Christopher @selectstarman.bsky.social · 30/09/2026The one "parental estrangement" in my inlaws involves parents who are beginning stage Alzheimer's, a kid who is a high-functioning drunk, and just a fuckton of bad relationship management skills. The inciting incident was using the f-bomb on that sacred space, a golf course. 000
Christopher @selectstarman.bsky.social · 25/09/2026Segregated social spaces all go insane; they turn characteristic virtues up until they become pathologies. Care becomes recursive harm-processing, masculinity becomes domination jackass, academia becomes trivia for status. Every scene becomes a safe space for a turbo-anima(e) demon. 000
Christopher @selectstarman.bsky.social · 24/09/2026When you doom too hard and the algo starts feeding you red ET posts, which are so dumb you start dooming less 000
Christopher @selectstarman.bsky.social · 23/09/2026Every Republican running for election in 2028 should have ads up against them saying they could have impeached and convicted Trump and saved us from this mess and chose not to 000
Christopher @selectstarman.bsky.social · 23/09/2026Sometime you try to avoid an emotion and running really hard and then it just Happens anyway. 000
Christopher @selectstarman.bsky.social · 22/09/2026A lot of people are calling my view that Ohio peasants shouldn't be allowed to leave their ancestral steel plant to move to a borough "feudalist", but I also support multi-generational tenancy rights for specific ethnicities by neighborhood. 000
Christopher @selectstarman.bsky.social · 21/09/2026EA, utilitarianism, and communism have some good ideas, but are just varieties of the same problem: not appreciating the limits of individual knowledge. 000
Christopher @selectstarman.bsky.social · 19/09/2026Why can't there be a sex cult in SF that gets plentiful cyberpunk housing and transit built. More Back Doors in My Backyard - MBIMBY 020
Christopher @selectstarman.bsky.social · 18/09/2026I don't really think paywalls worked. News could be funded by private rich person foundation money, or as extensions of in-person social organizations (like the old union newspapers) 011
Christopher @selectstarman.bsky.social · 18/09/2026The hugging face incident shows why humans use ambiguous communication. It was a mob behaviour. 000
Christopher @selectstarman.bsky.social · 17/09/2026If pro-lifers were consistent they'd see getting a blood donation as becoming a dual-souled chimera. 010
Reposted by Christopher Jjinandtonic @jjinandtonic.bsky.social · 31/05/2026Traditionally the way to get rid of a corrupt/brutal police force was to set up a second, concurrent police force to displace them and/or call in the militia against them 1324
Christopher @selectstarman.bsky.social · 14/09/2026I don't want to sit at a desk I don't want to stand at a desk I want to be in a deep squat while doing focused work, but my chair rolls on its casters and facilities tells me not to stand on my chair like a goofball 100
Christopher @selectstarman.bsky.social · 14/09/2026There are many important political issues, you have to compromise with the body politic we have, and I'd crawl over glass to vote for W if he was running against Hitler. 000
Christopher @selectstarman.bsky.social · 11/09/2026If the Atomic Scientists were actually on the ball today, based on historical calibration 001
Christopher @selectstarman.bsky.social · 10/09/2026The Noid has earned our support: - NB: not a moid, not a foid — a noid - I’d be on an anti-pizza jihad too if I lived in the ’90s. No DoorDash pho, BBQ, or tacos al pastor? Grim. - vinyl furry superhero suit: insane aura - just a weird little guy 000
Christopher @selectstarman.bsky.social · 04/09/2026This is funny because Kansas is both in between where I grew up (Ohio) and where I live now (Colorado), but also where my parents grew up. And I have not talked about rolly-pollys since I was 5. 000
Christopher @selectstarman.bsky.social · 03/09/2026Why do people like regular table grapes? Concord grapes are what grapes are supposed to taste like. The seeds are annoying, but thomcord grapes are seedless and almost as tasty, only packing the wonderful contrast of jeely interior and wet subskin layer. 000
Christopher @selectstarman.bsky.social · 01/09/2026This reminds me of the time some student group publicized "wear jeans on Tuesday to support our fringe idea" and then wouldn't shut up all week about how many people supported them. 000
Christopher @selectstarman.bsky.social · 29/08/2026Widow's Bay is exactly how I like my horror. Less the surgery and burn victim wing of the hospital and more the "Do I need antipsychotics?" wing. 000
Christopher @selectstarman.bsky.social · 29/08/2026Millicent is such a funny name for a Latin reader to pick. "Hi, meet our son Gigamega." 000
Christopher @selectstarman.bsky.social · 15/08/2026So sure, there are myriad micro- and macroaggressions that I as a straight white guy have never experienced. But what about the pain of ordering a meal "HOT, make me hurt" and getting at most a slight hint of heat? 010
Christopher @selectstarman.bsky.social · 13/08/2026Politics is a spectrum of how long you need to live somewhere before your voice counts. Tom doesn't think 9 months over 3 semesters is enough. NIMBYs don't think a few years is enough. The anti-immigrant chuds don't think 40 years and 2 generations is enough. 131
