaretnyc.com for tix!

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Trans Voices Cabaret New York City highlights transgender and nonbinary performers and singers in musical theater.

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Utterly Ridiculous @utterlyridiculous.bsky.social · 28/08/2026

Next month I won't have to ask for laundry money, but for now I desperately need $20 to get my clothes washed. Thank you so much if you're able to help. Venmo is @ Donnie - Cianciotto (without the spaces.)

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Utterly Ridiculous @utterlyridiculous.bsky.social · 20/08/2026

Big Stressed about rent. I'll start.making regular paychecks sometime next month, but I'm still really screwed for Sept 1st. I won't have to ask for help much longer, but in the meantime my \/3n|\/|0 is @ Donnie - Cianciotto (without the spaces.) Everything helps. Thank you!

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Utterly Ridiculous @utterlyridiculous.bsky.social · 04/08/2026

Surgery tomorrow. Very nervous, but glad it's happening. I can still use a little help with getting to (and from, whenever they release me - hopefully Thursday) from the hospital with Uber. My Venmo is @Donnie-Cianciotto if you can assist! See you on the other side (I hope!)

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Utterly Ridiculous @utterlyridiculous.bsky.social · 02/08/2026

I'm having surgery in 3 days. Clap for me.

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Utterly Ridiculous @utterlyridiculous.bsky.social · 23/07/2026

How long can 2 teenage lesbians keep their relationship a secret from Evangelical parents, and is it even possible? Read my latest to find out!

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The Airport Story

Or traumatizing a 15 year old lesbian...

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Utterly Ridiculous @utterlyridiculous.bsky.social · 01/07/2026

I'm $85 short on rent and in a panic. If you can help even a tiny bit, my \/-e|\|m0 is @ Donnie - Cianciotto (without the spaces.) Anything helps. Thank you.

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Utterly Ridiculous @utterlyridiculous.bsky.social · 29/06/2026

$110 short on rent for next month. If you can help me get any steps closer to making it so I can stay housed, my \/e|\|m-0 is @ Donnie - Cianciotto (without the spaces.) My nervous system is destroying itself, so any help at all would be tremendously appreciated. Thank you.

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Utterly Ridiculous @utterlyridiculous.bsky.social · 23/06/2026

I'm having a potentially life-changing surgery in August. Many pre and post surgical needs are deeply discounted atm (I hate Bezos, but disabled folks don't have many options), so if you can help me get set up for surgical success, I would be most grateful. Thank you.

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Check out my list on Amazon

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Utterly Ridiculous @utterlyridiculous.bsky.social · 22/06/2026

Just had a physical therapy evaluation with a new PT and I just don't understand why it's so hard for able-bodied people to believe disabled people, doubly so if we happen to be fat. Not a great day, I'd give it 0 of 5 stars. This is one of the reasons I wrote:

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Believe Disabled People

And a rant about why you should...

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Utterly Ridiculous @utterlyridiculous.bsky.social · 18/06/2026

Read for free, or subscribe and help me keep the lights on by writing! Thank you! substack.com/@donniecianc...

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Utterly Ridiculous @utterlyridiculous.bsky.social · 16/06/2026

Today is the 14th anniversary of my first testosterone shot. Happy Manniversary to me.

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🏳️‍⚧️Contested Issue🏳️‍⚧️ @waslottie.bsky.social · 22/05/2026

13.147 clearly states a trans person can be barred from spaces for both 'biological sex' & who they actually are if they may cause "discomfort or distress" to others by being trans. We can be barred from spaces because cis people think we're icky. "dignity & respect"

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Utterly Ridiculous @utterlyridiculous.bsky.social · 14/05/2026

Throwback Thursday to when I did an End of the World photo shoot in April 2020 while we were all quarantining & I was losing my mind with boredom. It's unfair that my getting hot for a while there coincided with the world shutting down, but ain't that just my luck? Anyway, enjoy my designer nipples.

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Utterly Ridiculous @utterlyridiculous.bsky.social · 13/05/2026

"I found out I was going to be making my off-Broadway/professional New York City theater debut while sitting in an airport cantina somewhere in Texas. I’d given up on my dream of acting professionally the first time I put a needle full of testosterone into my leg..." Read for free or subscribe!!

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Southern Comfort

And how I made my off-Broadway debut as a transgender man...

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Utterly Ridiculous @utterlyridiculous.bsky.social · 08/05/2026

New free article just dropped! Go subscribe (both free and paid options available!) to find out what my ex-girlfriend said to me when I came out as transgender! donniecianciotto.substack.com/p/you-just-l...

