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I cut a friend out of my life because he left me on read the day my dad died. I still haven't heard from him. I should have BEEN cut him off. I would have never done it before.

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Hermioneisha Granger @serieuseblack.bsky.social · 21/04/2026

More than is healthy. My OCD presents that way.

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Hermioneisha Granger @serieuseblack.bsky.social · 21/04/2026

My uncle died of covid complications in '22, 3 months after his wife died of a freak gastrointestinal aneurysm. I ain't been right since.

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Hermioneisha Granger @serieuseblack.bsky.social · 21/04/2026

You will never be prepared for all of the people who feel some sense of entitlement over your dead person. (My uncle AND my cousin tried to steal my dad's ashes and throw their own memorials)

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Hermioneisha Granger @serieuseblack.bsky.social · 21/04/2026

All I want is thoughts and prayers. You don't have to stay in my face. Just tell me you're thinking of me sometimes.

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Hermioneisha Granger @serieuseblack.bsky.social · 21/04/2026

"He was my friend before he was your dad." "Saw your post. Don't know if it was for me. Sorry I didn't come. Grief is so hard. Hope you're okay." Both from mfs that didn't come to EITHER of his funerals (we had 2)

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Hermioneisha Granger @serieuseblack.bsky.social · 21/04/2026

I don't know. I don't know. But sometimes when I see ladybugs in weird places I feel like my godfather sent them.

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Hermioneisha Granger @serieuseblack.bsky.social · 21/04/2026

I miss my dad's weird ass voicemails. "hello daughter! It's your father. I'm sitting out here in the garage. It's 2 o'clock on Tuesday. Supposed to rain later. I ain't want nothing. Call me back, hear? Love you, bye."

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Hermioneisha Granger @serieuseblack.bsky.social · 21/04/2026

I saw an Apollonia vinyl and HAD to buy it because my dad was a Prince super fan For my granddaddy it's peanut butter sandwiches, watermelon, and motorcycles. I grow tomatoes every summer even though I hate tomatoes. I eat chocolate cake on his birthday even though I hate chocolate cake

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Hermioneisha Granger @serieuseblack.bsky.social · 21/04/2026

I cry in grocery store parking lots a lot. And at church, but not as often. I avoid going home. I don't talk about it.

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Hermioneisha Granger @serieuseblack.bsky.social · 21/04/2026

A thousand small cuts. Sometimes you roll in salt. Sometimes you swim in vinegar.

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Hermioneisha Granger @serieuseblack.bsky.social · 21/04/2026

Saturday I sat in my car with the button i was given at my dad's funeral and stared into space.

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Hermioneisha Granger @serieuseblack.bsky.social · 20/04/2026

I miss my granddaddy so bad y'all have no idea. He was the coolest man around. It's been 17 years.

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Gay & Tonic @deerene.bsky.social · 31/03/2026

My spring attire since I have allergies

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Hermioneisha Granger @serieuseblack.bsky.social · 25/03/2026

I finally finished this quilt block and I'm very proud of it but now I have to do 3 more and I might throw my machine lmao

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Hermioneisha Granger @serieuseblack.bsky.social · 13/03/2026

Every time I say this people look at me like I'm crazy, but stop explaining everything!! Leave some shit up to the fans' imaginations!!

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Hermioneisha Granger @serieuseblack.bsky.social · 12/03/2026

It can best be described as "unkempt genius" Seriously. That's how other people have described it. I'm Bruce Banner in a pearl necklace.

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Hermioneisha Granger @serieuseblack.bsky.social · 12/03/2026

Quilting. It's my latest hyperfixation and it turns out I'm actually good at it

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Hermioneisha Granger @serieuseblack.bsky.social · 12/03/2026

My dad died and my basement flooded. 2026 is whooping my ass.

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Hermioneisha Granger @serieuseblack.bsky.social · 12/03/2026

There's a special place in hell for people who put nutmeg in macaroni

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Hermioneisha Granger @serieuseblack.bsky.social · 07/03/2026

So. Choosing a patterned fabric for the stripes here was not my wisest idea. L I should REALLY start reading quilt patterns before I buy things

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Hermioneisha Granger @serieuseblack.bsky.social · 04/03/2026

If i don't go to the gym and do a million arm presses my yitties feel like they're pulling me down from the shoulder blade. You have my deepest sympathies 😭

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Hermioneisha Granger @serieuseblack.bsky.social · 03/03/2026

My grandma Bobbie had a MUG on her okay Skin clear, cheekbones sharp, kept a red lip??? BJ was that girl!!!

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Hermioneisha Granger @serieuseblack.bsky.social · 01/03/2026

1) yep 2) nope contrary to popular belief 3) Sure but only if they know how to fight and i don't have to teach them about -isms. 20something me has the patience, 36 y.o me needs you to come aware and equipped 🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️

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