Christopher @selectstarman.bsky.social · 07/08/2026Ngl I think collapsing the artistic wave function is one of the worst things that schools do in the teaching process. 000
Reposted by Christopher chilito @hectorarbuckle.bsky.social · 06/08/2026Here's my take: On urban streets, motorists should have absolute liability for any injury they cause with their vehicle. (Same goes for cyclists.) Pedestrians should have absolute right of way at all times. The norm would be that the street is a shared public space. 011
Christopher @selectstarman.bsky.social · 06/08/2026Probably useful to create some permits to allow Glonzo hunting to head off "let's start nuking all of the potential Glonzo lairs we have detected". 010
Christopher @selectstarman.bsky.social · 05/08/2026When you like a post because it starts very good but then you have to unlike it when they drop something stupid or racist in the last line 000
Christopher @selectstarman.bsky.social · 04/08/2026I don't really see much value in watching other people play sports, irrespective of their gender. The only exceptions being your kid playing or "I play in my local football club and I want to watch the really good players a few relegation levels up". Play sports yourself. Dance, make music. 000
Christopher @selectstarman.bsky.social · 04/08/2026George RR Mertin & his publisher should let 3 different writers finish ASOIAF and publish them separately. The story will be over and everyone can argue about which ending is their favorite instead of yelling at him. 000
Reposted by Christopher Joshua Erlich @joshuaerlich.bsky.social · 03/08/2026to take an actual crack at this: requiring effort to access entertainment (set schedules, physical media, rare reruns, limited home access), often meant you proved yourself a fan by dint of the consumption itself, and I think that’s been replaced by toxic fandom to prove your bona fides. 1181679
Christopher @selectstarman.bsky.social · 03/08/2026Really annoying how closed captioning placement on the screen is never "very bottom where the letterboxing creates a blank space" 000
Christopher @selectstarman.bsky.social · 03/08/2026I subscribe to Consumer Reports and I'd happily pay for 3 more services like this. How can I know if the linen pants use line or tow flax? What is the polyphenol level of this olive oil brand? The solution is a trusted middle man, and a consumer's union can do this. 040
Christopher @selectstarman.bsky.social · 31/07/2026Metaphysics is just physics and psychology in a trenchcoat 010
Christopher @selectstarman.bsky.social · 31/07/2026This GOP COVID circus is just incoherent, unprocessed feelings about the pandemic. I'm not a therapy=panacea guy but they all need some therapy for this. Ids structured like a jenga tower fully on display. 000
Christopher @selectstarman.bsky.social · 31/07/2026Teleporno is funny but has aura. Mairon sounds like a dweeby accountant. 000
Christopher @selectstarman.bsky.social · 30/07/2026One of the Will Stancil haters blocked me. Because I don't think uneven income growth obviously implies a bad economy. @burlydee.blsky.social 000
Christopher @selectstarman.bsky.social · 27/07/2026Funny how the DOT puts up concrete walls when a highway goes through a suburb, but not when it is next to the apartment complexes 010
Christopher @selectstarman.bsky.social · 27/07/2026If front-line workers were better paid, they would be less sympathetic and effective as the smolbean faces for the corp trying to screw you 000
Christopher @selectstarman.bsky.social · 23/07/2026"let's stay up late vaping and playing video games" and other lies dopamine told me about being happy 010
Christopher @selectstarman.bsky.social · 22/07/2026"Just cut wages"/zero interest in getting better output is the default bad Boss attitude. I'm not surprised this is the way dumb voters use their power. 010
Christopher @selectstarman.bsky.social · 22/07/2026Everyone should have one weekday off work per week 000
Christopher @selectstarman.bsky.social · 21/07/2026I like feedback/echos as a model of suffering more than "2nd arrow" - someone shouts "you suck" and you hear it 3 or 8 times in echo. A shout of "a duck!" mutates into "you suck". A minute sound amplified into a long-standing feedback screech. 000
Christopher @selectstarman.bsky.social · 21/07/2026I believe in the Sandman. Somehow humans require rest on a consistent schedule, but the human can't cause the sleep state? We must go somewhere quiet and dark, and wait? I can recognize a trickster god. 000
Christopher @selectstarman.bsky.social · 20/07/202690% of covers are either "guy I tour dorm with an acoustic guitar" or the uncanny valley of near note-for-note reproduction. A good cover shows a band's essence once you subtract out the songwriting skill. 110
Christopher @selectstarman.bsky.social · 16/07/2026Can anyone link to a good steelman article for how a US policy change will improve the situation for Palestinians? 001
Christopher @selectstarman.bsky.social · 15/07/2026My mom doing Tony the Tiger (she swears she doesn't need any more therapy for her anxiety): 000