The Brights @thebrights.bsky.social · 01/10/2026He breaks *everything* I just played a little with him and his bathroom sink broke 120
The Brights @thebrights.bsky.social · 01/10/2026Came to think of that it was also mentioned/hinted, but not shown, that Andrew talked with Garrett and Thiago, before going into intimate territory. Beren is the main character, he gets special treatment like that sometimes 😄 Garrett: bsky.app/profile/theb... Thiago: bsky.app/profile/theb... 010
The Brights @thebrights.bsky.social · 30/09/2026And that's why I included it 😌 It needs to be more normalised I also kind of included a talk like this between Andrew and Denzel, but not the whole conversation, just stated that they talked about it bsky.app/profile/theb... 140
The Brights @thebrights.bsky.social · 30/09/2026I haven't decided that any of my sims are neurodivergent or neurotypical, simply to make sure they're individuals, but some of them definitely have traits that could be seen as such in our world, but that's beside the point, because everyone should talk about their boundaries before sex 120
The Brights @thebrights.bsky.social · 30/09/2026Okay, I definitely don't agree in that it's clinical then, it's just... clear, because that's how you should talk about sexual boundaries really, from the viewpoint of a sex educator (me). Talk about sex 𝘣𝘦𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘦 you have sex, and talk while you have sex too, communication is hot! No talking is cold 020
The Brights @thebrights.bsky.social · 30/09/2026What's this about clinical? Marci said so too. Am I just not understanding that word correctly? 😅 110
The Brights @thebrights.bsky.social · 30/09/2026static.klipy.comConfetti Surprise Explosion (Parks And Recs)Alt: Confetti 020
The Brights @thebrights.bsky.social · 30/09/2026He writes at the library nowadays, so maybe he doesn't need anything to write on really 🤔 010
The Brights @thebrights.bsky.social · 30/09/2026Beren: I hope this wasn't too much of a mood killer to you. But the fire hazard was definitely a mood killer to me. 191
The Brights @thebrights.bsky.social · 30/09/2026Beren: Let's see... Seems to work fine now. Andrew: Thank you. Beren: You're welcome. 190
The Brights @thebrights.bsky.social · 30/09/2026Andrew: A friend has told me that I press the buttons too hard... Beren: Do you mean the keys? Andrew: Yes, the keys. Do you think I could've broke something by pressing too hard? Beren: Not impossible, but it would be kind of impressive. 090
The Brights @thebrights.bsky.social · 30/09/2026Beren: What did you do on it when it broke? Andrew: I was writing. That's the only thing I do on the computer. Beren: Did you have many programs open? Andrew: No, just the writing program and the email program. And I had my USB in it, with text documents. 190
The Brights @thebrights.bsky.social · 30/09/2026I think it's in the general settings tab in settings, somewhere on the right hand side iirc. I agree, they get a bit boring and repetitive, but I think the worst is when they really get in the way, such as Ahriman having the Technophobe Lifestyle made them hate lamps 😑 110
The Brights @thebrights.bsky.social · 30/09/2026Beren: Is this the thinnest screwdriver you have? Andrew: Yeah... Beren: I guess it'll do for now, but I could bring a soldering pen and fix it more permanently some time. 0100
The Brights @thebrights.bsky.social · 30/09/2026static.klipy.comTitanic: It's Been 84 Years MemeAlt: It's been 84 years... 030
The Brights @thebrights.bsky.social · 30/09/2026Beren: I'm fixing it. Right now. Andrew: You don't have to- Beren: I won't be able to relax with this thing just sitting here giving off sparks and smoke. Andrew: ... Okay. 290
The Brights @thebrights.bsky.social · 30/09/2026No, I have Lifestyles turned off, I find them a little annoying 😅 110
The Brights @thebrights.bsky.social · 30/09/2026static.klipy.comComputer Nerd Typing IntenselyAlt: A nerd cracks his fingers and neck, and starts typing fast on a computer keyboard. 010
The Brights @thebrights.bsky.social · 30/09/2026Beren: That's not "just a broken computer", that's a fire hazard. Have you seen the smoke and sparks? How long has it been like that? Andrew: Half a year maybe. I haven't had enough money to have it fixed. Beren: Half a-... And at that moment, several processes in Beren's brain froze. 280
The Brights @thebrights.bsky.social · 30/09/2026Hahaha, it's been sitting there since 2024 😂😭 Beren built a whole Melon, a laptop is a piece of cake 😌 110
The Brights @thebrights.bsky.social · 30/09/2026Beren: Oh. My. Watcher. Andrew: What? It's just a broken computer. 1100
The Brights @thebrights.bsky.social · 30/09/2026Andrew: So, here's my bedroom. It's a little boring, but it has a bed, that's the important part. 3100