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DBJ @deadblossomjesse.bsky.social · 06/05/2026

7 dollar gas. Well, I guess I'll buy an electric car. Oh those are 60 thousand dollars? Well at least electricity is cheap. Oh the government won't build solar panels because it's "Too transgender"? Well at least wages are going up. Oh the idea of jobs is fake now? Well at least everyone is happ

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Utterly Ridiculous @utterlyridiculous.bsky.social · 01/05/2026

I am about $300 away from being able to pay rent this month. I'm sure it would absolutely thrill my landlady, and it would take a lot of pressure off of me. I'm so pressurized. Please help if you can. Thank you so much. gofund.me/baea30d94

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Donate to Support Donnie's Fight Against Disability and Poverty, organized by Donnie Cianciotto

My name is Donovan (Donnie) Cianciotto. I live in Queens with … Donnie Cianciotto needs your support for Support Donnie's Fight Against Disability and Poverty

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Utterly Ridiculous @utterlyridiculous.bsky.social · 26/04/2026

I am navigating pain, unemployment, and disability while falling through the cracks in our social safety nets, and a few short breaths away from being completely destitute. The only thing I have is a roof over my head, and I'm in danger of losing that more and more with each passing day.

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Donate to Support Donnie's Fight Against Disability and Poverty, organized by Donnie Cianciotto

My name is Donovan (Donnie) Cianciotto. I live in Queens with … Donnie Cianciotto needs your support for Support Donnie's Fight Against Disability and Poverty

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Utterly Ridiculous @utterlyridiculous.bsky.social · 03/04/2026

Going in for my Medicaid disability assessments this morning was pretty fucking traumatic. Ths country is rotten.

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Utterly Ridiculous @utterlyridiculous.bsky.social · 03/04/2026

Tickets to Trans Voices Cabaret's show on Sunday at 5pm are on sale now right here: www.caveat.nyc/events/trans... Livestream and in-person tix available!

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Utterly Ridiculous @utterlyridiculous.bsky.social · 02/04/2026

If ur a trans or nonbinary person in NYC who'd like to come see Trans Voices Cabaret on April 5th for free, shoot us an email at transvoicescabaret@gmail.com with your name and if you'd like 1 or 2 tickets! We have a handful of donated tix & and would love to hook you up!

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Utterly Ridiculous @utterlyridiculous.bsky.social · 30/03/2026

A week from today! Join us at Caveat in Manhattan, or enjoy our livestream option from anywhere! Tickets at www.transvoicescabaretnyc.com!

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Utterly Ridiculous @utterlyridiculous.bsky.social · 24/03/2026

I've officially been bullied off Threads by queer people furious at me because I stated the saying, "Girls, gays, and theys" isn't inclusive to all trans men. Just a reminder that trans men are really fucking hated by a lot of people, and that my voice mattered more before it was on T.

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Utterly Ridiculous @utterlyridiculous.bsky.social · 17/03/2026

Me: I can't do that due to my disability. Them: You have to. Me: Cool, cool. I'm still disabled, though. So. Can't. Them: (shocked Pikachu face)

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Utterly Ridiculous @utterlyridiculous.bsky.social · 16/03/2026

I really hope Sinners gets it. Fuck ping pong, honestly.

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Utterly Ridiculous @utterlyridiculous.bsky.social · 06/03/2026

Timothee Chalamet looks like a piece of wilted kale served as a garnish on the plate of an all night diner, and is about as bright as one, too. #timotheechalamet

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Utterly Ridiculous @utterlyridiculous.bsky.social · 03/03/2026

TW: transphobia/ableism I've taken to making art with the hateful comments I'm receiving online in response to advertising a new cabaret show juxtaposed over pictures of me joyously performing. This is a tiny fraction of what so many trans people have to go through on a daily basis. Fuk the

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Utterly Ridiculous @utterlyridiculous.bsky.social · 03/03/2026

Lauren Boebert does not know how to handle herself when there are actual grown ups in the room. Did you hear that stutter? I'd say she was scared stupid, but it's too late for that.

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Utterly Ridiculous @utterlyridiculous.bsky.social · 28/02/2026

TW: transphobia What advertising a show featuring trans people will get you:

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Utterly Ridiculous @utterlyridiculous.bsky.social · 28/02/2026

TW: transphobia What advertising a show featuring trans people will get you:

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Utterly Ridiculous @utterlyridiculous.bsky.social · 28/02/2026

TW: transphobia What advertising a show featuring trans people will get you:

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Utterly Ridiculous @utterlyridiculous.bsky.social · 28/02/2026

Leave trans people alone. We aren't doing anything to anyone. This is fucking bullshit.

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Utterly Ridiculous @utterlyridiculous.bsky.social · 24/02/2026

A boosted Trans Voices Cabaret post on Facebook is just getting slammed with dozens od hateful, harmful, vile comments. I'm deleting them as fast as I can, but ffs, just leave trans people alone.

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Utterly Ridiculous @utterlyridiculous.bsky.social · 22/02/2026

Trans Voices Cabaret returns to Caveat on April 5th for what promises to be an amazing night or life music, fun, and pride with an all trans & nonbinary cast and crew! Ticket link in bio! Virtual and in-person tix available!

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