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Sometimes I think about the fact that like...in my trans infancy I genuinely thought that GNC folks and other trans folks would be the most accepting and understanding and boy did I have that wrong it's actually the most hypermasculine bears that have been the nicest and fucking cis guys

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There is something supremely satisfying about having so much trouble with my identity and then transitioning and getting to a place of 'nah, I'm exactly the bitch I said I was, y'all motherfuckers chose to not listen and my period of confusion doesn't make you any less wrong or shitty'

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I'm just pleased. I've honestly been really insecure lately. Getting the neuropsych eval really kind of messed with me - I do this thing where as long as something lives in my head and I haven't taken any official steps I can still pretend it's not real but when I went, I couldn't anymore.

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Man, transitioning and getting on the right ADHD meds really unlocked the 'engineer autism' for me I also accidentially almost typed 'funlocked' and honestly? Accurate I'm having a great time over here.

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Anyway, in more important news I just found out there are consumer underwater ROV's available and I'm half in my right mind to even try to engineer my own. I would actually love kayaking to the middle of a lake and dropping it in.

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I absolutely get this But I have audhd and need to see the TV from all angles and a reduced sense of object permanence is risky as I may forget about nooks and crannies and the stuff in them tbh I'll take your open floor plans.

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TheSinnamom @thesinnamom.gay · 23/09/2026

It's U of M, too. I absolutely refuse to go to a private school and one of my big soapbox points in life is that you can get a quality education at public universities just fine and I use myself as an example.

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The entire audience at some point in Godzilla Minus Zero

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Heavy Gustav @transferdinand.gay · 22/09/2026

Watching Ed Sheeran get eviscerated has been fun and it's about to happen again because christ did that speech shit the bed 'I'm not about politics, I'm about humanity' Ah, I feel justified in immediately sniffing out that he's the archetype dumbshit tone-deaf white guy and writing him off.

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Heavy Gustav @transferdinand.gay · 21/09/2026

I swear, transitioning is weird sometimes because you sorta figure out why a thing always happened Me, before: Huh, I wonder why all the characters I like are typically foul-mouthed, autistic coded and deeply irreverent male engineers Me, after:...oh. Huh. Welp. Called that one.

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Heavy Gustav @transferdinand.gay · 21/09/2026

I think everyone should tell @thesinnamom.gay happy birthday because he’s pretty awesome and I think if there’s any day a guy deserves to hear he’s awesome it’s his birthday, no? Happy Birthday, Babe. 💜 Can’t wait to savor every second of growing old with you.

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Heavy Gustav @transferdinand.gay · 19/09/2026

in my defense I was more confused than anything and my immediate reaction was 'it's not the shaggin wagon we haven't fucked in it yet so I'm not sure what you're talking about'

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Heavy Gustav @transferdinand.gay · 18/09/2026

I was having a really rough day yesterday. After it all, I told my husband ‘I wish I wasn’t neurodivergent’ He responded with ‘I don’t.’ He later explained that he wouldn’t change anything if the chance existed that we wouldn’t find each other or that I wouldn’t be ‘the you that you are’

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Heavy Gustav @transferdinand.gay · 17/09/2026

My husband has been referring to this administration as an administration of rapists but nothing made me FEEL that more than when I saw Vance pleading for another chance. All at once it was like watching a slideshow of every abuser I ever had when they realized their grip was slipping.

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Diana Chan @thingsbydiana.bsky.social · 14/09/2026

🏳️‍⚧️ Sharing one of my favorite trans creature designs~

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Retirement Idea: >Buy schooner >Paint self like the living incarnation of Davy Jones >Paint schooner like ghost ship >Spend fun evening nights scaring the shit out of locals and tourists alike wherever I choose to go

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Wondering what it says about me that I'm better at driving ships and boats than I am cars

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Bums me out that people don't seem to have an appreciation for quiet strength anymore. I get it like the toxic masc crowd is so much louder so a lot of us get drowned out by virtue of how it works but you look so much cooler than being an out of control red-faced ape man losing his shit

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The other day someone asked me why I think it's funny when people, particularly cis men misgender me. I was thinking about it and I think the overarching reason is - I'm not about to sit there and listen to some feckless wimp tell me about what I am and what I'm not.

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There's a lot of talk about centrists this morning. Since I've been spending less time around I'm unsure of why it's so strong (probably just leading up to midterms at this point) - But anyway, Centrists are a disappointment to their ancestors and a stain on humanity.

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I just discovered cornell notes and like I researched how to use them and I'm so mad because I never bothered and like shits actually REALLY good with my brain.

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𝒕𝒚𝒊 | Mail club on Ko-fi 🌿 @tyiart.bsky.social · 13/09/2026

Surviving vampires Which in a capitalist society, I'm already doing it and you do get arrested for messing with their supply sooo....

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all mail club artworks from the beginning of the year until now 💙 which one is your favorite?

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It will never not be one of my favorite things that my 6'4" absolute unit of a husband is the most gentle, doting, loving person I have ever met and the three little gremlins who rule his life are me, a barely five foot tall wolverine man and two 6 inch tall miniature dinosaurs.

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