The Brights @thebrights.bsky.social · 30/09/2026He has thought a lot about whether he wanted to or not 😅 bsky.app/profile/theb... 010
The Brights @thebrights.bsky.social · 29/09/2026He is, but he'd like touch even if he hadn't been into hands, the hands-thing is more like he'd like additional things with hands, if that makes sense? 100
The Brights @thebrights.bsky.social · 29/09/2026Thank you! Then no, he's not smitten by Beren. He doesn't want to close any doors too early, but he probably would've given up on everyone already if he hadn't talked with Louise 😅 Now he wants to try to be more open-minded, like maybe it could work even though they like different things 130
The Brights @thebrights.bsky.social · 29/09/2026What does taken by mean in this context? Genuine question, I don't think I've heard it being used like this before. Is it the same as smitten by? 110
The Brights @thebrights.bsky.social · 29/09/2026Beren: Other than that, you may touch and kiss me anywhere you want. How does that sound? Andrew: Sounds like we've found something we'd both enjoy. 190
The Brights @thebrights.bsky.social · 29/09/2026Beren: And, um, I'm not sure how far we're going today, but just to be super clear, I don't want us to, well, finish... That's something I'd like to save for when I'm in love with someone, whether that'll be you or someone else. I hope you're okay with that. Andrew: Of course. 090
The Brights @thebrights.bsky.social · 29/09/2026Beren: Let's continue... I'm not ready for mouth kisses and going down on each other, but I'm definitely not against it. Quite the opposite. I'm just not ready. 0100
The Brights @thebrights.bsky.social · 29/09/2026Andrew: Some of my favourite woohoo practices are in that category. Beren: Ah, okay... So... Andrew: I'm not rejecting you, I just thought it was better to tell you now rather than later. Beren: Okay, thanks for telling me. 090
The Brights @thebrights.bsky.social · 29/09/2026Beren: So, let start with the hard noes. You can go first. Andrew: I'm not sure if I have any. You? Beren: No butt stuff. Ever. I'm absolutely not interested in any kind of it. Andrew: I see... Beren: Hm? 190
The Brights @thebrights.bsky.social · 29/09/2026Andrew: So, do you want to get intimate today or are we discussing whether we'll meet again for it? Beren: Both. I don't mind doing something like that today, if it's okay with you, and I'd like to meet you again, after having processed today. Andrew: Sure, we could do that. 190
The Brights @thebrights.bsky.social · 28/09/2026Completely agree! Especially since Beren's only previous experience with boundaries for intimacy was basically "do whatever you want with me" bsky.app/profile/theb... 010
The Brights @thebrights.bsky.social · 28/09/2026At least it's not the first time he has found himself in a situation like that, but last time it was more of a choice, this time he just couldn't figure out any better option 😅 Andrew reading aloud to Beren is a great idea 😮 I think they'd enjoy that bsky.app/profile/theb... 020
The Brights @thebrights.bsky.social · 27/09/2026Andrew being bored by the movie and being afraid of going too fast forward, because of Beren not having much experience, and having met just once before, definitely plays a role in it being a bit stiff, but I don't really see how it's sterile, as they haven't said much and Beren has showed interest 100
The Brights @thebrights.bsky.social · 27/09/2026I'd say that the biggest difference, from a reader perspective, between Andrew's first date with Garrett and this second date Beren, is that Andrew and Garrett's talk about boundaries wasn't included in the story, it was just mentioned bsky.app/profile/theb... 110
The Brights @thebrights.bsky.social · 27/09/2026Maybe he hasn't figured out any other way to make a move bsky.app/profile/theb... 100
The Brights @thebrights.bsky.social · 27/09/2026Beren: You know, I also want to take it slow, but not 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 slow. I have thought through where I'd like to draw the lines. How about we talk about it? Andrew: Sure. 280
The Brights @thebrights.bsky.social · 27/09/2026Beren: You didn't seem to be interested in the movie, so I thought that maybe you wanted to do "something else". Andrew: Right... I actually don't like watching movies, I just couldn't think of any activities that both of us would enjoy... I didn't realise how it would look from your point of view. 190
The Brights @thebrights.bsky.social · 27/09/2026Andrew: That came out wrong. I'm trying to say that I don't want you to feel pressured into doing something. I saw on your profile that you don't have much experience, so I wanted to take it slow. 090
The Brights @thebrights.bsky.social · 27/09/2026Andrew: I don't want to get intimate with you, that's not why I invited you over. Beren: Oh. 190