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It’s more like people go into backrooms and hook up in front of people who want to see and or take part in people hooking up. The areas are separate because of legal reasons and also the understanding that not everyone is into that.

(Digital hug) well I’m glad you’re comfortable and able to talk about it. G’night

I might humbly suggest you do a little research and just make sure you’re meeting your needs. I am not an expert but agoraphobia. Has similar symptoms

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Your human biological needs can be more than what your mind thinks it needs. You are a mammal, a social pack species, that literally needs human touch. I have asexual friends as well though and it’s def something that comes up.

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*nods* you be you, just make sure you’re meeting your needs

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I knew my dad would regret the way he treated me when he faced death,now that he does there’s no time to change and no grace for his stubbornness. But i need to find my peace and I’m wrestling with all of that in my heart now. I can accept his apology but I’m not sure about forgiveness

You don’t have to drink to go hang out at a bar, and u don’t have to fuck to sit in a space solely for gay men. I often go simply for the feelings of understanding and solidarity. Humans need that

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I’ve always struggled with emotional regulation, i had suppressed all of it to the point of detriment. But now being healthier and off alcohol i am easily swamped by them. I paid a lot of money to learn to feel again so it’s cool but also ive faced a lot of sadness that has to be felt and released

Gays use a lot more condoms than they might admit to. Also to stay in business you can’t/don’t want to be popped for causing an outbreak. Health agencies like having places to educate the public as well

Hookup culture and sauna culture intersect but are different kinds of people. Hookups support and pass on knowledge, saunas are more for the adventurous and often more affluent

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They’re almost more common there because there are less places to gather in public. Also most have been around for many decades and local morals have shifted many times. Always support queer businesses if you can, it’s not always 4 ur sake, but they are there for everyone

Dallas, and phoenix i think are the last two i visited

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Also from the desert, and i guess i should mention there is almost always a jacuzzi and or pool. An enclosed grotto behind a waterfall feature is traditional. You do you though and don’t feel guilty for liking or disliking whatever

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I might try for a new ring i just wish they weren’t so expensive . But it’s likely a big part of it.

They tend to have themed rooms and I’ve never been to one that wasn’t spotless, offering plenty of condoms and full of nice guys

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But? Seems more like an “and” 😛

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Yes, and amazing. Where do you live?

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Yeah I have to take it off after 48 or 72hours for a cleaning and the pee sitch is a lot. My balls always pop thru for hen im wearing a kink3d cage it man are they comfy. Easy to forget it’s there

I find these the most comfortable, any reason you switched back to the cobra’s? I’m assuming the pee situation 😜

Real thing, but not all clubs and not that elaborate. For that you’ll need to go to a gay sauna

🎃 witchy wendell 🎃 @booternextdoor.bsky.social · 06/10/2026

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Wisdom is knowing when to quote and when to reply

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Timotheoswa @timotheoswa.bsky.social · 05/10/2026

lol i work at an er now and someone is always crying 😭

Timotheoswa @timotheoswa.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

Try focusing on something small like a dessert you’d like to have, a store you want to visit, shoes you’d prefer to wear. Anything that can give you a sense of pleasure and or safety.

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Brynn Solace @brynnrosect.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

This worked out well for the world

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Normalize this as the bare minimum please

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Tip* Search for his old nudes under his real name

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Skinnie Talls @skinnietalls.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

i suggest chapstick for ring lube

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Back that ass up like it has scientific evidence behind it

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Each day of practice makes it easier. I also like long turn games like civilization or age of empires that make you spend increasingly large amounts of time with each turn. Helps regulate my cravings. Flavored water as well!

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If you couldn’t get out of your own way you wouldn’t still be trying to justify it. Ask yourself why you drink and see if there are any other medical solutions instead of just self medicating. I’m a lot happier not drinking 600ml of liquor a night just to sleep and deal with my anxiety

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This is what’s called a perfect zero cost marketing campaign by people claiming magical power! Ask them if the invisible i affable power will validate parking. Because that’s what we really need in a omnipresent deity

Fair, though frankly speaking, very speciest !

You can also hit on him and ask if he comes here often! Offer him a drink and then drug it 😛

*Important noble monkey habits*